ibechris:



When e reach ur turn we go know how far.

Note. I am not a poor man like u my brother.

Try dey calm down.

Ishilove:

Guy, I once worked in a place where one of my clients had 7 kids and all 7 were attending private schools, from university to the secondary school. Babcock Uni, Covenant Uni, private boarding schools...you name them. The kids were well behaved and responsible and the man was meeting up with his responsibilities.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with having many children as long as you can meet up with the financial responsibilities.

Apparently your parents cannot, so it has become a problem to you, your siblings and them. Give birth according to your capacity. The person I work for has just two kids even though he has the capacity to have up to five, but he said he wants to give them the very best quality of life so he stopped at two. Your parents should have stopped waaaaaaay before the eight child popped out

care4you:
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Internet22:
Omo life hasn't be the same, Imaging the the first child being just 22 and already have 7 other siblings behind him, sad


No offense, Omo yur parent dey nack o

ibechris:
At 39 years old...I have even stopped giving birth. My 3 children are ok for me.

I don't expect money from them when they grow up but parental care.

The only thing I owe them is financial education and interestingly,formal education which I know is just to brace them up.

Finally,I agree with u that those who have few children do not know what those with many children are going through.
Times have changed many children no longer amount to blessing but more poverty upon poverty.

This is the time for us to all wake up and do what is right.

thebosstrevor1:


There is everything wrong with giving birth to much children.

It is not good financially, emotionally and health wise on both couple.

If the bread winner dies, that is the beginning of suffering especially if no savings were left by the dead man.

FERNANDEZISBACK:

You mistake me for that woman..

medropoly:


Oga I dey very sure say u Jo hussle reach me... Situations turn me to father, alaye just no dey talk rubbish

care4you:
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medropoly:
Damn.. Having plenty siblings is the beginning of your endless suffering as a senior child. Am saying this from experience...
Damn... Just imagine how having plenty children has changed the whole scenario of the family life,.
The mother becomes a ruthless nagging woman and verbally abusing her children
Father tends to shy away from his responsibilities.,
Children fight and disrespect each other constantly..
Verbal and physical abuse becomes the order of the day..
Parent fighting each other in front of kids..

Damn... How I wish when she gave birth to the forth child she stopped giving birth as she promised, but instead she added four more children to the squad.. Giving bullshit stories of "Na God dey give pikin, maybe Na dis one God go use change my story" and bla bla bla

Omo life hasn't be the same, Imaging the the first child being just 22 and already have 7 other siblings behind him,

Cooking and eating of food Na....... , let me don't even go there

Una wey una mama no born plenty pikin no knw Wetin God do for una

thebosstrevor1:


There is everything wrong with giving birth to much children.

It is not good financially, emotionally and health wise on both couple.

If the bread winner dies, that is the beginning of suffering especially if no savings were left by the dead man.

uthlaw:
What the Bleep...alaye comot go husstle if not hungry go kill you ooo!

Mariangeles:


Even after giving them good education?

chuksman86: Now I have another forum to go anytime nairaland mess with me

FERNANDEZISBACK:
English pls..

VeryWickedMan:
Aha
This was why I killed my parents and 5 of my siblings so that I can have peace of mind.

seriously?

Ishilove:

I wonder o. If 3 kids are too many then I wonder what they will say about the OP's folks. Abeg make everybody born wetin their pocket fit carry, no be to dey dictate to people how many to born.

decatalyst:



Lamentations with lots of whining.


Bro, pray for God's blessings, you can fill the gaps and change the story.

Look beyond what you see now.

Michelle55:
Interesting! I would give anything to have a sibling or two meanwhile, this op is lamenting of having too many siblings This life no just balance jare.

medropoly:
Damn.. Having plenty siblings is the beginning of your endless suffering as a senior child. Am saying this from experience...
Damn... Just imagine how having plenty children has changed the whole scenario of the family life,.
The mother becomes a ruthless nagging woman and verbally abusing her children
Father tends to shy away from his responsibilities.,
Children fight and disrespect each other constantly..
Verbal and physical abuse becomes the order of the day..
Parent fighting each other in front of kids..

Damn... How I wish when she gave birth to the forth child she stopped giving birth as she promised, but instead she added four more children to the squad.. Giving bullshit stories of "Na God dey give pikin, maybe Na dis one God go use change my story" and bla bla bla

Omo life hasn't be the same, Imaging the the first child being just 22 and already have 7 other siblings behind him,

Cooking and eating of food Na....... , let me don't even go there

Una wey una mama no born plenty pikin no knw Wetin God do for una