thebosstrevor1:


The op wrote about the emotional situation in his family.

When there are màny children in the family, if the man is not financially capable, it could send him into a stae of depression and might turn the woman into a nagging woman as the op stated.

HELLASJ:

Who be this
E sure me say na this person get this moniker @VerywickedGoat

medropoly:
Damn.. Having plenty siblings is the beginning of your endless suffering as a senior child. Am saying this from experience...
Damn... Just imagine how having plenty children has changed the whole scenario of the family life,.
The mother becomes a ruthless nagging woman and verbally abusing her children
Father tends to shy away from his responsibilities.,
Children fight and disrespect each other constantly..
Verbal and physical abuse becomes the order of the day..
Parent fighting each other in front of kids..

Damn... How I wish when she gave birth to the forth child she stopped giving birth as she promised, but instead she added four more children to the squad.. Giving bullshit stories of "Na God dey give pikin, maybe Na dis one God go use change my story" and bla bla bla

Omo life hasn't be the same, Imaging the the first child being just 22 and already have 7 other siblings behind him,

Cooking and eating of food Na....... , let me don't even go there

Una wey una mama no born plenty pikin no knw Wetin God do for una

dopeboislim:


Let's make this teamonechild together

medropoly:
Damn.. Having plenty siblings is the beginning of your endless suffering as a senior child. Am saying this from experience...
Damn... Just imagine how having plenty children has changed the whole scenario of the family life,.
The mother becomes a ruthless nagging woman and verbally abusing her children
Father tends to shy away from his responsibilities.,
Children fight and disrespect each other constantly..
Verbal and physical abuse becomes the order of the day..
Parent fighting each other in front of kids..

Damn... How I wish when she gave birth to the forth child she stopped giving birth as she promised, but instead she added four more children to the squad.. Giving bullshit stories of "Na God dey give pikin, maybe Na dis one God go use change my story" and bla bla bla

Omo life hasn't be the same, Imaging the the first child being just 22 and already have 7 other siblings behind him,

Cooking and eating of food Na....... , let me don't even go there

Una wey una mama no born plenty pikin no knw Wetin God do for una

medropoly:


Shey Na Latin be this ko... Oloburuku

medropoly:


Shey Na Latin be this ko... Oloburuku

tensazangetsu20:


Rich people aren't also allowed to have kids indiscriminately. The carbon footprint won't reduce If rich people have plenty kids. People should reason before they do things

meobizy:
The parents and older children should get employment. If the parents had jobs they won't find the time to create many children.

ibechris:
At 39 years old...I have even stopped giving birth. My 3 children are ok for me.

I don't expect money from them when they grow up but parental care.

The only thing I owe them is financial education and interestingly,formal education which I know is just to brace them up.

Finally,I agree with u that those who have few children do not know what those with many children are going through.
Times have changed many children no longer amount to blessing but more poverty upon poverty.

This is the time for us to all wake up and do what is right.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
English pls..

Jmichael1:
Omoh i tink say na only me dey experience dis tin...

to be 1st child cum be lyk curse again..

omoh the tin dn tire me ooh....

Evolutionlove:


Personally If I am to become a dictator. Any Poor Couple who bear more than One Child will both be sentenced to death by electrocution..

Freelane33:
God will help you through brother . It’s not easy

Tranquility2345:

cavreek:
Ur parents are obedient following the word that says 'be fruitful and multiply'

ibechris:
At 39 years old...I have even stopped giving birth. My 3 children are ok for me.

I don't expect money from them when they grow up but parental care.

The only thing I owe them is financial education and interestingly,formal education which I know is just to brace them up.

Finally,I agree with u that those who have few children do not know what those with many children are going through.
Times have changed many children no longer amount to blessing but more poverty upon poverty.

This is the time for us to all wake up and do what is right.

thebosstrevor1:


Yeah, it doesn't work like that.

Starting a business might actually destroy your life. You are alone, depressed and living on the edge

Fact is that, having a job is more stable than having a business.

Ishilove:

Guy, I once worked in a place where one of my clients had 7 kids and all 7 were attending private schools, from university to the secondary school. Babcock Uni, Covenant The kids were well behaved and responsible and the man was meeting up with his responsibilities.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with having many children as long as you can meet up with the financial responsibilities.

Apparently your parents cannot, so it has become a problem to you, your siblings and them. Give birth according to your capacity. The person I work for has just two kids even though he has the capacity to have up to five, but he said he wants to give them the very best quality of life so he stopped at two. Your parents should have stopped waaaaaaay before the eight child popped out

Ishilove:

Guy, I once worked in a place where one of my clients had 7 kids and all 7 were attending private schools, from university to the secondary school. Babcock Uni, Covenant Uni, private boarding schools...you name them. The kids were well behaved and responsible and the man was meeting up with his responsibilities.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with having many children as long as you can meet up with the financial responsibilities.

Apparently your parents cannot, so it has become a problem to you, your siblings and them. Give birth according to your capacity. The person I work for has just two kids even though he has the capacity to have up to five, but he said he wants to give them the very best quality of life so he stopped at two. Your parents should have stopped waaaaaaay before the eight child popped out

Kobojunkie:
I am a first child and I don't feel cursed nor did I suffer as OP did. Why? My parents weren't anyway like OP'S parents in this.

Jesse25:
Am d only son of my dad which I had a junior bro but God knows better ...

VeryWickedMan:
Aha
This was why I killed my parents and 5 of my siblings so that I can have peace of mind.

candidbabe:
So your parents went on a knacking spree

Ebonygeek:
I swear Op, you are on point. Me wey be woman, I know the kind pressure I dey feel to earn. I nor even sure say I won born children. I nor come this life come suffer jare

Jmichael1:
its bcus u were born with a silver spoon....

Limassol:
Carbon footprint has more to do with the choices people make(e.g whether they use renewable sources of electricity, cleaner meaner of transportation such as adopting EV cars , adopting a plant-based diet and so on) than the number of children they have. To make my point clearer, African countries combined contribute less than a tenth of global warming despite their mammoth and burgeoning population, while the US with a quarter of that population generate far higher.