guobe:
I has a very close relation that refused his wife from working because he felt if she starts working and earning well she may nolonger regard him. Is it true that when women start having money they nolonger regard their husband.

guobe:
I has a very close relation that refused his wife from working because he felt if she starts working and earning well she may nolonger regard him.Is it true that when women start having money they nolonger regard their husband.

Uzomacharles:
Happens more often especially here in Nigeria

TheStakeHolder:
Bitter truth...

Amotolongbo:
Only an insecure and lazy man would reason like that.

A working wife should bring two things to a reasonable man;

1 financial support in the home
2 A challenge and motivation for a man to work harder to increase his source and level of income


I understand that kind of man won’t like to marry an intelligent lady cos he won’t be able to handle her and think she may be egoistic but a “sit-down-there” kinda woman.

This kinda man will spend all his last kobo on his daughter(s) to be successful in life and be happy that a man isn’t allowing her to utilise the potential she has?

Moreover, don’t some men think of what their daughter(s) will inherit from their mothers after turning their wives to a dummy.I think he has his reasons.once beaten twice shy

FORWARDEVERLY:



That your relation is wise..

Skullano:
Car nah wetin my ex girlfriend first me buy cos I was starting my business newly, you need to see how she started misbehaving ooh but I thank God say man don get two ride now and I always give her the papers to renew for me cos she works with revenue office..

Women are wired in a way that am yet to understand sha.

Samfloxin:
God did not create woman to be greater than man ,that's why whenever they have money more than their husbands,they start misbehaving

toujurs:
These bitches ain't loyal.

Originalsly:
It depends on the woman .... what she saw in you. If she saw you as provider... then if she earns more than you... or earn enough to be independent... then she will misbehave. If you lose your job... she will misbehave... regardless if she is not working either. If you were dogging her then she gets a goof paying job.... doesn't have to be earning more than you... she will misbehave... no cap.

PerfectStranger:
No matter the number of yards of a wife material she is, once she’s earning more, she’ll start misbehaving. It’s inevitable.

RightToReject:
No. However, when a wife, or a husband if it's vice versa, who has a mentality where materialism takes precedence over spirituality, has more money than her husband, especially a feeble-minded husband, she won't have much regard for him.

It always boils down to the mentality in particular and ethical leanings in general of the parties involved.

nokspos:
No two ways about it. once she earn more, your days in the relationship or marriage is numbered, you will just be co parents that lives together. the only way out is to work harder to earn more. The funny thing is that women don't even know them self , they will argue this and even when their changes is obvious to them , they will still argue that they didn't change , it was you that changed.

Skullano:
Car nah wetin my ex girlfriend first me buy cos I was starting my business newly, you need to see how she started misbehaving ooh but I thank God say man don get two ride now and I always give her the papers to renew for me cos she works with revenue office..

Women are wired in a way that am yet to understand sha.

seanwilliam:
I know 99% won’t agree with you but you’re completely right .



Naturally women are hard to control and they don’t have self control ( biblically)..


Women, who don’t contribute anything to you , wey u Dey feed, cloth, and house self Dey give problem not to talk of the one wey Dey bring the most finance to table ..


Personally,
1. I can not marry a woman that’s richer than me.. never!. Par adventure she gets richer after we get married , then she must abide by my rules or out…

I can’t live in a house my wife owns or pays rent
I can’t use my wife car if I don’t own one
I can’t collect money from my wife to establish business , except it’s loan which I will ensure I pay back on or the stipulated date.
I can’t do joint business with my wife where we contribute 50/50… we must have separate businesses and contribute to family..

TOPCRUISE:
Yes o. It's like they curse naija women with that

Omuuvwie:
The man is an enemy of progress, why on Earth will you refuse your wife to work .