Zonefree:

Tell that to your useless boyfriend!

My boyfriend is a yoruba man, he will decapitate your head before you see it coming! Be careful.

I believe they must have interviewed him, so as to get to know him and his intentions towards you. They must have told him that he was not good enough for you or that he is not qualified enough to be around you. It killed his moral and rather than talk to you, he decided to go with what he was told. Everyone has encouraged you to talk to him so as to find out why he said he is not good enough for you. You need to know why, and bear in mind that one thing is sure which is your parents will never accept that he is good enough for you most especially your mom.

It's obvious, the guy still have a long way to go before settling down...and from your parents calculation, they probably want you to get married on time....so, they might have honestly told the guy to focus on his studies and get some stability before talking marriage.

But, in all...I sense you're the elderest or only child.

Gandollaar:
My boyfriend is a yoruba man, he will decapitate your head before you see it coming! Be careful.

I cover my head and skull with the blood of God.

Not Accepted. Your Wrong What's FERMENTATION all about?? Nothing like love in this planet you can check jupiter or mass ok

Gandollaar:
Sharaaaap!

Wine taste better with Age!

Omorr maybe he was told he isn't financially buoyant enough to take care of you and he doesn't want to waste anytime been with you but he doesn't know how to tell you babe it's over .

Lucyomolola:
Dont mind the new monika,

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year now. but after he came to my house and saw my parents he has been acting somehow. Like he is avoiding me.he said sth like i am not good enough for you.

He is a student in 400l, i can say his background is average(not poor not rich). He But we love each other so much,we both in our mid 20s.

When he came i left him with my parents to go get somethings upstairs. I dunno what they told him. I really love him.

Please what do i do

BigRocky:
He should communicate whatever the issue is to you as a real man would do.

Or maybe he has eaten to his satisfaction,he just now looking for lame excuse or silly attitude to dump u.

Take second paragraph serious!

If he wants to do that, he wouldn't roll9w her home.

“Listen to my young man, if I ever notice there’s still something btw you and my daughter, I’ll skin you alive “

That’s what he was told

Lucyomolola:


My mum is not helping at all. All she said was I'll get a better man.

Believe her. Move on. You dont question your parents in things like this. Plus, he's already proving her right.

Lucyomolola:
Dont mind the new monika,

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year now. but after he came to my house and saw my parents he has been acting somehow. Like he is avoiding me.he said sth like i am not good enough for you.

He is a student in 400l, i can say his background is average(not poor not rich). He But we love each other so much,we both in our mid 20s.

When he came i left him with my parents to go get somethings upstairs. I dunno what they told him. I really love him.

Please what do i do

Never underestimate a man current position by his wealth, that is where you girls always get it wrong, he may be rich today and poor when he gets married to you or vice versa.. so don't judge...

Lucyomolola:
Dont mind the new monika,

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year now. but after he came to my house and saw my parents he has been acting somehow. Like he is avoiding me.he said sth like i am not good enough for you.

He is a student in 400l, i can say his background is average(not poor not rich). He But we love each other so much,we both in our mid 20s.

When he came i left him with my parents to go get somethings upstairs. I dunno what they told him. I really love him.

Please what do i do

Why not find out from him why he is drawing back

If he has a accessed your parents and find out that your class is bigger than his own, then he can't fix in

But at you guys age, you are just having fun not that there is anything serious about the relationship

Don't disturb the poor boy by going to ask him for explanations.

For him to come meet your parents shows that he sees a future with you.

Your parents don't like him or his background (it may not be about finance) so it's better you talk to your parents first and hear the real reason from them, then you go confirm from your boyfriend.

Personally I wouldn't marry a lady that the family doesn't like me getting married to their daughter, I no want stress from inlaws at all.

By the way this your love story is beginning to look like those Nigerian Movie Scripts oh.

The love will soon clear from your eyes dont worry..

Your parents must have made him feel less of himself. After meeting my fiancée's father, and he told me how I was too poor to be planning marriage with his daughter, I started withdrawing from the girl. She cried and pleased for months before I opened up to her. You parents must have made him feel worthless. They treated him like a little boy

Lucyomolola:
Dont mind the new monika,

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year now. but after he came to my house and saw my parents he has been acting somehow. Like he is avoiding me.he said sth like i am not good enough for you.

He is a student in 400l, i can say his background is average(not poor not rich). He But we love each other so much,we both in our mid 20s.

When he came i left him with my parents to go get somethings upstairs. I dunno what they told him. I really love him.

Please what do i do

Mid 20 isn't worth marrying mid 20.
You'll look older than him.

Lucyomolola:


My mum is not helping at all. All she said was I'll get a better man.

they dan fire the nigga some kyn akpako yarns for ya baq

Lucyomolola:


Thrice

H'antie, you for try close leg nah.. shuu!.. if you prolly lose the nigga as its looking likely, na obo sàára you just gift am.
Avoid fornication in relationships ma.

Shalommy:
Babygirl go on 14days fasting and prayer, he'll change. Chaii

Sorry to ask but why always use "chaii" in almost all your comments on here ?

Shevchenkko:
Sorry to ask but why always use "chaii" in almost all your comments on here ?

Chaii... Babyboy, chill

Shalommy:
Chaii... Babyboy, chill

lol. You're calling an ancestor like me baby boy. Chaii

[quote author=Lucyomolola post=113312740]Dont mind the new monika, Have you asked him what your parents discusssed with him if it's not confidential

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Sit him down and have a private discussion..

You this girls sef, better collect moni from your parents and loan d guy make him start business.

Lucyomolola:


My mum is not helping at all. All she said was I'll get a better man.

what?
Are you still with the guy now?

Sweetplum:
what?
Are you still with the guy now?

No I was forcing myself on him.

I had to call it a quit

Lucyomolola:



No I was forcing myself on him.

I had to call it a quit

It's well. It pains when a cherished union breakups. But as your mum said, you ll get a better man. But somehow, it may be him in future.

Lucyomolola:



No I was forcing myself on him.

I had to call it a quit

sorry about that.

I don't know why a mum will av so much influence in her daughter relationship upto this level...for a guy to follow u home,it means he really got a plan for u..I thank God for the guy for running,I pray he never look back cos ur mum will really influence ur marriage....kinni radarada .. maybe she is waiting for you to bring one Suleimanu aminu that sells jewelry for sabo...

This kiddies love. It will fade away with time.

Stop loving blindly. Consider the pros and cons of this relationship.

Lucyomolola:


I really love him. He doesn't lack though

you sure say you parents no bill am plenty stuffs.lolz

Lucyomolola:
Dont mind the new monika,

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year now. but after he came to my house and saw my parents he has been acting somehow. Like he is avoiding me.he said sth like i am not good enough for you.

He is a student in 400l, i can say his background is average(not poor not rich). He But we love each other so much,we both in our mid 20s.

When he came i left him with my parents to go get somethings upstairs. I dunno what they told him. I really love him.

Please what do i do

If he is not man enough to face your parents and still come out strong
Then he is not matured for relationship

Its now left for you to decide if he is a weakly or not

That you are from a well to do home shouldn't reduce him to nothing

frozen70:


If he is not man enough to face your parents and still come out strong
Then he is not matured for relationship

Its now left for you to decide if he is a weakly or not

That you are from a well to do home shouldn't reduce him to nothing

mumu....ur man is not marrying ur parents...but u..stat there dey glorify nonsense....till u turn 34 ur eye go clear

Lucyomolola:


Your assumptions

You really know this fella. That's how they go around destroying relationship because they don't have one. Thank God you discover the kind of person she is.