So much hate and malice is going on in this forum.

A faceless forum, you say "ah nobody sees me, nobody knows me here so let me say what I wish and do as I wish with anybody here. There is no consequence after all."

Wrong!!

What you say or do here in Nairaland says everything about you, you are not merely "catching cruise." No. You are acting and expressing your real selves, you're saying what's in your deepest minds. You're not being "savage", oh no, you're very toxic.

"Oh, no, this is not who I am in real live, I am a kind loving person actually."

Lies!!

You only do and say what you say in real live because there are consequences. What if you are the "overlord", what if you are untouchable and won't give account as you might not on here? Then what?

I see even a lot of supposed "Christians" spitting all manner of hate here and I shudder.

Someone posted here earlier "mmh, look at the delegate, looking very local, I would never eat in the same plate with him"
Sit down guys, sit down and cry. Cry heavily, for the freedom Seun gives you here says alot about you.

Many here are loosing there inner humanity without noticing, both "believers" and self acclaimed atheists. Thank you.

Nice writeup op, but despite how revealing, and harmless this post of yours is.....

I still see thesame group of people you are talking about likely attacking you for stating the obvious truth....

I wonder why anyone would chose to engage in insensitive trolling, hate and spewing of
bigoted tribal utterance's full of hate and be thinking he or she is just catching cruise

"Most" nairalanders comments in this forum are just vile, insensitive and pure evil

It's the Internet and always has been like this.

Annonimity makes the matter worse

Well said, a lot of bad blood is allowed to be displayed on the forum and nobody does anything about it. It's sad. Maybe it's what the mods themselves want cos it promotes engagement, doesn't matter to them whether it's negative or positive.

So unfortunate

Faceless and inadequately regulated

A large number of Nigerians are narcissist and have very troubled upbringing. You can see these behaviours in the way they conduct themselves in person.

When you give such people a faceless medium that sheild them from being directly confronted for their toxic behaviours, they go to town and revealed their inner most self.

Mtcheeww....I am toxic and I am a savage...no problems it's my life...u wey nor be toxic enjoy ur fake life coz I know u are hiding behind the keyboard....I hate naijirians with their reasoning.....

LocalStandard1:
So much hate and malice is going on in this forum.

A faceless forum, you say "ah nobody sees me, nobody knows me here so let me say what I wish and do as I wish with anybody here. There is no consequence after all."

Wrong!!

What you say or do here in Nairaland says everything about you, you are not merely "catching cruise." No. You are acting and expressing your real selves, you're saying what's in your deepest minds. You're not being "savage", oh no, you're very toxic.

"Oh, no, this is not who I am in real live, I am a kind loving person actually."

Lies!!

You only do and say what you say in real live because there are consequences. What if you are the "overlord", what if you are untouchable and won't give account as you might not on here? Then what?

I see even a lot of supposed "Christians" spitting all manner of hate here and I shudder.

Someone posted here earlier "mmh, look at the delegate, looking very local, I would never eat in the same plate with him"
Sit down guys, sit down and cry. Cry heavily, for the freedom Seun gives you here says alot about you.

Many here are loosing there inner humanity without noticing, both "believers" and self acclaimed atheists. Thank you.

BOYS2MEN:
Mtcheeww....I am toxic and I am a savage...no problems it's my life...u wey nor be toxic enjoy ur fake life coz I know u are hiding behind the keyboard....I hate naijirians with their reasoning.....

Baba let me tell you something. I am from a part of the country that is one of the most marginalized, we practically live in distrust with one another.

You know what? I have grown to understand that there is no reason to hate. They kill us but I don't hate them, they make sure we have little space to breathe but I don't despise them. But I am critical all the same.

Is your life so miserable that you need to come online to make other people feel the same way you feel? To try to make them as toxic and miserable as you? There is no dignity or "being real" there, just sadness and lonely pity.

Am not insulting, just telling you. After all you may end up being that loved one I will sacrifice my life to in real live. Thank you.

subsidywise18:
It's the Internet and always has been like this.

Annonimity makes the matter worse

Yeah, just like it's the gun, always has been. It doesn't control you still.

LadiIshola:
Well said, a lot of bad blood is allowed to be displayed on the forum and nobody does anything about it. It's sad. Maybe it's what the mods themselves want cos it promotes engagement, doesn't matter to them whether it's negative or positive.

Engagement? This forum is not the first of its kind, there are many without so much vile. It didn't use to be like this.

I remember when feminism started to become popular, many ladies started to identify as "feminists". They started calling men scum and dogs and all manner of names.

That was the genesis of the hate between both sexes here, they will not admit it. Now some of those females are no where to be found but by now many guys have discovered the redpill and so the unending bashings here. I was among those who first started learning it from Ubunja and co.

