Adasun:
whatever females sees in the choosing sphere is still a mystery to me hence I rather go with the fact that 'they can be attracted to you for nothing'.


The factory I work here, barely four months and I got my first catch.
I still don't know what she saw in me.


Two of the supervisor in the factory are into her including my manager.i know this because I have access to her phone at will.


Is it my sexiness? I don't think so, because stress from the work had drain all muscles I accumulated from rigorous exercises in school.


She saved my number as 'Desire'.
After the stressful work of the day,this girl had to sleep in the factory just so she would be with me.i live in the factory dometry while she comes from home.




Of course everything happened after some holy holy sh.t test from her which I passed flawlessly.



Am I carried away?no, I gamed more gals the more. I use her beauty as a booster and flirt more.



She told me ysterday that my manager said he would ask me who am I to her.the man self don the cut me from some place I do get small change from self.mtcheeew.



Seriously,from the day ubunja open my eyes to the choosing game,my life became effortless with women.all I do is relax and let her do the work while I display myself to other potential fe-mates.


But to point you to what they sees before they come,I still can't tell bro

Calibrator:
Now that your manager has started putting you on a short leash and your income has started dwindling due to loss of "change" as you put it... I hope the pussy is worth the lost income.



All I can decipher is a guy who is violating one of the core rule of "Game"........ You don't put a pussy above your source of revenue unless the pussy can reimburse the lost revenue in folds. In local parlance "Don't shiit where you eat"

Calibrator:
Now that your manager has started putting you on a short leash and your income has started dwindling due to loss of "change" as you put it... I hope the pussy is worth the lost income.



All I can decipher is a guy who is violating one of the core rule of "Game"........ You don't put a pussy above your source of revenue unless the pussy can reimburse the lost revenue in folds. In local parlance "Don't shiit where you eat"

Reminderz:
to buttress my point further, I will share the experiences that I've had with women...

illimitable men maxims says

"Women detest criticism and judgement in any form. even when intended constructively, they will misperceive an attack upon their reputation. women can't handle criticism. they ask for the truth out of ego and self-importance, but they cannot handle it. hence why people tend to use baby talk with women and sugar-coat things rather than telling it like it is"

another one says,
"Don't mention the red pill to women, just practice it. they will hate the ideas, but love the effects"

mentioning redpill facts to women, especially the ones you're attracted to will most likely make them avoid you because what they will refer to it is misogyny, hatred against women and all that, and women can't handle the truth, even if you mean well for them. this is why the people who are honest and nice with women don't get laid. women don't care about your honesty. being honest with the truth don't get them wet. by practicing it, you make it more likely for the redpill tactics to be much more effective on them. if you mention it to a woman who's woke, it will make it less effective on her and she will be able to prepare a counter attack. they will hate the ideas if you mention it to them, but will love the effects it is having on them. the moment you mention to them that this is what you're using on them, it won't move them anymore... the charm will spoil and no longer effective.

redpill is like kayamanta, as long as you don't realise that you're affected by kayamanta, it will continue to be effective on you

before I started posting redpill truths and tactics on my wall back then, there was this girl I got talking with online and she has fallen head over heels and already been planning to visit me, she even told me she had a boyfriend, me I nor kuku send am, she still says we have to meet. before she got attracted to me, I employed a series of redpill tactics on her which makes it easy for her to fall... lol I know my way around them. it was not long after I started posting redpill tactics for my friends (both men and women) for them to see and learn thinking I was doing something great, or showing my macho self , I noticed she started distancing herself from me, not replying very well and all that... as a redpill guy, I nor bother to ask her wetin dey sup, I just leave her in order not to seem desperate.. she commented on some of the posts when I first started but as time goes by she just ignores... I noticed that spoilt that chemistry we had from the begining, although we still talk but I don't think it will be possible anymore.

same thing happened to the women wey we dey vibe together before, the connection somehow reduced because what I was posting was kinda hurting to them... "like avoid damaged woman, don't marry a girl that's this and that, avoid non virgins, avoid hoes blah blah and all others".. it really dealt with the relationships we had together and even with some guys too. they started seeing me differently from that day onwards. and it wasn't like that when I haven't mention what I was using on them to get them attracted to me.

If people dont know that you're wicked, they will continue to associate themselves with you, but the moment they find out, they will avoid you, or use it against you.


in everything you do, always remember law 3 of Robert Greene which says "hide your intentions" and also remember the unwritten law in the laws of power which says "do not talk about the tactics you use".. this one dey very important especially with women. I call it the 49th law.

