tensazangetsu20:

Definitely op needs to come down on his expectations. The bad economy of Nigeria also affects women too. There's very few women at under 25 who have all that.

Raalsalghul:
So this is how marriage dey shark una.

You've been hyperventilating up and down this thread like a random molecule.

Person wey know know go think say you win lotto.

Lol!

This is more than winning lotto for me.

Marriage dey shark who? Mtcheeeeewwwwwww. O mo nkankan.

YourHighTension:
Common sweetheart, don't sound so harsh.

Yes, I'd agree with you that boys are easy to attract. Not men.

When you are ready to attract a man, I'm all yours to take Darling. I know you are very beautiful

Is this a self-advert/marketing? Sorry, but I no dey find old freight ship. Fresh, young blood like me? Tufiakwa!

Watin remain for your body wey you wan give me na?

JBriel:



Na. It's not expectations. One can meet a good lady not wealthy or rich. But good. Even without a job, but good.


Anyways. I see good materials after work hours along Lekki epe express way sha. Bit the timing na die. How do you meet someone good in traffic. Society has been designed to be disjointed of late.


I see nothing wrong with the oP's standard

thebosstrevor1:
My take is this.

If you go out to quality places, you will get quality women.

The chance of a corperate man meeting quality woman is higher than the chance of a millionaire in alaba market.

If you work in the corporate world as an ambitious top dog, you will meet different varieties of women to select from.

tensazangetsu20:


Lol it's not easy. A lady working at a multinational in Lagos that lives on the mainland would wake up by 5 to go to work she would be home by 9pm where you wan see am. Most weekends she's resting lol. Except you work near her or in proximity I cant see how you can meet such ladies. The most girls you would see on the street in the daytime are mostly unemployed or hustlers doing some small scale business. Outside Lagos where theres no jobs or good companies to work for i don't see how possible it is to meet such ladies o hmmm. If in Lagos, the chances are like 1 percent. Outside Lagos na like 0.0001 percent . Maybe op should try getting a job in a multinational for the next six months so he can work in close proximity to such ladies or as someone suggested go back to school and meet them there.

tensazangetsu20:


Lol it's not easy. A lady working at a multinational in Lagos that lives on the mainland would wake up by 5 to go to work she would be home by 9pm where you wan see am. Most weekends she's resting lol. Except you work near her or in proximity I cant see how you can meet such ladies. The most girls you would see on the street in the daytime are mostly unemployed or hustlers doing some small scale business. Outside Lagos where theres no jobs or good companies to work for i don't see how possible it is to meet such ladies o hmmm. If in Lagos, the chances are like 1 percent. Outside Lagos na like 0.0001 percent . Maybe op should try getting a job in a multinational for the next six months so he can work in close proximity to such ladies or as someone suggested go back to school and meet them there.

JBriel:



I have about seven of such ladies. What caused our war. They wanted to form " more intellectual/superior/money " along the line.

They indeed resume for work 5am and do not get home till 8pm. Saturday rest. Sunday church and run back home

Their " cons " They think they've seen it all with their misery 500k per month job. They haven't learnt being at the top and being truly refined to the inner core fully. I've dated a few. I had multiples throwing themselves at me when they finally noticed I hid my intellect level during our social gathering ( but I started to unveail complex intellectual prowess )


Trust me. They aren't the ones on the street. But then again, how do you meet such except God help you.
One thing this generation has forgotten is people with extremely high intellect are either working for like UN WORLD HEALTH ORGANIZATION UNICEF or have their own thing


God punish 5Mil per month job. I can't even take it.

begoniaa:
Guys that are fond of calling women gold-diggers are now realising money isn't everything?

How shocking!

Another person is recommending a student. Na shift cropping and rotational cultivation thing I see. I thank God say at least na my turn to hear positive thing about my group. Tomorrow I will be back to the trenches where I am supposed to be broke and to have fked all guys and lecturers in my department.

Even nonexisting of all people is recommending "classy, highly class and cerebral feminism-leaning women" who aren't man-focused.

Another is recommending virgins.

Another mentioned new generation pentecostal churches...

The race for a wife, mehn... Is this you people online version of "Jehovah, carry me dey go...?"

thebosstrevor1:


Are all ladies working in a multinational company or have a career quality women?

Are all men who are career oriented, quality men.

Character and attitude is all that matters. You can meet a good or bad woman anywhere

tensazangetsu20:


Na wa o. So to find wife hard like this . Well I don't mind being single Sha for life and men are always mocking women for being single.

begoniaa:

Is this a self-advert/marketing? Sorry, but I no dey find old freight ship. Fresh, young blood like me? Tufiakwa!

Watin remain for your body wey you wan give me na?

begoniaa:
JBriel abi what do you call yourself?

Na Mountain of Fire and Miracle Ministries go end your matter las las.

Gosh, I cannot imagine how you'll actually be in real life given your comments on here. So much pride and pompous air and condescension reeking from you! Miserly 350k, 500k... seriously, dude? You humbled all of them? Ewww. Why are you on a thread hoping to know how to snatch a quality woman? For all of your supposed attributes, why haven't you gotten a good woman? Ah, God... I don't even know what to say to you anymore.

folake4u:
This comment burst my head. At least, we dey the same group now as students. It's our turn to shine. Look, we're in the spotlight now.

Abi ooo. My sister. Let us bask and enjoy. We finally got our day. Students reigning now, and have high chances of being "picked". It really is a glorious day.

tensazangetsu20:


Having a good career is part of ops wants. If it's broke women that have good attitude they are absolutely everywhere but I am not sure op wants that. He can even get such women in his village.

thebosstrevor1:


Haha.

