Traditionally, men are seen as the head of the family, thereby bearing the cost of rent, feeding and clothing.

Listen to peoples view on the topic


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UxAA8UOwkiE

RoyalRoy

fabinfos:
Traditionally, men are seen as the head of the family, thereby bearing the cost of rent, feeding and clothing.

Do you hold her to that which she never agreed to?

Or do circumstances automagically change the man's status from "head of family" to partner/possible dependent in such a case?

Selfish women have this proverb : "My husband's money is our money , but my money is my money ".

Why should she?



Since a woman brings nothing to the table, she shouldn't.




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A man, a family one at that, MUST not fail to shelter, feed and clothe his family, and yes, pay for his child(ren)'s education. But should he encounter some difficulties, he should look for funds or assistance elsewhere, but not seek it from his wife.

postmann:
A man, a family one at that, MUST not fail to shelter, feed and clothe his family, and yes, pay for his child(ren)'s education. But should he encounters some difficulties, he should source funds and assistance elsewhere, but not seek it from his wife.

Is that so?A man should run into debts or even do illegal things when he has a wife who works?

thorpido:
Is that so?A man should run into debts or even do illegal things when he has a wife who works?

He doesn't have to DO illegal things.

Those are fundamentals that a man ought to be able to provide by himself.

And should the wife work, well good for them both. But it's entirely up to her to decide if she wants to assist.

Why not? - provided that it's strictly and centered on "Should The Woman Pay Rent If Husband Is Not Financially Stable?"

If he has, however, always been of the mindset and school of thought that promote sharing every bill equally, rather than each volitionally, intuitively, and selflessly doing what is necessary at any given time, even in his moment of abundance just because of some ideological nonsense he practices, if I were her, I would definitely not pay, but if I do, it will simply be because I want to.

postmann:
A man, a family one at that, MUST not fail to shelter, feed and clothe his family, and yes, pay for his child(ren)'s education. But should he encounters some difficulties, he should look for funds or assistance elsewhere, but not seek it from his wife.

Be like say that "Head of family" crown na do or die e be so.

Very unrealistic.

The things misogyny will make y’all say

postmann:


He doesn't have to DO illegal things.

Those are fundamentals that a man ought to be able to provide by himself.

And should the wife works , well good for them both. But it's entirely up to her to decide if she wants to assist.

cococandy:
Very unrealistic.

The things misogyny will make y’all say

Most probably it's dinner time for you and I trust your culinary skill makes your dining table one of the most favourite spots in your home. They probably tap their fingers on the table in an excited anticipation while waiting for you to turn up with the HOME MADE goodies from YOUR kitchen.

Hubby provides while you make the home. You wouldn't switch roles for anything, social media feminist rants regardless.

Tell me more since you know my finances so well.

Pray tell, which bridge or incomplete building do you think I’ll move into if I end up being the one to provide solely for my family.

I mean according to your logic, I’ll sooner be homeless than pay for my family’s upkeep. No?

postmann:


Most probably it's dinner time for you and I trust your culinary skill makes your dining table one of the most favourite spots in your home. They probably tap their fingers on the table in an excited anticipation while waiting for you to turn up with the HOME MADE goodies from YOUR kitchen.

Hubby provides while you make the home. You wouldn't switch roles for anything, social media feminist rants regardless.

Kobojunkie:


Be like say that "Head of family" crown na do or die e be so.

It's called knowing your basic responsibility and ensuring you don't fail.

cococandy:
Tell me more since you know my finances so well.

Pray tell, which bridge or incomplete building do you think I’ll move into if I end up being the one to provide solely for my family.

I mean according to your logic, I’ll sooner be homeless than pay for my family’s upkeep. No?

The probables are your creation and yours to feed. Hardly interested.

It's past midnight here and I'm late for the sheets already.

Happy dinner and please keep that charming smile going each time you welcome hubby home from work while helping him with the briefcase and undo his tie . A rare darling of a wife you.

Bye.

Oh the probables are not yours to create but you’re sitting on your fat ass and small waist telling me what’s obtainable in my life?

postmann:


The probables are your creation and yours to feed. Hardly interested.

It's past midnight here and I'm late for the sheets already.

Happy dinner and please keep that charming smile going each time you welcome hubby home from work while helping him with the briefcase and undo his tie . A rare darling of a wife you.

Bye.

fabinfos:
Traditionally, men are seen as the head of the family, thereby bearing the cost of rent, feeding and clothing.

