I want to find an apartment but na money kill am.
I will be turning 30 on october and im still living with my parents. I feel like i have failed in life at my age.

It pains me that as a guy, i dont have my own apartment. Apartments are so expensive now than before. And i dont have friends that i can squat in their house.
What should i do?

Na so e dey start.

JackDaAlienz:
I want to find an apartment but na money kill am.
I will be turning 30 on october and im still living with my parents. I feel like i have failed in life at my age.

It pains me that as a guy, i dont have my own apartment. Apartments are so expensive now than before. And i dont have friends that i can squat in their house.
What should i do?

Just make friend's.

Better come an join qnet

Kollins11:
What were you doing all this while with your life? Are you sick or crippled? Can't you hustle hard to leave your parent's house?

@24 I was already living on my own and paying my bills. Infact 2 weeks after my nysc @24 I was on my way to Ghana to join HK to learn yahoo.

Now, I'm very close to your age and I'm living a good life. You better go and hustle.. It's either you learn a skill or you go learn yahoo to make your life better and stop depending on your certification.

If you're 18 years old on this forum reading my comments, you better start hustling at your young age now (learn a skill or do yahoo).. Don't depend too much on your parents or certificates, So that you won't end up like this op.

Why would you advice someone to do yahoo?

I'm 33 now,working and got married before at 27.i lost my job and my wife took a french leave.im now in my parents house.but I could recollect my wife telling me had it been the one that I wanted to do that I did to u,u would have known

Kollins11:
What were you doing all this while with your life? Are you sick or crippled? Can't you hustle hard to leave your parent's house?

@24 I was already living on my own and paying my bills. Infact 2 weeks after my nysc @24 I was on my way to Ghana to join HK to learn yahoo.

Now, I'm very close to your age and I'm living a good life. You better go and hustle.. It's either you learn a skill or you go learn yahoo to make your life better and stop depending on your certification.

If you're 18 years old on this forum reading my comments, you better start hustling at your young age now (learn a skill or do yahoo).. Don't depend too much on your parents or certificates, So that you won't end up like this op.

STFU! just because you made it early doesn't mean others won't , instead of you to advice him on what to venture in you are here bragging nonsense , you no senior mbappe yet en go train you.

omotoso1989:
I'm 33 now,working and got married before at 27.i lost my job and my wife took a french leave.im now in my parents house.but I could recollect my wife telling me had it been the one that I wanted to do that I did to u,u would have known

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Omo street hard oh. If you never ready no put body oh.

Work hard and smart. Save and invest. In all, remember that our time and race different. Be safe out there

Life for an average Nigerian youth is freaking hard.

4teenblaq:


Why would you advice someone to do yahoo?

There are limited opportunities. Or you think everyone got money to learn a skill or some stuffs on net ?

I left my parent house at a much older age, and i was already making millions, i just didn't find any need to leave yet., I bought my first car and land in my parent's house. But i made sure i spend a minimum of 500k on their house yearly, this is enough for me to rent a decent mini flat in lagos, one year i fenced the compound , another year i put a roller gate, another year I floored the compound. Living with my parent helped me reduced being too promiscuous at that time because they monitor every female that comes to visit and that helped my life to a great extent. No friend or girl would label me as being broke because it was evident that i could afford my own apartment but i chose to stay for my own personal reasons.

Stop the cap and face life reality. its not living with or outside your parent's house that determines your success in life. Keep doing something.


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nokspos:
I left my parent house at a much older age, and i was already making millions, i just didn't find any need to leave yet., I bought my first car and land in my parent's house. But i made sure i spend a minimum of 500k on their house yearly, this is enough for me to rent a decent mini flat in lagos, one year i fenced the compound , another year i put a roller gate, another year I floored the compound. Living with my parent helped me reduced being too promiscuous at that time because they monitor every female that comes to visit and that helped my life to a great extent. No friend or girl would label me as being broke because it was evident that i could afford my own apartment but i chose to stay for my own personal reasons.

Stop the cap and face life reality. its not living with or outside your parent's house that determines your success in life. Keep doing something.

On point

Ok.....you should get something doing because you don't need a friend to leave alone.

nokspos:
I left my parent house at a much older age, and i was already making millions, i just didn't find any need to leave yet., I bought my first car and land in my parent's house. But i made sure i spend a minimum of 500k on their house yearly, this is enough for me to rent a decent mini flat in lagos, one year i fenced the compound , another year i put a roller gate, another year I floored the compound. Living with my parent helped me reduced being too promiscuous at that time because they monitor every female that comes to visit and that helped my life to a great extent. No friend or girl would label me as being broke because it was evident that i could afford my own apartment but i chose to stay for my own personal reasons.

Stop the cap and face life reality. its not living with or outside your parent's house that determines your success in life. Keep doing something.

See beta advice here OP,
If this dude can make it, you also can,
Just believe in what you do

No mind the fool wey say make you do yahoo,
Yahoo is like gambling,

JackDaAlienz:
I want to find an apartment but na money kill am.
I will be turning 30 on october and im still living with my parents. I feel like i have failed in life at my age.

It pains me that as a guy, i dont have my own apartment. Apartments are so expensive now than before. And i dont have friends that i can squat in their house.
What should i do?

thank your lucky stars that your parents are still alive and healthy to accommodate and still feed you, double your hustle, think out of the box and use innovative fresh ideas to liberate yourself from financial bondage

Kollins11:
What were you doing all this while with your life? Are you sick or crippled? Can't you hustle hard to leave your parent's house?

