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Re: These Adulthood Realities Give Us Nostalgia About Our Childhood Privileges by Eberex(m): 8:09pm On Jun 06, 2022
Childhood days.
Days without okada
Days without Keke maruwa
Days you will play street soccer and only two vehicles will pass in one hour.
Days where we trekked to school.
Days we look forward to four o clock on nta stations for cartoon programs
Days we compete in dressing during festival periods
Days we go to fetch water with buckets on our heads.
Days we don't have tarred street so playing was fun and less risky to injuries
Days we can walk without fear of kidnapping
Days we can fill our pockets with coins to buy candies and lollipops.

Oh how much I miss those days

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Re: These Adulthood Realities Give Us Nostalgia About Our Childhood Privileges by okcharles(m): 8:14pm On Jun 06, 2022
As adults now, we just have to find ways of making enough money to pay our bills. One sure way I know is to learn a high-income skill like forex trading, cryptos trading, copywriting, affiliate marketing, etc.

By so doing, we can recreate the good old days...
Re: These Adulthood Realities Give Us Nostalgia About Our Childhood Privileges by HajiaNotu: 8:15pm On Jun 06, 2022
I am still a child undecided
I can't relate Op
Re: These Adulthood Realities Give Us Nostalgia About Our Childhood Privileges by candidbabe(f): 8:16pm On Jun 06, 2022
shocked

Chai chai chai !!!!!!
This story brought back sweet memories of the good old days.

The sweetest moment was during my secondary school days ,whenever it's raining immediately after school hours, we will lock our books and school bag in our school lockers and enter the rain oooo
Trekking, singing and dancing in the rain a journey of 1hr on foot

I miss my childhood days abeg

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Re: These Adulthood Realities Give Us Nostalgia About Our Childhood Privileges by Swissgoldenpro(m): 8:17pm On Jun 06, 2022
Adulthood comes with challenges which is very true, but that's part of life

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Re: These Adulthood Realities Give Us Nostalgia About Our Childhood Privileges by drightguy(m): 8:35pm On Jun 06, 2022
The benefit we received was as a result of someone's adulthood.
Don't get selfish; life is rotating.
Be an adult to a child.

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Re: These Adulthood Realities Give Us Nostalgia About Our Childhood Privileges by Cutehector(m): 8:37pm On Jun 06, 2022
drightguy:
The benefit we received was as a result of someone's adulthood.
Don't get selfish; life is rotating.
Be an adult to a child.
swears.

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Re: These Adulthood Realities Give Us Nostalgia About Our Childhood Privileges by notmyrealmonika: 8:45pm On Jun 06, 2022
My Adulthood is better than my childhood. Wetin my eyes see no be small.... Thats why in this adulthood, I am trying everything to stay out trouble and life stress.

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Re: These Adulthood Realities Give Us Nostalgia About Our Childhood Privileges by jojothaiv(m): 8:50pm On Jun 06, 2022
Hezzyluv:
grin

I miss my childhood so much.
Particularly, my secondary school days. embarassed
I missed those days too, looking back with not so fond memories I had wanted to write a letter to the past, telling him what I missed about him the most but he says misses me too but there's no point writing a letter to a ghost.

And so I kicked off the habit and moved on..

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Re: These Adulthood Realities Give Us Nostalgia About Our Childhood Privileges by Ameduedwin: 8:55pm On Jun 06, 2022
Me I don't enjoy my childhood to adult hood, I have to struggle from primary school to see myself through secondary School from one menial Job to another, tap palm wine, farm work as labourer, from there i did my diploma through with the same method, after diploma struggle to gather money for complete nine(9)years before I can be able to save small Money to start my National Diploma (HND) to finish 2015 and nysc 2016, still struggling no work till now. Still doing security work as a graduate. It pain me as I am typing this. You see the irony of Life ? Because I have registered with almost all the out sourcing/agent in lagos, they will post you to eatry,supper market, that they can not pay more than 15-20k as a salary. After collected your registration fee they will forget about you.
Re: These Adulthood Realities Give Us Nostalgia About Our Childhood Privileges by ukaface(f): 8:56pm On Jun 06, 2022
Y'all singing that ' adulthood Na scam' song dey high.
I don't just know why I hate the song, or maybe cos I don't think adulthood is scam.
Wetin make adulthood scam sef? Because you ain't getting free food? Nobody is giving you free money? Mtcheeeew.
So did y'all have a sweet childhood?
I don't see any difference sef, we just got older. And been older requires responsibility, we can't remain children till forever.

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Re: These Adulthood Realities Give Us Nostalgia About Our Childhood Privileges by uuzba(m): 9:18pm On Jun 06, 2022
HajiaNotu:
I am still a child undecided
I can't relate Op
Continue
Before you know it, you will go to market to buy something and they will be calling you "Aunty, come and buy"...
That's when you will know your childhood has passed.

