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Re: I Had A Fight With My Married Younger Brother, I refused to Apologise by Truvelisback(m): 3:01pm On May 29, 2022 |
JovialJune:U are right. In family atimes, things like this may likely come up. It's good that he dealt with him. 4 Likes |
Re: I Had A Fight With My Married Younger Brother, I refused to Apologise by Yimmicks: 3:12pm On May 29, 2022 |
This your brother is an adult fah asides being a husband and father oo.. You're lucky he still has huge reverence for you else he would have beaten you black and blue and you wont be here typing rubbish. You owe him an apology, respect is a two-way thing and you have disrespected him. I hope the wife and kid forgive you in their heart sha.. The wife sef deserve a gold medal. Watching you beat her husband without a word. 2 Likes |
Re: I Had A Fight With My Married Younger Brother, I refused to Apologise by emmanuelbrown26: 3:19pm On May 29, 2022 |
Barrister026:Where ever your father is right now, he will always be happy for giving birth to a son like u that can stand for d family, indeed u are a true son of your father. 4 Likes |
Re: I Had A Fight With My Married Younger Brother, I refused to Apologise by emmanuelbrown26: 3:23pm On May 29, 2022 |
Barrister026:U hv no damn reason to apologise to your kid brother, Infact he was d one to apologise to big brother 2 Likes |
Re: I Had A Fight With My Married Younger Brother, I refused to Apologise by Klass99(f): 3:27pm On May 29, 2022 |
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Re: I Had A Fight With My Married Younger Brother, I refused to Apologise by Advision: 3:30pm On May 29, 2022 |
Barrister026: don't be a fool, you fought you brother and you openly boast about it. You read in the news how one brother killed or maimed another...that could easily have been you. What if your brother took a weapon at the height of the confrontation and lunged at you? very easily your mother could have lost 2 children (1 dead and the other condemned to prison) Thank God it did not lead to that....if you and your brother do not get along, avoid him....he is old enough to decide what he is and how he should comport himself..children or no children And appreciate your brother was the more matured party, because he allowed you get away with it. In some other homes, at least one person will land in the mortuary or emergency ward....and for your family's sake, hope he looks past that event. 5 Likes |
Re: I Had A Fight With My Married Younger Brother, I refused to Apologise by Richy4(m): 3:54pm On May 29, 2022 |
Klass99: ![]() ![]() ![]() I think she wanted to keep the Sabbath day holy, but what she's reading here, and the comments, she couldn't help herself ![]() Jovialjune, jokes apart, u will make a very good whip as a career.... look into it and see what it entails...I believe U will do well in it... Klass I feel you.. I think literature in English should be made compulsory in secondary school curriculum.. at least from JS1-SS1.. That will reduce comprehension problems many are having... 2 Likes |
Re: I Had A Fight With My Married Younger Brother, I refused to Apologise by JovialJune(f): 4:03pm On May 29, 2022 |
Klass99: Richy4: I don't even know what to say to both of you again ![]() But really some people can be so off-putting with their comment, they need a smack down to reality and common sense, who can do it better if not me ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: I Had A Fight With My Married Younger Brother, I refused to Apologise by Klass99(f): 4:21pm On May 29, 2022 |
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Re: I Had A Fight With My Married Younger Brother, I refused to Apologise by garriAndsugar: 4:25pm On May 29, 2022 |
Zonefree:The OP is just jobless and likes creating useless threads 1 Like |
Re: I Had A Fight With My Married Younger Brother, I refused to Apologise by pocohantas(f): 5:53pm On May 29, 2022 |
It was very wrong of you to beat up your brother, let alone in front of his wife and kid. You severely battered his ego and no wife should be made to experience such. You guys are brothers and I believe you know each other’s attitude. Nothing should come as a surprise anymore. Imagine a woman beating up her sister in front of the husband. We would all agree it is a huge disrespect and totally uncalled for. Siblings, especially grown ones, should learn to handle each other. All that fighting should end in SS2. Apologize to your brother and he should also apologize to the elder one. In fact, call a meeting and apologize to yourselves. You guys can tear yourselves apart in your private/family gatherings. In front of your spouses, always present a united family. Your sibling can always forgive you, but their spouses may not. 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Had A Fight With My Married Younger Brother, I refused to Apologise by IkeIgboNile(m): 6:20pm On May 29, 2022 |
This is the affect of unresolved matters which over time becomes a real problem. It is time for you guys to sit down and talk like adults. Violence will soon stop being an option as you're all growing old. |
Re: I Had A Fight With My Married Younger Brother, I refused to Apologise by pocohantas(f): 6:22pm On May 29, 2022 |
IkeIgboNile: Well said. Then they would pass the beef down to the next generation. This is why extended family bond is fast waning and people are dating their cousins in Lagos without knowing. 2 Likes |
Re: I Had A Fight With My Married Younger Brother, I refused to Apologise by IkeIgboNile(m): 6:32pm On May 29, 2022 |