Listen to peoples view on the topic


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UxAA8UOwkiE

RoyalRoy

There is nothing wrong with a wife assisting her husband to pay house rent

But there is every thing wrong when a man doesn't want to hustle to take up his responsibilities as a husband simply because the wife is working

Some men does that and guess what

Their wives are always growing higher

Don't ask me why

God blesses whomever that is willing to carry responsibilities at home

postmann:
A man, a family one at that, MUST not fail to shelter, feed and clothe his family, and yes, pay for his child(ren)'s education. But should he encounter some difficulties, he should look for funds or assistance elsewhere, but not seek it from his wife.

Your opinion.

Wait until u get married...no be mouth � na time and situation dey determine how far. Just pray make Nigeria no happen to u.

doggedfighter:
Why should she?



Since a woman brings nothing to the table, she shouldn't.




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Wonderful, then they can both live under the bridge when the landlord chases them away.

The man will become househelp if his wife pay their rent, most Nigerian women are Delusional, they allow their looks and finance to cloud their thought and attitude.

ibechris:



Your opinion.

Wait until u get married...no be mouth � na time and situation dey determine how far. Just pray make Nigeria no happen to u.

Wait? Why should I? Are there no males you know or at least from within your extended family who provide these basic needs for their families?

Your opinion, though defeatist in nature.

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Klass99:


Fat ass and small waist, off me completely . You've got a mouth on you Coco.

How exactly does a male man (not a transgendered one) have a fat ass and small waist?

I am trying to imagine it but it's not working. I just end up smiling and shaking my head.

He’s just pulling “facts” out of his ass. It must be a large curvy ass to hold such a staggering amount of misinformation.

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Man has suffered a lot o.
Going by scriptural standards, they are suppose to work, though mostly from home and on less risky tasks. The man did the heavy liftings in the bible while the women kept the vine and home mostly but joined their husbands for harvest. That makes women to be productive and in an age where so many things can exchanged for money, I expect a woman to be open to the idea of financially supporting whatever noble thing the husband is trying to do.

RepoMan007:
Man has suffered a lot o.
Going by scriptural standard, they are suppose to work, though mostly from home and on less risky tasks. The man did the heavy liftings in the bible whole the women kept the vine and home mostly but joint their husbands for harvest. That makes women to productive and in an age where so many things can exchanged for money, I expect a woman to open to the idea of financially supporting whatever noble thing the husband is trying to do.

What scripture have to you such standards abeg! Why una dey like to embellish using scripture?

If she has the money, why not?

Is he the only one living in the house?

ibechris:



Your opinion.

Wait until u get married...no be mouth � na time and situation dey determine how far. Just pray make Nigeria no happen to u.

as in ehn just people who have no experience would just come here to drop comment like they are mad, just imagine what that idiot is typing.

He doesn't even know if he would be able to feed himself in the future not to talk of feeding a family. Some people just feel that any man that finds it difficult to feed his family is lazy, forgetting that circumstances occurs. Circumstances a common man can do nothing about, but just needs the support of his family and close friends to bounce back.

frozen70:


There is nothing wrong with a wife assisting her husband to pay house rent

But there is every thing wrong when a man doesn't want to hustle to take up his responsibilities as a husband simply because the wife is working

Some men does that and guess what

Their wives are always growing higher

Don't ask me why

God blesses whomever that is willing to carry responsibilities at home

Wisdom. I believe you are married, you should be. With the way you think. You have a pure heart.

I pity all these ladies saying nonsense here, i think that is why most of you easily gets dumped during relationship. Bitterness clouds success. And could lead to depression.

princeabdul:
The man will become househelp if his wife pay their rent, most Nigerian women are Delusional, they allow their looks and finance to cloud their thought and attitude.

So a woman should take up the mantle of financial provider/head of the home, and also do the house chores, while the man sits his fat lazy ass somewhere doing nothing abi? You are delusional

And what is wrong with a man being the househelp of his own home? Are you doing the chores for a stranger or your own family? Something is wrong with you men... sincerely.

JovialJune:



So a woman should take up the mantle of financial provider/head of the home, and also do the house chores, while the man sits his fat lazy ass somewhere doing nothing abi? You are delusional

And what is wrong with a man being the househelp of his own home? Are you doing the chores for a stranger or your own family? Something is wrong with you men... sincerely.

you were raised by a man do the dishes and bathe the babies while the woman is asleep?

toujurs:
Wisdom. I believe you are married, you should be. With the way you think. You have a pure heart.

I pity all these ladies saying nonsense here, i think that is why most of you easily gets dumped during relationship. Bitterness clouds success. And could lead to depression.

Yes am married and that's exactly what I do uptil now and I did not regret it because I know what it is to be responsible

When you pay family bills, you feel a sense of responsibility and guess what, women who supports their husband's never lack because God already knows what you do with the money

I don't believe in leaving all for the man

What if it happens that he can't provide again,

Where will the woman starts from at that point

Of course it will be a catastrophy for the family to survive

That's why if you want your hand to be clean, wash with both hands