Cutehector:
You invite them, problem, you no invite them, still problem.

As in humans must come and bow down to your lordship bearing Gold, frankincense and myrrh before you will attend your relation's wedding.


I tire for people o...seriously. i don tell people this thing, for my wedding. Na only me and my wife with pastor.. And parents. Simple.

You don marry? Congratulations o..

Oizee:
Oga forget this thing and go, u are a family and u suppose to understand his negligence attitude more than anyone else....
To be honest this is even what people do nowadays and kinda like.....u can't say u didn't see the IV now and, besides do u plan to eat the hard copy

that's #

Born2winnx:
The wedding is holding today and have made up my mind not to attend because the dude invited me through WhatsApp. It annoys me how children of this days has no regards or character for their elders. they are changing everything all in the name modernization.

How can someone, I know the exact date he was born be inviting me through WhatsApp, no respect at all, sending the scanned card copy there.. what happened to the hardware copy he printed? I had to tell him, he laughed it off saying bros nor vex the 500 copies he printed was not enough to share self. I didn't want to press the issue farther my mind is already made up.
He won't see me there today.

When I did mine, I knew how far distance I trekked to invite his elder brothers face to face, bought several drinks.

I just hope he invited his in-laws through WhatsApp too

You don't have money to spray him and you are looking for a reason not to go.

Really

Born2winnx:
The wedding is holding today and have made up my mind not to attend because the dude invited me through WhatsApp. It annoys me how children of this days has no regards or character for their elders. they are changing everything all in the name modernization.

How can someone, I know the exact date he was born be inviting me through WhatsApp, no respect at all, sending the scanned card copy there.. what happened to the hardware copy he printed? I had to tell him, he laughed it off saying bros nor vex the 500 copies he printed was not enough to share self. I didn't want to press the issue farther my mind is already made up.
He won't see me there today.

When I did mine, I knew how far distance I trekked to invite his elder brothers face to face, bought several drinks.

I just hope he invited his in-laws through WhatsApp too

This is arrant nonsense. That's why you are family, you don't need any invitation before you attend your cousins(brother/sister) wedding. Don't you think as a mature man that you are, that the invite cards should be for outsiders in quote? How much have you invested in that your cousins life since you say you knew when he was born? Oga, with or without you, the wedding will hold. Your absence cannot stop the wedding from holding so dey ur lane. Abi you were eyeing his bride? Talk make we know. Bad belle

Oga, tell us say you no get weten u go give the young man and we will understand.
No too dey decieve urself, person like you Dem fit invite you with everything but go still find excuse giv

That was bad of your cousin. He should have made out time to see you and tell you face to face. I guess it is negligence.

I hope you later changed your mind and attended the wedding.

It also depends on how close you two are. When my sister and my cousin did white wedding, no IV for family members oo. We walked in like a boss.

Take heart and forgive him.

TBVH...I see nothing wrong here, Nigeria is nolonger safe for one to travel/move around when there are easier alternative method...OP must be a very wahala somebody claiming matured man but dishing insults like a toddler...

No vex if the dude tell you say he didn't even notice say you no dey there o

Perhaps you overreacted. You have done yours, so you said. You suddenly forgot there still more celebrations in the family and the retaliation goes on and on. Your not attending though painful as it may sound is meaningless and would easily be discounted. Easy does it

Born2winnx:
The wedding is holding today and have made up my mind not to attend because the dude invited me through WhatsApp. It annoys me how children of this days has no regards or character for their elders. they are changing everything all in the name modernization.

How can someone, I know the exact date he was born be inviting me through WhatsApp, no respect at all, sending the scanned card copy there.. what happened to the hardware copy he printed? I had to tell him, he laughed it off saying bros nor vex the 500 copies he printed was not enough to share self. I didn't want to press the issue farther my mind is already made up.
He won't see me there today.

When I did mine, I knew how far distance I trekked to invite his elder brothers face to face, bought several drinks.

I just hope he invited his in-laws through WhatsApp too

Diz shows dat u re of no use to his Life...
U re not a real human being

Lolz.... whether you attend or not, the wedding will still hold.

Born2winnx:

Not everyone is a drunkard like your father before you
Some of us sabi control ourselves

bros, e gbadun sir (you no well at all)

Born2winnx:
The wedding is holding today and have made up my mind not to attend because the dude invited me through WhatsApp. It annoys me how children of this days has no regards or character for their elders. they are changing everything all in the name modernization.

How can someone, I know the exact date he was born be inviting me through WhatsApp, no respect at all, sending the scanned card copy there.. what happened to the hardware copy he printed? I had to tell him, he laughed it off saying bros nor vex the 500 copies he printed was not enough to share self. I didn't want to press the issue farther my mind is already made up.
He won't see me there today.

When I did mine, I knew how far distance I trekked to invite his elder brothers face to face, bought several drinks.

I just hope he invited his in-laws through WhatsApp too

was your distance far from his?

Born2winnx:


You are a bigger fool of your generation

You still have mouth to talk ? You should hide your face in shame if you don't know. Yes!!! You are an entitled mumu man1 of your whole family. Na you mumu pass. Cos the older you get, I can see you're getting more dumb

Nawa oooo
Why you dey behave like this na??
.

