callola:
congrats once again, may your LO be a blessing to you and your family

Amen and thanks

vic4real22:

Congratulations to mama, ur new baby is blessed in Jesus name.

Thank you ma

I have been crying,wailing all day!
Pls frogv any typo. My eyes are welled up in tears.
I need advice,or help, consolation, everything

I have been waiting for my period to return since delivery.i just used to have bleeding every 2 weeks
My fellow mamas,i have been sick since this week monday,someone jokingly asked me am i sure i m not pregnant,i rebuked that person.

To fulfill all righteousness,i used one pt i had at home to test,i saw 2 faint lines. I had to rush to a lab so that i will prove it false,and it showed positive.
I am livid! Angry.frustrated.embarassed.feeling deceived and very upset wt hubby.
What am i going to do please.
I am earnestly asking.talk to me pls mamas.talk some sense into me bfor i go crazy.it is past 12 but i m still up wt worry,gallon of tears,headache and pains all over. I wont lie to u pple,i m speaking honestly; i dont want a baby right now.my baby is barely 4 months.
Omakraid,expectantmom,layormii,feb cappo,everybody,pls help me as i m typing wt tears.
I dunno if i will love this baby if i keep it.on d other hand,my faith forbids tampering with it.i m just so angry at everyone.help me
Pls help me.admonish me.advice me.anything.i m still awake.feel free to type once u see this.hvnt been able to sleep
Forgv any spacing or typo

Bennytwin:
I have been crying,wailing all day!
Pls frogv any typo. My eyes are welled up in tears.
I need advice,or help
Forgv any spacing or typo

It wouldn't be easy if you keep the pregnancy but you'd be glad you did after all. I have a colleague who took in three months after delivery. As a matter of fact, she lived in denial until it was close to the time of delivery. I kid you not when I say she had the child few days to the elder one clocking a year. They are both big girls now and look like twins. You just have to brace yourself up and surround yourself with positive minded people and comments. You can always come here for encouragement. I wish it even happened to me, I would have been glad because TTC no be any body mate. Just to encourage you that no child is a mistake. This is my 9years plus in marriage and I am pregnant with my second after four years of having the first one. So once again, brace up. Eat well and take your vitamins seriously. Experienced Mamas will definitely come to the rescue. I may be wrong anyway. It's just my thought.

Modified
I just read through your BS and I must say, you're a strong woman. Never knew you had gone through a lot. You and hubby should come together and take the best decision on this matter. The Lord himself will direct you. I hope I don't sound insensitive in the earlier comment. You're loved.

BigMamaNaija:

Has it fallen off yet? Change the brand of spirit to an original one quickly before the area becomes infected. Go to a renowned pharmacy and ask them for original spirit. Once you open it, the smell that will hit you will tell you. Also, it dries up immediately when applied on a surface.
Hadromed is good but I don't know if it's available in your location.

With original spirit, the umbilical cord falls off within a week, two weeks max. Don't apply anything else please and please, to avoid infection. � After it falls off, you can apply original vaseline blue seal after cleaning the surface with spirit until it's sealed.

It hasn't yet. I have changed by brand of spirit, yet it no sign. The peadetrician suggested I umbilical gel too.

I don't know what to do again

omotolanibaby:
dnt apply anything except moko spirit using cotton wool to apply to avoid stories that will touch.

I am using moko spirit. I have used up almost 2 bottles

Bennytwin:
I have been crying,wailing all day!
Pls frogv any typo. My eyes are welled up in tears.
I need advice,or help, consolation, everything

I have been waiting for my period to return since delivery.i just used to have bleeding every 2 weeks
My fellow mamas,i have been sick since this week monday,someone jokingly asked me am i sure i m not pregnant,i rebuked that person.

