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Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by begoniaa: 1:14pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
TOPCRUISE: Ahh, finally. Good afternoon. |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Nobody: 1:15pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Freethinker87: 1 Like
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Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Iamyemmie: 1:16pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
cooooooks:I am a pharmacist,I have a job and I am ok |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by begoniaa: 1:17pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
cooooooks:Shey this is what I am always saying... y'all that are very impressionable. One small breast, sex, food, rebranding... and you are falling all over yourselves already. |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by cooooooks(m): 1:18pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Make una advise homegirl here now instead of swearing on moderately cupped left glands. siofra: |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by usagee36: 1:18pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Mental slavery that gives me peace of mind and changed my life for good Bruh? I want more of it please. cooooooks: |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by cooooooks(m): 1:19pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
I can't disagree. All those guys will find out soon enough. Bla bla bla "but I love her". Take them to club, even house party now, they will be seeing visions. begoniaa: |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by begoniaa: 1:22pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
cooooooks: Shall we address this now... So tell me... a self-described identity that has done one or two things there... how? Which things? How have I been bitter? |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by cooooooks(m): 1:22pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Nne, you have a job in Nigeria. How can you transfer the qualifications in the States? Have you started the process? Also, as a pharmacist, you should/may be able to gain admission for a Masters or even something else like Nurse Practitioner, or Physician Assistant. This makes an earlier comment more relevant: if you guys are unsure of marriage, perhaps a "real relationship", including the physical nearness (not necessarily living together) would help firm up the decision in you guys' minds. Frankly, you may decide that you don't want to marry him Iamyemmie: |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Iamyemmie: 1:23pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
yemmie:He comes home every year The first here he stayed for 5months It’s not like I haven’t seen him in 2 years I have never dated anybody,I am busy and don’t have any reason to He’s my option A and I love him and I felt he did too(before this talk) I am working pharmacist ,I might not be as rich as him but I am okay on my own He talks about how smart I am too ,with me by his side,I have lots of investment plans but Na money no just dey And right from time never even liked U.S ,always wanted to go to canada and he knows this But because time is going I want to marry and travel with my family Men have problem o 4 Likes |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by begoniaa: 1:24pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Freethinker87: LMAO. Okay, but you mentioned "feminists" there, and I am asking, of all the topics that you see hitting FPs, which of the menace are feminists or caused by them? |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Josephkabila12: 1:25pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
I love some comments to the story ehn. If guys dem go begin wiseup I go like am die 3 Likes |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by cooooooks(m): 1:26pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Magnolia swallows Western "men are inherently bad and have priviledge" talking points hook, line & sinker. Poco, seemed to think that Nigerian men are just bad. Like she had given up on Naija men (due to her experiences), hence the "bitter". These are what I recall from my interactions with both monikers. Are magnolia & pocohontas (& begoniaa) the same person begoniaa: 1 Like |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by begoniaa: 1:27pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
cooooooks: Toor. Apparently, our resident alfa mails do not believe this. Nehi, they change the rules of the game at will so they are perpetually not to be blamed. |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Cutehector(m): 1:29pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Michelle55:come let us hug... enter uber come my side make i buy you wine. |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Powersurge: 1:30pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Iamyemmie: At the back of your mind, you know what he said is true. I don't understand what these useless men go struggle go make money and want to condescend to marry below their status. 2 Likes |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by CedarHoldings: 1:31pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Zonefree:am ready, she should come, i stays in mushin olosha,aunty come let build empire together leave Americana alone. 1 Like |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by greatnationmedi(m): 1:32pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Aunty, This is what I know about a Nigerian being a US Citizen in the space of 2 years +, If your so-called bf left Nigeria 2 or 3years ago and now He is a citizen of America, Just forget it, He is just using you to catch cruise, He has found akata(oyinbo, white ladies) who is dating or probably married her to get that citizenship, So, my advice is...just move on.. ...I come in peace. Shalom. 1 Like |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by begoniaa: 1:33pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
cooooooks: Yes. The two both of us be deemons residing inside one body. One can manifest at any time. Different traits, etc., but cut from the same cloth. So look at this now... imagine what you are accusing us of... she thinks Naija men are bad because of her experiences, ba... okayyyyy, because say you dey her life or na from comments here wey you dey read? Me, I have swallowed men are inherently bad and have privileges... oh. That's all? That's the only crime Magnolia has committed? Mtcheeww. E no even vex me reach Poco own. I thought you had more damaging facts against me ni o. All the I'm a lesbian, a baby mama that has been serially* used and dumped no feature? Because these are things y'all say about us, but when we come for their heads, we suddenly become the troublemakers. No, you, you do not think this character misrepresentation and being spread by others as facts - all glimpsed from our comments - is not enough to make one angry? I see now... |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Zonefree(m): 1:36pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
begoniaa:K 1 Like |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Michelle55: 1:37pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Cutehector:Nkwobi follow the palmy ni? Make we do am for weekend cos this I no fit stand this island traffic |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by begoniaa: 1:37pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by cocolacec(m): 1:39pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Iamyemmie: Your guy has insecurities about you relocating to the US.You guys need to talk about it,define your relationship,give him an ultimatum. If he doesn’t want to loose you,he will do the right thing but if he gives a non chalant attitude about it,know that you in for a long thing(booty calls). Has he met your parents to introduce himself? Was he married before? |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Cutehector(m): 1:39pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Michelle55:all join. Ok weekend then. 1 Like |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by begoniaa: 1:40pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
NoToPile: This is how their mouths are always turninoniown, Sis. |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Dorakay93(m): 1:41pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Iamyemmie:Something is missing here, you are not telling us the entire story btw u and d guy. He might have caught u or sense disloyalty from you before. I can't categorically blame and conclude against u though, but while telling him this, don't sound desperate. The mistake u made here is u shud have opened up that u people can't just rush into marriage within those time u guys just met, that he shud give you time to study each other. It will have been another thing. Keep praying too, who knows may be your enemies are against u marrying to Yankee man. |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by Kizzygentle: 1:42pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
CHoccolaTE:Unless she is not fine and also not sexy.. Secondly, if she is not ignoring then she is definitely been smashed so why is she worried about someone outside when she is getting smashed here steadily. Thirdly, if my number 2 is correct, then she is after green card and money that's all.. |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by KristaPretty(f): 1:43pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Iamyemmie: Well I think he ended up seeing that you are not what he needs as a wife Move on, you are a woman and from my understanding it is amusing to a man when you are the one to propose marriage. Until a man is ready, he cannot be talked into marrying you. Your post clearly shows that he is either not ready to get married now or he does not find you wifeable Move on o, stop waiting for abroad man. Better still work hard and go to abroad by yourself 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by cooooooks(m): 1:44pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
Ah. How will I know about baby mama-ship (which cannot even be an insult as a strong minority of our people are baby mamas/papas). These are the overall themes that I recall from interactions. Perhaps, if it was a year ago, I would have had more specific issues. As for the guys, I respond to them too. Even on this trend, there is a guy that has colonial mentality with the white women or nothing mindset. Even in an earlier comment, I said gender wars are stupid. That, surely, was directed to all. Finally, I have been using the "Alfa Mail" phrase to parody many (fake) men's rights rabble rousers (I believe I got that from Loreettaa). Do you see now... begoniaa: |
Re: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by cooooooks(m): 1:45pm On Jul 14, 2022 |
I've been trying to say the bolded but iamyemmie is not interested. She even has a health-related degree AND work experience. KristaPretty: |
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