Oga, life don modernize jare. You just dey vex for nothing.

07kjb:
Morally he should have visited with a wine,you did well for not going you shouldn't lose your prestige cheaply

@ the end of your life's journey, all prestige shall be lost to death.

Starhearts:


Diz shows dat u re of no use to his Life...
U re not a real human being

Well said sir. One chilled bottle of anything you like to drink.

SeriouslySense:
I don't think your cousin owes you anything and you don't owe your cousin anything. If you did not go, there is no problem.

Just be at peace with whatever you have done. Let your intentions be decent and move on. Do not dwell on the actions of people, be responsible for yourself.

It seems you are making it a big deal and its disturbing you, why don't you ask yourself why are you so bothered, maybe you will understand yourself better.

This is a very wise comment. Nairaland is blessed with some intelligent people.

Good riddance. Please, flush. No be say you go even give them better gifts or support financially. Entitled old cargo.

Born2winnx:
The wedding is holding today and have made up my mind not to attend because the dude invited me through WhatsApp. It annoys me how children of this days has no regards or character for their elders. they are changing everything all in the name modernization.

How can someone, I know the exact date he was born be inviting me through WhatsApp, no respect at all, sending the scanned card copy there.. what happened to the hardware copy he printed? I had to tell him, he laughed it off saying bros nor vex the 500 copies he printed was not enough to share self. I didn't want to press the issue farther my mind is already made up.
He won't see me there today.

When I did mine, I knew how far distance I trekked to invite his elder brothers face to face, bought several drinks.

I just hope he invited his in-laws through WhatsApp too

Your case is different.

People are moving for paperless office and you are here retaining your old school mentality and yet you think you deserve some accolades for being so out of touch with modern times.

You never wan talk the real reason why you no wan attend the wedding.

But the good thing be say, weda you attend or you no attend, the wedding must continue...

Just to show you how useless you are in the grand scheme of things.

Nonsense.

op no well at all.
You have just said little about your bitter life.
Close relative don't get hard copy invites. Tell someone to tell someone cos the groom is busy,he has a lot on his head.


By the way, what is your wife's roll on all dis,as a responsible uncle whom you claim you be

The guy WhatsApp invitation is good enough.
World is moving we are following. New generation of people.

But op is right not to go as he said. He is not ready for new ways the technology offers. He has right to his opinion.

But in my opinion attending the wedding is to honour the parents of the guy not the guy par say.

Born2winnx:
The wedding is holding today and have made up my mind not to attend because the dude invited me through WhatsApp. It annoys me how children of this days has no regards or character for their elders. they are changing everything all in the name modernization.

How can someone, I know the exact date he was born be inviting me through WhatsApp, no respect at all, sending the scanned card copy there.. what happened to the hardware copy he printed? I had to tell him, he laughed it off saying bros nor vex the 500 copies he printed was not enough to share self. I didn't want to press the issue farther my mind is already made up.
He won't see me there today.

When I did mine, I knew how far distance I trekked to invite his elder brothers face to face, bought several drinks.

I just hope he invited his in-laws through WhatsApp too

Bros,wake up this is digital age.

They won't even feel your absence, go back to bed please and wake up when the party is over.

Don't come for me oooo,cos abi zazuuu oooo

May be you no get money

Born2winnx:


That one day, your uncle won form westty..he not a traditional man.

Na him make many of them don't teach their children proper manners and custom. If you check well many of our customs dey lust everyday

Wedding card is not our custom

You done Dey practice witch craft

Born2winnx:
The wedding is holding today and have made up my mind not to attend because the dude invited me through WhatsApp. It annoys me how children of this days has no regards or character for their elders. they are changing everything all in the name modernization.

How can someone, I know the exact date he was born be inviting me through WhatsApp, no respect at all, sending the scanned card copy there.. what happened to the hardware copy he printed? I had to tell him, he laughed it off saying bros nor vex the 500 copies he printed was not enough to share self. I didn't want to press the issue farther my mind is already made up.
He won't see me there today.

When I did mine, I knew how far distance I trekked to invite his elder brothers face to face, bought several drinks.

I just hope he invited his in-laws through WhatsApp too

Born2winnx:

No I don't plan on eating the hard copy, but seeing me face to face is not a bad thing. When I did my marriage, I had to travel to his own elder brother that's older than I.

When was your wedding? 10yrs ago I assume. I understand your point, you want a higher respect.
2022 is a digital age... ELECTRONIC invites are cheaper and faster.
For me if you give me a hard copy invite... I'll prolly forget to attend.
You just have to accept the digital age bro... Imagine if you are in PH and your cousin in Lagos ( do you expect him to travel all the way down just to present your hard copy invite?) ( untop how much u want Spray na! )
You were totally wrong not to attend!

AntiMen:


@ the end of your life's journey, all prestige shall be lost to death.

Those that have morals should uphold it never let it go

He owes his uncle an official invitation,let us not be living in a mannerless society

AntiMen:


@ the end of your life's journey, all prestige shall be lost to death.

Prestige don't loss even in the grave