To fulfill all righteousness,i used one pt i had at home to test,i saw 2 faint lines. I had to rush to a lab so that i will prove it false,and it showed positive.
I am livid! Angry.frustrated.embarassed.feeling deceived and very upset wt hubby.
What am i going to do please.
I am earnestly asking.talk to me pls mamas.talk some sense into me bfor i go crazy.it is past 12 but i m still up wt worry,gallon of tears,headache and pains all over. I wont lie to u pple,i m speaking honestly; i dont want a baby right now.my baby is barely 4 months.
Omakraid,expectantmom,layormii,feb cappo,everybody,pls help me as i m typing wt tears.
I dunno if i will love this baby if i keep it.on d other hand,my faith forbids tampering with it.i m just so angry at everyone.help me
Pls help me.admonish me.advice me.anything.i m still awake.feel free to type once u see this.hvnt been able to sleep
Forgv any spacing or typo

it is well my dear, i dont even knw wat to say bcs if i were in ur shoes i wont know u wat to do either... Its a tough situation dt can happen to any women dt is stil caring for a baby, u n only knw what u can do abt it... But i wud say u shld kip it so dt u wont b welling ursef in regret in d future... Trust me, u will love d baby, d journey may b tough at d beginning but u will b happy u made a gud decision in d future... Ur baby n d new baby on d way will just b like twins...

breeezefe:
Good day mamas.
I am little bit worried. Though some persons said it's not a big deal.

My baby will be 3weeks old (born on 20th May) by tomorrow. He's umbilical stump is yet to fall off. I have been doing what I was told to do religiously. I clean with spirit and cotton wool regularly
What could be wrong mamas.
I
Meanwhile, I saw a peadetrician last two weeks and she said it will fall off. Still it hasn't

wow... 3weeks??!! Dtz weird... U need to stil go n c ur baby peadetrician, dey shld b able to do smtin.. By 3weeks d place suppose to ve healed up sef

Bennytwin:
I have been crying,wailing all day!
Pls frogv any typo. My eyes are welled up in tears.
I need advice,or help, consolation, everything

I have been waiting for my period to return since delivery.i just used to have bleeding every 2 weeks
My fellow mamas,i have been sick since this week monday,someone jokingly asked me am i sure i m not pregnant,i rebuked that person.

To fulfill all righteousness,i used one pt i had at home to test,i saw 2 faint lines. I had to rush to a lab so that i will prove it false,and it showed positive.
I am livid! Angry.frustrated.embarassed.feeling deceived and very upset wt hubby.
What am i going to do please.
I am earnestly asking.talk to me pls mamas.talk some sense into me bfor i go crazy.it is past 12 but i m still up wt worry,gallon of tears,headache and pains all over. I wont lie to u pple,i m speaking honestly; i dont want a baby right now.my baby is barely 4 months.
Omakraid,expectantmom,layormii,feb cappo,everybody,pls help me as i m typing wt tears.
I dunno if i will love this baby if i keep it.on d other hand,my faith forbids tampering with it.i m just so angry at everyone.help me
Pls help me.admonish me.advice me.anything.i m still awake.feel free to type once u see this.hvnt been able to sleep
Forgv any spacing or typo

Firstly I have to congratulate because you really need to believe that this baby is a blessing and everything good to you, I'm not saying this because I just want to motivate you but because I was in your shoes just few months ago. Yes some mamas here know my story, 3 pregnancies in 3 years, (DOB, Nov 18 2019(an angel, Nov 19 2020 and Dec 22 2021). When I realized that I was pregnant with my 3rd the feelings was mixed though hubby was happy but I wasn't because my baby was just 3months and few weeks breastfeeding exclusively and I was not willing to stop luckily I saw someone on Instagram breastfeeding two babies of different age (tandem nursing) that instantly motivated to do the same so I didn't stop breastfeeding my baby until after 5 month I birth her brother (at 18month).

Mama trust me there will never be a reason you'll regret keeping the baby all you need is to be strong for him or her and siblings. You can do it, everyone was looking at me like an alien then expecting me to terminate it but now I'm their superwoman. Keeping the baby is my husband best decision he ever made according to him and I was even gifted a customized chains in their names by hubby that's to tell you how blessed and happy we are for having them. Mama I'm ready to walk with you in this, you're not alone and you'll never be, don't think of what people will say or think. Since your faith forbid tampering with it and your health permit you to please keep the baby, he or she will be nothing but a blessing to you trust me and you'll love him or her unconditionally that I can bet with you.

Xscape1993:
Good evening mamas in the house. My wife had evacuation last year and since then her ovulation seized. After her period no ovulation. What could be the problem? I need good solutions please..

i apologise 4 dus question... How did u knw how ovulation ceased?

Bennytwin:
I have been crying,wailing all day!
Pls frogv any typo. My eyes are welled up in tears.
I need advice,or help, consolation, everything

I have been waiting for my period to return since delivery.i just used to have bleeding every 2 weeks
My fellow mamas,i have been sick since this week monday,someone jokingly asked me am i sure i m not pregnant,i rebuked that person.