I feel your pain n*ggah but u just don't feel my pain too.... nevertheless if you have lost a loved one to this animals(bandits&Boko Haram) you would certainly understand.......I don't even care no more...I don't mind posting up my picture..infact I wish I can put up my photo up in my profile ......the so called government has bleeped us up....DO YOU REMEMBER SAVANNAH BANK? IF U DO,GOOD...I'LL TELL U SOMETHING,MY LATE DAD HAS ALOT OF MONEY RIGHT THERE BEFORE IT WAS HEARTLESSLY SHUT DOWN WITHOUT NO COMPENSATION OR WHATSOEVER....BRO ,THAT WAS HOW MY DAD HAD HEALTH ISSUES AND THAT WAS IT ......SO TELL ME IF I AM TO CAMPAIGN FOR FOR PEACE OR NOT? ...I HAVE PERSONALLY LOST TO THIS GOVERNMENT FINANCIALY AND OTHER WISE.....SO BIKO, CHANGE UR OWN MINDSET BEFORE ITS LATE...the high time u understand that heaven is far from Nigeria the better for u...
Meanwhile I still remain that proud son of NDIGBO....
YA GAZIE

LocalStandard1:


Baba let me tell you something. I am from a part of the country that is one of the most marginalized, we practically live in distrust with one another.

You know what? I have grown to understand that there is no reason to hate. They kill us but I don't hate them, they make sure we have little space to breathe but I don't despise them. But I am critical all the same.

Is your life so miserable that you need to come online to make other people feel the same way you feel? To try to make them as toxic and miserable as you? There is no dignity or "being real" there, just sadness and lonely pity.

Am not insulting, just telling you. After all you may end up being that loved one I will sacrifice my life to in real live. Thank you.

dettolgel:
A large number of Nigerians are narcissist and have very troubled upbringing. You can see these behaviours in the way they conduct themselves in person.

When you give such people a faceless medium that sheild them from being directly confronted for their toxic behaviours, they go to town and revealed their inner most self.

I think it started from two sources;

1. The economic situation.
2. The Buhari's government.

I am blaming him and his government yes. Buhari's government has magnified the red lines between us in this country, one that wasn't as prominent before. He, by his words and actions has used a knife and sliced this country into pieces like fresh butter. Such an unfortunate man.

BOYS2MEN:
I feel your pain n*ggah but u just don't feel my pain too.... nevertheless if you have lost a loved one to this animals(bandits&Boko Haram) you would certainly understand.......I don't even care no more...I don't mind posting up my picture..infact I wish I can put up my photo up in my profile ......the so called government has bleeped us up....DO YOU REMEMBER SAVANNAH BANK? IF U DO,GOOD...I'LL TELL U SOMETHING,MY LATE DAD HAS ALOT OF MONEY RIGHT THERE BEFORE IT WAS HEARTLESSLY SHUT DOWN WITHOUT NO COMPENSATION OR WHATSOEVER....BRO ,THAT WAS HOW MY DAD HAD HEALTH ISSUES AND THAT WAS IT ......SO TELL ME IF I AM TO CAMPAIGN FOR FOR PEACE OR NOT? ...I HAVE PERSONALLY LOST TO THIS GOVERNMENT FINANCIALY AND OTHER WISE.....SO BIKO, CHANGE UR OWN MINDSET BEFORE ITS LATE...the high time u understand that heaven is far from Nigeria the better for u...
Meanwhile I still remain that proud son of NDIGBO....
YA GAZIE

I normally don't reply the toxics, I made an exception because I want you to know that being like this on here doesn't change anything in the real world. It only makes it worse and put so much weight on you as an individual, carrying so mush vile and sadness. But, thank you for your time.

LadiIshola:
Well said, a lot of bad blood is allowed to be displayed on the forum and nobody does anything about it. It's sad. Maybe it's what the mods themselves want cos it promotes engagement, doesn't matter to them whether it's negative or positive.

The mods are part and parcel of the hate. Ishilove and naptu2 are mods who also double as renowned Igbo haters.

How peace wan take dey?

LocalStandard1:


I think it started from two sources;

1. The economic situation.
2. The Buhari's government.

I am blaming him and his government yes. Buhari's government has magnified the red lines between us in this country, one that wasn't as prominent before. He, by his words and actions has used a knife and sliced this country into pieces like fresh butter. Such an unfortunate man.

Buhari is a disaster but nevertheless we have to inwards as a people. Start paying close attention to people around you in real life you will notice that majority of them are bleeped up in the head.

Abusive and toxic behaviour seems to be norm for them. It is easy for them to resort to violence and shouting match over issues that could easily be talked out.

It is also common for them to dismiss genuine concern of yours about their attitude towards law and order with the comment 'this is Naija u need to dey sharp'

LocalStandard1:
So much hate and malice is going on in this forum.

A faceless forum, you say "ah nobody sees me, nobody knows me here so let me say what I wish and do as I wish with anybody here. There is no consequence after all."

Wrong!!

What you say or do here in Nairaland says everything about you, you are not merely "catching cruise." No. You are acting and expressing your real selves, you're saying what's in your deepest minds. You're not being "savage", oh no, you're very toxic.

