Thonia69:
Okay... The topic doesn't make sense. You could have said "some ladies".

Godoverevery:

Corrected.......make sense now??

Stillwhites:
Most ladies are lazy and stupid! They can't afford to live on their own.You better empower yourself before you come close to me....Don't think that your vagina can make me empower you.

Godoverevery:


Easy bro.....you getting angry.

It really heartbreaking when you see an adult who plan is to just totally depend on you.

Rosaline5000:
Like you said "Some ladies" nobody is perfect, the way some ladies aren't perfect is the way some men are not perfect too and are very lazy.

Now you should know that some ladies also have issues too like it's not that they dont hustle but it's hard when many men see them as a sex object.
A lady I know went to look for job after searching she saw one in a boutique, guess what the man that owes the boutique wants her to be his sex slave before he can give her the job.
Many ladies have gone to interview searching for jobs and the employers ask them for sex, some do it tho but the ones that don't are left jobless, then maybe this ladies will start thinking of starting businesses but that require money which they dont have.

So it's basically not a big deal if you can help your wife to start a business because it is not easy for women out there.

When I was in the Uni, a lecturer ask me for sex and when I turned him down he threaten to fail me and he tried, I barely passed the 2 courses he was taking while my fellow male classmates passed with "A" I was struggling to get a "C" and it's not like I can do anything to him, half of the whole department was like that.
Poor women dont have it easy

Kaiair:
Do you know how difficult it is to make legal money?

Godoverevery:

It takes sweat and blood.......legal money comes with serious pains.

Kaiair:

Deep down most men dey find easy money...dem dey find who go fvck dem pay 200k per night

40fy:



**It's like @Godoverevery said, "LIFE IS MEANT TO BE HARD". Yeah, you're damn right!!! That is the purpose of Earth, you know, to teach one hardship and how to endure it and how to overcome it!!! We do not come to Earth to have a "very" enjoyable time, we all are here to learn!!!

**Y'all should just brace up!!!

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**I hate you, Ritzybeauty

Godoverevery:

If you get plug brah....I no mind ooo

200k a nite to a woman....imagine just having to do 5times a month...1m...OMG

Godoverevery:

Let me tell you a lil story.
After service year 2013 ......I was in my parent house for 8month with no job... i attend interviews but was never called ,my dad friends and uncle who promised me jobs no one came through.
One day I decided to go down to ogun state and find a job from lag....there lots of companies In sango area....I went to some but the security men told they weren't hiring ...luckily for me one told me to try dangote cement in ilaro ,have never been there before infact I knew no one there.
The next day I asked around and got there .....It was a massive plant with lot of people at the gate....I asked around on how to get a Job and was clearly told I needed serious connections...After finishing school my parent were still giving 25k pocket money every month and I was eating at home but i needed my own money.
I decided to take up a casual worker job there in the plant which was 12k per two weeks...my dear it was a terrible job but I did it for 1yr and 4 month.
When the new lines was completed for production, new engineers were needed.....I got the info early because people already knew i am a graduate of mech engine....immediately I called my boss in charge of my unit and he drove me down to the admin ....immediately my name was taken down and I did a short interview.
2weeks later my employment letter came out and that was it.

Nothing come easy.....life is meant to be hard my dear.....excuses only beget failure.

If you know what men do everyday to make money ....you wont be writing those things up.

I have a pig farm....anytime I go there if you see what I do...you will marvel....sometimes there poo slash on my face while parking them with water....i do all this things just to make money.

Godoverevery:

That what my father always tell me and brother from childhood...Life isn't meant to be easy.

You have to work for the good life you want.....as an adult the worst thing to do to yourself is to be dependent on someone for livelihood.

Rosaline5000:

Nice input and I am not arguing with you.

Just try and look at it from another prospective, "What if you were poor" could you have remained in that position long enough to get that amazing job, the answer is No, 24k a month wont be enough if you are handling the responsibility of your family members, your parents, siblings.
Or what if you didn't have someone in Ogun to accommodate you, a poor guy without connections or place to live.
It's because your parents are financially okay, that's why you had the peace of mind to work and struggle without stress but your own determination.
Many a times family responsibilities slow progress.
Take for example I had a cousin who is an only child, he was give basically everything, when he was in school, he can ask for 50k from his Dad and he will he given, he use this money and started a business which is so successful now because he had help what about a friend of mine

When Ultimate cycler came (a ponzi scheme) we were the first to hear about it, my friend invested in it and made 200k before it crashed, me on the other hand couldn't do it because I didn't have any money, my friend now have a good business and is very rich.
Point is the rich keep getting rich because they can use opportunities around them but the poor remain poor because even if they see opportunities they can act on it because of resources or responsibilities or they move on before they can eat the fruit of their labour because they dont have the luxuries of waiting.

Not all poor people are lazy, some are just unfortunate