Please is it a crime to decide not to marry?
My mother have stop receiving anything from me because she insisted I must get married,
Am the only son in the family of 6 girls,am the second child, Am 37 years, there are some certain things that made me not want to get married, ,am living comfortable and don't want to have anything with ladies,
Can't I make decision for my self , I don't need a woman in my life, she always cry anytime I come home that she need grand children,all my sisters have been begging me I don't know what to do,how do I go about this, should I stop coming home? as a matter of fact my sisters always come to my house with their girlfriend and she will tell me ,this one is still single oo.https://www./igboistandfriends/permalink/3305866466311474/?flite=scwspnss

Mtchewwwww.

The reason why you are crying?


FELLOW YOUR HEART.

Bro just get a baby mama atleast that will solve mummy's problem then move on with your life bro, I totally understand your point of not wanting to have anything to do with any lady.

You're on the right track. Your family is trying to lead you astray.

Life is too short to endanger your heart to a Nigerian girl. Get yourself a babymama and enjoy your life.

Adonis86:
Please is it a crime to decide not to marry?
My mother have stop receiving anything from me because she insisted I must get married,
Am the only son in the family of 6 girls,am the second child, Am 37 years, there are some certain things that made me not want to get married, ,am living comfortable and don't want to have anything with ladies,
Can't I make decision for my self , I don't need a woman in my life, she always cry anytime I come home that she need grand children,all my sisters have been begging me I don't know what to do,how do I go about this, should I stop coming home? as a matter of fact my sisters always come to my house with their girlfriend and she will tell me ,this one is still single oo.

E dey for your body, na your own them dey tell you. Do what you have to do my brother, time is not your friend.

You shall not be lonely in life. Build your own family. Your sisters will soon be busy with theirs, have a family you can call your bro. Have a good wife and have your children too.

You can't see what your people are seeing cos you are looking at only one angle. Think about this broadly. If you can afford to take Care of a family, then its time to have them.

Bless you.

As her only son you don't have a choice but to grant her wish!

There re still few good women.. Hardworking and will neva cheat.. Yeah dey exist..... Just look b4 u leap.. Marry... If u have d financial ability.... If any Bleep up divorce am...

We need to stop this attitude of forcing people to do certain things like getting married, giving birth.

I'm 42 years old and I'm not thinking of marriage or giving birth cos it doesn't benefit me...

I have friends who are in their late 40's and who are unmarried and unbothered about it...These are multi millionaires I'm talking about.

Smh

Someone gave birth to you. Try and give birth to another person.

Smiles... Oga go and marry.

Zonefree:
You're on the right track. Your family is trying to lead you astray.

Life is too short to endanger your heart to a Nigerian girl. Get yourself a babymama and enjoy your life.

LoL... Funny. Stop this mbok....

He needs to marry.

LoveNbeloved:
Someone gave birth to you. Try and give birth to another person.

One mustn't give birth through marriage. I can't even advice my enemy to promise a Nigerian girl marriage.

blue01:
Bro just get a baby mama atleast that will solve mummy's problem then move on with your life bro, I totally understand your point of not wanting to have anything to do with any lady.

It's funny and annoying at the same time how some of you males think you're entitled to females you're not committed to, birthing babies for you and wearing her body out in the process, just 'cause you feel like it.
Are y'all OK?

Mariangeles:


It's funny and annoying at the same time how some of you males think you're entitled to females you're not committed to, birthing babies for you and wearing her body out in the process, just 'cause you feel like it.
Are y'all OK?

Hanty.....
.Are you the one getting pregnant?

.Is it your business if he decides to have a baby mama?

.If he says he won't marry your gender is it your business?

.is it by force he must get married?

Now if all your answers is No then you have no business here.

Inside life. Meanwhile... Maybe it's the reverse. Probably girls are not looking your way ni . That's uncle come vex.

blue01:


Hanty.....
.Are you the one getting pregnant?

.Is it your business if he decides to have a baby mama?

.If he says he won't marry your gender is it your business?

.is it by force he must get married?

Now if all your answers is No then you have no business here.

Based on OP's "am living comfortable and don't want to have anything with ladies"......He doesn't need a baby mama but surrogacy as I assume he is financially comfortable.

All he has to do is through a fertility clinic, he gets a surrogate and have the insemination done. Once baby is born, contract ends with the surrogate and he gets to nurture his child himself......he becomes a father while being wife and baby mama free.

