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This Shows That Women Are Manipulative by coputa(m): 10:52am On Jul 13, 2022
Many wedding and traditional marriages i have attended i noticed that whenever they call the couples to dance,their mothers always come out to dance alongside,that's not the bone of contention,it is when the invitees starts spraying the couples money,she will also be sprayed,that's not also the bone of contention,it is,when she start collecting the cash they sprayed her to herself without remitting them to the couples.This is very bad,because,from the money given to the couples,they would pay for some expenses incured during the marriage:like rented event centre,food,drinks etc.

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Re: This Shows That Women Are Manipulative by FERNANDEZISBACK: 11:04am On Jul 13, 2022
Does that In any way prove that women are manipulative?

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Re: This Shows That Women Are Manipulative by Rexymania(m): 11:10am On Jul 13, 2022
You based your argument on one assumption; that's shallow

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Re: This Shows That Women Are Manipulative by baby124: 11:27am On Jul 13, 2022
Small child go back to school and enroll for critical reasoning course. This your type of analysis does not make sense.

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Re: This Shows That Women Are Manipulative by coputa(m): 11:43am On Jul 13, 2022
baby124:
Small child go back to school and enroll for critical reasoning course. This your type of analysis does not make sense.
Hay baby,women are manipulative in nature,this is just a reoccuring scenario i often see whenever i attends marriages,should i reel them out for you to see,miss critical thinker.
Re: This Shows That Women Are Manipulative by coputa(m): 11:45am On Jul 13, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:
Does that In any way prove that women are manipulative?
yes,why did'nt her husband join her in the charade.
Re: This Shows That Women Are Manipulative by coputa(m): 11:46am On Jul 13, 2022
Rexymania:
You based your argument on one assumption; that's shallow
This is one among many of their antics.
Re: This Shows That Women Are Manipulative by FERNANDEZISBACK: 11:47am On Jul 13, 2022
coputa:
yes,why did'nt her husband join her in the charade.
As someone up there said..your analysis makes no sense.. lipsrsealed undecided

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Re: This Shows That Women Are Manipulative by NeckingNgulping(m): 12:14pm On Jul 13, 2022
That's not manipulation. They're just having a good time. As happy mothers witnessing the
marriage of their offshoots , they deserve more than that.
Re: This Shows That Women Are Manipulative by coputa(m): 12:14pm On Jul 13, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:

As someone up there said..your analysis makes no sense.. lipsrsealed undecided
oh! "No woman abuse online"this is not an abuse,it just that you lack the brain power to challenge it,BYE!
Re: This Shows That Women Are Manipulative by coputa(m): 12:27pm On Jul 13, 2022
NeckingNgulping:
That's not manipulation. She's just having a good time. As a happy mother witnessing her daughter's marriage, she deserves more than that.
Yes,that's the prayer of every parent,but don't you think the man deserve more also.
Re: This Shows That Women Are Manipulative by Rexymania(m): 12:48pm On Jul 13, 2022
Okay

coputa:
This is one among many of their antics.
Re: This Shows That Women Are Manipulative by Mindlog: 12:53pm On Jul 13, 2022
coputa:
Yes,that's the prayer of every parent,but don't you think the man deserve more also.
Did anyone stop the father of the bride from joining the wife in the dance?

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Re: This Shows That Women Are Manipulative by MumEmdy(f): 1:05pm On Jul 13, 2022
Mindlog:

Did anyone stop the father of the bride from joining the wife in the dance?

Exactly what I'm about to ask..
Re: This Shows That Women Are Manipulative by coputa(m): 1:19pm On Jul 13, 2022
Mindlog:

Did anyone stop the father of the bride from joining the wife in the dance?
No one stops the father,but men,naturally wont do that,even if they do,it's not for percunary gains
Re: This Shows That Women Are Manipulative by Mindlog: 1:46pm On Jul 13, 2022
coputa:
No one stops the father,but men,naturally wont do that,even if they do,it's not for percunary gains

In some cultural setting, it is even the bride's mother that is the "main celebrant" .

Across all stages of human development, childhood-adolescenthood-adulthood l, females are more expressive and the mother rejoicing and being sprayed money is not out of place and it is very unnatural to expect the bride's mother to sit still because the husband is..... difference in gender and personality must be appreciated.

