All those excuse no hold water, you just want freedom to be chopping new Ebola in peace. After all am the one paying my rent, it's my house and I can bring in any visitor I want. Madam before you rent your house try divorce so you can have all the freedom.

Nwoke dikwanuko! Those Way Never Enter dey Find means to Enter while those way don Enter dey Find means to commot. Think Twice in any decisions your making to avoid.....

Cutehector:
Did he start betting immediately after the wedding night or before you guys got married when you were busy enjoying gbola?

you can just keep quiet right?

Zonefree:
As long as domestic violence is not involved, there's no need for divorce here.

If married men begin divorce their broke wife that is not providing anything for the family, it means 98.584% of married women will automatically turn to divorced single mothers with bittered heart.

oga, stop betting, it would wreck yah.

I said it, women are marrying men for economic gain. Once the gain is off they move. I can never have mercy on women in this life.

brokenheart1234:
So, I have been able to save some money from my little business and I'm thinking of getting an accommodation for myself.
The present accommodation is not conducive and I can't keep living like this, especially with my husband who doesn't understand all the sacrifice I'm making for him.
His salary, can provide us more beautiful life but it's not possible because he's into sport betting. Family members have advised him, he claimed, he's a change person, but he's not.
I don't want to keep living like this. It's obvious that his gambling lifestyle is difficult to stop and it's not healthy for me right now.
He always come back to appologies after he's done wasting all his salaries. Because he will need to put his feeding and transportation expenses on me.

In few weeks, I'll put to birth. I'm really scared, not happy and nothing is giving me strength here.
I just want to successfully give birth and talk about divorce later.
What would you advise?
I want to move to a nice appartment without him.
What do you think about what I want to do?

You should get the apartment and leave. Do not bring up the issue of divorce yet. Move to a better apartment and be healthy for child birth. Your leaving his house to get your own place should pass a strong signal to him. Also cut him off financially. A man should provide for his woman not the other way round. Start saving against when the baby arrives because if he's a typical Nigerian man, he may want to blackmail you with the little money he has.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
After you put to birth pls divorce him and never go back to that thing you call a husband..
Nothing like for Better for worse.. Stop trying to endure a marriage that can never work..dump him in the garbage..he is a boozer who will only succeed in bringing you and your kids down...*spits*

If the table were to be turned around, you would not support the man.

Prevent:
If the table were to be turned around, you would not support the man.

I would support him whole heartedly..

FERNANDEZISBACK:

I would support him whole heartedly..

You rabble-rouser that we Nl. men all know?.

cheap lies indeed.

Prevent:
You rabble-rouser that we men all know?.

cheap lies indeed.

Ok papi if you say so..

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Zonefree:
As long as domestic violence is not involved, there's no need for divorce here.

If married men begin divorce their broke wife that is not providing anything for the family, it means 98.584% of married women will automatically turn to divorced single mothers with bittered heart.

Stop commenting like a bot. I love to think you have a brain, please use it.

Her husband is not broke, he has an addiction problem. An addiction to gambling that has wrecked even superstars. That is the problem here, not lack of funds as you are trying to make it seem.

Or didn’t you read before rushing to comment? Zonebie would have been a better username.

sisisioge:
No need to get apartment, move to his parent's, yours or siblings for maximum embarrassment, good intervention and to get help when the baby comes. No need to get apartment. The dude will probably come and camp at your new place begging and crying as usual. It is well.

Well said. She should go to his parents house or her own parents. Not to rush and rent another apartment.

lilyheaven:
[s]he is your first baby, you can't pour your baby away with dirty water.
advice him to open fixed account , where his salary will be going directly , he won't have access to it .
put him in prayer , and see if God won't change him. [/s]

You don't know what you are saying.

judatech:
People don't build strong relationships again.
Any small thing... divorce!
And most times if the woman is richer than the man...
What stops you from renting a house and inviting him to come and live...this move might change him...

Sh1t talk. I am sure you are a gambler.

Acidbath:


Sh1t talk. I am sure you are a gambler.

Majority of them are, that is why they don’t see it as a problem. Imagine if it was the wife using all her money to gamble. They would have landed to give advice.

pocohantas:


Stop commenting like a bot. I love to think you have a brain, please use it.

Her husband is not broke, he has an addiction problem. An addiction to gambling that has wrecked even superstars. That is the problem here, not lack of funds as you are trying to make it seem.

Or didn’t you read before rushing to comment? Zonebie would have been a better username.

Not today, satan!

Zonefree:

Not today, satan!