To fulfill all righteousness,i used one pt i had at home to test,i saw 2 faint lines. I had to rush to a lab so that i will prove it false,and it showed positive.
I am livid! Angry.frustrated.embarassed.feeling deceived and very upset wt hubby.
What am i going to do please.
I am earnestly asking.talk to me pls mamas.talk some sense into me bfor i go crazy.it is past 12 but i m still up wt worry,gallon of tears,headache and pains all over. I wont lie to u pple,i m speaking honestly; i dont want a baby right now.my baby is barely 4 months.
Omakraid,expectantmom,layormii,feb cappo,everybody,pls help me as i m typing wt tears.
I dunno if i will love this baby if i keep it.on d other hand,my faith forbids tampering with it.i m just so angry at everyone.help me
Pls help me.admonish me.advice me.anything.i m still awake.feel free to type once u see this.hvnt been able to sleep
Forgv any spacing or typo

Aww mama ....
One thing I want to tell you is to see this pregnancy as God's compensation for all the past losses you've experienced.. This is exactly what many women wish for to show the whole world that they are fertile and not barren..

And why do you think you can't love him/her? My baby is my first but along the pregnancy journey I asked same question here cos I wasn't feeling anything (my feelings towards the coming baby was neutral) and I was lifted by sisters here and I can tell you, its nothing like what I was feeling then... You'll definitely love that LO.. Mama @ IamGreen1 has shared her story just so you know its possible.
All you need is surround yourself with positive people and don't listen to side comments from people..

E-hugs to you and that precious LO

Madam you do not need worry,all you need do is constant cleaning mainly from down and drip hot his bathing water there too. It is not abnormal some are thicker than others. We have a nurse that usually pull it out well with little blood after but i do not advise mothers just intensify the cleaning. I know of a mother that came after a month to complain the nurse suggested to pull if she wants but i told the mother to go clean for one more week and fortunately it feel out 3 days after so intensify cleaning.

breeezefe:
Good day mamas.
I am little bit worried. Though some persons said it's not a big deal.

My baby will be 3weeks old (born on 20th May) by tomorrow. He's umbilical stump is yet to fall off. I have been doing what I was told to do religiously. I clean with spirit and cotton wool regularly
What could be wrong mamas.
I
Meanwhile, I saw a peadetrician last two weeks and she said it will fall off. Still it hasn't

Layormiii:
teamie of life, congratulations may God watch over him ijn

Just here waddling, my tired is reeeaaaaly tired, almost contemplating going for elective C's, this last stage nawa

Same here cappo, I wake up everyday hoping labour will just start or if I should just jejely carry myself to the hospital for elective CS. It is well with us o, may God help us make the right decision and may he make it easy for us.

Vivi01:
Birth story
I got married December 2020 and the ignorant me thought that once one has unprotected sex it must lead to pregnancy

You and my hubby dey same WhatsApp group for this one .. Congrats ma, don't worry, your tummy will go down and the blood will cease

Layormiii:
Good evening mamas
My legs are really swollen For days now,both swollen but the left leg is something else. like the biggest I've seen in this pregnancy, I have done all the wakawaka and exercise I can, nothing yet. Complained at my last antenatal but doctor didn't say anything but now am worried o.
39wks

I just feel like when I ask questions nobody answers

If your doctor didn't say anything then it is no cause for alarm, maybe it's just fluid retention that you will loose after given birth, so stop worrying and prepare your mind for baby's arrival

Layormiii:
Good evening mamas
My legs are really swollen For days now,both swollen but the left leg is something else. like the biggest I've seen in this pregnancy, I have done all the wakawaka and exercise I can, nothing yet. Complained at my last antenatal but doctor didn't say anything but now am worried o.
39wks

I just feel like when I ask questions nobody answers

Don't worry, it will soon be over.. Hope your BP is fine?

Bennytwin:
I have been crying,wailing all day!
Pls frogv any typo. My eyes are welled up in tears.
I need advice,or help, consolation, everything

I have been waiting for my period to return since delivery.i just used to have bleeding every 2 weeks
My fellow mamas,i have been sick since this week monday,someone jokingly asked me am i sure i m not pregnant,i rebuked that person.

