Hotspotbro:
Korean

JESHAL:
As long as you have other networks of men you communicate and work with, you can never be lonely don't fall for the scam of the without wife, children you are going to die a lonely old man, many men are miserable and bleeped in their marriages

DieRich5:
WTF na here I post this photo

I'm not talking about sex bro, na South Korean actress ND she's really good in acting....this is for K-series thread b4 o

Phillyboi:
You guys , pls i need your honest opinion on an issue of mine -. I've got tis girl i really like , we're around the same age (22yrs) - while she was dating , i was there and we developed a bond, like we became really close .. she broke up with her boyfriend later on due to some issues and i tried to move in .. she kept on saying she wasn't ready for another relationship and i was chilled ... later on , her ex started coming back for her and she started developing feelings for him again and wanting to go back .. i told her that I'd have to cut my relationship with her if it happens and she started crying , saying she doesn't want to lose me n all that .. says she loves me ..

Fast forward to tis moment - she's currently at her ex's place - she goes to work from there , he's not around tho .. i recently voiced my displeasure about it and also the fact that i was somewhat jealous about how other men were hovering around her - told her all tis but she literally did nothing to allay my fears or calm me . She instead told me to go sort myself and my overly jealous nature out .. rn , we're not on talking terms cos i was hurt by what she said ..
P:S -- we've had sex since she broke up .. but she's also had sex with her ex too since they broke up . pls what do i do cos I'm emotionally exhausted with the whole thing .. i need your honest opinions pls ..

JESHAL:




She's an alpha widow
The way her ex defiled her and took her soul you can't even begin to fathom in your tiny imagination
How old are you gan
At that age you should just be casually spinning plates and hooking up with girls
You have strong one-titis for her
You used friendszone game and took advantage of her at her weakness
CaveAdullam abeg slap this boy back to reality with some doses

Phillyboi:
. No bro , i really didn't take advantage of her .. while she was even with her ex , she always said she had feelings for me tho might not be as strong as what she felt for her ex ...if anybody was friendzoned , it was probably me ... i just need opinions on what to do now with my current situation with her ..

Phillyboi:
You guys , pls i need your honest opinion on an issue of mine -. I've got tis girl i really like , we're around the same age (22yrs) - while she was dating , i was there and we developed a bond, like we became really close .. she broke up with her boyfriend later on due to some issues and i tried to move in .. she kept on saying she wasn't ready for another relationship and i was chilled ... later on , her ex started coming back for her and she started developing feelings for him again and wanting to go back .. i told her that I'd have to cut my relationship with her if it happens and she started crying , saying she doesn't want to lose me n all that .. says she loves me ..

Fast forward to tis moment - she's currently at her ex's place - she goes to work from there , he's not around tho .. i recently voiced my displeasure about it and also the fact that i was somewhat jealous about how other men were hovering around her - told her all tis but she literally did nothing to allay my fears or calm me . She instead told me to go sort myself and my overly jealous nature out .. rn , we're not on talking terms cos i was hurt by what she said ..
P:S -- we've had sex since she broke up .. but she's also had sex with her ex too since they broke up . pls what do i do cos I'm emotionally exhausted with the whole thing .. i need your honest opinions pls ..

JESHAL:




Forget her and move on
Simple as ABC
Na you dey feel say she like you, baba dumb that bitch and move how that girl go dey toil with your feelings, you sure say you be man, you sure say you get sense, you sure say you get balls,you sure say you get testerones, how you go be emotional tampon for a bitch that's not fully invested in you, is it konji( lust) that's doing you or you are in love, I don't get how woman go make you her side bitchh, what the fffuck is wrong with you, don't you have respect and honor for yourself, you dey share woman which kind scarcity be dat and you dey comfortable

Mtchewwww

JESHAL:




Forget her and move on
Simple as ABC
Na you dey feel say she like you, baba dumb that bitch and move how that girl go dey toil with your feelings, you sure say you be man, you sure say you get sense, you sure say you get balls,you sure say you get testerones, how you go be emotional tampon for a bitch that's not fully invested in you, is it konji( lust) that's doing you or you are in love, I don't get how woman go make you her side bitchh, what the fffuck is wrong with you, don't you have respect and honor for yourself, you dey share woman which kind scarcity be dat and you dey comfortable

Mtchewwww

Ronnnie:

I personally don't use it this kind advice na wetin we need sometimes....use of Harsh words to make us think straight and act right.....I hope he acts as you advices tho Kos dude is also in his emotions tho....

Phillyboi:
. I got your advice and I'll do as you say bro .. yeah i admit , I'm also in my emotions and it's what's fvcking me up .. and i hate it .. wish i could/want to kill it ..

Ronnnie:

You can do it tho it will take time depending on how long you have invested with her...but nonetheless Time heals...live her alone and act as if she is dead to you
In a year from now you will thank God for the decision you made.. Trust me

Phillyboi:
i hear you bro .. most people I've spoken too esp guys said the same thing ... i stumbled upon tis thread tis evening and felt i could get more responses from guys on here ..
Thank you bro .. I'll do as you say ..

