omegafeetal:
Opinion Poll: Vaginal Tear Or Cut During Childbirth. A Dream Or A Dread.

A wonderful day to everyone.

In the course of my discussion with a group of women on childbirth experiences and associated issues including vaginal tear or cut during child delivery and its management. Someone stated that she dread having a Tear or Episiotomy again after the ugly experience at the birth of her first child which almost cost her life after being poorly managed by the healthcare workers.

Almost immediately after that, another woman expressed her desire to have a tear at delivery, cos she had learnt that the place gets tightened more as the sutured wound heals, giving more pleasure during intercourse.

I'm now seeking members' opinion, especially mothers, on this issue.

Do/Would you Desire for a Tear or Cut During Childbirth or you Dread it.

Thanks ahead for your responses

okomile:



Thank you
So shall u see your grand and great grandchildren by His Grace. Amen

midehi2:

Continuous doing before delivery helps alot, doctors even advise that

Sheriman:
This one shock me ooooh!! Virginia tear ke I Never hear this before

07kjb:


The full details,that made her not to feel the pains of the stitches

Stevenson20:
The Mod that banned me for a week you no go see better. Because I criticized your fucking Islamic religion for killing Deborah, you come ban me. Na you go ban tire. Nairaland is part of the problem Nigeria is facing. How can we swear to Allah and Muhammad before commenting on any Muslim topic, whereas Christain topics are free for anyone to comment? Make God dey watch all of una.

Back to the topic, Which one come be virginal cut abi tear?
Doctors in the house make una throw more light abeg

midehi2:
With the 2nd woman opinion, now I know no wonder I had Episiotomy


Op, mind you, it's not a choice, it is the ability of the hole, if it is not wide enough, definitely it will cause a rigorous tear or a doctor perform Episiotomy, but the sewing back na die

That is why when days of delivery is near, na continuous nacking o to widen that place... Fact!

omegafeetal:
Opinion Poll: Vaginal Tear Or Cut During Childbirth. A Dream Or A Dread.

A wonderful day to everyone.

In the course of my discussion with a group of women on childbirth experiences and associated issues including vaginal tear or cut during child delivery and its management. Someone stated that she dread having a Tear or Episiotomy again after the ugly experience at the birth of her first child which almost cost her life after being poorly managed by the healthcare workers.

Almost immediately after that, another woman expressed her desire to have a tear at delivery, cos she had learnt that the place gets tightened more as the sutured wound heals, giving more pleasure during intercourse.

I'm now seeking members' opinion, especially mothers, on this issue.

Do/Would you Desire for a Tear or Cut During Childbirth or you Dread it.

Thanks ahead for your responses

omegafeetal:
Opinion Poll: Vaginal Tear Or Cut During Childbirth. A Dream Or A Dread.

A wonderful day to everyone.

In the course of my discussion with a group of women on childbirth experiences and associated issues including vaginal tear or cut during child delivery and its management. Someone stated that she dread having a Tear or Episiotomy again after the ugly experience at the birth of her first child which almost cost her life after being poorly managed by the healthcare workers.

Almost immediately after that, another woman expressed her desire to have a tear at delivery, cos she had learnt that the place gets tightened more as the sutured wound heals, giving more pleasure during intercourse.

I'm now seeking members' opinion, especially mothers, on this issue.

Do/Would you Desire for a Tear or Cut During Childbirth or you Dread it.

Thanks ahead for your responses

Malory:
Very sorry for your sad experience. I hope it is now tight and your hubby is enjoying it again

Onariii:

Walahi you dey mad

midehi2:
With the 2nd woman opinion, now I know no wonder I had Episiotomy


Op, mind you, it's not a choice, it is the ability of the hole, if it is not wide enough, definitely it will cause a rigorous tear or a doctor perform Episiotomy, but the sewing back na die

That is why when days of delivery is near, na continuous nacking o to widen that place... Fact!

SenecaTheYonger:


Wait oh, do the doctors see you privates completely or do they cover it while working?

OlawaleBammie:



Aaahhhh Ikaa, odaju

A no want my wife get tear ooh, abeg pity am, a no want get hbp.

Arielle:

I had lots of sex during my third trimester in my first delivery. We were going at it like rabbits. Maybe Le Hubs was making up for lost time. As soon as I found out I was pregnant he stopped touching me. When I complained and asked why, he kept hedging until he finally came out with it, "But there's someone else in there. What if it reaches out and grabs my d^ck!" Men sha! Big babies!

omegafeetal:
Opinion Poll: Vaginal Tear Or Cut During Childbirth. A Dream Or A Dread.

