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Re: Unwanted Abortion: I Finally Get Her Arrested And She'll Be Charged To Court by Kobojunkie: 7:58pm On Jul 08, 2022
Ifyken2:

Op said he bought her an iphone 12 to be his baby mama and they also had an agreement
An agreement in writing?, undecided

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Re: Unwanted Abortion: I Finally Get Her Arrested And She'll Be Charged To Court by Premiumwriter: 7:58pm On Jul 08, 2022
Datboredberri:
. You're being stu**d...

You compare this to carrying a child for 9 months? Are dumb are you?

Did anyone force you to buy her a phone?

Your attitude is obnoxious... No wonder she wouldn't keep your parasite in her... undecided

A signed agreement?
all these doesn't matter.

Once you are pregnant and you terminate it, you are committing a crime. It's the law.
Re: Unwanted Abortion: I Finally Get Her Arrested And She'll Be Charged To Court by Mayemavins: 7:59pm On Jul 08, 2022
Kobojunkie:
So let's get OP to provide proof of his claims. We need not just a scan of the police report but also information indicating someone has been charged and jailed as well. undecided
Don't worry, I will update everything you ask for on Thursday, her sister may be watching
Re: Unwanted Abortion: I Finally Get Her Arrested And She'll Be Charged To Court by Kobojunkie: 8:00pm On Jul 08, 2022
Mayemavins:

Don't worry, I will update everything you ask for on Thursday, her sister may be watching
Why Thursday? You don't have a copy of the report or evidence handy to upload even now?, undecided

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Re: Unwanted Abortion: I Finally Get Her Arrested And She'll Be Charged To Court by Mayemavins: 8:01pm On Jul 08, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Why Thursday? You don't have a copy of the report or evidence handy to upload even now?, undecided
Charle rest make I win case first

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Re: Unwanted Abortion: I Finally Get Her Arrested And She'll Be Charged To Court by DroppingLiquid: 8:01pm On Jul 08, 2022
Datboredberri:
. You're being stu**d...

You compare this to carrying a child for 9 months? Are dumb are you?

Did anyone force you to buy her a phone?

Your attitude is obnoxious... No wonder she wouldn't keep your parasite in her... undecided

A signed agreement?

You know abortion in Nigeria is illegal right? I mean, this is a shiiithole where everything goes, but if they table your matter before court, they're not going to look the other way. So it's better to avoid anything police and court, even if you won't get caught. But if you're caught, you're a goner.
Re: Unwanted Abortion: I Finally Get Her Arrested And She'll Be Charged To Court by Bennysam: 8:16pm On Jul 08, 2022
Datboredberri:
You got her arrested for what? Having an abortion? It's her body... If you want the child, carry it yourself! undecided

This is sheer stupidity... What right do you have to arrest her? None! The police are criminally minded and you took advantage of that...

You wouldn't even raise that child alone... Still expect her to breatfeed and raise your brat...

Do you know what it means to carry a child to full term? You insensitive twàt...

Go get a uterus if you desire children...

Abortion is against the law in Nigeria
Re: Unwanted Abortion: I Finally Get Her Arrested And She'll Be Charged To Court by kkins25(m): 8:19pm On Jul 08, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Can you provide scan or evidence to show that you indeed filed this charge and got this person locked up for it? undecided

Somehow I find it hard to believe that Nigerian police go get time for this kain situation. undecided
You missed the mark, he said he had some "romance with the police". So, the young lady is being illegally detained..

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Re: Unwanted Abortion: I Finally Get Her Arrested And She'll Be Charged To Court by Kobojunkie: 8:49pm On Jul 08, 2022
kkins25:
You missed the mark, he said he had some "romance with the police". So, the young lady is being illegally detained..
Oh my! shocked

It didn't occur to me that was what he meant at all. undecided
Re: Unwanted Abortion: I Finally Get Her Arrested And She'll Be Charged To Court by MediMedi(m): 8:56pm On Jul 08, 2022
eeeei, another MuMu surfaced here again what kind of men do nairaland keep this day.

Not that you are married to her,you think you doing the right thing now.

It will come back to hurt you

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Re: Unwanted Abortion: I Finally Get Her Arrested And She'll Be Charged To Court by siofra(f): 9:00pm On Jul 08, 2022
How can you clearly prove to the court that it is abortion and not miscarriage?

It will be very hard. The court case will drag on for long and you will end up wasting resources.

I hope one day women will legally be able to abort in this country.

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Re: Unwanted Abortion: I Finally Get Her Arrested And She'll Be Charged To Court by marsman: 9:08pm On Jul 08, 2022
Datboredberri:
You got her arrested for what? Having an abortion? It's her body... If you want the child, carry it yourself! undecided

This is sheer stupidity... What right do you have to arrest her? None! The police are criminally minded and you took advantage of that...

