Greisen:
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[b]you dey peep kpekus abi</sup>

Greisen:
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Only God knows wetin dem don discuss about you</sup>

amakanancy:
For it to be noticed, that means you must have been looking at her inappropriately! You should respect the man, his wife and yourself. Unfortunately, you have reduced your reputation..

Deepocean:
If not that you are enjoying what you are seeing which is causing your continuous going to visit your friend and his wife every now and then in order to feed your fantasy.

You should have respected the privacy of other people the day your friend corrected his wife to cover herself up in your presence.

That is an indirect way of communicating to you, but you pretended as if you didn't understand the language tone.

Stop making your friend's wife uncomfortable with your presence, you can visit and greet in any place with enough space where there won't be reason for directly facing her.

Try to understand body language that whenever a lady is adjusting herself in your presence, she is sensing that you are looking into her sensitive parts which she is not comfortable with.

If I may ask you, do you expect your friend's wife not to adjust herself whenever her sensitive part is exposed in your presence or are you expecting her to give you a green light by exposing herself to you as you are fantasizing?

Don't mistaken her accommodation for green light

Greisen:
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[b]No matter how hard you try your eyes must always go there
Na to just start avoiding them maka temptation</sup>

kakaaa77:
but, really what are you going there to do? let's be honest don't you know what the call privacy..if I'm you I'll stop going there and try to look for somewhere else

amakanancy:
For it to be noticed, that means you must have been looking at her inappropriately! You should respect the man, his wife and yourself. Unfortunately, you have reduced your reputation..

underpinna:


Thank you for your input. But I don't go there for looking and I won't do that.
Life is funny sha. You no go understand me.
But I will cut off my going there.
I stopped going there before until the husband started calling for Crypto business. But I think I'll stop going there again from now.
I have never for a day had any negative thoughts towards her, never.

But, How do I prevent this from happening to other women, single or not?
Abi na to stay away from woman wey no be my bani?

VirileNelly2420:
Lol... Dats Peeping Tom.

Well, it's usually discomforting esp wen dey start making unnecessary adjustments owning to ur presence. It does make me embarrassed, and sometimes partly offended. Why make me look like a pervert?

kakaaa77:
but, really what are you going there to do? let's be honest don't you know what the call privacy..if I'm you I'll stop going there and try to look for somewhere else

Ardar:
This is one the reasons why I hate wearing skirts and short gowns, so uncomfortable especially when sitting down.

Op is not saying the whole truth, for her to consciously adjust herself means he has been looking at her fresh thighs before she noticed him and was uncomfortable, try and focus on her face most preferably her eyes while having a conversation.

I know op will find it uncomfortable if a lady was staring at his bulge while speaking with him.

Silentgroper:
What's fresh abt a married woman's thigh

Ardar:


If the thighs weren't fresh op wouldn't have been looking at it

Greisen:
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[b]you dey peep kpekus abi</sup>

Connected1:
At a time, a female neighbour of mine that got pregnant out of wedlock was sitting outside and I sat down at a distance opposite her thinking of how to get money to better my life.

Suddenly she said out loud, lenon(imaginary name) your eyes don full oh, I was surprised, I looked backwards and sideways but I realized it was just me and her, then she said, nor be my Kpekus you dae look since, I was marvelled and scared at the same time. It was at that time I knew she was pregnant, normally I don't notice people on a good day.

Since then I kept my distance and didn't even greet her till she delivered a baby girl, then I gifted the baby monetary gifts then I congratulated her for not aborting the baby, about a year after she needed funds and she met her brother's friend but he requested for sex, then she came to me and pleaded that I assist her, I gave her the money and she was singing praises to me then she narrated how her brother's friend wanted sex for money.

I just smiled and let her be, she greets me everytime she sees me till I left that compound, perversion is not my thing, I can be weird with my approach by saying I want sex but I can't be spying on you.

Some women don't know how to sit properly, it may not be your fault, sometimes the things I see inside those laps make me find the nearest shop to buy TomTom sweet so that I don't vomit.

Stop going to your friend's shop, you could meet at a bar or quiet spot where you can do whatever you guys do.

Elvisage:
Why is no one talking about how some ladies intentionally put on very short and revealing dresses just to seduce men.any lady who puts on long and well covered dresses won't have to be adjusting her dress every now and then.