Olunmercy56:


Then he should send the woman out and be having sex with his sisters

SerikiFulani:
Some men do fvck up big time

How can you leave your wife here in nigeria and travel out of the country ...No wonder a lotta married women are fucking around.

OP , your husband's sister is there to monitor you...They know you might want to fvck around and they put her there to keep an eye on you.

If you get hot now,how would you handle such situations?Would you cheat ? Or would you get intimacy gadgets?

I'll love to know @OP

homealone00:


You no get sense, am very sure you are the type that women beats at home

viceddy95:
How which she was your sister, will you do same thing to her even though she spends years there..
No single respect for your husband's family

Madam make peace with your in-laws, don't come to social media looking for support in the name of advice....

Your husband just traveled abroad and you want to start turning him against his family already...

Connected1:

She can order for intimacy gadgets.

He went to hustle to provide a better life for them.

She's just needs freedom to continue hoeing.

Olarhhh:
I and my husband live in a mini flat (a room and parlor self contain) and since the very day we got the place early last year, his younger brother has been living with us because he fought with their father and my husband told him to come over to his place (we weren't married then but live together) so he continued living with us till he went to school last year November, and we were both happy that we can finally have our own privacy.

Meanwhile my husband has a very nosy family, different family member keep coming to visit Everytime and spending up to 2 weeks until I change attitude to them and make them leave.

Fast forward to December, a month after his brother left, the parents called to let his sister move with us, hubby declined but his family won't budge so he accepted.

Now hubby has travelled abroad and the sister wouldn't leave, I don't know what to do, she doesn't do anything here and she's rude. I want her to leave, I've tried stopping all the comfort she enjoys when her brother was around.

Please help

Olarhhh:
I updated the story under the comments since questions keep coming
I don't have any problem with my inlaw, infact staying around when my husband left is best but he left a lot of loan to be paid and he hasn't secured a job over there yet and their mother won't let me take her as my own sister but my inlaw,,, it's inconvenience..
A sister would understand the situation, some inlaws will also, but not my own inlaw, that's why I need space
Her being around is extra mouth to feed

Olarhhh:
I and my husband live in a mini flat (a room and parlor self contain) and since the very day we got the place early last year, his younger brother has been living with us because he fought with their father and my husband told him to come over to his place (we weren't married then but live together) so he continued living with us till he went to school last year November, and we were both happy that we can finally have our own privacy.

Meanwhile my husband has a very nosy family, different family member keep coming to visit Everytime and spending up to 2 weeks until I change attitude to them and make them leave.

Fast forward to December, a month after his brother left, the parents called to let his sister move with us, hubby declined but his family won't budge so he accepted.

Now hubby has travelled abroad and the sister wouldn't leave, I don't know what to do, she doesn't do anything here and she's rude. I want her to leave, I've tried stopping all the comfort she enjoys when her brother was around.

Please help

SerikiFulani:


Hmmm......No wonder a lot of married women whose husbands are out of the country are fvcking around....

I have fvcked at least five of such women in my estate

viceddy95:
How which she was your sister, will you do same thing to her even though she spends years there..
No single respect for your husband's family

Madam make peace with your in-laws, don't come to social media looking for support in the name of advice....

Your husband just traveled abroad and you want to start turning him against his family already...

Olarhhh:
I and my husband live in a mini flat (a room and parlor self contain) and since the very day we got the place early last year, his younger brother has been living with us because he fought with their father and my husband told him to come over to his place (we weren't married then but live together) so he continued living with us till he went to school last year November, and we were both happy that we can finally have our own privacy.

Meanwhile my husband has a very nosy family, different family member keep coming to visit Everytime and spending up to 2 weeks until I change attitude to them and make them leave.

Fast forward to December, a month after his brother left, the parents called to let his sister move with us, hubby declined but his family won't budge so he accepted.

Now hubby has travelled abroad and the sister wouldn't leave, I don't know what to do, she doesn't do anything here and she's rude. I want her to leave, I've tried stopping all the comfort she enjoys when her brother was around.

Please help

Connected1:

The OP's husband is a smart ass.

He understands how most women are wired especially the ones with body counts (above 1).

If she complains about this to her husband, she may lose her marriage instantly, he may just forget about her and marry over there, not all men are Simpsons.

The best is to complain about the bad attitudes of his sister so she can change, but I know she's lying.

She should get intimacy gadgets(dildos), I have an Aunt who has them in her house, her husband has been overseas for 2 years now leaving her with 2 kids.

sisisioge:
Matter wey you for don resolve before the dude travelled. Na him guest, not yours. As he was leaving, she leaves with him.

