Opmic:

You need Jesus. Trust me He can help.
You don't need to stop all your habits he will help you do that

Bullshit

We co-own a business and he messed up the funds; we’ve not shared much bond since then because we no longer stay in the same area

The guy refused to grow.

He would upload nudes on facebook and tag me. Sometimes his dick and Tag me.

I always warn him cos I am a private type but he wouldn't listen. Also whenever you are with him he only talks about sex, drink, club and women.

He wasn't adding any meaningful thing in my life so I had to distant myself from him

One of my "close" friends.... Not actually my "best".... Bought hairs from me, owed me for 2 years and keep laughing it off each time I asked her for my money. Painful part is that she sold 1 at the saloon where she was making them wigs..... Yet didn't give me any money. Then I had to collect my money by all means....now we can peacefully cross each other without blinking an eye or breathing a word..... And I DON'T CARE

Karrtel:

Bullshit

He will keep extending his love towards you. No matter how much you hate. The power of his love is greater than the strength of your hate. He is real and alive. I did not see him and believe I believed and saw Him. This is the problem you have to believe first. And bro try and do, your life depends on this.

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She was the one who asked me to call him..anyway i know my mistake which i av corrected..

ifihearam:



Why did you not call her for help or seek her permission before contacting her ex for help??
you eye dey her ex body..you were wrong and she has every right to be mad.

IamBabsjnr:
Well,mine left me last month.
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i called his mum to check how he's fairing,she said she would send him to me,since then,i have not heard nor seen him.


all his numbers are switched off.

Forget him and hustle to succeed & make him wants to beg to come back.
Remember: Never make a human feel you need them to survive in life

It was like I was the one putting in more effort in the friendship than she did! So I cut her off. Over 6 years now . Dunno what's up with her existence.

My best friends in uni peddled very damaging lies about me and I didn't find out until we were in our third year. The rumour was started in 100level. Friends can either be very loyal, ride or die or they can be snakes in hiding. Unfortunately, the first group is quite rare.

FatherBona:

Chemotherapy will


Keep calm

i wonder the same.

Karrtel:

Why person go dey beg people money to do wedding sef? If trouble start the same wife go still leave you

akaahs:

I confronted him d day he called to inform me that he saw d alert when he begins to doll out some cryptic words, he just hang up the call. Since then he refused picking my calls.

has he paid u back ur money

really

EdDave:
Backstabbers. I gave them bread and they attempted to burn down my bakery.

interesting

fabianiyobosa:
Proposed a business, and introduced him to a partner, my so-called best friend went behind me to contact the business partner requesting they do it alone without me, mind you, I was housing the so-called best friend.

less drama and problems, good or sensible friends are rare

Haakeem:
I don't have friends!

The idiot never heed to advise, he always do his free will

Try to stop wallowing in self pity, pick yourself up and enjoy the Life, believe in your ability to believe in yourself.

Damnfailure:
I am a failure too ashamed of my status so I cut all friends .am patiently waiting for my exit from this life.

Good friends are rare.

Taigaban:
When I lost my job all my friends ran away. Some even barred my number. In my heart I said to hell with all of them.

Exactly

Asour:



You shouldn't.


In a way everyone else is also 'waiting'. But why wait doing nothing? Take up a skill and pursue to perfection. Their presence no longer pressures you so you should be freer.

Cheers.

wise choice, i did something similar, and it created time for me to focus on myself, show me who you spend time with mostly, and you have shown me who you are becoming.

Fairview1:
Growth!

I was so passionate about personal development and self improvement and these guys felt it means nothing. Lately, whenever I try to engage them in a mind streching conversation they seem lost. That was when it occurred to me that if I must improve further, I need to limit the amount of time I spend with them.

Till today, none of them knew why I technically avoided their company even though we talk and gist over the phone whenever the need arises, but I am not longer available for those long lengthy fruitlwss conversation.

I'm still working on myself, trying to improve myself further for the tasks and obligations ahead.

, O and thank you for sharing

mixta140:

I collected a loan for his wedding when he said he needed some money to buy a Live cow ... 7days to wedding ... We had an agreement and concluded on how he will pay... Was even his best man... Wedding day ... I help him pack money and guard it so that people will not steal from it... After that day .. Na lies upon lies ooo... I wan cry .... He later paid 2 3rd and didnt pay the rest till today ... I have to pay the remaining loan myself ...
I chop insult no be small from loan company... with plenty lies from him .. Since then i said to myself make person dey die ... I can never inconvenient myself for them lailai.... E pain me no be small....

Aha, the first comment i can see, because none of us are perfect, sometimes we also did something wrong and you are honest that you did something wrong.

bantex4uu:
My Secondary School friend Chigozie Enoch.( triumph commercial college Zaria) A very wonderful friend and brother. I wish I can ever see him to apologise for all the wrong I did to him.

Exactly sometimes we do the wrong things out of immaturity, you are right it was a long time.

Mrice22:
My good friend caught me when I wanted to bleeped her kid sister in their house, inside his own room... He didn't said anything to me, but only went outside which I followed him, he ignored me for almost a month... The funniest thing is that both our mom's noticed that we're not cool with each other and when asked about what's wrong, like if he was the one they asked first, will said they should asked me.. same goes to me... That's how our friendship ended up... Though this happened when I was Jss3 student

[quote author=Dukeolumidemans post=114831499]My homie sees his own family as superior and sees others as nonsense. He takes everything from me and never likes to return them or share his. Same with his brother. Borrows cash, clothes, shoes and never bothers to return any but will never attempt to give u any help even though they are very rich.
Even when opportunities came through their eldest brother who is a head in a major government Oil company in Nigeria, they will rather give it to people who don't care about them...I woke up one morning and walked away from all of them. Years later, through hard work and consistency, I and my only brother blew up like nitro!!!
Now we drink Champaign when we are thirsty and drive some of the finest/cleanest cars on a low key... fuuuck that!!!

***And if u don't know, now u know niggar***
[/quote

Whether you are lying or not, I believe you cus I love success stories

FatherBona:

Chemotherapy will


Keep calm

Not my best friend though.i borrowed him 83k to revive his pos business. Any time I call him,he refuse to pick my call.Omo this life,just forget about friends. I b one man army now ooo.if I woh go drink,I dey go alone.if I woh club,I dey go alone.Na only my childhood friend I fit call friend because we don see things together.

Karrtel:

I combine both... vape pens mostly

I use vapes and I stopped smoking cigarettes.

Money !!!
I lent my former childhood friend 3M and my former college friend 4M.
One almost cost me my relationship as I took it out of our Joint account hoping I would replace it within 6months as promised.
Never again will I help anyone, even if the person was dying in the hospital , They have made my heart dark, bitter and hardened.

nijaomegacode:
I found Christ but he remains a muslim. Two can not work together except they agree.

A very stupid reason to unfriend someone , you are one of those religious bigot obviously

The guy is a complete hypocrite. Pretending to be my best and at the same time giving my enemies complete imformations about me to get me down.
He was a complete disaster to me.