The inability to comment sensibly is what is satanic. Zonebie!

brokenheart1234:
So, I have been able to save some money from my little business and I'm thinking of getting an accommodation for myself.
The present accommodation is not conducive and I can't keep living like this, especially with my husband who doesn't understand all the sacrifice I'm making for him.
His salary, can provide us more beautiful life but it's not possible because he's into sport betting. Family members have advised him, he claimed, he's a change person, but he's not.
I don't want to keep living like this. It's obvious that his gambling lifestyle is difficult to stop and it's not healthy for me right now.
He always come back to appologies after he's done wasting all his salaries. Because he will need to put his feeding and transportation expenses on me.

In few weeks, I'll put to birth. I'm really scared, not happy and nothing is giving me strength here.
I just want to successfully give birth and talk about divorce later.
What would you advise?
I want to move to a nice appartment without him.
What do you think about what I want to do?

Your over spending has made him lazy. Don't rent an apartment yet. Just move out to your parents' house.

You can decide later whether to separate from your husband or not depending on whether he changes.

pocohantas:


The inability to comment sensibly is what is satanic. Zonebie!

You shouldn't use your inability to attract a man to settle down at your old age to judge other young married women. Allow young married women enjoy their marriage. They're not the cause of your frustration!
There are ups and downs in marriage, no one promises marriage will be a bed of roses.

pocohantas:


Majority of them are, that is why they don’t see it as a problem. Imagine if it was the wife using all her money to gamble. They would have landed to give advice.

Having a gambler as husband means poverty for life. Its a serious disease.

The gamblers on this forum are doomed for life.

Zonefree:

You shouldn't use your inability to attract a man to settle down at your old age to judge other young married women. Allow married women enjoy their marriage. They're are the cause of your frustration!
There are ups and downs in marriage, no one promises marriage will be a bed of roses.

You are deflecting my dear. Maybe I should refresh your memory as I can see ad hominem is your last resort in the absence of a sensible rebuttal - which I believe is above your mental wavelength. I simply called your attention to the issue at hand- HIS GAMBLING ADDICTION. He isn’t broke like you opined. He has money, a job, but he gambles it all away.

Also I am very sure I didn’t advise her to divorce her husband or even rent a new house. However, I won’t refuse to accept the fact that gambling is a huge problem to a new/expectant couple.

Now, can you activate your brain and comment on the topic at hand? Thank you.

Acidbath:


Having a gambler as husband means poverty for life. Its a serious disease.

The gamblers on this forum are doomed for life.

To live is Gamble.

I'm 100% certain you're not living better than few gamblers i know.

Acidbath:


Having a gambler as husband means poverty for life. Its a serious disease.

The gamblers on this forum are doomed for life.

Very doomed. I guess that is why they spend their time dragging FTC and obsessing over the marital status of random users.

Gambling has ruined even celebrities. It is cancerous and eats deep.

Zonefree:

[s]To live is Gamble.

I'm 100% certain you're not living better than few gamblers i know.[/s]

All gamblers end up hungry.

Say no to gambling. It kills.

enumerica:
I said it, women are marrying men for economic gain. Once the gain is off they move. I can never have mercy on women in this life.

Women don't need your mercy, you and the women need God's mercy.

pocohantas:


Very doomed. I guess that is why they spend their time dragging FTC and obsessing over the marital status of random users.

Gambling has ruined even celebrities. It is cancerous and eats deep.

Same ones who gamble on this forum also scam and troll. Its a pattern.

Very pathetic.

Acidbath:


Same ones who gamble on this forum also scam and troll. Its a pattern.

Very pathetic.

And drop their account numbers everywhere to gamble yet again. Yet they say gambling is not a problem. Retards.

pocohantas:


And drop their account numbers everywhere to gamble yet again. Yet they say gambling is not a problem. Retards.

They almost tried romance scam...only to realise that those gullible types have ran to Facebook.

pocohantas:


You are deflecting my dear. Maybe I should refresh your memory as I can see ad hominem is your last resort in the absence of a sensible rebuttal - which I believe is above your mental wavelength. I simply called your attention to the issue at hand- HIS GAMBLING ADDICTION. He isn’t broke like you opined. He has money, a job, but he gambles it all away.

Also I am very sure I didn’t advise her to divorce her husband or even rent a new house. However, I won’t refuse to accept the fact that gambling is a huge problem to a new/expectant couple.

Now, can you activate your brain and comment on the topic at hand? Thank you.

The only thing I want to read from you is why you hate seeing young women staying married.

Zonefree:

The only thing I want to read from you is why you hate seeing young women staying married.

You are still deflecting because no part of my posts has encouraged her to get a divorce from her husband. Quote me when you activate the content of your skull. Hopefully it is a brain, not noodles.

Acidbath:


They almost tried romance scams...only to realise that those gullible types have ran to Facebook.

Lol. Romance scam on Nairaland? That must be an ediot.