Adasun:
I don't of you,but I can tell what got me attracted to a girl.it is quite simple for me.



Another thing is,what you think got her attracted to you maybe found in others around her and even more.but still on still,na you she choose.it is that complex.



Is ubunja or someone here once said a girl got attracted to him because of the way he usually said "sex without condom"



Man, the choosing game is complex but I enjoy it to the moon.


I have 3 bannies under my umbrella since I started working in the factory. Apart from the one i told you about up there,Their is this second Igbo girl who was shifted to a hard position meant for men in the factory just because she didn't summit Cookie to our general SP in the factory.she ran from their after working for a while and it was only her female antics that save her from been fired-
Chinese man see tears and told her to go back to her previous place.

This men that want her are the same men ordering me to stop her work and I obeyed because they are higher in hirachy.



Still on still,this the same bae always melt upon my touch on her.the lust is glaring.



The choosing game is complex bro.

Reminderz:

nice one ubunja, but one thing men should always note is that, not every girl will fall for you, no matter your game or no matter how good you are. if you dey follow girl talk and she dey do anyhow, just forget about her.. it simply means she doesn't feel you.. no bother stressing yourself further.. real attraction have no stress or much excuses involved. if you know your aim is to get on with her, go with that hands on. if you know your aim is business, go on with that hands on. just go for what you want. and if she ain't giving you what you want, leave her.. shikena.

rejection is part of the game and it doesn't mean you're not doing things right or you're doing it wrong. rejection is part of the game. many men seems to forget that and feel sad when things don't go the way they expected. rejection is part of the game. rejection shouldn't make you feel less.. na lack of abundance mentality, lack of options and low self esteem dey cause that one. too much of expectations too from our end breaks our heart when things don't go the way we expected. shalom.

bennyflipy:
What is the perfect response to a
What am I to you question?

2dice01:
True
I have a Makeup artist friend
she is 25years
Will be getting married this year to a Perfect Gentleman

¹She calls me all sort of pet and love names in the presence of everybody including her fiance

²Same girl that told me even if she is married and she luckily met a particular 9ja celeb(name withheld) she will bàng him


I feel kinda sorry for the niggga tho
I know how much he spent to help her getting a standard equipped shop and the money he his still spending and will spend on wedding

One Bad Guy your babe is crushing on will now knack her for free

This game is Rigged

DharmieDhrey:
These h*es be' wildin'

ubunja:

That's not how the game goes unfortunately,, If this was the case then Broke women will deal with Broke men. But broke women want rich men cause we're all looking for a partner who brings to the table what we don't have.

Women marry up financially. Men marry up morally.

A broke woman and a rich man works (Cinderella)
A morally pure woman and an evil man works (Beauty and the Beast)

Its easy for men to save a woman from her financial defects but next to impossible for men to save a woman from her CHARACTER defects. No amount of love and money can change a hoe into a housewife.
But it's easy for women to change a man's character defects. With enough love and fidelity from a woman,, even the most brutal barbarian can be domesticated. What's very hard for women to do, is save a man from his FINANCIAL defects. Its an uphill battle against a man's own ego and a woman's own utter disinterest in using her own money to uplift a man.

emmaodet:



Ubunjaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
You are a man full of wisdom on Sexual matters.
Ubunja, what can I give you for all these knowledges you are sharing?
Once promo to give you something but you kind of shy away from it. Probably for security reason.

Do you live close to Durban? My colleague stays in Durban. Mama is Sileco

ubunja:
I'm in Johannesburg and you've my WhatsApp but it's been ages since I was on WhatsApp. Is that Sileco or Sicelo?

Ketapu:


Sincerely, I first thought I was the one that typed the above because you said my mind.

I'm glad to see that some guys on this thread understand the game and share similar mentality with me.

One thing we guys must understand is this:

Everything about this world is like a game. You either play the game or get played.

For me, I don't waste my time with ladies again. Once I meet you, I tell you within the first conversation, or in the worst case, the second conversation what I want from her, usually romance.

Once she says she's not interested, she's already history.

That is the game

I can boldly say that I have gotten more rejections than most guys on this thread using the above technique. However, I have also gotten more ladies. I wish I can share some of my experiences in the past one year with ladies that said yes to romancing me within minutes of meeting them. However, I won't share them for privacy reasons.

A lady that will like to fucck you already determine from the first conversation you had with her if she wants to fucck you or not. She is only waiting for you to make the initiative. So, you are only setting up yourself to be played if you decide to act stupid friendship with her instead of telling her your mind.

When I was reading Wonderfulman95 lamentation, I was just chuckling because it is clear that he doesn't understand the game at all.

