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How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by DamnnNiggarr: 5:03pm On Jul 01, 2022 |
My Bossom childhood friend was financially down and needed financial assistance because his landlord was suffocating him with his constant nagging. So he contacted me as his old guy and and told me the situation on ground and requested for financial assistance from me. I didn't hesitate in sending him the money which he summed up with the one he had and cleared his house rent. So, this afternoon, his wife texted me, and in her text, she thanked me for the assistance and requested to pay me a visit and and help me with some of my chores since my wife is in Bayelsa. From the very moment I set my eyes on that text, I haven't been myself knowing fully well that one thing may lead to another during her visit/stay. That my guy is so dear to me and we treat each other with utmost respect so for this reason, I wouldn't like to loose that respect and trust. This woman is anticipating my response, according to her. Please house, how do I discourage her from visiting me in my wife's absence without it looking as if I'm avoiding her? What does she want? Who has been in this type of situation and how did you resolve the issue without creating enmity? 53 Likes 10 Shares
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Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by JovialJune(f): 5:07pm On Jul 01, 2022 |
Smh!!! Someone decided to appreciate your kind gesture by assisting you with house chores knowing your wife is not around, and all your mind went to is sex? What is wrong with some of you men sef? Must your thoughts always be what is between your legs? If you know you are sex starved and can't control yourself when she comes, tell her off straight, don't assume and accuse her baselessly, na church mind she wan use help you. 925 Likes 81 Shares |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by Kobojunkie: 5:08pm On Jul 01, 2022 |
DamnnNiggarr:Why make an issue out of a molehill? ![]() Simply text her back thanking her for her kind offer, informing her that the help is not needed since you have your chores all covered. The end! ![]() 1451 Likes 108 Shares |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by Nobody: 5:18pm On Jul 01, 2022 |
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Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by ibechris(m): 5:22pm On Jul 01, 2022 |
Allow her to come first... Let us not conclude yet...that was how u people told us that Buhari would make Nigeria be like America now, how far. Allow her to come and help u and if she throw passes at u then,u can decide to shun her no be so? I don't like doubting anything as far as I am concern. 106 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by thorpido(m): 5:33pm On Jul 01, 2022 |
It could be an innocent offer.It doesn't mean she wanted anything intimate. Since your mind is already troubled,just reply her that you have your chores covered.Tell her you have people/neighbors who help you out. 185 Likes 14 Shares |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by Kobojunkie: 5:45pm On Jul 01, 2022 |
ibechris:Are you serious? The OP is here expressing doubts about his person to you, yet you insist that he let the woman come anyway? ![]() 76 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by emmanuelbrown26: 5:47pm On Jul 01, 2022 |
OP FOR THE FACT THAT U DONT HV D WILLPOWER TO RESIST THAT DAUGHTER OF EVE SHOWS THAT U ARE A WEAK MAN. ALSO, FOR U TO COME ON NAIRALAND TO SEEK OPINION ON WHAT TO DO IN SUCH SITUATION SHOWS HOW SOFT AND SiSY U ARE. Also, remember garden of eve, daughters of eve are still moving everywhere seeking whom to eat raw. D world would hv being a better place if not eve and her daughters. Look at how one of eve's daughter wants to destroy friendship of how many years. 56 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by Nobody: 6:08pm On Jul 01, 2022 |
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Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by Whois(m): 7:52pm On Jul 01, 2022 |
You'll be manipulated to offer them more money if you allow her to CUM over. This I have seen ![]() 244 Likes 18 Shares |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by Karleb(m): 7:54pm On Jul 01, 2022 |
No thank you. Is that too hard to type. ![]() ![]() 67 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by Beremx(f): 7:58pm On Jul 01, 2022 |
The woman wants to reciprocate your kindness towards her family and your mind don dey tempt you. Oga reply by telling her her coming isn’t necessary. Abi you wan tell her husband? 37 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by DamnnNiggarr: 8:36pm On Jul 01, 2022 |
JovialJune:thanks sis. 4 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by DamnnNiggarr: 8:37pm On Jul 01, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:wow, so many elders in the house. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by DamnnNiggarr: 8:38pm On Jul 01, 2022 |
UpInTheSky:I'm doing that right away. 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by DamnnNiggarr: 8:39pm On Jul 01, 2022 |
ibechris:I'm afraid, I can't try that. I will go with the above suggestions. 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by DamnnNiggarr: 8:40pm On Jul 01, 2022 |
thorpido:thank you, I appreciate. |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by DamnnNiggarr: 8:45pm On Jul 01, 2022 |
UpInTheSky:thanks bro! I'm doing this to avoid a story that touches the heart. 12 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by Cutehector(m): 8:47pm On Jul 01, 2022 |
JovialJune:good response 3 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by DamnnNiggarr: 8:47pm On Jul 01, 2022 |
Whois:you sounded like falseprophet1. Thanks dear, for your contribution. 8 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by DamnnNiggarr: 8:50pm On Jul 01, 2022 |
Beremx:quite funny but true.. thanks sis. |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by Richy4(m): 8:51pm On Jul 01, 2022 |
U know your strength and weaknesses...If u know that you can't handle her being at close proximity in your home, please discourage her visit... Tell her that u can handle it.. she doesn't have to disturb herself... 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by DamnnNiggarr: 9:05pm On Jul 01, 2022 |
Richy4:not that I can't handle being at close proximity with her but... That too much closeness with opposite sex that's not my wife almost ruin my family, my family is divided as a result of that. See link below. https://www.nairaland.com/7152523/family-verge-destruction#113306128 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by galantjoe(m): 9:22pm On Jul 01, 2022 |
Never reject free food, it is risky to reject female freebie. Let her come over, do whatever chores she wants even in a bedroom. Chop and clean mouth. Likely a deal by her and her husband to repay your kindness. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by badboyTee(m): 9:55pm On Jul 01, 2022 |
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Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by FullyBack8: 9:55pm On Jul 01, 2022 |
Hmmmmmm |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by kingamaa(m): 9:55pm On Jul 01, 2022 |
Time to show "gratitude" Is ok |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by zyedode: 9:55pm On Jul 01, 2022 |
E tye gele 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by VeryWickedGoat: 9:55pm On Jul 01, 2022 |
Bleep her and keep warning her never to try such rubbish with you again until you cum. Then send her away. If she calls after that, follow my format below Nonsense 12 Likes
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Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by Cladez(m): 9:55pm On Jul 01, 2022 |
What else do you have in mind if not to politely decline the offer. Or you are looking for validation from nairaland to go ahead? 11 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by YoungLionken(m): 9:55pm On Jul 01, 2022 |
All I can say is, marry an Igbo lady at your own risk ![]() Who have seen Slawomir( the moniker of the OP reminded me of him), been long I heard from him.. Hope he's not in EFCC custody... 34 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by Pographice: 9:56pm On Jul 01, 2022 |
I have nothing to say 1 Like |
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