@24 I was already living on my own and paying my bills. Infact 2 weeks after my nysc @24 I was on my way to Ghana to join HK to learn yahoo.

Now, I'm very close to your age and I'm living a good life. You better go and hustle.. It's either you learn a skill or you go learn yahoo to make your life better and stop depending on your certification.

If you're 18 years old on this forum reading my comments, you better start hustling at your young age now (learn a skill or do yahoo).. Don't depend too much on your parents or certificates, So that you won't end up like this op.

So going into fraud is a good advice?

At 30, you no get any skill wey fit make you money ?

Your parents failed you.
Your parents failed you.
Your parents failed you.
You failed yourself.

You should start something you should've done in your teens.

op you have two options.

1. If you are a graduate, pray and go looking for a job. It could be a Hotel job sef. atleast they pay 40k and above. There is dignity in labour.
You can give car service a trial... if you cant do it in the city you grow up in, due to feeling embarrassed, please relocate to a place where you have family members that can accommodate you.

I want you to understand there is no clear-cut smooth path to success in life. Its a forest and we are all trying to survive, cater for our families and be successful. I subscribe to the school of thought.... Obatala-school of thought

2. Bro pray. in all things, prayers work. regardless how tough situations are in life, always pray. If need be my guy, you fit link up with one or two dibia or babalawo for guidiance. Every Igwe has a dibia, every Eze has an Ezenmo... this life requires sense
me sef don even pass your age but i know the powers behind this universe will assist me one day.

P.S ... i am also going though the toughest phase of my life. i really hope things change for the better soon.

omotoso1989:
Yeah,I never had any side chick nor beat her and I made sure I provided for my family.my guy u won't bliv I drank to stupor and I threw myself naked in the streets.i had been warned not to marry the girl but I never hearkened to pple.

You're implying that she had some spiritual hand in it ??

Everybody is facing one problem or the other,both married and unmarried.I get colleague for my former work.This guy was so jealous of me because I was no married,while he has got married.His wife always called him at work and I could hear them argue because of money.He earned #20k.As at 2017.I wonder how he could impregnate a lady with a meagre salary.Those who left their parents houses and are living alone are also facing problems of unpaid house rent for 1 or 2 years,job loses due to retrenchment at work,quit notice from their landlords over unpaid rent,debt to loan apps, depression due to stress at work couple with low pay.So my brother,no dey envy anybody.Na Nigeria we dey.If you no be politician,and government workers(Na them dey chop money through corrupt means)e dey hard to make ends meet.
Na people wey go buy tokumbo cars dey soferam.Visit'car talk section for nairaland and read complaint from car owners.Depression is everywhere.

It's not rosy out there bro. Don't be idle. Look for something to do no matter how small for now. I understand it can be difficult living with our parents sometimes. But don't leave in a hurry without plan on how you will survive out there.

You need to accept JESUS CHRIST into your life, only Him can give you wisdom on how you can be successful.. I was once like you, I tried so many ways to break through, but none worked till I became genuinely Born_Again in the spirit. Now you need to see so many open doors, businesses everywhere, it's the Lord's doing my dear.

You can neglect my advise if you like.

MufasaLion:


So going into fraud is a good advice?

That's the choice (yahoo) I made bro and it has helped me.

I'm not forcing anyone here to do yahoo. I presented two choices before them (learn a profitable skill or do yahoo).. The choice is left for them.

I'm just telling y'all what is working for me. I'm a graduate in civil engineering but today na yahoo I dey do and it's paying me big time.... Make my certificate dey one side first

Kollins11:
What were you doing all this while with your life? Are you sick or crippled? Can't you hustle hard to leave your parent's house?

@24 I was already living on my own and paying my bills. Infact 2 weeks after my nysc @24 I was on my way to Ghana to join HK to learn yahoo.

Now, I'm very close to your age and I'm living a good life. You better go and hustle.. It's either you learn a skill or you go learn yahoo to make your life better and stop depending on your certificate.

If you're 18 years old on this forum reading my comments, you better start hustling at your young age now (learn a skill or do yahoo).. Don't depend too much on your parents or certificates, So that you won't end up like this op.

see how you are promoting Internet fraud aka (yahoo).. Very soon u go jam jam

Hustle and work harder

Kollins11:
That's the choice (yahoo) I made bro and it has helped me.

I'm not forcing anyone here to do yahoo. I presented two choices before them (learn a profitable skill or do yahoo).. The choice is left for them.

I'm just telling y'all what is working for me. I'm a graduate in civil engineering but today na yahoo I dey do and it's paying me big time.... Make my certificate dey on side first

You'll be caught and I hope it's sooner.

Blaqroman0000:
see how you are promoting Internet fraud aka (yahoo).. Very soon u go jam jam

Tinubu that's into drugs smuggling yet you people are still drumming support for him to become your president.

Tinubu dey hustle... You better go hustle hard bro.. I'm telling you now.

VladimirPutiin:


There are limited opportunities. Or you think everyone got money to learn a skill or some stuffs on net ?

If so, you can also advise the person to go into stealing or kidnapping or even ritual.

Don't let any incompetent and hotel living guy here to make you do something crazy...

Now this is the time for you to plan yourself.. Planning yourself entails almost everything you do a day and set a target and don't deviate, then watch your life turn out for good...

If you're also the type that spend money on wants instead of needs, planning will help you overcome that aspect and you will have more..

At the state in life.. Party less, drink less, be devoted to the thing that waters your pocket and like I said earlier set a target for yourself and watch your life turn around..

The most of them all be closer to GOD.. Very very important at this particular point in times you'll never know what GOD had protected you from and plans for you...