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Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by crystalpapers(m): 11:02am On Jul 06, 2022 |
I left my parent house at a much older age, and i was already making millions, i just didn't find any need to leave yet., I bought my first car and land in my parent's house. But i made sure i spend a minimum of 500k on their house yearly, this is enough for me to rent a decent mini flat in lagos, one year i fenced the compound , another year i put a roller gate, another year I floored the compound. Living with my parent helped me reduced being too promiscuous at that time because they monitor every female that comes to visit and that helped my life to a great extent. No friend or girl would label me as being broke because it was evident that i could afford my own apartment but i chose to stay for my own personal reasons. Wisdom!!! Baba mi may you never reduce. God bless you for this wonderful piece of advise. 1 Like |
Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by SeeHim: 11:02am On Jul 06, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz: Start Blogging Business And Thank |
Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by Akharmony: 11:03am On Jul 06, 2022 |
if money full house you are safe but if otherwise Yoruba go say "Tun ero re pa". Think otherwise please. |
Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by dgee1(m): 11:03am On Jul 06, 2022 |
I can 100% relate...t's a crazy situation to be in. What do you have in mind to do now? yeme7: 1 Like |
Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by Georgekyrian(m): 11:05am On Jul 06, 2022 |
MufasaLion: Na lie 1 Like |
Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by watersideboys: 11:05am On Jul 06, 2022 |
You can live with your parents and still be making money. I made millions still under my parents roof. I didn't feel like leaving. All a mattervof choice bro. Get skills especially info tech. Google first 5 or 10 in demand skills and learn it. Such is very needed in europe . |
Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by Sukovick(m): 11:06am On Jul 06, 2022 |
Go hustle legitimately by all means... Shalom[b][/b] |
Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by Joyceogechi(f): 11:06am On Jul 06, 2022 |
The first down fall of a man is when he starts competing with his friends. Everybody goes to the market,some in the morning,some in the afternoon and others at night. The most important thing is to buy tangible thing from the market. Becareful, desperation has started creeping in. Let's chat on Whatsapp 07014813820 quote author=JackDaAlienz post=114460719]I want to find an apartment but na money kill am. I will be turning 30 on october and im still living with my parents. I feel like i have failed in life at my age. It pains me that as a guy, i dont have my own apartment. Apartments are so expensive now than before. And i dont have friends that i can squat in their house. What should i do?[/quote] 1 Like |
Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by TruthSocialAPP: 11:09am On Jul 06, 2022 |
You must be really pained he's making money from yahoo. Else you won't be so touched to the extent of cursing a random internet user like you. KingOfTheDamned: 2 Likes |
Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by sherylbaky(f): 11:09am On Jul 06, 2022 |
Op, u don't need to beat urself up, different people with different timing, don't just stop trying. Ur time would come. Thank ur stars u have a parent's house to stay, some don't. Our useless leaders are eating us up... tell me how that's ur fault? stop worrying and focus. 1 Like |
Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by Xedmark: 11:10am On Jul 06, 2022 |
First of all, you re not a failure. As a matter of fact you can live with your parent and be better than most guys living in their own personally-paid apartment. However, if the reasons behind your living with your parents is fueled by financial constraints, The first thing is to go to God. I know it doesn't make sense but "He rules in the affairs of men" and I'm not talking about going for prayers here and there, I'm talking about having a personal strong prayer life in your bedroom. Make your room a spiritual war zone. As a programmer I've dealt with issues about my business, life and everything with thunderous prayers. Look for opportunities around, start a business even if it's POS or Web development trust me, if you're good, there's money in it but prayer seriously and let God lead you. To those condemning the guy that suggested yahoo..... Just calm down. He never asked the guy to go and do yahoo. it's a suggestion for him to either take it or leave it. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by Elsucre042: 11:10am On Jul 06, 2022 |
nokspos: |
Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by Mrlola: 11:11am On Jul 06, 2022 |
Kollins11: Do you have evidence that Tinubu deals in drug? 1 Like |
Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by Nobody: 11:14am On Jul 06, 2022 |
Leave your parents go to another state where apartments are affordable work your way up. 1 Like |
Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by Ishilove: 11:16am On Jul 06, 2022 |
4teenblaq:They are the reason why Nigeria has a very bad reputation in the international community |
Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by zedegit: 11:17am On Jul 06, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz: Last I checked it's not a crime to live with one's parents. Just do your best and leave rest to God but never overthink yourself. Desperation can make you fall into wrong hands. |
Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by HopeAlive16(f): 11:17am On Jul 06, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz:You have not failed in life. Please change that mindset. It's not a crime to still be living with them giving the circumstances while you try to save up(if you are employed) to get your own place. Stop using your age as a yardstick in this race of life and be thankful you have parents whose place you can stay for the meantime. 1 Like |
Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by MAIKON: 11:17am On Jul 06, 2022 |
Joyceogechi: |
Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by smogia1994(m): 11:17am On Jul 06, 2022 |
nokspos:bros life has no menu whatsoever, it might work for you and not work for others, you might still stay in your parent hus and still be useless and u might leave them and still plan your life, cus wat i know is outside will show u how to manage life thats wheere reality lies. all good its well |
Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by TechSkill: 11:18am On Jul 06, 2022 |
Kollins11:Bros, the thing be say, if FBI dey find you now, u just give them opportunity... nairaland was part of the place dem use nab Hushbingo.... no worry lol... 1 Like |
Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by Barims(m): 11:19am On Jul 06, 2022 |
Prettygirl200: Not all white are racist you are just stupid stop ruining our reputation |
Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by TechSkill: 11:20am On Jul 06, 2022 |
smogia1994:IN everything u said, u missed the vital ish... u no even fit calm down and ask the OP what was he doing to make that money... lol. he has a skill OP DOES NOT HAVE. This is the problem with a lot of us Nigerians. Go to youtube, go to Skillshare... make una no dey slack.. consume information like ur life depend on it. 1 Like |
Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by TheOldGods: 11:20am On Jul 06, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz:let's talk like an adult unless you have very strong reasons to leave your parents house, it's not a good I dea to leave your parents house at all even if you're a rich dude. Unless you have bought your own house. People make alot of mistakes in moving out from home, paying huge house rents because of ego, pride and peer groups. Who made that law that you must leave your parents house as a single man. Unless your parents house is 1 room and ofcourse no privacy any more or you're about to marry. If you parent has rooms, and you're living fine. Bro stay the Bleep where you are 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by Limassol(m): 11:20am On Jul 06, 2022 |
okoroemeka:You think people in such situation as the op do not do/know all you mentioned? Think again. |
Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by gaventa: 11:20am On Jul 06, 2022 |
You have not failed ! Don’t let ritualistic and scammers push you into believing you have failed. The most important thing is for you to know you are trying your best and getting better daily. As a matter of fact if you are okay with your parents and you are sure it’s not a comfort zone where you don’t have to work then you don’t have a problem. Bills outside ain’t no jokes and the worst is you having to be broke because of rents and other utility bills. Take your time and move at your own pace. Na yahoo and Olosho scatter naija. Normally the country hard . JackDaAlienz: 4 Likes |
Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by Maintain21: 11:20am On Jul 06, 2022 |
I was thinking the same |
Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by SaltedTutors(m): 11:21am On Jul 06, 2022 |
Kollins11: Friend, money is not everything. If you can't bribe death with it, it's nothing. Are you saying money is important to you than your freedom? You would prefer a decent apartment in a US prison than your freedom here in Nigeria? Except one likes the lifestyle of some domestic animals that are regularly confined in decent cages. Such is not supposed to be fine with humans. God bless. 1 Like |
Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by SPAMBOX7: 11:21am On Jul 06, 2022 |
Bluezy13:Even me sef no understand the English ![]() |
Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by Helpers1: 11:22am On Jul 06, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz: I am 31, a graduate of Guidance and Counselling, a Diploma in Computer operation, Diploma in Law, Basic and Leadership Certificate @WOFBI, and a host of other certifications. Jobless and depressed. Though not in my father's house, currently rent will soon expire with no renewal finance. In all of these, I give God thanks. I will not do YAHOO, STEAL OR CHEAT. if I die trying to survive legitly, I will die honourably. Guy, dont be depress like me, you will overcome. 1 Like |
Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by TheOldGods: 11:22am On Jul 06, 2022 |
4teenblaq:I for tag Efcc for this post. Efcc is on nairaland oo |
Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by Angrymode: 11:24am On Jul 06, 2022 |
You should be glad you even have parents to accommodate you. Think of being in this your condition without your parents in the picture and be greatful. Again, like someone pointed out, your hustle has nothing to do with your location. Just try to think outta the box and be consistent with your legit hustle. You are only feeling depressed because you are comparing yourself with others unnecessarily. It's not easy but be strong ok. |
Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by Barims(m): 11:25am On Jul 06, 2022 |
yeme7: The bitter truth is that there's no God stop being gullible 1 Like 1 Share |
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