There is joy in spraying dancing mothers money. cheesy cheesy

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Re: This Shows That Women Are Manipulative by Rickmann: 2:04pm On Jul 13, 2022
coputa:
Many wedding and traditional marriages i have attended i noticed that whenever they call the couples to dance,their mothers always come out to dance alongside,that's not the bone of contention,it is when the invitees starts spraying the couples money,she will also be sprayed,that's not also the bone of contention,it is,when she start collecting the cash they sprayed her to herself without remitting them to the couples.This is very bad,because,from the money given to the couples,they would pay for some expenses incured during the marriage:like rented event centre,food,drinks etc.

And how does a mother coming out to dance and merry with her daughter manipulate you?

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Re: This Shows That Women Are Manipulative by Nobody: 2:18pm On Jul 13, 2022
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Re: This Shows That Women Are Manipulative by Karleb(m): 4:49pm On Jul 13, 2022
I think it depends on the tribe. I have not noticed this in weddings I have been.

The money spend on the traditional wedding day usually goes to the host.

Those women (the hosts) are greedy motherfuckers.
Re: This Shows That Women Are Manipulative by ahnie: 4:57pm On Jul 13, 2022
coputa:
yes,why did'nt her husband join her in the charade.
What's your obsession with women?
Re: This Shows That Women Are Manipulative by bionictino(m): 5:18pm On Jul 13, 2022
Mindlog:


In some cultural setting, it is even the bride's mother that is the "main celebrant" .

Across all stages of human development, childhood-adolescenthood-adulthood l, females are more expressive and the mother rejoicing and being sprayed money is not out of place and it is very unnatural to expect the bride's mother to sit still because the husband is..... difference in gender and personality must be appreciated.

There is joy in spraying dancing mothers money. cheesy cheesy

Please can I get your contact, any one.....so I can talk to you personally?
Re: This Shows That Women Are Manipulative by coputa(m): 6:37pm On Jul 13, 2022
Mindlog:


In some cultural setting, it is even the bride's mother that is the "main celebrant" .

Across all stages of human development, childhood-adolescenthood-adulthood l, females are more expressive and the mother rejoicing and being sprayed money is not out of place and it is very unnatural to expect the bride's mother to sit still because the husband is..... difference in gender and personality must be appreciated.

There is joy in spraying dancing mothers money. cheesy cheesy
cultural demand is okay but not the over bearing influences of women wanting to collect everything from the children and leave the man empty handed.
Re: This Shows That Women Are Manipulative by Mindlog: 6:51pm On Jul 13, 2022
coputa:
cultural demand is okay but not the over bearing influences of women wanting to collect everything from the children and leave the man empty handed.

From dancing freely and being sprayed money to leaving the man empty handed , uncle e take connect?

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Re: This Shows That Women Are Manipulative by Mindlog: 6:52pm On Jul 13, 2022
bionictino:


Please can I get your contact, any one.....so I can talk to you personally?

Send me a PM.
Re: This Shows That Women Are Manipulative by coputa(m): 7:09pm On Jul 13, 2022
Mindlog:


From dancing freely and being sprayed money to leaving the man empty handed , uncle e take connect?
Which dancing freely,why cant she dance when the couple are sitting down,must she dance with them.she has ulterior motive
Re: This Shows That Women Are Manipulative by Mindlog: 7:27pm On Jul 13, 2022
coputa:
Which dancing freely,why cant she dance when the couple are sitting down,must she dance with them.she has ulterior motive

Is the ulterior motive to "snatch" the son-in-law? shocked shocked shocked

She has every right to dance when she so wishes during the wedding and there is nothing immoral nor illegal about it.....you can't dictate to a mother on how to express her joy that her daughter is being married.
Re: This Shows That Women Are Manipulative by Nigerianization(m): 7:35pm On Jul 13, 2022
The op is right about the manipulation part but the example no follow.

I observed that father's day this year, all the married women on my contact list celebrated their husbands with pictures of both her and the hubby.

Men celebrate their wifes on mother's day but the women wouldn't give space on father's day. This doesn't prove the manipulation part but it's just an example
Re: This Shows That Women Are Manipulative by Aaaaarghmed(m): 10:03pm On Jul 13, 2022
Abeg who know where I fit see strong cane buy..I wan flog this Op
Re: This Shows That Women Are Manipulative by coputa(m): 8:44am On Jul 14, 2022
Aaaaarghmed:
Abeg who know where I fit see strong cane buy..I wan flog this Op
Cane nor dey pain me o,u wan know watin dey pain me.

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