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Re: Sex Starved Man Letter To His Asexual Wife by omochelsea004(m): 11:30pm On May 27, 2022 |
NewSoul:Hmmm... Well, I wouldn't say she tricked me sha, though she actually said those sweet things which in reality are not forth coming, but I wouldn't want to blame it on her 100% because having sensed it, I was still the one that made the final decision without being under any pressure whatsoever. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sex Starved Man Letter To His Asexual Wife by Slynation(m): 11:33pm On May 27, 2022 |
EkoErrands: ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Sex Starved Man Letter To His Asexual Wife by Slynation(m): 11:43pm On May 27, 2022 |
omochelsea004:Ah for real?? A whole 7months and 1 never enter 0 ![]() ![]() 6 Likes |
Re: Sex Starved Man Letter To His Asexual Wife by EkoErrands: 11:50pm On May 27, 2022 |
Slynation: If she accuses me of rape it wont pain me as much as the intensity of the frown on her face. 4 Likes |
Re: Sex Starved Man Letter To His Asexual Wife by Slynation(m): 11:56pm On May 27, 2022 |
omochelsea004:My brother, it's obvious you were scammed into that marriage ![]() 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sex Starved Man Letter To His Asexual Wife by Slynation(m): 11:57pm On May 27, 2022 |
EkoErrands:This marriage keeps getting scary to me on daily basis... ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Sex Starved Man Letter To His Asexual Wife by omochelsea004(m): 11:57pm On May 27, 2022 |
jagorinho:my point exactly... She is not sexually attracted to anything whatsoever, not to me, not to anyone, though it was years after marriage before I finally confirmed gangan that the courtship time tinz na just child's play compared to now, honestly I didn't have an idea marriage own is going to be worst! but sha I won't deny the fact that I actually saw the trait during courtship o. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sex Starved Man Letter To His Asexual Wife by Cadiliva: 2:38am On May 28, 2022 |
Sexual compatibility is talked about, but not the way it should be. How do you know you are Sexually compatible if youv not actually had sex. Sexual attraction is not same as compatibility. I naturally do not fancy chasing women nor having extra marital affairs. I have never thought it would cross my mind once, cos I value my peace of mind. But I have, and ready to explore the options. The ops story really shows I am not alone, and several other post from other married people. What if I told you have never had real penetrative sex with my wife. She cries of it being painful, I Don try tire give up. We have two twin boys. I had been in previous relationships before marrying her, I am not a stallion, nor have an unusual thirst for sex. But I dey enjoy the knacks. I know I am just bidding time, I don't even have the energy to complain again. I want my family, but I don't see myself suffering through this torture and nonsense. That's why you can't judge if you are not the one bearing the brunt. I am not doing bad financially, cos of my kind of person, I know I will need enough money to fund my planned extra marital affairs without affecting my family. I love my wife, my kids. But I am not going to continue like it is alright. I might marry a second wife if it will keep my sanity. I just type full here with no bearing. That's to tell you how Sexually frustrating my marriage is. BTW, if she's circumcised, don't marry her. Not all circumcised women have this problem though 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sex Starved Man Letter To His Asexual Wife by Flamezreal(m): 5:48am On May 28, 2022 |
The worst is the one trying to get pregnant but not wanting to have sex after years of marriage ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Sex Starved Man Letter To His Asexual Wife by franklingud(m): 5:49am On May 28, 2022 |
cryptofredoom:Bro, I encourage you. Please look for another wife. Divorce that woman, she will never Change. Seems like her vagina was mutilated. She will never change. 1 Like |
Re: Sex Starved Man Letter To His Asexual Wife by GREATWILLIAMS: 6:17am On May 28, 2022 |
Cadiliva: I feel your pain man. This monogamy nonsense propagated by the West, and accepted by Africans is what fuels this attitude from our African women. I strongly believe it is unnatural for a man to be monogamous, even lower animals are not. And I am yet to see any religion that supports monogamy. Even the Christian religion only made it compulsory for Bishops and Deacons to be a husband of one wife. How long shall we continue to die in silence, how long? 3 Likes |
Re: Sex Starved Man Letter To His Asexual Wife by Zonefree(m): 7:13am On May 28, 2022 |
Married men are truly suffering Kpekus wey guys dey reject na em married men dey beg for their house ![]() May God see them through. My prayers are with them. 7 Likes |
Re: Sex Starved Man Letter To His Asexual Wife by akaahs(m): 8:34am On May 28, 2022 |
EkoErrands:Ahhhhhhh, I swear d op just narrate my ordeal too. God help us |
