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If You Overpamper Your Wife, You’ll Lose Her – Nigerian Woman Warns Men by JoshuaDoku: 11:55am On Jul 11, 2022
A yet-to-be-known Nigerian woman has advised men to minimize how they treat and pamper their women.

The lady gave an instance where a couple have an argument and the woman is visibly angry, but the man decides to apologize even if he was not at fault.

The woman said that men who fight with their partners should not immediately say ‘I am sorry when she is angry.

According to her, it is a bad thing because if the wife gets used to her husband apologizing first and he decides not to say ‘sorry’ during one of their quarrels, then the marriage would crash.

https://www.allgistroom.com/wife-nigerian-woman-men/

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Re: If You Overpamper Your Wife, You’ll Lose Her – Nigerian Woman Warns Men by Davolasnr: 12:00pm On Jul 11, 2022
Really
Re: If You Overpamper Your Wife, You’ll Lose Her – Nigerian Woman Warns Men by cutecommend: 12:05pm On Jul 11, 2022
Okay
Re: If You Overpamper Your Wife, You’ll Lose Her – Nigerian Woman Warns Men by Nyascobar1414: 12:06pm On Jul 11, 2022
Let the male feminists keep simping....
Most times this sh!!t is said by all those posh pastors

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Re: If You Overpamper Your Wife, You’ll Lose Her – Nigerian Woman Warns Men by Cypress042: 12:09pm On Jul 11, 2022
This woman look depressed and frustrated though grin

But Critically looking at what she said, there is a small truth in it.

Which is, woman hate men who pets them alot and that's a bitter truth sad

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Re: If You Overpamper Your Wife, You’ll Lose Her – Nigerian Woman Warns Men by Truvelisback(m): 12:11pm On Jul 11, 2022
JoshuaDoku:
A yet-to-be-known Nigerian woman has advised men to minimize how they treat and pamper their women.

The lady gave an instance where a couple have an argument and the woman is visibly angry, but the man decides to apologize even if he was not at fault.

The woman said that men who fight with their partners should not immediately say ‘I am sorry when she is angry.

According to her, it is a bad thing because if the wife gets used to her husband apologizing first and he decides not to say ‘sorry’ during one of their quarrels, then the marriage would crash.

https://www.allgistroom.com/wife-nigerian-woman-men/
It's true. Simps can relate.

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Re: If You Overpamper Your Wife, You’ll Lose Her – Nigerian Woman Warns Men by Munamoqel: 12:12pm On Jul 11, 2022
JoshuaDoku:
A yet-to-be-known Nigerian woman has advised men to minimize how they treat and pamper their women.

The lady gave an instance where a couple have an argument and the woman is visibly angry, but the man decides to apologize even if he was not at fault.

The woman said that men who fight with their partners should not immediately say ‘I am sorry when she is angry.

According to her, it is a bad thing because if the wife gets used to her husband apologizing first and he decides not to say ‘sorry’ during one of their quarrels, then the marriage would crash.

https://www.allgistroom.com/wife-nigerian-woman-men/
only a tiny percent of Nigeria women are marriageble other na miscrants

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Re: If You Overpamper Your Wife, You’ll Lose Her – Nigerian Woman Warns Men by virginprincess(f): 12:25pm On Jul 11, 2022
Mtcheeeeeew,mumu talk sad sad.
Re: If You Overpamper Your Wife, You’ll Lose Her – Nigerian Woman Warns Men by AbosedeFalade(f): 12:25pm On Jul 11, 2022
She just told the truth. Gloriousgbola (formerly Ornicus), I hope I told you the other time that one of the reasons why your wife despises you and beats you at the slightest opportunity is because of your simpleton attitude masked as male feminism.

No healthy woman likes and wants a simpleton as a husband. The simpleton will soon start crying and calling the mods for telling him the truth.

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Re: If You Overpamper Your Wife, You’ll Lose Her – Nigerian Woman Warns Men by GloriousGbola: 12:30pm On Jul 11, 2022
AbosedeFalade:
She just told the truth. Gloriousgbola, I hope I told you the other time that one of the reasons why your wife despises you and beats you at the slightest opportunity is because of your simpleton attitude masked as male feminism.

No healthy woman likes and wants a simpleton as a husband. The simpleton will soon start crying and calling the mods for telling him the truth.

My favorite man woman transgendered they them it liar, here once again to project the misereries of its failed life.

Can you go through a single day without mentioning me? Can you go through a day without thinking of me?

My very own erotomaniac tongue

Please do carry on
Re: If You Overpamper Your Wife, You’ll Lose Her – Nigerian Woman Warns Men by Greatzeus(m): 12:33pm On Jul 11, 2022
Do what works for you in your marriage. If pampering her brings love, commitment,peace and unity at home, please do.
Re: If You Overpamper Your Wife, You’ll Lose Her – Nigerian Woman Warns Men by yad2eidi: 12:47pm On Jul 11, 2022
She is correct
Re: If You Overpamper Your Wife, You’ll Lose Her – Nigerian Woman Warns Men by Ashawosboifrien: 1:14pm On Jul 11, 2022
She is right.....nice guys finish last.....I was a nice guy so I know.....the ladies that have stayed longest in my life without issue are the ones I am not nice to and I know send

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Re: If You Overpamper Your Wife, You’ll Lose Her – Nigerian Woman Warns Men by GloriousGbola: 1:26pm On Jul 11, 2022
AbosedeFalade:


O kan fẹ pe o le mọ ẹni ti o wa lẹhin moniker yii. Simpleton.