A wonderful day to everyone.

In the course of my discussion with a group of women on childbirth experiences and associated issues including vaginal tear or cut during child delivery and its management. Someone stated that she dread having a Tear or Episiotomy again after the ugly experience at the birth of her first child which almost cost her life after being poorly managed by the healthcare workers.

Almost immediately after that, another woman expressed her desire to have a tear at delivery, cos she had learnt that the place gets tightened more as the sutured wound heals, giving more pleasure during intercourse.

I'm now seeking members' opinion, especially mothers, on this issue.

Do/Would you Desire for a Tear or Cut During Childbirth or you Dread it.

Thanks ahead for your responses

naheem8307:
This topic just reminisces my thought of worries over my girl friend whom I have at heart to become my life partner.. At the beginning of our relationship, she actually did opened up to me of her past relationship that she has had just a man in her life and she only had conjugal with him twice which was the same guy who deflowered her regrettably, but that was never an issue anyways. I did the same by opening up to her too "Vice Versa" since we are engaged and about to get married anytime soon.
To cut the story short, recently she happens to visit me at my place and one way or the other, we slipped from the vow we had together not to mate until after marriage but the obvious happened. To my greatest surprise, I realized the "V" was too widen and not tighten as supposed, I was confused and she immediately saw the picture of disaffection of the outcome glaring on my face, I couldn't held it but to ask her several questions about the statement of her past sexual life as narrated sometime ago if indeed it was the real account of her past or am being framed into a deceitful story tale, but she insisted it was the true story. I can remember she sworn with the holy book on two occasion in order to buttress her confession, though that was done at own will..

So the question here is and this is mainly to the medical expert on this forum for more enlightenment and advice, what could be the cause of such a change in her body ? or was there something she is hiding about her past " may be she is a kind of wayward type unknowingly to me which imply to her current status ? Or could there be anything like "V" tear or cut as align with the topic ? despite the fact she has never giving birth before.

A very good response will really help a brother because our relationship has never remain the same afterwas and to be frank I am thinking of other options lately.

Arielle:

That epidural...hmmm. With my second birth, it made me feel funny. I started weeping. The doctors, the anesthesiologist, my husband, they were all confused. I was not in pain, I just kept weeping and I didn't know why. Very strange feeling.

kambili999:
very strange indeed. But your delivery was easy that's the aim

naheem8307:
This topic just reminisces my thought of worries over my girl friend whom I have at heart to become my life partner.. At the beginning of our relationship, she actually did opened up to me of her past relationship that she has had just a man in her life and she only had conjugal with him twice which was the same guy who deflowered her regrettably, but that was never an issue anyways. I did the same by opening up to her too "Vice Versa" since we are engaged and about to get married anytime soon.
To cut the story short, recently she happens to visit me at my place and one way or the other, we slipped from the vow we had together not to mate until after marriage but the obvious happened. To my greatest surprise, I realized the "V" was too widen and not tighten as supposed, I was confused and she immediately saw the picture of disaffection of the outcome glaring on my face, I couldn't held it but to ask her several questions about the statement of her past sexual life as narrated sometime ago if indeed it was the real account of her past or am being framed into a deceitful story tale, but she insisted it was the true story. I can remember she sworn with the holy book on two occasion in order to buttress her confession, though that was done at own will..

So the question here is and this is mainly to the medical expert on this forum for more enlightenment and advice, what could be the cause of such a change in her body ? or was there something she is hiding about her past " may be she is a kind of wayward type unknowingly to me which imply to her current status ? Or could there be anything like "V" tear or cut as align with the topic ? despite the fact she has never giving birth before.

A very good response will really help a brother because our relationship has never remain the same afterwas and to be frank I am thinking of other options lately.

midehi2:
With the 2nd woman opinion, now I know no wonder I had Episiotomy


Op, mind you, it's not a choice, it is the ability of the hole, if it is not wide enough, definitely it will cause a rigorous tear or a doctor perform Episiotomy, but the sewing back na die

That is why when days of delivery is near, na continuous nacking o to widen that place... Fact!

Lamanii22:
It is dreadful, I had a tear during my first delivery… the doctor was gentle while stitching it though… we were having a conversation during the whole thing…. He told me I was really strong…. I had to be strong for my munchkin……. I don’t wanna go through the process again though…