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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sajmark(m): 8:50pm On Jun 12, 2022
CAPSLOCKED:


"MY GIRLFRIEND IS NOT LIKE THAT"
"Y'ALL HATING CUZ YOU'RE WEAK MEN WITH NO GAME"
"BROKE BOYS ALWAYS COMPLAINING CUS THEY CAN'T AFFORD WOMEN"
"FORGET ABOUT THIS NONSENSE AND GO AND MAKE MONEY WOMEN WILL RESPECT YOU"
"REDPILLERS ARE CONFUSED"
"SHE'S A RARE BREED"

WHEN Y'ALL KEEP CHURNING OUT THESE LINES YOU FAIL TO REMEMBER THAT WE'RE NOT YOUR ENEMIES. SOMEHOW WE'RE ALIKE BECAUSE WE GET LIED TO, DISRESPECTED, AND CHEATED ON, BUT THE BIG DIFFERENCE IS THAT WE CLEARLY UNDERSTAND THAT THE REDPILL IS FACT, SO WE PREPARE FOR EVERY POSSIBLE OUTCOME FROM A ROMANTIC INVOLVEMENT, STUDY THE GAME CORRECTLY, AND TRY TO PLAY IT TO PERFECTION. WHEN "THE WORST" HAPPENS WE LAUGH ABOUT IT AND SWIFTLY MOVE ON TO OTHER IMPORTANT STEPS IN OUR LIVES AND CAREERS. BUT IT IS "SIMPS" AND "REAL MEN" LIKE YOU THAT FAIL TO UNDERSTAND THE PHENOMENON OF WOMEN'S NATURE, THAT SULK FOR AGES, CRY, DRINK TO STUPOR, INFLICT HARM ON YOURSELVES AND OTHERS, LOSE THEIR JOBS OR FUNDS AND SELF-WORTH, GO ON SOCIAL MEDIA POSTING LAMENTATIONS, AND DO OTHER WEIRDER THINGS OVER A SMALL BREAK UP.

A MAN THAT'S NOT REDPILL AWARE IS SETTING HIMSELF UP FOR DISASTER. THIS IS THE GOSPEL TRUTH.
You just gave him one of the coldest welcoming speech to the redpill, thank you sir.
I hope he doesn't relent, and I also hope he doesn't stay long in the angry phase... Life gets better with the redpill.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MJBOLT: 8:52pm On Jun 12, 2022
Some of you put too much faith in Nigerian men,ask yourself how Bobrisky dey cash out??

luminouz:


How in hell did naija men become such for fuq sakes?

I'm angry right now

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 8:54pm On Jun 12, 2022
CaveAdullam:


I miss Bloodysperm though.

No 'tueh...just blood on the streets'.
I miss BLOODYSPERM too. Well, maybe nairaland was a detraction to him. Social media and internet can be pernicious distractions and serious time wasters.

Maybe he had to deactivate and utterly cut off all distractions to focus on pressing and important things (eg. more self-development). It happens; not everyone can moderate and control their internet usage. People should do what works for them.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ichidodo: 8:55pm On Jun 12, 2022
ubunja:
thanks a ton Cave. I appreciate this, man.

ichidodo been really quiet lately.
Yeah, sorry about that. Being busy and all. Happy Birthday mehn...I love you, bro. No homo.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 8:55pm On Jun 12, 2022
MJBOLT:
Some of you put too much faith in Nigerian men,ask yourself how Bobrisky dey cash out??


True talk

Not all men can be saved then

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 8:55pm On Jun 12, 2022
Martinez39s:
I miss BLOODYSPERM too. Well, maybe nairaland was a detraction to him. Social media and internet can be pernicious distractions and serious time wasters.

Maybe he had to deactivate and utterly cut off all distractions to focus on pressing and important things (eg. more self-development). It happens; not everyone can moderate and control their internet usage. People should do what works for them.

You too are bloody. Looooool

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sajmark(m): 9:08pm On Jun 12, 2022
First impressions are essential. If her first impression of you is that you’re meek and weak, you can expect that to color your future interactions. It is next to impossible to correct a first impression.

~Rollo Tomassi_ the rational male (2022)

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ichidodo: 9:08pm On Jun 12, 2022
CaveAdullam:
Happy birthday, daddy Ubunja. Long live you!

Cc. Herbsworks, Hedgefunds, smartb0y, lordcassy, et al., hope you guys are doing fine.