You wouldn't even raise that child alone... Still expect her to breatfeed and raise your brat...

Do you know what it means to carry a child to full term? You insensitive twàt...

Go get a uterus if you desire children...

Firstly, Abortion is a crime in Nigeria that comes with a 14 years jail time.

Secondly, They must have had a kind of informal agreement on their future, before he started spending on her like a Christmas broiler bought in August.

Knowing fully well that she couldn't honour their agreements, she should have closed her long throat and cautioned her greedy self.

Simply the consequence of greed.

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Re: Unwanted Abortion: I Finally Get Her Arrested And She'll Be Charged To Court by nawa4naija(m): 9:10pm On Jul 08, 2022
you are an ignoramus for saying such nonsense
Datboredberri:
. You're being stu**d...

You compare this to carrying a child for 9 months? Are dumb are you?

Did anyone force you to buy her a phone?

Your attitude is obnoxious... No wonder she wouldn't keep your parasite in her... undecided

A signed agreement?
Re: Unwanted Abortion: I Finally Get Her Arrested And She'll Be Charged To Court by verygoodbadboi: 9:12pm On Jul 08, 2022
She saw though you that you are a troublesome man

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Re: Unwanted Abortion: I Finally Get Her Arrested And She'll Be Charged To Court by Kobojunkie: 9:15pm On Jul 08, 2022
marsman:
Firstly, Abortion is a crime in Nigeria that comes with a 14 years jail time.
Secondly, They must have had a kind of informal agreement on their future, before he started spending on her like a plants that grows money.

Knowing fully that she couldn't honour their agreements, she should have closed her long throat and cautioned her greedy self.
Simply the consequence of greed.
How does Op intend to prove this informal agreement in court? undecided

Also, I get that abortion is illegal and what not but according to Op, he had to make a deal with the DPO to get this woman in his story arrested meaning even DPO was not buying his story at all. So doesn't that already work against him?, undecided

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Re: Unwanted Abortion: I Finally Get Her Arrested And She'll Be Charged To Court by Screwcode1: 9:27pm On Jul 08, 2022
I gave you an ideal previously and I’m glad you acknowledged it, well don’t be surprise you might be paying for damages soon to the girl, do not bring up that you wanted to use her for surrogate, don’t mention that at all!!
Re: Unwanted Abortion: I Finally Get Her Arrested And She'll Be Charged To Court by marsman: 9:42pm On Jul 08, 2022
Kobojunkie:
How does Op intend to prove this informal agreement in court? undecided

Also, I get that abortion is illegal and what not but according to Op, he had to make a deal with the DPO to get this woman in his story arrested meaning even DPO was not buying his story at all. So doesn't that already work against him?, undecided
There is only one valid question: Did she commit the crime of abortion or not?

It is written in his post that he will be burdened with providing for her in the cell; That is most probably the deal he made. From that, we can deduce that, indeed, she committed a crime worthy of jail time, but the police didn't want to jail her for such personal matter.

To me, I still stand on the truth that she should have broken off the relationship the moment she knew that she could not honour their agreement.

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Re: Unwanted Abortion: I Finally Get Her Arrested And She'll Be Charged To Court by Kobojunkie: 9:55pm On Jul 08, 2022
marsman:
1. There is only one valid question: Did she commit the crime of abortion or not? It is written in his post that he will be burdened with providing for her in the cell; That is most probably the deal he made. From that, we can deduce that, indeed, she committed a crime worthy of jail time, but the police didn't want to jail her for such personal matter.

2. To me, I still stand on the truth that she should have broken off the relationship the moment she knew that she could not honour their agreement.
1. Do all others provide means for those who commit crimes against them? undecided

2. Does Op have evidence to show there was indeed a relationship/agreement between the two to begin with? undecided
Re: Unwanted Abortion: I Finally Get Her Arrested And She'll Be Charged To Court by poshestmina(f): 10:01pm On Jul 08, 2022
You jam quiet girl or poor family you think you can intimidate.

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Re: Unwanted Abortion: I Finally Get Her Arrested And She'll Be Charged To Court by Cladez(m): 10:03pm On Jul 08, 2022
Last time I checked, abortion is still a crime in Nigeria.

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Re: Unwanted Abortion: I Finally Get Her Arrested And She'll Be Charged To Court by marsman: 10:13pm On Jul 08, 2022
Kobojunkie:
1. Do all others provide means for those who commit crimes against them? undecided

2. Does Op have evidence to show there was indeed a relationship/agreement between the two to begin with? undecided
1. Depends on the situation. I am not used to police dealings, but the fact that its going to court should tell you that what he is doing is legal.

