Is that how it feels to be the only kid of a mother when your step mum have several kids? My mum is actually the 2nd wife, but they divorced when they realized the BIBLE was against polygamy.

My step siblings always sideline me.Now I'm in America and my uncle's family are sidelining me.

Was I born to be sidelined?

Let me pretend like I have a solution: pray.

Send who send you.

You may even marry and your wife will sideline you for the kids too.

So learn to sideline too

You don get time for yourself finish come dey get time for who no get your time?

I know America can be very boring but you can still make something out of the boredom.

How about going into vlogging and make some cool cash?
Better still, get multiple jobs to keep you busy.

See young man,this is the time to take your mothers family serious and even if it means to change your name to your mothers maiden name because even in death,no one would ever see u as theirs.

The earlier u know this,the better for u. There are few God sent uncles in Nigeria but I have only encountered more wicked ones than the good ones.
"Sha no let them see u kill"

Goodluck to u.

I understand that you want to feel belonged, to feel loved and wanted by your family(everyone does), but try to focus on yourself and on people who truly appreciate you.

Make friends with people who will inspire, motivate, and propel you into making something good of yourself.

Don't make yourself available to people who don't value you.
You're valuable.

Your wholesomeness within is of God. Nobody can give you that.

Sometimes, we get friends who are better than family members.

Love yourself and others but don't force of 'want ' you.
When they see you doing well, they will 'need' you.


Love and light.

ObamaMessi:
My step siblings always sideline me.Now I'm in America and my uncle's family are sidelining me.

Was I born to be sidelined?

Care to explain further exactly what you mean by being sidelined?

ObamaMessi:
Is that how it feels to be the only kid of a mother when your step mum have several kids? My mum is actually the 2nd wife, but they divorced when they realized the BIBLE was against polygamy.

My step siblings always sideline me.Now I'm in America and my uncle's family are sidelining me.

Was I born to be sidelined?

please can I pm you?

Nobodyany1:
please can I pm you?

Yes, do u live here in Houston?

ObamaMessi:
Is that how it feels to be the only kid of a mother when your step mum have several kids? My mum is actually the 2nd wife, but they divorced when they realized the BIBLE was against polygamy.

My step siblings always sideline me.Now I'm in America and my uncle's family are sidelining me.

Was I born to be sidelined?

It's just envy and nothing else

So take it easy with them and you have to decide either to be I dentified with your mother family's or your father family's

In all, am glad you are abroad plan for your self on how to settle down early to start having your own family

As for your father's family, trade with caution don't let them use your head to settle whatever issues they have among themselves

Lastly mind what you will be telling or discussing with anyone of them that calls you, they must not know too much of you

If you are in Nigeria, selling just phone charger and phone cover on a barrow, they are done with you long ago because you won't have value