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Re: These Adulthood Realities Give Us Nostalgia About Our Childhood Privileges by Barcelona90: 9:21pm On Jun 06, 2022
I just wish my life can rewind back to my days in SS1. I want to restart life again from there, life was full of fun without worries
Re: These Adulthood Realities Give Us Nostalgia About Our Childhood Privileges by Barcelona90: 9:23pm On Jun 06, 2022
I feel your pain bro, the lord is your strength . lines will fall in place for you soon
Ameduedwin:
Me I don't enjoy my childhood to adult hood, I have to struggle from primary school to see myself through secondary School from one menial Job to another, tap palm wine, farm work as labourer, from there i did my diploma through with the same method, after diploma struggle to gather money for complete nine(9)years before I can be able to save small Money to start my National Diploma (HND) to finish 2015 and nysc 2016, still struggling no work till now. Still doing security work as a graduate. It pain me as I am typing this. You see the irony of Life ? Because I have registered with almost all the out sourcing/agent in lagos, they will post you to eatry,supper market, that they can not pay more than 15-20k as a salary. After collected your registration fee they will forget about you.

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Re: These Adulthood Realities Give Us Nostalgia About Our Childhood Privileges by Bbbw: 9:45pm On Jun 06, 2022
Yeah
Re: These Adulthood Realities Give Us Nostalgia About Our Childhood Privileges by nnamdiosu(m): 9:57pm On Jun 06, 2022
Truth is, adulthood isn't scam
Poverty is the scam here.

Let's be real, all these mention 'enjoyment' above still sums up to one thing ..money.

If God blessed you, you will be an adult but leave a carefree life like a child again.

May God bless us, that's the prayer anthem.

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Re: These Adulthood Realities Give Us Nostalgia About Our Childhood Privileges by saint960(m): 10:07pm On Jun 06, 2022
When kid kuddy sang the song I don't wanna grow up" after listening to the music. I was like is this guy ok. When am busy counting how many is remaining for me to be like Uncle. Now I don reach uncle level and I now understand that music I don't wanna grow up.

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Re: These Adulthood Realities Give Us Nostalgia About Our Childhood Privileges by GreenVILLETiPS: 10:12pm On Jun 06, 2022
"Like rowing a boat, we enter the future backwards. All we see are the scenes of the past, and no one cannot see the views of tomorrow.

Vinland saga

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Re: These Adulthood Realities Give Us Nostalgia About Our Childhood Privileges by Polynek(m): 11:35pm On Jun 06, 2022
My childhood was full of adventures, play from morning till night nothing de happen grin
Re: These Adulthood Realities Give Us Nostalgia About Our Childhood Privileges by NeonDee(m): 6:24am On Jun 07, 2022
jeff1607:
Nah,

Enjoying adulthood, wished it came sooner or earlier
Really, I just can't relate to how adulthood is scam or how I would prefer childhood to adulthood.

Well, different strokes for different folks.

I'm having the best of adulthood.
Re: These Adulthood Realities Give Us Nostalgia About Our Childhood Privileges by setobaba: 9:16am On Jun 07, 2022
Everything comes with a pay
Re: These Adulthood Realities Give Us Nostalgia About Our Childhood Privileges by Wale0073245(m): 10:14am On Jun 07, 2022
The only thing I'm loving about adulthood is constant sex
Re: These Adulthood Realities Give Us Nostalgia About Our Childhood Privileges by cayorday89(m): 2:46pm On Jun 07, 2022
Not all of us can relate, that is not to say I did not miss childhood, my childhood was mostly sit one place, chop, sleep, go to school(never had pocket money or even take water to school not to talk of food) , come back stay indoor and while indoor nothing to play with as watching TV was a taboo, going out to play with friends was a taboo, even Christmas was mostly spent indoors except on the rare occasions we are to visit our uncle under strict laws of no misbehaving, its either you are with your book or just stay put in one place deep in your own thoughts... I think myself and elder sister had the most unassuming childhood, it was still okay for my younger siblings. Most of the things I enjoyed as a child were moetly done secretly while others just do it without looking back if they will be caught.

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Re: These Adulthood Realities Give Us Nostalgia About Our Childhood Privileges by cayorday89(m): 2:50pm On Jun 07, 2022
nnamdiosu:
Truth is, adulthood isn't scam
Poverty is the scam here.

Let's be real, all these mention 'enjoyment' above still sums up to one thing ..money.

If God blessed you, you will be an adult but leave a carefree life like a child again.

May God bless us, that's the prayer anthem.
I get your point, but childhood still comes with the entirety of a carefree attitude which adulthood can never guarantee you, with all the money, you still have to think of the next few months over unforeseen circumstances.