To fulfill all righteousness,i used one pt i had at home to test,i saw 2 faint lines. I had to rush to a lab so that i will prove it false,and it showed positive.
I am livid! Angry.frustrated.embarassed.feeling deceived and very upset wt hubby.
What am i going to do please.
I am earnestly asking.talk to me pls mamas.talk some sense into me bfor i go crazy.it is past 12 but i m still up wt worry,gallon of tears,headache and pains all over. I wont lie to u pple,i m speaking honestly; i dont want a baby right now.my baby is barely 4 months.
Omakraid,expectantmom,layormii,feb cappo,everybody,pls help me as i m typing wt tears.
I dunno if i will love this baby if i keep it.on d other hand,my faith forbids tampering with it.i m just so angry at everyone.help me
Pls help me.admonish me.advice me.anything.i m still awake.feel free to type once u see this.hvnt been able to sleep
Forgv any spacing or typo

Please stay strong sis...you're not the first and will definitely not be the last. Its not easy, people will talk but please ignore them. My sis took in about 7months after CS...we were all worried but God was merciful and today that baby is the only baby boy she has now. Endure the pain but trust me, you will later enjoy it

kokaiye:
i apologise 4 dus question... How did u knw how ovulation ceased?

Her ovulation does not come after her normal period dear. Before the evaluation last year her ovulation did not cease,but after the evaluation no ovulation after normal period.

Xscape1993:
Her ovulation does not come after her normal period dear. Before the evaluation last year her ovulation did not cease,but after the evaluation no ovulation after normal period.

wat i meant is how did u knw she didnt ovulate? Did ur wife go 4 test or u just knw

Bennytwin:
I have been crying,wailing all day!
Pls frogv any typo. My eyes are welled up in tears.
I need advice,or help, consolation, everything

I have been waiting for my period to return since delivery.i just used to have bleeding every 2 weeks
My fellow mamas,i have been sick since this week monday,someone jokingly asked me am i sure i m not pregnant,i rebuked that person.

To fulfill all righteousness,i used one pt i had at home to test,i saw 2 faint lines. I had to rush to a lab so that i will prove it false,and it showed positive.
I am livid! Angry.frustrated.embarassed.feeling deceived and very upset wt hubby.
What am i going to do please.
I am earnestly asking.talk to me pls mamas.talk some sense into me bfor i go crazy.it is past 12 but i m still up wt worry,gallon of tears,headache and pains all over. I wont lie to u pple,i m speaking honestly; i dont want a baby right now.my baby is barely 4 months.
Omakraid,expectantmom,layormii,feb cappo,everybody,pls help me as i m typing wt tears.
I dunno if i will love this baby if i keep it.on d other hand,my faith forbids tampering with it.i m just so angry at everyone.help me
Pls help me.admonish me.advice me.anything.i m still awake.feel free to type once u see this.hvnt been able to sleep
Forgv any spacing or typo

chaiii, naso I almost carry belle ooo, you are even my teamie, February, mine happened last week,was sick with fear, but you know what, I made a decision that if it turns out to be positive, I will keep the baby, but it was negative. So I can understand you because I already concluded I was pregnant.
It is is well with you mama, you will love this baby,but it won't be easy,you need a help,either your mother,or any strong hand,not small girl. God will see you through.

I use to criticize this belle stuff few months after birth till it almost happened to me,chaii, now I understand.

Layormiii:
Good evening mamas
My legs are really swollen For days now,both swollen but the left leg is something else. like the biggest I've seen in this pregnancy, I have done all the wakawaka and exercise I can, nothing yet. Complained at my last antenatal but doctor didn't say anything but now am worried o.
39wks

I just feel like when I ask questions nobody answers

Sorry dear..The Lord is your muscle. It will surely end in praise.

Happy weekend mamas. Hope we are all pushing?
Please, what can I do with my drugs. Once I take any drugs I instantly feel stomach have and bit everything! I am scared for me and my baby. Is there equivalent malaria injection I can take? What can I also do about the routine drugs.

Honeysweetest:
I use to criticize this belle stuff few months after birth till it almost happened to me,chaii, now I understand.

I used to criticize it too when i was single till i took in for my second , 7 months after i had my first via CS..

@Bennytwin The Lord is your strength, he will be with you throughout the journey..get a help if you don’t have, it will end in praise..

kokaiye:
wat i meant is how did u knw she didnt ovulate? Did ur wife go 4 test or u just knw

I observed it dear.

breeezefe:


It hasn't yet. I have changed by brand of spirit, yet it no sign. The peadetrician suggested I umbilical gel too.