Phillyboi:
yeah bro ..
i did invest a whole lot with her .. literally blocked other girls and focused on her .. that's why I'm hurt tis much cos I didn't get back what i put ..

Thanks for the advice man .. i do appreciate

Phillyboi:
yeah bro ..
i did invest a whole lot with her .. literally blocked other girls and focused on her .. that's why I'm hurt tis much cos I didn't get back what i put ..

Thanks for the advice man .. i do appreciate

fattprince:

It called sinking cost. Not wanting what you invested to waste which will make you to still try and push which will only make you invest more. So the beat is to cut your losses and move on. Bot all investment yield profit stop chasing your losses cos it will only put you into more losses. Thank you

Phillyboi:
yeah bro ..
Should i call her and end things completely or just let her be? seeing as we're not really talking now.

fattprince:

Don't call her bro just move on without giving a care about her. Just let her be. Trust me you will feel good at the end. In fact you will see she's not even worth it after you must bbwn talking or seeing other girls.

Phillyboi:
yeah bro ..
Should i call her and end things completely or just let her be? seeing as we're not really talking now.

JESHAL:




She's an alpha widow
The way her ex defiled her and took her soul you can't even begin to fathom in your tiny imagination
How old are you gan
At that age you should just be casually spinning plates and hooking up with girls
You have strong one-titis for her
You used friendszone game and took advantage of her at her weakness
CaveAdullam abeg slap this boy back to reality with some doses

Ronnnie:
I have been away from nairaland for a while,but came back recently to see the latest news and updates...and sometimes I check on this thread and I can say the movement is growing...But everything that has its advantages must surely have disadvantages...
The disadvantage now goes to the people who read messages of Redpill being passed across but are never ready to apply it...even some that do apply it ,do so for the Wrong reasons...
I have gone through some threads, and all I see is "As a REDPILLER,how can I handle the situation"...like Redpill is some form of club, organisation or a cult group that someone belongs to...They think with the little knowledge of Redpill they have,that women will chase them or pussy will always be available for them....
Some even go as far as applying the Redpill for wrong reasons....for example, Redpill states Ignoring women and they will chase you....yes it's true but it's not all women as some won't even care and that just it...You ignore women not because you want them to chase you but because you have goals and hobbies you place above them and they are just distractions to achieving something in your life...it's not a manipulative technique to get women...that's why when some rules do not work for some girl they like,they create fake accounts to complain here looking for advice....
I recently also commented on a thread when the OP stated he was a REDPILLER but needs advice on how to attract a girl that he just collected her number....indirectly he is looking for a manipulative technique just to bed her...by doing so he has placed her on a pedestal as bedding her becomes his Goal therefore he is ready to alter his behaviour just to get her chasing him....now tell me if that is not the Simping we have been preaching against since page 1 of this thread....
Sometimes I don't blame the Females here calling us " Alpha online,SIMP offline" or something like that...
Don't just listen to the message of Redpill,Apply it correctly

Awinneralways:

JESHAL:




Forget her and move on
Simple as ABC
Na you dey feel say she like you, baba dumb that bitch and move how that girl go dey toil with your feelings, you sure say you be man, you sure say you get sense, you sure say you get balls,you sure say you get testerones, how you go be emotional tampon for a bitch that's not fully invested in you, is it konji( lust) that's doing you or you are in love, I don't get how woman go make you her side bitchh, what the fffuck is wrong with you, don't you have respect and honor for yourself, you dey share woman which kind scarcity be dat and you dey comfortable

Mtchewwww

Awinneralways:


It’s not totally his fault. PhillyBoi is 22 and the current day society has failed his age range.

His age range are on the front lines of the emasculation battle.

They’ve been poisoned by music, movies, social media, tiktok, porn, you name it. During my day, these things were not as prevalent. These things weaken men. You're not wrong at all bro ..
What do yóu suggest i do?

We are previledged to know what the world was without these things but these guys grew up in it and don’t know different. Sad

Phillyboi:
why you laughing man?
I'm just somewhat confused .. but I've been cleared already

Awinneralways:


It’s not totally his fault. PhillyBoi is 22 and the current day society has failed his age range.

His age range are on the front lines of the emasculation battle.

They’ve been poisoned by music, movies, social media, tiktok, porn, you name it. During my day, these things were not as prevalent. These things weaken men.

We are previledged to know what the world was without these things but these guys grew up in it and don’t know different. Sad

Awinneralways:


I don’t mean to ridicule you and I’m sorry if it felt that way. The laughter was to point out the contradiction.

You want to call someone who has moved on from you to let them know you are moving on from them lol.

You’re just hiding under the guise of breaking up to talk to her again.

Follow the advice that has been given here and watch the kind of songs you listen to.