At this point it is very dicey o. Best thing is to move from the house or keep endeavouring. Families like that are very silly! It is not enough that husband and wife are crammed in a tiny apartment, they had to feston a third party on them. And aunty 3rd party too no well. It is well jare

Olarhhh:
I and my husband live in a mini flat (a room and parlor self contain) and since the very day we got the place early last year, his younger brother has been living with us because he fought with their father and my husband told him to come over to his place (we weren't married then but live together) so he continued living with us till he went to school last year November, and we were both happy that we can finally have our own privacy.

Meanwhile my husband has a very nosy family, different family member keep coming to visit Everytime and spending up to 2 weeks until I change attitude to them and make them leave.

Fast forward to December, a month after his brother left, the parents called to let his sister move with us, hubby declined but his family won't budge so he accepted.

Now hubby has travelled abroad and the sister wouldn't leave, I don't know what to do, she doesn't do anything here and she's rude. I want her to leave, I've tried stopping all the comfort she enjoys when her brother was around.

Please help

omeira:
Op olarhhh, I'm guessing you're Yoruba and calling her aunty. Mistake number one. Henceforth call her her name, please that aunty bs is nonsense.

Sit her down. Let your hubby know you'd have to tell his relative there's no money since they're dumb to notice it from your living conditions. Let her know both of you are living on your own wage. So it'd have to be quid pro quo. She can't be useless. I assume she's not working so totally dependent on you. She does house chores, you feed her. She can't, you just live your life as a single person living alone, take care of your shi.t alone, clean your house and feed yourself alone. I have my sister living with me and she knows how hard it is feeding both of us. If anything, she makes it easier helping around the house. I can't be working daily to come home and still do everything and you just sit doing nothing and expect me to feed you.

No TV subscription. In fact, put it back in the carton and hide , you sold it to feed as per money no dey

Leave no food at home and visit your parents. In fact go there for a month.

Or you change your locks and travel to your parents for a long time. Reason-hubby isn't around and I'm bored and feel better around people that don't disrespect me.

Push comes to shove, you move out and rent a new place when rent expires or even the moment it's unbearable. Move with everything. Furniture and all.

I've lived in in-law houses in my teenage years and was never a burden. Because we saw each other as blood. Not in-laws, blood sisters. And life was and is still beautiful.

Don't be confrontational. Or be. Whatever. And you don't have to pick any calls that will cause you distress

Those saying you're lonely and need company yen yen yen, your parents/friends are company enough. Hell you work, that's enough company cos after work all I need is peace and quiet at home, not a spoilt brat intruding my space.

Those hoodlums saying you want her out to bring a man home, let their wives' highly disrespectful brother live with them for even a week and see them cry blood. Nonsense and ingredients.

Olarhhh:
May you find peace to your frustrated life

ImaIma1:
Nigerian marriages and inlaw wahala. People don't understand that a husband and wife need their space. Having family live with you, especially rude and nosy ones is not advisable.

franchasofficia:
Life no balance sha. While we are looking for people and even crowd to come overcrowd our house, this lady is busy chasing out the ones coming to keep her house busy.




I don't know why black women love to live alone with their hubby and kids alone. The joy of life is having people around.



I wish to have crowd in my house so my boy can have playmates and not feel too lonely.




Op talk to the girl, if she doesn't do chores scold her and teach her. You need company and help.


I just wished I or my wife had younger siblings to flood our house

ImaIma1:
Nigerian marriages and inlaw wahala. People don't understand that a husband and wife need their space. Having family live with you, especially rude and nosy ones is not advisable.

viceddy95:
How which she was your sister, will you do same thing to her even though she spends years there..
No single respect for your husband's family

Madam make peace with your in-laws, don't come to social media looking for support in the name of advice....

Your husband just traveled abroad and you want to start turning him against his family already...

Olarhhh:
I and my husband live in a mini flat (a room and parlor self contain) and since the very day we got the place early last year, his younger brother has been living with us because he fought with their father and my husband told him to come over to his place (we weren't married then but live together) so he continued living with us till he went to school last year November, and we were both happy that we can finally have our own privacy.

Meanwhile my husband has a very nosy family, different family member keep coming to visit Everytime and spending up to 2 weeks until I change attitude to them and make them leave.

Fast forward to December, a month after his brother left, the parents called to let his sister move with us, hubby declined but his family won't budge so he accepted.

Now hubby has travelled abroad and the sister wouldn't leave, I don't know what to do, she doesn't do anything here and she's rude. I want her to leave, I've tried stopping all the comfort she enjoys when her brother was around.

Please help