He is completely at fault for what happened to him. I can't blame him much because many of us were once like him.

Before I took the red pill, I had similar experience.

There was this girl at my workplace that I wanted to romance but was too scared to tell her my mind. I resorted to just friendship and we talk for most part of our work days. Everyone at work always call us lovers. There is also a mate of mine at the workplace who doesn't talk much.

One day, I noticed something strange. The girl and that my mate talked strangely as if they have been close before. The lady was also trying to prevent me from hearing them talk. I knew something had happened because outside work, that my guy is a bad guy. He won't give any lady attention like that if he is not fuccking her.

The blue pill me was playing friendship with the lady while my mate was fuccking her without wasting time with her. If I tell you many things I did for the lady with the hope I will later fucck her, you will pity my blue pill days.

Men, I cringe anytime I remember things I did for ladies when I grossly blue pilled. I really thank God for leading me to red pill.

@ wonderfulman95, stop deceiving yourself.

First, admit you were playing blue pill game with that lady while your friend played somewhat red pill game with her. You lost. He won.

Also, you have scarcity mentality. Stop telling yourself you have options for ladies because if you really do, you won't be bothered about what that lady did. By options, I mean ladies you are fuccking and not just those you are merely talking with.

My recommendations are as follow:

1. Next time you meet the lady, LOOK HER STRAIGHT IN THE EYES AND WITHOUT MINCING WORDS, TELL HER I WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU.

She will either accept or reject your interest.

If she accepts it, I wish you all the best with your sex life with her. Just use condom ALWAYS.

If she rejects your interest, FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, LEAVE HER ALONE. BLOCK HER ON ALL MEDIUM OF COMMUNICATION. CUT OFF ALL COMMUNICATION WITH HER. REDUCE YOUR OFFLINE INTERACTION WITH HER. IN FACT, IF I WERE YOU, I WON'T EVEN BOTHER TO DO ANYTHING WITH HER AGAIN.

When you cut ties with her, she will try to win you back. When she does, insist on sex with her. If she rejects you a second time, sternly warn her to stay away from you. She will try all sort of manipulation on you like calling you bitter, hurt, and the like. Don't worry. They are normal reactions from ladies when they start noticing they can no longer manipulate you. Just walk away without looking back.

Also, work on yourself and start interacting romantically with other ladies. Always tell them at the early stage of your interaction what you want from them. No woman can manipulate you if you are always 100% honest about your interest with them.

I wish I can expantiate on this but I think I will recommend Alan Roger Currie books.

Go to www.b-ok.cc and search for "Mode One" by Alan Roger.

Read all his books. I promise you that you will see where you have been making mistakes with ladies.

Most of us have SIMPED before but we thank God for the salvation of red pill.

Go and SIMP no more bro.

Kenogidi:
telling a girl you want to Bleep her should be done by/with you actions( I.e seduction) not literally with your mouth. Please take note. Doing otherwise will get you constant 100% rejections plus one or two slaps join

emmaodet:


Okay. Let’s see how it goes.
The name is sicelo and another guy here called Michu from South Africa too.
Seems Zimbabweans don’t fancy Angola and Namibia rather South Africa.

ubunja:
the game is ruthless. I always tell people when it comes to these girls "sex first, any other business after", but people say I'm promoting hedonism. Look now you're salty another guy has gone ahead of you and tasted the cookie while you "bid your time ". And you'll be dumb to think he's the only one. He's just the only one YOU KNOW.
Women have only one thing to offer, and thats puccy, if you act like you're special and you don't want it, guess what? Guys with no shame who know their worth and go after what they want will jump you and hit it and you'll be left behind " still bidding your time". And it's not even about being thirsty but being clear with a girl that with you there's nothing for free. If sex is too immoral for you to get in exchange for favors then she better square you by doing you solid favours that may not include sex, but guess what again? You'll still be salty and angry when you learn other guys are getting that puccy while you get mere favours. So its just best to go for sex straight....but there's an art to this or else you come across as a perv.
No matter how useful a woman is and how much she can bring to your world, begin with sex. Get the sex. But then don't stop there. But get the sex first. At the very least that will remove unnecessary tension between the two of you and make you at ease around her. While attaching her to you. But imagine doing business with a lady and you act like you dont wanna hit it but you're always spying on her cleavage and thighs wondering how she tastes cause you can't bring yourself to go after that puccy cause you've positioned yourself strictly as a platonic business partner! That's rather sad.
Yes we don't mix business with pleasure and we don't bring our girlfriends into our business affairs, but if some girl comes to you with a business proposal she better bring that puccy to the table as well.

ubunja:

That's not how the game goes unfortunately,, If this was the case then Broke women will deal with Broke men. But broke women want rich men cause we're all looking for a partner who brings to the table what we don't have.