2. *Evidence that she committed an abortion.

Atleast, this will teach witnessing golddiggers some lessons.
Re: Unwanted Abortion: I Finally Get Her Arrested And She'll Be Charged To Court by Nobody: 10:14pm On Jul 08, 2022
That lady is a "Gunner" if that case appears before a jury. Abortion is a crime in Nigeria as at the time the action was committed. Don't forget OP said he has evidence of their amorous relationship. This could be a potent against her. Best bet is to appeal to the OP's conscience to tamper justice with mercy on the lady, because he obviously stated that, he wanted to prove a point to the lady's sister (who masterminded the abortion); which could also lead her to jail as a conspirator, if a good lawyers handles OP's case well.

PS: This should serve as deterrents to ladies who use pregnancy to extort guys or under any guise.
Also ladies that passes another guy's pregnancy to another dude.

Most guys are victims of the above and looking for a scapegoat to deal with.

Abortion is a crime under Nigeria law, if you doubt ask quack doctors.

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Re: Unwanted Abortion: I Finally Get Her Arrested And She'll Be Charged To Court by vb0mb(m): 10:40pm On Jul 08, 2022
Mayemavins:

Don't worry, I will update everything you ask for on Thursday, her sister may be watching

Do not post any information regarding the case here. Wait until it has been concluded.
Re: Unwanted Abortion: I Finally Get Her Arrested And She'll Be Charged To Court by Shugavee(f): 10:42pm On Jul 08, 2022
So did you plan on marrying her ?
Re: Unwanted Abortion: I Finally Get Her Arrested And She'll Be Charged To Court by polite2(m): 10:43pm On Jul 08, 2022
This guy is the most insane person I ve ever heard of .

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Re: Unwanted Abortion: I Finally Get Her Arrested And She'll Be Charged To Court by Giorgia: 11:41pm On Jul 08, 2022
HER BODY HER RIGHTS!
Because she did not want to bear your child you are having serious headache.
You know within you that you are not doing this because of the child but because you want to humiliate her in public!
Your Ego is bigger than Nigeria that's why you can't have it hurt.
If you think your thing is a big issue, BIGGER THINGS HAVE HAPPENED SIR!

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Re: Unwanted Abortion: I Finally Get Her Arrested And She'll Be Charged To Court by bitex2(m): 12:01am On Jul 09, 2022
Women must be held accountable for their poor judgment and decision.
Re: Unwanted Abortion: I Finally Get Her Arrested And She'll Be Charged To Court by luminouz(m): 1:23am On Jul 09, 2022
I don't understand these females on this thread at all.

If it was the man who forced the woman to abort, y'all would lambast his life and call him a deadbeat, useless mofo.

Now, a lady got pregnant on agreement, the dude promised to take care of the baby, the girl went ahead to abort it, the man got angry and suddenly, he is a mad man to y'all

Now, he wants to take her to court and females and many men think he is mad? Why the double standard

If the roles were reversed, I'm sure every female on the thread would be happy she sued his ass.

I just taya.

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Re: Unwanted Abortion: I Finally Get Her Arrested And She'll Be Charged To Court by ExudeLoveToAll: 4:38am On Jul 09, 2022
Datboredberri:
. You're being stu**d...

You compare this to carrying a child for 9 months? Are dumb are you?

Did anyone force you to buy her a phone?

Your attitude is obnoxious... No wonder she wouldn't keep your parasite in her... undecided

A signed agreement?


The main issue against the lady is that the procedure is illegal in Nigeria. Once you get pregnant you aren't permitted to terminate it willfully, it is a criminal offense.
Re: Unwanted Abortion: I Finally Get Her Arrested And She'll Be Charged To Court by ExudeLoveToAll: 4:50am On Jul 09, 2022
Screwcode1:
I gave you an ideal previously and I’m glad you acknowledged it, well don’t be surprise you might be paying for damages soon to the girl, do not bring up that you wanted to use her for surrogate, don’t mention that at all!!

You are a very smart dude, his point should be based on her doing illegal abortion if he doesn't want any extra baggage.
Re: Unwanted Abortion: I Finally Get Her Arrested And She'll Be Charged To Court by ExudeLoveToAll: 4:57am On Jul 09, 2022
Giorgia:
HER BODY HER RIGHTS!
Because she did not want to bear your child you are having serious headache.
You know within you that you are not doing this because of the child but because you want to humiliate her in public!
Your Ego is bigger than Nigeria that's why you can't have it hurt.
If you think your thing is a big issue, BIGGER THINGS HAVE HAPPENED SIR!


When it comes to pregnancy termination @ bolded doesn't hold in Nigeria.

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