Mindlog:


Based on OP's "am living comfortable and don't want to have anything with ladies"......He doesn't need a baby mama but surrogacy as I assume he is financially comfortable.

All he has to do is through a fertility clinic, he gets a surrogate and have the insemination done. Once baby is born, contracts end with the surrogate and he gets to nurture his child himself.

But wait o, this op you sure se you no be ritualist?

blue01:


But wait o, this op you sure se you no be ritualist?

Na now wey them suggest surrogacy you remember to ask questions abi? Good morning.

That is how you guys support each other blindly without asking questions.

Mariangeles:


Na now wey them suggest surrogacy you remember to ask questions abi? Good morning.

That is how you guys support each other blindly without asking questions.

Calm down u too rush.....

blue01:


But wait o, this op you sure se you no be ritualist?

Wetin connect surrogacy and ritualist?

Mindlog:


Wetin connect surrogacy and ritualist?

No not that......OP no wan touch anything woman at all....so I just dey think loud.

SerikiFulani:
We need to stop this attitude of forcing people to do certain things like getting married, giving birth.

I'm 42 years old and I'm not thinking of marriage or giving birth cos it doesn't benefit me...

I have friends who are in their late 40's and who are unmarried and unbothered about it...These are multi millionaires I'm talking about.

Smh

Kinds of dudes I would like to have drinks with (regularly). Living the good life.

blue01:


No not that......OP no wan touch anything woman at all....so I just dey think loud.

When it comes to human sexuality, just as we have men who are gays, we also have those who are gynophobic and those who are outrightly asexual, so it has got nothing to do with being a ritualist.

Adonis86:
Can't I make decision for my self , I don't need a woman in my life, she always cry anytime I come home that she need grand children,all my sisters have been begging me I don't know what to do,how do I go about this, should I stop coming home? as a matter of fact my sisters always come to my house with their girlfriend and she will tell me ,this one is still single oo.https://www./igboistandfriends/permalink/3305866466311474/?flite=scwspnss

If your mother claims she believes in Jesus Christ, and you are yourself a believer, and serious about your stance, then quote from the following passage for her to hear and understand.

12 There are different reasons why some men don’t marry. Some were born without the ability to produce children. Others were made that way later in life. And others have given up marriage because of God’s kingdom. This is for anyone who is able to accept it.” - Matthew 19 vs 12

Quote it at everyone who comes to you on the issue. They are bound to shut up and walk away or risk being seen as being as seeds of the devil.

And don't worry, the verse isn't a curse at all, so stay any fears that should you chance your mind later in life, you will be punished by God or something that ridiculous.

Redpilling gone wrong. I pray your mother doesn’t die thinking of how you are breaking her heart by not getting married.

Poor woman

Idaytesj29:
1. E dey for your body, na your own them dey tell you. Do what you have to do my brother, time is not your friend.
You shall not be lonely in life. Build your own family. Your sisters will soon be busy with theirs, have a family you can call your bro. Have a good wife and have your children too.

2. You can't see what your people are seeing cos you are looking at only one angle. Think about this broadly. If you can afford to take Care of a family, then its time to have them.Bless you.

1. Being lonely in life has little to nothing to do with being married and having babies. Go to your villages and find so many lonely individuals there, most of them surrounded by relatives too.

2. No matter what they see, they can't see or know you better than you can.

bibianna:
As her only son you don't have a choice but to grant her wish!

He has a choice to live his life as he chooses.

LoveNbeloved:
Someone gave birth to you. Try and give birth to another person.

I am sorry but that is the most inane reason to chose to give birth abeg!

The only "son" in the family, na there the problem dey so. It is not a must to marry but it is a must to continue the family name.
So as a rational being, which i think you are, you definitely should know what to do.

Ninejaywon:
The only "son" in the family, na there the problem dey so. It is not a must to marry but it is a must to continue the family name.
So as a rational being, which i think you are, you definitely should know what to do.

If the only son were an imbe_cile, would the mother be in a rush to have him bare her grandkids too?

It is a must to continue the family name, according to which law?

Mindlog:


When it comes to human sexuality, just as we have men who are gays, we also have those who are gynophobic and those who are outrightly asexual, so it has got nothing to do with being a ritualist.

We never stop learning , thanks