Women marry up financially. Men marry up morally.

A broke woman and a rich man works (Cinderella)
A morally pure woman and an evil man works (Beauty and the Beast)

Its easy for men to save a woman from her financial defects but next to impossible for men to save a woman from her CHARACTER defects. No amount of love and money can change a hoe into a housewife.
But it's easy for women to change a man's character defects. With enough love and fidelity from a woman,, even the most brutal barbarian can be domesticated. What's very hard for women to do, is save a man from his FINANCIAL defects. Its an uphill battle against a man's own ego and a woman's own utter disinterest in using her own money to uplift a man.

Vulcanheph:
There's a story I'd like to share with my fellow brethren here about a close friend of mine who lived close to me...

I have a friend (let's just say that his name is James) who lived in the next compound close to mine and due to the fact that we both got employed by the same company we became more like Bros...

Frank's girlfriend knew that he loved her
Very much and was always using it to her advantage by making unnecessary demands and taking advantage of it , I have always known that the guy was a Simp but I couldn't do anything about it because I knew that TRP is something that shouldn't be forced because it won't work.
For reasons best known to her, she'll always look for excuses to break up with him and when she notices that the guy is trying to pick up his life back she'll come back and ask for forgiveness and they'll start all over again, she did it one more time and the guy was clearly devastated, It was at that time I decided that "enough is enough" and he was psycologically ready for the REDPILLED.
I simply told him three basic Redpill truths...
1. A woman who doesn't love you will never love you no matter what you do.
2. No struggling guy carries relationship on his head anymore... Instead he should concentrate on himself and making money.
3. He should stop accepting her back , for as long as he continues, she will never stop misbehaving.

The dude followed my advice and swallowed TRP without even knowing what it is.... The girl in question has been begging and crying for months now for him to take her back but his mind was already gone from the girl.
The guy is the one thanking me for opening his eyes to see what kind of relationship he was in.
FYI, I never really told him anything about the Redpill but from my observation he's become so immersed in it without knowing what it was.

TRP is life.!!!!

Ketapu:


Lol. That's the blue pill mentality talking there. You really have a lot to learn.

The problem with you is that you are too scared of what those ladies will do. You need to develop some balls and not care what will happen. If you are the fearful type who is always afraid to express yourself in a clear way to ladies, they will play you a lot.

In fact, that is the basis of many of the problems guys face with ladies. She knows you are afraid of her or afraid of losing her. Due to that, she will play you. Remember I said everything is like a game. You either play the game or get played.

Lol. Some of you guys just don't understand the manipulative head games ladies play. She doesn't want you to be direct with her. Being indirect with her means she can manipulate you well until you get to your sense.

When you don't tell a lady you want to romance her, you are doing what Alan Currie called Mode 2 or 3.

That's what most PUA will teach you. Unfortunately, I've seen some guys here too promoting that and I laugh every time I see such posts.

That is called indirect game and manipulative ladies love that. You will be playing directly into their hand.

I have talked to hundreds of ladies using "Mode One" and no lady has ever slapped me. For those that rejected me, their reactions ranges from frowning and saying no to completely ignoring me. Those are all fine reactions because it means I won't waste my time and resources on them.

I have also met ladies who were very surprised with me being honest with them from the get-go. I got their contact and we later connect from there.

You guys place ladies too much on pedestal.

Once you have had a lot of sex, you will realize that there is nothing really special about sex or ladies. We guys are the ones just complicating things for ourselves.

You are not honest with her and then you will later come here to complain about how she is tricking you.

Lol. You have yourself to blame bro.

Kipaji:
A girl real woman who got it right. She could have easily partaken into the "phase", especially given that some family members encouraged her. Yet, she was wise enough to decipher their words to understand the real meaning of "finding myself"/"missing out in life"/"experience the life" and thus made the best decision.
She has a beautiful mind.

Women who wilfully marry below 21 and purposely avoid the "phase" make less than 10% (I'm being gentle) of all women in the world.

LutherSanchez:
Sincerely,before i found this thread,i use to think that ladies are wicked to an extent. I mean all the stories i read online and hear about ladies,what they do to guys who sacrificed a lot for 'em and at the end,they'll leave them heartbroken,it's since last week (today is one week) that i started following this thread that i know why it's like that. That's y am thankful for this thread