pocohantas Exactly. Then they would pass the beef down to the next generation. This is why extended family bond is fast waning and people are dating their cousins in Lagos without knowing. That's so true. Extended family ties are fast becoming extinct because of unresolved issues that was left over time. My advise is that they use this opportunity and heal as a family or there will never be peace in their home. PS: Pocohantas, you're one of the ladies i love seeing their comments here because it's always matured and clean which is hard to see here. Keep it ![]() |
Re: I Had A Fight With My Married Younger Brother, I refused to Apologise by Acidbath: 7:02pm On May 29, 2022 |
This is what women have been suffering too. Its not new...zoo and their archaic mentality. You first me donate sperm...so what? You first me open pu$i...so what? Op, now you know how it feels. Marriage is now like a luxury in the zoo...males are feeling the heat now. If you no marry, you are worse than a married church rat according to zoo culture. 3 Likes |
Re: I Had A Fight With My Married Younger Brother, I refused to Apologise by Okhuadams(m): 7:04pm On May 29, 2022 |
Barrister026:I said it I was told of your foolish lifr style I thought your family and friends are just saying it for fun but I now know better. Your Foolishness is out of this world |
Re: I Had A Fight With My Married Younger Brother, I refused to Apologise by riengo(m): 7:11pm On May 29, 2022 |
better sue for peace |
Re: I Had A Fight With My Married Younger Brother, I refused to Apologise by Toktee(m): 7:12pm On May 29, 2022 |
Barrister026:You are right... just like single ladies here that had kids out of wedlock. Any young man that have kid/kids out of wedlock is irresponsible. Anyone that quote me,insult me.... may Amadioha strike you. |
Re: I Had A Fight With My Married Younger Brother, I refused to Apologise by Gkay1(m): 7:14pm On May 29, 2022 |
In my family, junior don't have any right to insult the senior one no matter what u have and achieve. Some nowadays guy think that when u achieve at early age, the life is over, brethren, life is over when u kick the bucket. U 4 just slap better slap and leave am. Thou some people learn their lesson in hard way. 2 Likes |
Re: I Had A Fight With My Married Younger Brother, I refused to Apologise by ivolt: 7:14pm On May 29, 2022 |
Barrister026:If this is true, then why are you angry that he has a 5 year old and you don't? 2 Likes |
Re: I Had A Fight With My Married Younger Brother, I refused to Apologise by Streett: 7:14pm On May 29, 2022 |
You whooped him real GOOD……. He disrespected Y’all….. He deserves the disrespect In return double folds -Street 50/50 2 Likes |
Re: I Had A Fight With My Married Younger Brother, I refused to Apologise by Ezedon(m): 7:15pm On May 29, 2022 |
You need not to |
Re: I Had A Fight With My Married Younger Brother, I refused to Apologise by ivolt: 7:16pm On May 29, 2022 |
Foreigna2:Revenge is best served cold. 1 Like |
Re: I Had A Fight With My Married Younger Brother, I refused to Apologise by Skullano(m): 7:17pm On May 29, 2022 |
Nawa oooh, una way get brother or even brothers no know wetin God do for una ooh and I just wonder why my brother will insult or even fight me if I had just one.. 1 Like |
Re: I Had A Fight With My Married Younger Brother, I refused to Apologise by Ibraheemmawa(m): 7:18pm On May 29, 2022 |
Barrister026:the child that washes his hands clean always eat with an elder,the boy is disrespectful he need to get some hardest lesson beside child out of wardluck is not prohibited in the African culture. 1 Like |
Re: I Had A Fight With My Married Younger Brother, I refused to Apologise by Saao(m): 7:19pm On May 29, 2022 |
You need to apologise to his wife and kid if u don't want to to him. Explain to them why u did what u did. |
Re: I Had A Fight With My Married Younger Brother, I refused to Apologise by Saao(m): 7:20pm On May 29, 2022 |
Skullano:deep, very deep. |
Re: I Had A Fight With My Married Younger Brother, I refused to Apologise by Nimrod81: 7:21pm On May 29, 2022 |
Barrister026:you are first of all very wrong for bringing this here. Even if nobody knows you, you pass this one when you just do. |
Re: I Had A Fight With My Married Younger Brother, I refused to Apologise by seunak2016: 7:21pm On May 29, 2022 |
op if your kid bro get money, he shouldn't talk like that....don't apologies unless he agree it's wrong to talk to elders like that. 1 Like |
Re: I Had A Fight With My Married Younger Brother, I refused to Apologise by 9japarts: 7:21pm On May 29, 2022 |
Barrister026: Physical fight is an evidence of not being in control or frustration. That you beat him up does not mean he will henceforth respect you. You attract more disdain disrespect that way. You have let your emotions overrule your judgement, this event is a bottle up personal problem or frustration you are experiencing. Happened your brother is on the receiving end of the aftermath. No matter the provocation, don't insult, fight, or argue. Men that have their emotions under check do not. This advice is not just for how you've handled this situation with your brother, but generally with people you relate with. People slump and die from just a push, and asides that, people who have nothing are the ones that resort to physical fight. Apologising is the first step to heal yourself, and start acting like a real man. Real men don't fight for respect. They earn it by being the best version of themselves. 3 Likes |
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