Re: Sex Starved Man Letter To His Asexual Wife by akaahs(m): 8:46am On May 28, 2022 |
NewSoul:U re absolutely right bro. When I saw his comment I just ignored him, he does not know what he is saying. Mine, go even tell me to go take my bath before she gives me, like wtf trying to give condition on top sex ![]() Next thing na to change for am, u need to see begging. 3 Likes |
Re: Sex Starved Man Letter To His Asexual Wife by akaahs(m): 8:50am On May 28, 2022 |
tayo60:U might not know what you are saying. My wife ll always says, she ll give me d way I want it if get married. We got married, am still struggling to get satisfied. Some of u girls can be conny and tricky 8 Likes |
Re: Sex Starved Man Letter To His Asexual Wife by akaahs(m): 8:58am On May 28, 2022 |
elmagnifico411:E b like say I go follow u copy and send to wify ooo. Exactly what am facing too 2 Likes |
Re: Sex Starved Man Letter To His Asexual Wife by EkoErrands: 9:28am On May 28, 2022 |
NewSoul: Let me help you, like in my case maybe I caused it because she complains that I shout at her...so maybe my shouting when she endangers our 1 year old daughter by giving her a solid piece of carrot to eat is making her asexual with me ... Or my shouting when I see sim card inside our 1yr old daughters mouth. Or my shouting when I see a piece of garlic from the kitchen in the babys mouth. I know I need to change from my shouting ways so that her pussy will start getting wet again for me ...but should I keep quiet on issues that threaten our daughters life? I'm working on a balance sha....so dont be afraid to get married but what I will say is, any girl that has never voluntarily touched your dick when you are both on bed dont marry o! If your babe touches your dick, likes sucking it whenever she sees it, and can ask u for Bleep...bros that's the babe for you. But no marry olosho too...so check am very well b4 u enter. 12 Likes |
Re: Sex Starved Man Letter To His Asexual Wife by JovialJune(f): 10:11am On May 28, 2022 |
I wonder where all of you meet these type of spouses, I will always encourage sexual compatibility before marriage because that is majorly the reason why marriages fail these days, it is also the reason why cheating is abundant too, For me and hubby, we dey doe ourselves non stop, if one of us is in the mood and the other isn't, we satisfy ourselves orally, we understand each other and value our marriage so much we don't want any breakdown whatsoever, I have no advice for you Op, seeing as the foundation was faulty all in the name of claiming "holier than thou", las las no one is perfect, It is well with you. 11 Likes |
Re: Sex Starved Man Letter To His Asexual Wife by Raalsalghul: 10:18am On May 28, 2022 |
Kontrol97: You can if you want to, but don't think you will get limitless sex in marriage. I've discovered it's mostly married men that complain of sexual starvation. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sex Starved Man Letter To His Asexual Wife by gannod(m): 10:27am On May 28, 2022 |
You would think young girls would learn from this,but they wont. This is one of the many reasons marriages are having issues lately. For crying out loud, if you don't like or want sex as a woman, do not marry. Do not waste any man's time by agreeing to marry him only to start depriving him of his conjugal rights. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sex Starved Man Letter To His Asexual Wife by elmagnifico411(m): 10:30am On May 28, 2022 |
Madam carried face last nite ![]() akaahs: 4 Likes |
Re: Sex Starved Man Letter To His Asexual Wife by id4sho(m): 10:33am On May 28, 2022 |
JovialJune:Summary ![]() May you live long and enjoy thy fruit of your labour. 2 Likes |
Re: Sex Starved Man Letter To His Asexual Wife by id4sho(m): 10:36am On May 28, 2022 |
elmagnifico411:Interesting, I love this. Warning shots fired, May you never run out of wisdom. 4 Likes |
Re: Sex Starved Man Letter To His Asexual Wife by DoingBetter: 10:57am On May 28, 2022 |
No woman/man should withhold sex from her husband/wife like this except for medical reasons or if they both agree. This is not fair. On the other hand, no spouse should cheat on the other. 1 Corinthians 7️⃣ vs 8 says “So don't refuse sex to each other, unless you agree not to have sex for a little while, in order to spend time in prayer. Then Satan won't be able to tempt you because of your lack of self-control. (CEV translation ) that's how important sex is. I don't need to tell you how strongly adultery is frowned upon in the Bible. Consistently the Bible speaks against it. That your wife has to agree to go for counselling and sort out her issues or kindly agree to a divorce. She can't hold you hostage. You have been faithful and that's commendable. Her actions are directly fueling your path to destruction. She is making it so that you can be tempted and then go against your principles and worse, become an adulterer. Marriage is for companionship too and sex is a huge part of that kind of intimacy. I do not play with principled men and faithful men. They are rare especially when they are genuine in their efforts to do right. If more men were like that, the foundation of society today would be much more different. Tell her to get help and NOW. PS: IF she's menopausal and it has affected her sex drive, or she's struggling with v-j dryness which can be painful and causes tear down there, she can get help for it from the hospital. There are special hormonal supplements designed for the issues women go through during menopause. Whatever it is, she must agree to make efforts to get help. You deserve a sexually rich life in your marriage too. Sending you both love ❤️ and light � 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sex Starved Man Letter To His Asexual Wife by DoingBetter: 11:02am On May 28, 2022 |