"Oh, no, this is not who I am in real live, I am a kind loving person actually."

Lies!!

You only do and say what you say in real live because there are consequences. What if you are the "overlord", what if you are untouchable and won't give account as you might not on here? Then what?

I see even a lot of supposed "Christians" spitting all manner of hate here and I shudder.

Someone posted here earlier "mmh, look at the delegate, looking very local, I would never eat in the same plate with him"
Sit down guys, sit down and cry. Cry heavily, for the freedom Seun gives you here says alot about you.

Many here are loosing there inner humanity without noticing, both "believers" and self acclaimed atheists. Thank you.

Who know your Mama? Talo mo Iyalaya e?

Politics has started, if you cannot take the heat, then get out of the kitchen because it's going to get hotter and hotter.

We told you already that we are ready to fight dirty, and we mean it

I am a man,I am a human,I am Igbo by tribe, and being all these gains me an enemy....bros I can't lie or pretend about it..I hate Nigeria government and can't wait to pay them back on what they did to me..my dad was a hardworking civil servant who made his money the normal way money should be made but they government stole it and that was how I lost my loving dad.....NIGERIA would loose more than a father ,that I assure them unless biafra shows up today

LocalStandard1:


I normally don't reply the toxics, I made an exception because I want you to know that being like this on here doesn't change anything in the real world. It only makes it worse and put so much weight on you as an individual, carrying so mush vile and sadness. But, thank you for your time.

YES..
NIGERIA CAN NEVER BE ONE.
THE COUNTRY NEEDS TO BE DISINTEGRATED.

A lot of people are sick upstairs and suffering from schizophrenia. I believe it's due to harsh economic situation in addition to poor upbringing. Just imagine those cultist who derive joy in beheading their opponents, religious fanatics and other categories of miscreants having access to android phones, what do you think they will be posting? A society that the youths does not care about the future of the country, to them it's all about cruise. If those before us failed to set things right in the country, we shouldn't toe that path. I am even tired of trying to make them understand their actions. To me let them continue with their cruise catching, while the politicians keep stealing the common wealth of the country. The solution is for every region to manage themselves and practice what's good for them. If not, you will still have these hateful post in nairaland. It's just a true reflection of the society.

BOYS2MEN:
I am a man,I am a human,I am Igbo by tribe, and being all these gains me an enemy....bros I can't lie or pretend about it..I hate Nigeria government and can't wait to pay them back on what they did to me..my dad was a hardworking civil servant who made his money the normal way money should be made but they government stole it and that was how I lost my loving dad.....NIGERIA would loose more than a father ,that I assure them unless biafra shows up today

Eyaah. I feel your pain my nigger. I wrote JAMB 4 times and passed but couldn't get admission in "my state". Another reason is nobody want to even sponsor.

Sorry for your pain and lose, I really pity the Igbo people. Understand, like the Igbos, we suffer from the same thing in my state. Worse off, I am among the lowest among my relatives. But I can't still harbour so much vile, I am a Christian you know.

Corporate2020:


Who know your Mama? Talo mo Iyalaya e?

Politics has started, if you cannot take the heat, then get out of the kitchen because it's going to get hotter and hotter.

We told you already that we are ready to fight dirty, and we mean it

Lol . Your comment make me laugh actually, I would have given you a like if it wasn't so divisive and directed at me.

Are you quoting somebody I know, someone that is going to be a bigger disaster if given the chance? My man don't do what you're about to do, don't try it.

Nwaotu10:
YES..
NIGERIA CAN NEVER BE ONE.
THE COUNTRY NEEDS TO BE DISINTEGRATED.

Oh well, ok. But I see hate even among tribes and family members. Lets not forget to "disintegrate" those too.

The world was never a nice place. Nature is worse when thinking up solutions to simple issues.

the freedom Seun gives you

What freedom?

Oplomo:


The mods are part and parcel of the hate. Ishilove and naptu2 are mods who also double as renowned Igbo haters.

How peace wan take dey?

Yes!!! I agree my brother!!! Are the Igbos any different? When you point finger also look within.

suffering:
The world was never a nice place. Nature is worse when thinking up solutions to simple issues.

What freedom?

With all due respect; Says a person with the name "Suffering".

LocalStandard1:


With all due respect; Says a person with the name "Suffering".

With a name like LocalStandard1 you’re not in a position to call out others.

suffering:
With a name like LocalStandard1 you’re not in a position to call out others.

Local standard is a fine expression. It means you are the standard in your locality.

LocalStandard1:


Local standard is a fine expression. It means you are the standard in your locality.

Suffering is the state of the average man in the country. I’m reminding myself with the moniker.

suffering:
Suffering is the state of the average man in the country. I’m reminding myself with the moniker.

Then how do you remind yourself of the good part.

LocalStandard1:


Then how do you remind yourself of the good part.

When it comes I’ll get a new moniker.

suffering:
When it comes I’ll get a new moniker.

Baba your salvation is here. Can't you see it? It is left for you to go for it, with singing and a happy heart.