Uncle Ichidodo...let me not talk. How are you?
I'm still hanging in there...Guess what? I now read and write codes in Java...I feel like Neo in the very moment he discovered his powers.. I hope it will be enough to migrate and find a tech job in South Africa or maybe Botswana. We redpiillers cannot allow ubunja have all the fun out there,you know..

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sajmark(m): 9:20pm On Jun 12, 2022
A Friend she sees, a Friend you will always be. Women have boyfriends and girlfriends. If you aren’t f*cking her, you’re her girlfriend.

When you become Friends First and believe that familiarity is key to a long-term relationship, you begin your Game by communicating as a woman would with her girlfriends. Friends First guys’ Game is based on familiarity with a woman that requires him to identify with the feminine. They believe it’s trust-building when, in fact, it’s Beta men speaking the covert language of women. When a man tries to endear himself to a woman via friendship, a woman’s hindbrain associates his efforts with the communication of her female friends. When you communicate like one of her girlfriends, her hindbrain interprets you as a girlfriend.

~The rational male.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sajmark(m): 9:23pm On Jun 12, 2022
Game Maxim #4: Women say they want honesty, but they never want full disclosure.

Women want a challenge more than they want honesty. There is nothing more self-satisfying for a woman than to believe she’s figured out a guy’s mystery based solely on her feminine intuition. Do not deny them the pleasure of that process by giving away your story because you mistakenly believe that open communication and “vulnerability” make you a more authentic man.

RM

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 9:32pm On Jun 12, 2022
CaveAdullam:


You too are bloody. Looooool
It is just a speculation o. It could also be that this thread has served its purpose to him, he had given his all and he felt no need to hang around. Maybe he is content to just be a guest.

Anyhow anyhow, I wish BLOODYSPERM the best in all things.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sajmark(m): 9:35pm On Jun 12, 2022
GAME MAXIMS part 1
#1: Women want to get with a man who other women want to bang and other men want to be.
#2: Treat her like a celebrity, and she will treat you like a fan.
#3: Women would rather be objectified than idealized.
#5: Demonstrate, do not explicate.
#6: Women would rather play the Game than be told that they are playing the Game.
#8: Flip the script. Be the chased, not the chaser.
#9: Women don’t want a man to cheat, but they love a man who could cheat.
#13: Some girls will reject your Direct Game, who would have eventually bleeped you had you gone indirect.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by azammi(m): 10:10pm On Jun 12, 2022
He made passes not carry
JESHAL:
Burna boy carry person wife for club grin cheesy chai this life no balance and the cuck was vexing on burnaboy instead of him to be ashamed of his wife

https://www.nairaland.com/7174223/burna-boys-police-escort-shoots

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by cherryCola: 10:15pm On Jun 12, 2022
cherryCola:

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by unclemica: 11:19pm On Jun 12, 2022
Happy birthday ubunja, wish you good things in life and more wisdom

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by noCAP(m): 3:43am On Jun 13, 2022
okrikaboi:
Men are not simping over Kelly. Truth is giving more attention to Kelly making her feel she is more than your babe just infuriates your babe grin
That Kelly wey be like fowl wey never mature
haha, you need to see my girl's reaction when I told her I have a crush on Kelly, just to see her reaction grin. She legit turned it to a full scale war. Starting saying how there is nothing special in the girl. That she did surgery. That she hates Nigerian men for hyping the girl like that..Bla bla bla grin. I was just trying not to laugh my eyes out at that point. women shaa

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 4:46am On Jun 13, 2022
HARDESTNIGGAINT:
VERY SOON THE TOGOLESE TIKTOKER "KELLY" WOULD BUY A BENZ, HOUSE, EXPENSIVE TRIPS TO EXPENSIVE NATIONS AND MORE MONEY TO HER SELF, THANKS TO "REAL MEN"

ALL SHE AS TO SAY ON SOCIAL MEDIA WHEN SHE SECURED A WHIP WOULD BE
"THANKS TO MY FANS FOR THE NEW BENZ"

THEM NENGI, ANGEL AND CO WILL SCHOOL HER WELL

I HEARD SHE GOT 700K DISCIPLES ON TIKTOK
"WELL TO DO MEN" WITH BAGS WOULD DM HER SOON FOR EXPENSIVE DINNERS, ALOT OF GOODIES FOR KELLY VERY SOON


BUT BLACK NEGROS HERE WOULD DISDAIN SUCH SHITS, I TRUST ONLY THE SERIOUS REDPILLERS HERE
I agree with you on that, just watch the space. It will happen as you said

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 6:12am On Jun 13, 2022
unclemica:
Happy birthday ubunja, wish you good things in life and more wisdom
nice one bro. Thanks for this kind message.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 6:17am On Jun 13, 2022
sajmark:
Happy birthday ubunja, I pray for increase in all ramifications of your life.
yes please, bring that increase. Thanks man.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 6:23am On Jun 13, 2022
Junnior:
Omo.... the past few pages �... My eyes are turning red. God bless all of you contributing.