That *carefree attitude* is the edge childhood has over adulthood with all the plenty money.
Re: These Adulthood Realities Give Us Nostalgia About Our Childhood Privileges by Klass99(f): 2:52pm On Jun 07, 2022
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Re: These Adulthood Realities Give Us Nostalgia About Our Childhood Privileges by cayorday89(m): 3:03pm On Jun 07, 2022
Klass99:


shocked Are your folks Deeper Life members? This was an extremely restrictive and limiting childhood/growing up experience ooo.

Now, I better understand your issues with your folks. Compared to my childhood, this was prison and bondage.
They were never and are not, they are just disciplinarians and religious folks who thought all those restrictions will make their children turn out well. I remember when you said a family had a total control of their childrens' lives, how they moved abroad to school, got a job and also took other decisions for them. Same with mine but they only take final decisions from their numerous Pastors and prophets which you must not go against. Reason why when I explain to those people he reports me to, they always support me cos they know they(my parents) went extreme with everything. I have not spoken with my elder sister for more than two years, I don't even know her true condition. Me,I sha dey manage myself to get better even if they won't stop disturbing me.
Re: These Adulthood Realities Give Us Nostalgia About Our Childhood Privileges by cayorday89(m): 3:06pm On Jun 07, 2022
Ameduedwin:
Me I don't enjoy my childhood to adult hood, I have to struggle from primary school to see myself through secondary School from one menial Job to another, tap palm wine, farm work as labourer, from there i did my diploma through with the same method, after diploma struggle to gather money for complete nine(9)years before I can be able to save small Money to start my National Diploma (HND) to finish 2015 and nysc 2016, still struggling no work till now. Still doing security work as a graduate. It pain me as I am typing this. You see the irony of Life ? Because I have registered with almost all the out sourcing/agent in lagos, they will post you to eatry,supper market, that they can not pay more than 15-20k as a salary. After collected your registration fee they will forget about you.
God will see you through... Why not always check online for job adverts.



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You can add *h* to complete the *ttps* to get the job advert link on WhatsApp, I did not add to prevent me from being banned, been trying too, I am tired of where I currently work also.
Re: These Adulthood Realities Give Us Nostalgia About Our Childhood Privileges by Klass99(f): 3:40pm On Jun 07, 2022
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Re: These Adulthood Realities Give Us Nostalgia About Our Childhood Privileges by cayorday89(m): 4:41pm On Jun 07, 2022
Klass99:


No, that wasn't the case with my classmate's parents. They had a solid plan for each child but they were more like guidance & counsellor teachers to their children.

They didn't have total control of their kids lives or take decisions for them, Theresa (my classmate) had a wonderful upbringing and early exposure to the finer things of life and she was allowed to play, mingle with others, watch TV etc.
I get you, I just wanted to relate it to it, that was what they had in mind but they themselves are not exposed as they were new in Lagos due to the job posting, but have a relative amount of success, and they are used to all these spiritual consultations which they believe made them successful, but he was a government employee with good pay even with his secondary school certificate(he does not drink, smoke or womanise in fact you can tell his routine everyday if you know him for just a week) but wasted so much money on Pastors and prophets , so he restricted his children so as not to be harmed and to protect thier glory according to prophecy.

Now imagine him not going to work for about 8 years due to an accident he had on the line of duty but still got paid, he literally stopped us from doing so many things and all my teenage years and that of my elder sister into adulthood were under strict protection. We lost ground with realities as there was no strong relationship with the outside world for real time information and only had my certificate for show, with no major skills added because you don't even have money to run things even if you have the right info.
Re: These Adulthood Realities Give Us Nostalgia About Our Childhood Privileges by Klass99(f): 4:53pm On Jun 07, 2022
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Re: These Adulthood Realities Give Us Nostalgia About Our Childhood Privileges by cayorday89(m): 5:59pm On Jun 07, 2022
Klass99:
Hmm Cayorday89, I am laughing out loud @ protect their glory. These prophets will not kill someone with funny prophesies grin.

In the other post you said you haven't spoken with your elder sister for more than 2 years. What's up with that? Did she japa and refuse to talk to any of you? Why haven't you guys spoken in over two years?
To me those prophets are not to be blamed but those who run to them for solutions.

For big sis, Na person wey get money dey japa ooo, I came back from service and she already had several altercations with them but somehow stucked, so I adviced them to rent an apartment for her and set up a business for her, as her case was worst and complicated, but my advice was not taken, they rather go and spend huge sum of money on their prophets for a problem that requires common sense, they later took my advice few years later and she had no phone then, they got her an apartment outside Lagos and I could not even get my self to ask for her number. But in all they never learn.

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