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Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by Ndidi2: 6:35pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
bigpicture001:when you are there for a good reason the wife will love you even if ur presence inconvenience them she will understand. but u see those in- laws who are there as entitlement. Who feels this is my brother's house and l can do anything.they disrespect u at Will especially if d husband didn't create boundaries. 6 Likes |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by Ndidi2: 6:58pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
Emma2Seconds:Our last born who has been coming to my house every holiday,l pay for every expenses to come and cool off bc he stays in domitory way back in 2010. He will beat his nephew like say they are his mate l told him this boys are ur children and my brother said l support them and was talking back at me. I couldn't believe it,when l called my mum that l am putting him in d first bus the next morning she told me" my daughter please forgive him"that the boarding is making him behave anyhow. That is my brother o If it is another they will not believe me and they will say l don't like my in- laws Na our last wee l no take play be that o. Some women can be mean l agree but u see some in-laws are from another planet. My husband created boundaries He will always tell me " don't start what u can't finish". This in- laws issues depends on the family. 5 Likes |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by JDSoulwinner: 8:06pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
It's a good idea ![]() Benbisco: |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by Trendylove(f): 8:14pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
Honestly I understand what this OP I Is passing through. Some people will not understand the way some in-laws behavior if you are a good sister in-law or brother in-law then you have no problem living with me. There are some in-laws that have a rubbish entitlement mentality is our brother's house so we will do anything we like and the wife have no say about it. The truth is that if you are good to your brother's wife respect her as you respect your brother do what you are supposed to do in the house then no sane person will want you out excerpt the person is bad naturally. 1 Like |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by Trendylove(f): 8:31pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
My sister's husband people have some kinda rubbish entitlement mentality after all is our brother's house we will do what we like and get away with it. Grown ups that don't hustle always seeing their brother as their bank. He is the second son in a family of 8 but he is the one that caters for all of them matured men and women even the children of his sister's that gave birth at home. Those sisters always condemning and giving commands on how things will be in their brother's house and life. Every week they will be jumping to their brother's house stay for sometime and you know the worst of it they eat like gluttons they can eat a whole pot of food on one sitting they will go to my sister's pot with her consent to dish food even park almost all the meat in the pot you can imagine such people living in the same house with your wife in your absence. |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by Peskid: 9:07pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
This is why courtship is very important, because in courtship all this will be discussed. Well you just have to set boundaries between you and your husband sister. 1 Like |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by ToniBlaize: 9:39pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
It's shouldn't have gotten to this extent privacy really matters.. take it from me..that have experienced it from both ends.. ur husband in the first place shouldn't have allowed this.. people saying you want to turn him against his family don't understand the importance of privacy as a couple.. to me she's just an agent from his family side... She's doing exactly what she was told to do... Ur husband really is the one at fault here.. honestly he is man... His No should be His No... He is a family man now.. his family comes first.... Except he is still a mommy's boy... I can't even Imagine a third party with my girlfriend is around.. talkless of when we now marry.... Our company is enough for both of us.. if i want to mix up with people.. i will travel.. a mini flat for that matter not even a duplex or 3bedroom flat.. if ur husband keeps treating the issue like he is doing.. nothing will change...and don't tell her anything or make any direct approach of sort... it's not your mistake to correct... It will only make his whole family rebel against you.. ur pressure should be on ur husband to handle it.. if he had handled it earlier.. it won't have gotten to this level.. He is a man... He has to learn and understand how his decisions impacts on you... So the solution to this ur problem lies with him... 1 Like |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by bekpo(m): 10:00pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
Olarhhh: Because her brother had traveled abroad, she must leave? I am suspecting u. U r nothing but a cheat. U want her out so u could bring in a man and start promiscuity? U don't feel save with her because u don't have d privacy 2 cheat? Why didn't u feel same when hubby was around? Madam, u have 2 let that lady be. |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by DearGorgeous(f): 10:28pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
Apply wisdom in dealing with the situation, so it wouldn't backfire one day. |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by lilyheaven: 12:16am On Jun 26, 2022 |
So she can’t go out and cheat, even when her husband is around. Is It a most to bring her lover home. You haven’t meet people who enjoy throwing insults on people that did them no harm. Example, imagine you are her sister in-law, you are already calling her a cheat, inside her house, you don’t even have an evidence., it’s painful. bekpo: 2 Likes |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by Mindlog: 4:05am On Jun 26, 2022 |
bekpo: A full blown adult who should have her own life to live, going to live with another woman and a child who lives in a space of 2 rooms, in order to be the "security" and you want me to believe she is mentally okay? 2 Likes |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by bekpo(m): 1:59pm On Jun 26, 2022 |
Mindlog: That woman is a suspect, for her 2 want a space when d hubby is away is a suspect. That's what they do when their hubby traveled out of d country, they bring in another man. In another news, d youngman got d brother's wife pregnant while d brother had traveled outside d country. The twice sex with d cousin's wife produced pregnancy d wicked woman refused 2 terminate. If it where d hubby's brother, i wouldn't bother, but a fellow woman, haba? It's suspicious fa. |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by greenie77: 2:41pm On Jun 26, 2022 |
bekpo: Is she collecting monthly salary from "monitoring" her brother's wife or will she follow her about, when she goes out? |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by lookingfly: 4:25pm On Jun 26, 2022 |
234GT:not at all.....anyone coming would informed on what's on ground that it's two weeks. There is no shying or saying i can't say it her or him. That person will be told the blunt truth in the beginning so that later it wouldn't be a problem. No one from the family of the man or woman should have the right to come say it's my brother's house or sister's house or he's my son or daughter's house. Of your brother or sister or son is married, leave them to enjoy their marriage jare. 1 Like |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by litaninja(m): 9:08pm On Jun 26, 2022 |
She has a family too, how would their home and marriage be if her family members also start turning up? Apply your number 6 na. The couple has their family now, they should be left to forge their lives in peace. viceddy95: 1 Like |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by bekpo(m): 7:35am On Jun 27, 2022 |
greenie77: U r also a suspect! |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by delpee(f): 9:17am On Jun 27, 2022 |
Emma2Seconds: That qualifies the women around you! |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by Emma2Seconds: 9:30am On Jun 27, 2022 |
No woman is around me ok . Am just telling you Unah nature and attitude ok delpee: |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by rita25(f): 9:59am On Jun 27, 2022 |
I FEEL YOUR PAIN MY SISTER I UNDERSTAND WITH YOU. |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by Ojukwu007(m): 1:42pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
viceddy95:Your name is supposed to be Wiseddy95...so much oil on your head. |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by 234GT(m): 5:08am On Jun 28, 2022 |
lookingfly: Perfect |
Re: My In-laws Driving Me Nuts by delpee(f): 9:05pm On Jul 01, 2022 |
Emma2Seconds: You clearly can't comprehend. Wish you well. |
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