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Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by chatinent: 12:31pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
bdon123: She added that part later when criticisms started coming. It wasn't in her initial post. 3 Likes |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Allisgud: 12:31pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Zonefree:u nail it 1 Like |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by TOPCRUISE(m): 12:34pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
begoniaa:A prudent man can make up his mind after a search in just 3 months if performance obligation has been satisfied. And our minds are sensitive. If you say you no do and you delay in occupying that space intended for you, a lady much better and presentable than you can occupy that space. And that is game over. 1 Like |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Allisgud: 12:35pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Lie,if assuming he was rich then,u wount tell him it's just 3 months of dating u are not ready,moreover how many years did nednwoko date regina[color=#770077][/color]Lie,if assuming he was rich then,u wount tell him it's just 3 months of dating u are not ready,moreover how many years did nednwoko date regina 1 Like |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Freethinker87: 12:35pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
SunMusk: I don't understand the romance section. Everyone seems combative, both men and women. Alpha male, feminist, simps and all sorts of weird nomenclatures they call each other in anger. You guys should drink some water and chill so that we can discuss and learn from each other. 3 Likes |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Saezc: 12:36pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
The mistake you made from the beginning is rejecting him inside 3months of your relationship, you should’ve considered that he’s very far away from you and for someone to want to marry you and take you America must be very serious about it…..so since you rejected his honest proposal from the beginning he’d think you’re just trying to use him cuz there’s no reason for you rejecting him…..you guys aren’t small so I think you should’ve considered it. It’s your mistake so learn from it 1 Like |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by begoniaa: 12:37pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
TOPCRUISE: Why are you adding conditions? Women can be studied in three months, and you obviously believe the guy in the story above has done due diligence to study her in three months? Lol... so a lady that accepts your marriage proposal after three months of just meeting you is prudent not desperate? You can marry a woman you don't know from Adam in three months? |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Cowbell521: 12:40pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Iamyemmie:That boy should avoid you before you ruin his life. Go and marry Akeem from Oshodi. Mumu olosho 1 Like |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by begoniaa: 12:40pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Freethinker87: Which feminist do you see running amok, calling men all sort of names and creating denigrating threads about them? What is weird about believing in equality and the humanness of women? Can you count how many times threads about women get to the front-page and those guys flock to it as usual, talking down on women and using slurs on them? |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Bar1941(m): 12:41pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Similar thing happened to me 5years ago or thereabout, there was this senseless lady I was trying to woo, I assured her with time everything will be fine, that I loved her and wanted her to be my wife but the mumu was asking me what and what have I acquired materially. This is a lady that two of her younger sisters had married, yet still looking for a millionaire before settling down. After a while I left Nigeria and I decided to let her know then the fool was asking me "so what is the plan now", I asked her which plan? My plan is to acquire the material things you requested for initially. She was pained but I don't care, after some months I deleted her contacts from my phone. Back to your topic, his statement made it clear he didn't love or have any plan for you marriage wise, move on. 3 Likes |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Cowbell521: 12:41pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Zonefree:or Musibaw from Ojota 1 Like |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Cowbell521: 12:42pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Iamyemmie:Opportunistic bigot |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by begoniaa: 12:44pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
chatinent: Okay, and you certainly know that the guy WAS in Nigeria? She said he's a US citizen at the time they started dating. Even in the initial post before she modified, she never mentioned that the guy was struggling and broke and whatnot in Nigeria... |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Kaysalas(m): 12:45pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
syntekelite:My exact thoughts from the very beginning 1 Like |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Iamyemmie: 12:45pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
rickleye:Thanks for the advice To answer your questions -He came to see me last December he left January -No we did not(we met when he came to visit his parents in Nigeria) -Yes he comes everyyear and I go to meet him at his parent’s house -Yes he brings stuffs for me when he comes and he gives me money -We talk and chat everyday and video calls too We talk atleast 10hrs a day -Yes he introduced me to all his family members and they call me too Our relationship is solid to me ,don’t know where this is coming from |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Zonefree(m): 12:45pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
