Hi Everyone, I know this topic might appear reasonable to some people and some people might think it's nothing to worry about but I want you all to remember the adage that says he who wears the shoes know where it pinches. I know there are one thousand and one problems in the world to worry about than dick sizes but my people it is actually something to worry about too. I am in my mid 30s and married with kids. No gain saying, I'm a very cute guy to the extent that people tell me almost everyday, I'm tall and slim. I'm kind and full of positive vibes, I'm well doing as well I almost got it all but I keep wondering why having a small dick should be my portion I guess it's actually true about the saying that no one has got it all but I swear if there is one thing I would love to change about me is my dick size. I have two opinions about my dick it is average when hard but looks like that of a toddler when flaccid. It's about 3.5inch when it's flaccid and about 6.5 when hard which seem a bit long but slim. To me, I know my dick is small but to many ladies they kept saying it's average and its cool. I never had a girlfriend leave me because of my dick size in fact all my exes never let go totally they keep coming back, one even told me she prefers medium sized dick like mine because it is easy for her to f**k anyday anytime without feeling pains unlike big dicks. She might be telling the truth but my instincts would not agree.

Although, almost all my girlfriends always complained that my doggy is bad and always affect their belly, my wife can't even give me doggy style at all she complains all the time and begged me not to go all in. Well, I think my dick is a bit long but I don't like the fact that it is slim and get more angry and worried when it's flaccid. I'm grateful to God that my wife is not sex freak and I'm kinda sure my size is okay for her. I have tried different type of dick enlargement treatment but I realized all are fake and no enlargement works unless surgery which I might still consider in future. I feel insecure with my size that going to the swimming pool is a problem for me even though I love swimming, I find it hard to wear shorts or strip to my panties in public(pool or beach or even with friends) which I noticed most of my friends who have big dicks do normally. Whenever my friends or younger brothers come to my house for holiday I don't let them wear shorts or something that will reveal their dick size and I used the kids as an excuse. I and one of my friends traveled out of the country and stayed at an apartment for 3 months and I was either wearing a trouser to bed or wear a big short just so my friend will not notice my dick size meanwhile this my friend likes nudity any small privacy he wants to put off trousers. There was a time he asked me why I like to wear clothes to bed but I told him its because of cold.

The reason why I feel depressed is that I think I'm losing self confidence in myself even though I'm doing well in every other aspect, my look and achievement used to bring pretty ladies my way and whenever any lady is flirting with me I would just be thinking inside of me that "is it with your small dick that you want to f**k this one. Some of my wife's single friends flirted with me a lot but whenever I remember my small size I will just friend zone them cuz I don't want any embarrassment for my wife and myself. To make matter worse my type of ladies are the thick ones especially one with a big ass isn't that weird? But one thing that gives me confidence is that I sure know how to make good use of my dick but then it would be better if bigger.

Please nairalanders, how do I overcome this problem and social media made it worse with their advocate for big dick and make it seem like all women like it big and you are at a risk of being cheated on if you have a small dick. Even though I trust my wife to a very large extent and we live in peace and harmony I still can't stop thinking she might want to experience a bigger dick if she had a chance to.

You say the ladies come back fore more, then why are you complaining.

Sorry bro but I think you should learn to love yourself and manage what you have.

You can't have it all bro, you are cute and financially ok

I think they like my look and personality more

9182736455O1999:
You say the ladies come back fore more, then why are you complaining.

But I have friends that are good looking,rich and still got big dick and I do think such friend can steal my girlfriend

cuterichbigdick:
You can't have it all bro, you are cute and financially ok

Shank909:
But I have friends that are good looking,rich and still got big dick and I do think such friend can steal my girlfriend

Your wife must see this.

For every pencil, there is an eraser.....

Every shoe get size....

Find yours bro

Learn to love yourself. Many guys are ugly,broke and still have small dick on top. You can't have it all.

Don't go and live your life! Continue reasoning like a 15 years old boy inside a 30 years body.

No wait, soon that thing of yours will be more and more less efficient.