HBD ubunja. More wisdom to your brain.
thanks J. Yesterday people had time to pour into the thread and it shows. Such great contributions.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tranquility2345: 6:26am On Jun 13, 2022
Any man that is dating a girl that cares about any so called Kelly on Social media is an idiot and should run very far away from that woman.

Any man that has time to follow stupid untalented fools like the so called Kelly on social media is a bigger idiot and should give himself sense before it is too late. Any man that is on the path to building a successful life shouldn’t have time for such nonesense.

That’s the problem with young people of today. Misplaced priorities. The more involved you are in social media fads and news, the less likely you are to make it in life. Fact!!!

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tranquility2345: 6:35am On Jun 13, 2022
Redpill and PUA tactics are now money making ventures. Men and even women are now using this format to cash out. Men are writing books to sell to idiots while women are not wanting to be left out. Also writing books and opening YouTube channels for senseless fools to follow and help them cash out.

Any man that buys a redpill or PUA book is an idiot. Any man that follows a man on social media to learn about redpill and PUA tactics is a bigger idiot. You follow a woman to learn redpill and PUA tactics, you are the biggest idiot angry

Life is too short and woman matter no hard like that as these con artists want you to believe. As a young man, focus squarely on building your life and forget women completely if you are broke. Make something of your life and then use your common sense in dealings with women. All na brain work and not rocket science o. No fall mugu to con artists on top redpill matter. A word is enough for the wise.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tranquility2345: 6:43am On Jun 13, 2022
Any man that comes to this thread to seek relationship advice is an idiot! This thread is full of losers - porn addicts, olosho addicts, chronic masturbators, broke asses, foolish teenagers with no ambition, failed yahoo boys, chronic gamblers and beggars. Never do wells that have never had girlfriends due to their low value nature. Those that even managed to have babes lost them because of their low value. And that anger is what has brought them here. How can you expect good advice from such losers? The fact that you even have a babe makes you better than most of these fools. Better use your head o…

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tranquility2345: 6:46am On Jun 13, 2022
All of you praising that Nigerian hating porn addict and chronic masturbator from SA for dropping ‘miseducation’ or whatever it is called are idiots. All of his ‘miseducation’ contents are copy and paste and are all over the internet on PUA and redpill sites!!!!

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by 2dice01: 6:52am On Jun 13, 2022
Cry us a river grin cheesy
Zero fúck is given wink

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MJBOLT: 6:56am On Jun 13, 2022
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 7:06am On Jun 13, 2022
LordAdam16:
It's allowed. You can disagree at well. I always welcome contrasting viewpoints.
Sure.

Proof that we understand and agree with each other.
Sure.

My initial response to Sajmark's post was because of the "Once a simp, always a simp" absolutism within a specific relationship.

I'm cautious about absolutes in TRP because hard as we may try, most guys especially on our side of the pond still want fulfilling romantic relationships. I'd rather they didn't, but it is what it is.
I am not a man of serious relationships and marriage as well. We share the same sentiment; personally, I too won't advise people to go into such, but there wouldn't be a glimmer of disapproval from my end if people have made up there minds to go into such. All I will do is give them useful advice in their journey where I can.

I understand your concern with absolutism. However, don't you think that the mere abiding desire to get entangled in a relationship/marriage can't and won't invalidate or neutralise a red pill truth or principle even if it is an absolute? This is just saying; I am not saying that your points, or that of Sajmàk and I, are invalid. After all, we are all on the same page. The idea in my question can apply in many other areas and my question is a general one separate from the points we made.


I don't believe it is the only way. The only reason why it seems that way is the difficulty in applying TRP. As it goes against the very nature, upbringing, and societal conditioning of the vast majority of men. Men regularly backslide, drop frame, and momentarily fail sh*t tests and the lady subconsciously picks up on that.

Even in a fresh relationship, the dynamics would deteriorate under the same circumstances.