But every woman comes with their own problem, i am not saying he should settle for less.

Nigeria is a traditional society, we see men as providers, now if he gets married to this career oriented women, will she supports him when the business goes down, also the greatest fear of a man is a woman who earns more than himself, can he handle a situation when the woman earns more than him?

tensazangetsu20:


Gbam op come and answer o

JBriel:



You don't get it too. How many ladies in so called white collar jobs earn even a mil per month. The Op and other males are beyond this level so you won't even get ladies earning higher than them. Just few positions affords ladies earning a mil and above in our national workspace presently and them no many

tensazangetsu20:


Lol whats one million. Go to microsoft in lagos and see small 23 year old ladies earning 3 million a month

JBriel:




That's decent. But what's the volume on a societal level. Bro, 3 Mil a month is not money apologies.

kayperry:
3yrs ago my best friend came to me sounding just like you after he got tired ..lol

and he suggested we start worshipping at house on the rock every sundays weytin our eye see naa story for another day

However i think places you visit is the determinant here, base on circumstances and fact that you can't see them(desired ladies) every time ... you have to creat a connection at any chance you get then go back to living your life in a way she will detect you carry substance even without saying it,

bro when women see substance or prospect in you dem go take you serious

Wow wow wow wow wow. So you even actually worshipped at a church back-to-back just because you are looking for a wife?

Now I see how most of you are always projecting your realities onto us on here.

But when it is not madness, y'all are the old cargoes and old men, yet you come here shaming women for being unmarried at 30+. Omo. To lack self-introspection as a person na disease o. Chronic debilitating disease. Spits.

I sha love how you inadvertently admitted to you, OP and your friend lacking substance. That is why no woman of worth has ever looked your ways.

I am expecting your reply as the dog on leash that you are... it is in your nature. Do quick and respond as you are meant to. I know say na disguise you dey disguise when e be like say you no reply me for up there.

tensazangetsu20:


True but even if Op earns 100 million a month the microsoft lady will choose to date or marry someone that probably earns 7 million at goldman sachs a month than Op. With these ladies its not just money. OP has 3 choices, First choice is to leave africa to find a wife abroad. Second choice is to settle for a lady above 30. Third is to marry a girl in his village and bring her up to his level. Theres a 4th choice of getting a young woman who has all going for her in terms of her career but e go hard o hmmmmm also considering that op is a trader no matter how wealthy he is a lot of this women will want absolutely nothing to do with him.

begoniaa:


Abi ooo. My sister. Let us bask and enjoy. We finally got our day. Students reigning now, and have high potential chances of being "picked". It really is a glorious day.

folake4u:
I'm already basking in the euphoria, my dear.
Ko easy rara. Even for NLS here, see plenty cars coming in to look for us.

Such a glorious day and it is marvellous in our sight.

Oporr. Fire on, my sis. Enjoy yourself, but always remember that they'll hembarass you, so stay wicked and show no mercy to any baga.

begoniaa:


Oporr. Fire on, my sis. Enjoy yourself, but always remember that they'll hembarass you, so stay wicked and show no mercy to any baga.

begoniaa:


See this one. *yinmu* Awon advanced bachelors that women have used and dumped. They will now come online to be pouring their vitriol on innocent women.

Guy, you are just in your mid-30s and you say time is running out for you? Shuoooo. You no be man? You no be Nigerian man? How time go dey catch up to you naaa? That is impossican't!

tensazangetsu20:


This is the koko now especially in corporate Nigeria. Most working class ladies like working class with good careers o not salesgirl kind of job drop a guy working at KPMG or McKinsey and a millionaire trader at ladipo and aspanda. They will choose the KPMG guy over and over again before those guys at ladipo and aspanda. The KPMG guy has a very high potential of japa and once he can japa to a good country you know what he will be earning. Also getting into KPMG takes a lot intellectually which is something people take into consideration especially with how intelligent they might want their kids to be. It's not all about money nowadays especially with really quality women that have a lot going on for them. Even in other parts of the world it's the same. You can expect a lady working at Goldman Sachs in new york to frolick and marry a welder from an oil field in north Dakota. Even If the welder has money it will rarely happen.


Quality woman in this case will mean a woman with a good career and all going for her and is young too. Hmm it's very hard in Africa. Unemployment and bad economy also affects our women. I would have just changed the previous comments since its kind of degrading but since it's been quoted I rather just leave it there. What op wants is very scarce and what's even the probability that the lady will want him too when he sees her.

thebosstrevor1:


Are all ladies working in a multinational company or have a career quality women?

Are all men who are career oriented, quality men.

Character and attitude is all that matters. You can meet a good or bad woman anywhere

Raalsalghul:



I wonder why there is so much fuss about career as regards the definition of a quality woman?

For some reason character/attitude is being shoved aside and all I see here is KPMG, Mckinsey, Goldman Sachs, this and that.

Or don't we have young ladies who's got shit going for them and still messing around with married powerful bosses in their office.

Or are you telling me most under 25 ladies with good jobs would make good partners.

With regards to the topic, it has many layers and dimensions we can look at it from but somehow it's all about career and earning power.

Jeez!

Raalsalghul:



I wonder why there is so much fuss about career as regards the definition of a quality woman?

For some reason character/attitude is being shoved aside and all I see here is KPMG, Mckinsey, Goldman Sachs, this and that.

Or don't we have young ladies who's got shit going for them and still messing around with married powerful bosses in their office.

Or are you telling me most under 25 ladies with good jobs would make good partners.

With regards to the topic, it has many layers and dimensions we can look at it from but somehow it's all about career and earning power.

Jeez!