Shank909:
Hi Everyone, I know this topic might appear reasonable to some people and some people might think it's nothing to worry about but I want you all to remember the adage that says he who wears the shoes know where it pinches. I know there are one thousand and one problems in the world to worry about than dick sizes but my people it is actually something to worry about too. I am in my mid 30s and married with kids. No gain saying, I'm a very cute guy to the extent that people tell me almost everyday, I'm tall and slim. I'm kind and full of positive vibes, I'm well doing as well I almost got it all but I keep wondering why having a small dick should be my portion I guess it's actually true about the saying that no one has got it all but I swear if there is one thing I would love to change about me is my dick size. I have two opinions about my dick it is average when hard but looks like that of a toddler when flaccid. It's about 3.5inch when it's flaccid and about 6.5 when hard which seem a bit long but slim. To me, I know my dick is small but to many ladies they kept saying it's average and its cool. I never had a girlfriend leave me because of my dick size in fact all my exes never let go totally they keep coming back, one even told me she prefers medium sized dick like mine because it is easy for her to f**k anyday anytime without feeling pains unlike big dicks. She might be telling the truth but my instincts would not agree.

Although, almost all my girlfriends always complained that my doggy is bad and always affect their belly, my wife can't even give me doggy style at all she complains all the time and begged me not to go all in. Well, I think my dick is a bit long but I don't like the fact that it is slim and get more angry and worried when it's flaccid. I'm grateful to God that my wife is not sex freak and I'm kinda sure my size is okay for her. I have tried different type of dick enlargement treatment but I realized all are fake and no enlargement works unless surgery which I might still consider in future. I feel insecure with my size that going to the swimming pool is a problem for me even though I love swimming, I find it hard to wear shorts or strip to my panties in public(pool or beach or even with friends) which I noticed most of my friends who have big dicks do normally. Whenever my friends or younger brothers come to my house for holiday I don't let them wear shorts or something that will reveal their dick size and I used the kids as an excuse. I and one of my friends traveled out of the country and stayed at an apartment for 3 months and I was either wearing a trouser to bed or wear a big short just so my friend will not notice my dick size meanwhile this my friend likes nudity any small privacy he wants to put off trousers. There was a time he asked me why I like to wear clothes to bed but I told him its because of cold.

The reason why I feel depressed is that I think I'm losing self confidence in myself even though I'm doing well in every other aspect, my look and achievement used to bring pretty ladies my way and whenever any lady is flirting with me I would just be thinking inside of me that "is it with your small dick that you want to f**k this one. Some of my wife's single friends flirted with me a lot but whenever I remember my small size I will just friend zone them cuz I don't want any embarrassment for my wife and myself. To make matter worse my type of ladies are the thick ones especially one with a big ass isn't that weird? But one thing that gives me confidence is that I sure know how to make good use of my dick but then it would be better if bigger.

Please nairalanders, how do I overcome this problem and social media made it worse with their advocate for big dick and make it seem like all women like it big and you are at a risk of being cheated on if you have a small dick. Even though I trust my wife to a very large extent and we live in peace and harmony I still can't stop thinking she might want to experience a bigger dick if she had a chance to.

@ the bolded.
If your wife is okay with it, then who do you want to enlarge it for?

I'm still thankful to God but you know us human beings, we always wish we could change one thing about us.

IkeIgboNile:
Learn to love yourself. Many guys are ugly,broke and still have small dick on top. You can't have it all.

Well I am thinking that she might not complain but if I get it bigger she would still love it. We do watch porn together sometimes when we want to have sex and all the porn guys are big dick guys and that makes me feel she mind be wishing I had their size too

SWATMan:


@ the bolded.
If your wife is okay with it, then who do you want to enlarge it for?

I wanted to take you serious, until i read to the point where you said you are married & your wife isn't a sex freak.
What more do you want you insecure Simp?

Summary.

This man lack self esteem.

I'm this life i have one motto if you like agree if you like dont it'll never change it read slowly.

I'm supposed to be happy ALWAYS.

Shank909
I'm still thankful to God but you know us human beings, we always wish we could change one thing about us.

You said it yourself that there's nothing you can do about it expect surgery. So you're just reducing your self esteem.

Him: babes, why don't you want to ride me like a horse?

Her: because your dick is small.


Just accept what you have and look for someone that is compatible. Some girls enjoy small gbola. Don't allow overused vaginarian to pressure you.