begoniaa:K 1 Like |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Alfabest07(m): 12:45pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
fman: Guys dey reason go far o, and truth fit dey am sef 2 Likes |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by phemmyfour: 12:46pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Iamyemmie:If you think you can endure the bolded just for green card....go ahead. If being alive and respected is your priority, my dear, use your tongue to count your teeth |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by begoniaa: 12:46pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
TOPCRUISE: ✏ ✏ Oh, I have also learnt today that if a US-based guy asks for my hand in marriage, three months after our first meeting, accepting it is PRUDENT of me. That doesn't make me a desperado beech looking for a green card to japa and milk him. 1 Like |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by usagee36: 12:47pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Haha guess you met him online. My dear sister forget him because men from here don't import anymore. Too many bad stories. Iamyemmie: 1 Like |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Alfabest07(m): 12:47pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
chatinent:okay then, i understand the angle of your comment better now, and truth fit dey am too 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by fman(m): 12:49pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Alfabest07:if we no reason, Wetin we gain? 2 Likes |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by cooooooks(m): 12:51pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Break up with him. I am an abroadian boyfriend. The only reason I even pursued the lady in question is because I saw my wife in her. If marriage is not the goal, there is little point in abroad-Naija relationship. From his point of view, I can see his fears. That just shows that the trust is not there, and he should break up with you. Alternatively, you two could try to get you to come as a student to the States. That way, you two could have a normal relationship, NO STRINGS ATTACHED. If you two still want to marry, great, if not, you separate. Iamyemmie: 1 Like |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by 2dice01: 12:51pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Positiveme2020:The plan reach Z sef |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by begoniaa: 12:51pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Zonefree: Keep on... I will take advantage of it and enjoy it 'til the last. Shey because it is me, you cannot let go, ba? You wan show yourself but you no really want provoke too much... because when other ladies insult you, you say one or two "Ks" and move on. But you CANNOT resist sparring with me. And I won't stop it. How does it feel being insulted and trolled without being able to respond as you wish? Shey you know how to run your mouth at me before? Poor, broken beggarly boy with a dysfunctional childhood. :-( |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by cooooooks(m): 12:52pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
We do if we met our wives in person in Naija. We could if we love & trust them. usagee36: |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Freethinker87: 12:52pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
begoniaa: Calm down. You're sounding agitated and that's the combativeness I was speaking of. Your aggression is misplaced and totally unnecessary. You didn't understand my text in context. I was speaking generally about the name calling in the romance section. I don't venture into the romance section, only when a thread is moved to the frontpage ...and everytime I've noticed that the commenters are usually combative and I wonder why that is. |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by usagee36: 12:52pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
God bless America men Iamyemmie: |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by cooooooks(m): 12:53pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Loool 3 months marriage? Even his family will try to block it. begoniaa: |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Munzy14(m): 12:53pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Iamyemmie:I will commend the guy for wanting to marry a lady he met in just three months..That's short to understand a woman he intends to make a forever.. You on your part played hard to get or probably into some one else.. Seems tables turned, you now pressure him with marriage talks...First impression matters. You ladies don't know when you push away that dude specially meant for you..All because of selfish gains, and unexplainable shakara...Plus nasty characters.. A lady must make herself approachable..Because a man does the chase..We found you as woman and obtain favour from the Lord..Not you telling us I am here o Or doing hide and seek..To appear woke. You look desperate now, probably you have sized him up and he is doing okay..You are now talking marriage.. He lost interest when you pushed him away..Men don't forgive that...When they front a genuine interest, you push it off like the world revolve around you.. Lick your wounds and move on. Our abroad based guys go for the most submissive women when e reach to marry...Reasons why na their mama/ papa or relative the find wife for them.. You sound egotistical..He is afraid you will rebel against him the moment he brings you over..And which is at least 73.44% truth from how you treated him from onset. 4 Likes |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Zonefree(m): 12:54pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
begoniaa:Magnoliaa, is everything okay with you? 2 Likes |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by NoToPile: 12:54pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
The same people that will castigated the OP if she married an abroad person she didn't know well after 3 months are the same ones saying she should have married him and then would have still blamed her for gold digging if things went wrong in the marriage. 2 Likes |
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