otipoju: This is terrible advice and from the experience of those around you, you should know that it doesn't solve the problem. Adding fuel of adultery to a burning house doesn't extinguish the fire. It makes it burn faster. She needs to get help to deal with her issues or separate from the ma so he can freely build a more peaceful life for himself. better to solve a problem than create a new one to escape the old. 1 Like |
Re: Sex Starved Man Letter To His Asexual Wife by luminouz(m): 11:20am On May 28, 2022 |
Blunttruth:And this is your blunt truth? What a load of crap!!! Market women, and street hawkers are way busier and still do chores at home and fuq their husbands. It's like y'all Keep forming woke, equality and still expecting the man to do his part alone while he shares yours with you. Why on earth would any woman keep shouting about her husband helping her at home? Una no dey shame ni? What's there in keeping a house clean and cooking for your husband? 7 Likes |
Re: Sex Starved Man Letter To His Asexual Wife by luminouz(m): 11:23am On May 28, 2022 |
cryptofredoom: You are a lost soul. Why on earth would she fuq you when you have turned yourself into a woman finish. All-in the name of being nice, you forgot your headship and taking charge. You forget she didn't marry you because you are nice, but because you are a MAN!! You lost your manhood by even having to do chores and beg before your wife fuqs you. She doesn't like sex you say? Who was she fuqin when y'all were dating, ME? Take charge or keep following useless advice form the bluntedtruthie nigga about doing housechores 5 Likes |
Re: Sex Starved Man Letter To His Asexual Wife by luminouz(m): 11:25am On May 28, 2022 |
Prettygirl200: Oil dey your head. That other female just dey yarn rubbish about housechores. Lazy ass mudafucker!!! How does housechores that our mothers did, ever become a problem for these modern women is beyond me! 5 Likes |
Re: Sex Starved Man Letter To His Asexual Wife by luminouz(m): 11:31am On May 28, 2022 |
omochelsea004: She conned your simple ASS. How you believe that 'once you marry me legally, everything will be fine' BS from a woman. That's classic Manipulation 101. A rope-a-dope technique to make her marriageable and once you marry her, you ensure her BS, because why on earth would anyone marry a woman you can't fuq well during courship and suddenly she would now give you unlimited sex in marriage? Thats why we tell men to embrace the redpill. That woman doesn't like sex right? But she likes your wedding ring and becoming Mrs and spending your money and you still think she is not moved by anything? ![]() The worst part is the blackmail in marriage. She would even tell you if you want to rape your own wife when you try to assert your authority over her...and voilà,you will calm down and keep praying she would change. But she WONT. Why? Because she holds all the aces while you hold nothing but a full ballsac and an erect diick... For 7 months...and counting 4 Likes |
Re: Sex Starved Man Letter To His Asexual Wife by luminouz(m): 11:38am On May 28, 2022 |
EkoErrands: She is conning you into becoming weak. This is class manipulation 101. 3 Likes |
Re: Sex Starved Man Letter To His Asexual Wife by luminouz(m): 11:47am On May 28, 2022 |
id4sho: Counselling for what bro? Sleeping with your own wife? Fada Lawd! I'd reject it if I were you!!! Tell her what you want is more sex, that's all. What exactly is the counselor going to say that will make your wife suddenly open her legs for you? Is the counselor her aphrodisiac or something? She even asked you to pay for the counselling because she is not the one who needs it, it's you, so the stewpid counselor will advise you give her time to adjust to some more BS, and spend more money on useless sessions that benefits only your wife and the counselor (by getting more money). If she cared about her sexual life or her husband, she would have gone alone for that counselling with HER MONEY, without even telling you. You want solutions? Follow Newsoul suggestion. Play the game and if she still doesn't change but you love her and your kids, get a second wife. I support it absolutely. 11 Likes |
Re: Sex Starved Man Letter To His Asexual Wife by wiseone28: 12:12pm On May 28, 2022 |
Thank God I'm a Monk 2 Likes
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