Aside women's issues, I myself don't like my dick size. I don't dare want to involve in orgies and sometimes I used to think maybe it's a way God want to curb my fornication

Demigod22:
Him: babes, why don't you want to ride me like a horse?

Her: because your dick is small.


Just accept what you have and look for someone that is compatible. Some girls enjoy small gbola. Don't allow overused vaginarian to pressure you.

cuterichbigdick:
Aside women's issues, I myself don't like my dick size. I don't dare want to involve in orgies and sometimes I used to think maybe it's a way God want to curb my fornication

Worrying over what you cannot change is just an obsession with negativity. There's nothing you can do about the size of your gbola, unless you go for surgery.

You want to cheat but you are worried that the girls you want to cheat with, which are all these leg chain and piercings razz girls, want bigger dicks than yours, you are not worried about your wife...you want to throw us off scent. You are more worried about impressing side chicks.

You even said your wife's single friends who gave you green light, you kept them in the friend zone because you are ashamed of your dick size...which implies that if your dick was big enough you'd cheat on you woman with her friends.

You are married and your wife is not complaining, so your worry is suspicious.

You are not the only one with small dick when it is flaccid.
Why are you bordering yourself over something you can just ignore and move on with.

Who has 6.5" & still complain?? Everybody knows 6.5" is well above average!!

I swear to God, OP dey lie or He dey use us catch cruise!!

My friend get busy, idleness is killing you. Is sex ur only problem.

If u think ur wife needs a big one, buy a intimacy gadget or enlarge and become dysfunctional for life. Like olamide said "won ma do". No matter how big, if u have a promiscous wife, won ma do. Leave the insecurity matter and live ur life.

U dey Bleep other people girl friend why are u scared someone with bigger dick will dick ur wife, maybe she is already riding a big dick.

Op is a grower like me.
Come here if you're a proud grower like myself

The OP just want validation from nairalanders for him to be told that nothing is wrong with his manhood.

Get busy bro

JOACHINpedro:
Op is a grower like me.
Come here if you're a proud grower like myself

I'm a grower too, but this post is trash and OP is a liar.

The 2018 studyTrusted Source found that out of 274 participants, 73 males (26%) were growers, while 205 males (74%) were showers, according to the researchers’ criteria on flaccid to erect penis length.

This suggests that showers may be more common, but there is not enough evidence to reflect the whole population.

https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/shower-vs-grower#is-one-more-common

If your post is true, then there's nothing wrong with you. You're have a grower type of D*. I'm a grower too. Grower D* are not common unlike showers.

Out of 100 men you may not find a grower like you.

Know this and have peace.

I wanted to give an advice until I get to a place where you stated"some of my wife's single friends flirted with me and I think is it my tiny d**k I will use to f**k them" my question is, if you didn't have tiny d**k, would you have f**led your wife's friend?
Chai, now I see why God places some of us in certain situations, because he knew we would have misused certain privileges. I'm not here to judge you. I understand that as a man, you would surely taste other p*ssies which being married can never stop. That's just the reality. However, you should have a class and respect your wife's feelings and emotions by doing it far away from her.

Anyway, I understand we all gat element of low self esteem in us. Forget about those always lamenting those with low self esteem. We all gat that in us at varying degrees especially when we find ourselves inadequate in certain aspects of our lives. But my uncle, no kill yourself o. I'm not preaching here, but it's a clear cut fact that any form of body modification do not end well in most cases. So, think well before you attempt it since your wife isn't complaining which should be your major concern. Moreover, I've heard it's not about have large size. Having large size without skill on how to handle a woman is more like a torture to a woman. Just like you stated above that your wife isn't a freak. Oga, if you're good at what you do, na madam go dey chase you. Up your games and see how your self esteem will boost like lucozade boost

Your wife is all that matters, find a way to be giving her orgasm, if your d**k can’t do it, you can use other techniques. If your wife is satisfied then why are you worried? Abi cheating dey your eye? If your wife is satisfied then you don’t have to worry.

op are sure u get job? why wasting time writting this preposterous hokum?

Don't wait a minute.Go see papa lawo asap!

Op let's trade places abeg, me when dey find wife when no dey promiscuous, you even get money and you dey mumu, your prick size is very okay.