Yawn... Get a life, loser.
Re: If You Overpamper Your Wife, You’ll Lose Her – Nigerian Woman Warns Men by Belafonte(m): 1:32pm On Jul 11, 2022
Even when I dey obviously wrong sef, I never talk sorry grin grin
Re: If You Overpamper Your Wife, You’ll Lose Her – Nigerian Woman Warns Men by Nobody: 1:47pm On Jul 11, 2022
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Re: If You Overpamper Your Wife, You’ll Lose Her – Nigerian Woman Warns Men by Aaaaaaaahhhhhhh: 2:05pm On Jul 11, 2022
Too much wahala dey relationship I swear.

Re: If You Overpamper Your Wife, You’ll Lose Her – Nigerian Woman Warns Men by CedarHoldings: 3:13pm On Jul 11, 2022
Cypress042:
This woman look depressed and frustrated though grin

But Critically looking at what she said, there is a small truth in it.

Which is, woman hate men who pets them alot and that's a bitter truth sad
confirmed! A girl told me this last week, she said she hate it when a guy overshadowed her with love,

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Re: If You Overpamper Your Wife, You’ll Lose Her – Nigerian Woman Warns Men by Osashalom: 3:18pm On Jul 11, 2022
This is very correct. I am currently handling an issue like this. The wife has remained almost adamant because the husband has refused to apologise this time. Anything you over pampered in this life, you will surely lose it. Moderation is key!

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Re: If You Overpamper Your Wife, You’ll Lose Her – Nigerian Woman Warns Men by Osashalom: 3:26pm On Jul 11, 2022
You people won't learn till it becomes late. Who said you should not pamper a woman, didn't you read over pampered? If you continue to over pamper her you will definitely lose her. It's not a prediction, it's a spoiler.

Greatzeus:
Do what works for you in your marriage. If pampering her brings love, commitment,peace and unity at home, please do.

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Re: If You Overpamper Your Wife, You’ll Lose Her – Nigerian Woman Warns Men by Mercury12(m): 5:17pm On Jul 11, 2022
Nah shakara dey cause am for dem
Re: If You Overpamper Your Wife, You’ll Lose Her – Nigerian Woman Warns Men by Cypress042: 5:18pm On Jul 11, 2022
CedarHoldings:
confirmed! A girl told me this last week, she said she hate it when a guy overshadowed her with love,
That's just the fact sad

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Re: If You Overpamper Your Wife, You’ll Lose Her – Nigerian Woman Warns Men by wonder233: 5:45pm On Jul 11, 2022
Simp spotted
UpInTheSky:
'I'm sorry' are two simple words that no one should be hoarding, either out of pride,
or bad advice like hers.

These words can go a long way
in calming down any tense situation.

When you're in the wrong, apologize.
When you've perceived that your spouse believes you're in the wrong, apologize.
You can always talk things out later and if it turns out that they're in the wrong
after all, if you married a good spouse, they wouldn't hesitate to apologize.
Re: If You Overpamper Your Wife, You’ll Lose Her – Nigerian Woman Warns Men by goshikid: 5:58pm On Jul 11, 2022
fellow woman Don talk better thing now but our mumu simp brothers no go ever listen, na until their wife go see them finish and then their eyes go come clean as if them use hypo wash am undecided
Re: If You Overpamper Your Wife, You’ll Lose Her – Nigerian Woman Warns Men by pansophist(m): 6:08pm On Jul 11, 2022
What most people see as "morality" is basically "obedient cowardice". Because you are incapable of scolding her, you deceive yourself that you're a good man. She will shit on you, treat you worse, and you'll accept it as Mr Nice guy, hoping and praying she change and respect you.

No, you're a coward. A pathetic idiot, a helpless slowpoke. People don't change because you can tolerate their shit, they change because the alternative to not changing is worse. When she knows clearly that there are certain line she must not cross, will be punished, and that you will enforce it, then she will sit up and act right. This is true not just for a woman but humans.

But one formula that will make you almost irreplaceable by any woman is to constantly live up to your glory and be the best. A good man is a jewel, the world is in lack of such men. A good man is smart, hardworking, financially stable, independent in thought and financially, respectable, presentable, and dependable.

So yes, I agree with her. Women by nature will test you, and pin their respect on the line that you deserve. So she won't just respect you because you want respect, she will only respect you because you deserve respect. Same woman that will insult her ex will not do it to you if she knows clearly that you won't take it.

Deep respect to polygamous men, them try to handle more than one women grin

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