I don't know what to do again

Hmm, u should have been using the umbilical cord gel since sef,,,the spirits they are producing in this country now is not as strong or effective like before, infact almost every thing produced since the pandemic are of lower quality,. It will fall off last last Sha, all cords are different in thickness, infact, if u dey put d gel no manage am, apply generously, all d best

Xscape1993:
I observed it dear.

u r wrong sir... U cNt knw wen a woman ovulate or not cz its not ur body except ur wife told u so hersef cs she is d only one dt can tell if she is ovulatin or not... Sm women dont even knw d sign to watchout 4 to knw if dey r ovulating n moreova we pay very gud attentn to our body to knw dt we r really ovulatin hence we miss it... So u as a man can nva tell.

kokaiye:
u r wrong sir... U cNt knw wen a woman ovulate or not cz its not ur body except ur wife told u so hersef cs she is d only one dt can tell if she is ovulatin or not... Sm women dont even knw d sign to watchout 4 to knw if dey r ovulating n moreova we pay very gud attentn to our body to knw dt we r really ovulatin hence we miss it... So u as a man can nva tell.

So, why no pregnancy since the evaluation?

Flourishing19:

It wouldn't be easy if you keep the pregnancy but you'd be glad you did after all. I have a colleague who took in three months after delivery. As a matter of fact, she lived in denial until it was close to the time of delivery. I kid you not when I say she had the child few days to the elder one clocking a year. They are both big girls now and look like twins. You just have to brace yourself up and surround yourself with positive minded people and comments. You can always come here for encouragement. I wish it even happened to me, I would have been glad because TTC no be any body mate. Just to encourage you that no child is a mistake. This is my 9years plus in marriage and I am pregnant with my second after four years of having the first one. So once again, brace up. Eat well and take your vitamins seriously. Experienced Mamas will definitely come to the rescue. I may be wrong anyway. It's just my thought.

Modified
I just read through your BS and I must say, you're a strong woman. Never knew you had gone through a lot. You and hubby should come together and take the best decision on this matter. The Lord himself will direct you. I hope I don't sound insensitive in the earlier comment. You're loved.

Thanks much

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Firstly I have to congratulate because you really need to believe that this baby is a blessing and everything good to you, I'm not saying this because I just want to motivate you but because I was in your shoes just few months ago. Yes some mamas here know my story, 3 pregnancies in 3 years, (DOB, Nov 18 2019(an angel, Nov 19 2020 and Dec 22 2021). When I realized that I was pregnant with my 3rd the feelings was mixed though hubby was happy but I wasn't because my baby was just 3months and few weeks breastfeeding exclusively and I was not willing to stop luckily I saw someone on Instagram breastfeeding two babies of different age (tandem nursing) that instantly motivated to do the same so I didn't stop breastfeeding my baby until after 5 month I birth her brother (at 18month).

Mama trust me there will never be a reason you'll regret keeping the baby all you need is to be strong for him or her and siblings. You can do it, everyone was looking at me like an alien then expecting me to terminate it but now I'm their superwoman. Keeping the baby is my husband best decision he ever made according to him and I was even gifted a customized chains in their names by hubby that's to tell you how blessed and happy we are for having them. Mama I'm ready to walk with you in this, you're not alone and you'll never be, don't think of what people will say or think. Since your faith forbid tampering with it and your health permit you to please keep the baby, he or she will be nothing but a blessing to you trust me and you'll love him or her unconditionally that I can bet with you.[/quote
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Thanks much for offering to walk wt me. I dont mind at all. I m just floating right now. It is unbelievable almost. Like I don t know how it happened.
Pls how do i reach u, can i get ur whatsapp line or anything.tnx

Omakraid:

Aww mama ....
One thing I want to tell you is to see this pregnancy as God's compensation for all the past losses you've experienced.. This is exactly what many women wish for to show the whole world that they are fertile and not barren..

And why do you think you can't love him/her? My baby is my first but along the pregnancy journey I asked same question here cos I wasn't feeling anything (my feelings towards the coming baby was neutral) and I was lifted by sisters here and I can tell you, its nothing like what I was feeling then... You'll definitely love that LO.. Mama @ IamGreen1 has shared her story just so you know its possible.
All you need is surround yourself with positive people and don't listen to side comments from people..

E-hugs to you and that precious LO

Thank you Oma