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No b to hurry comot relationship because you finish 'The Rational Man', when you never internalize TRP properly. Wetin you dey avoid for your current relationship go still dey wait you for junction. It is after you've worked on yourself, concretely worked out the errors you made in your current relationship from inception to date, identified what you'd be working towards in a realistic LTR, that you decide whether leaving is for the best.

If you're still doing "baby, come over" in school or as a young adult, lucky you. Now is your time to make mistakes and gain practical experience, if you're planning to get married. In fact, you can change gf every 3 days while building your frame if you so choose, you no send anybody papa.

-Lord
I agree with you 99%. The 1% disagreement is on our divergent views on whether one, usually a grown man, can change his simp/beta status when it has been engraved in a female mind because he has been simping big time, and for a considerable amount of time, that it has become associated with his identity (all these coupled with the fact that he is not known to have been an alpha; of course, it's his pre-redpill period); or he had usually made fatal nonredpill moves that irreversibly informs how he is perceived (eg. crying; getting so emotional and then telling her his problems; wearing a female dress of his own accord and doing feminine sh!t of his own accord, etc) There are some things that a woman can't "unsee." Even if a woman thinks a man is an alpha and he then makes similar mistakes with her when they meet, he will suffer the same thing as he has shown that alphaness isn't truly in him; even if a man was really exhibiting alpha traits and he now makes serious beta/simp mistakes here and there unlike before, he will suffer the same fate and then become a conquered territory and the woman seeks the touch of a new alpha.

It depends, hugely, on how it reflects on his personality and becomes associated with it in her mind. For me, once it is there, it will take a miracle to change that. Nevertheless, while we may agree to disagree, I will still brood over your point.

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I will like to make a clarification for the sake of those who read my previous post since my write-up seemed to have contained nuances due the way I phrased my message. I agree with everything you wrote about starting afresh, in the way you put it. However, when I said "start afresh" I didn't necessarily mean that they must go into a new relationship or marriage. I can understand that it came across as that. Starting afresh, as I intended, meant dealing with new women in the capacity and situation in which one's new red pill awareness can successfully be implemented to yield sexual success to the utmost (most common is spinning plates and dealing with the new women, or woman, that "chose you" on a fùcks level only). It's like a new journey in dealing with women... hence starting afresh.

Starting afresh doesn't mean you start again doing the same old beta/simpish mistakes or expose one's self to situations and conditions that will yield poor results. Even though there will be a good difference going into a new relationship/marriage as a new man with a new woman who doesn't perceive you as simp, the humps and bumps and scenerios you highlighted are spot on and really worth considering. Some other time in the future, discussions will be made on this to discuss it at length.

Finally, one thing you said that is true and worth considering is that people conflate frame with sexual compatibility. Have a great day.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lordcassy: 7:09am On Jun 13, 2022
CaveAdullam:
Happy birthday, daddy Ubunja. Long live you!

Cc. Herbsworks, Hedgefunds, smartb0y, lordcassy, et al., hope you guys are doing fine.

Uncle Ichidodo...let me not talk. How are you?

Thanks bro.. I'm doing fine...na work carry me dey go...hope you are good? And happy birthday ubunja

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Regex: 7:49am On Jun 13, 2022
luminouz:
That Kelly babe made one full grown nigha do TikTok for 10 hours waiting for her to come online. Dude said he won't stop till she joins him online and when she did,after 10 hours...dude(with a nose ring), behaved like a fuqin crybaby. I was ashamed for naija men.


How in hell did naija men become such for fuq sakes?

I'm angry right now
Wait, hold up, dude waited for 10hrs to chat with another human?

This Kelly babe no reach Indian babes and half cast weh we deh see here for London.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MJBOLT: 8:07am On Jun 13, 2022
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luvyaself95(m): 8:08am On Jun 13, 2022
luminouz:
That Kelly babe made one full grown nigha do TikTok for 10 hours waiting for her to come online. Dude said he won't stop till she joins him online and when she did,after 10 hours...dude(with a nose ring), behaved like a fuqin crybaby. I was ashamed for naija men.


How in hell did naija men become such for fuq sakes?

I'm angry right now
is it not that guy that was singing for the TikTok girl you're talking about

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Maxxim: 8:09am On Jun 13, 2022
luminouz:
That Kelly babe made one full grown nigha do TikTok for 10 hours waiting for her to come online. Dude said he won't stop till she joins him online and when she did,after 10 hours...dude(with a nose ring), behaved like a fuqin crybaby. I was ashamed for naija men.


How in hell did naija men become such for fuq sakes?
I'm angry right now
Funny asf cheesy

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