MuslimIgbo:

I know this nonsense can only come from someone with a vagina....
Spits

And a third leg abi na "Ibi" is angry , some men sabi lazy meeeehnnn

See...My sisters are married,Live in the UK and USA and France with their husbands but i know no matter the circumstance,they will never tell their husbands to sleep outside....

There are still some women either born in Nigeria or USA that are truly easy going and loving wives....the only thing is that you should not marry a street girl who has no feelings but cajoled you into marriage and can mess u up when she has the upper hand...the same thing goes with all this igbo village girls that enter lagos...After doing their prostitution from mainland,they enter island after some years,they hustle till they hold one rich boy,form holy,alwys in front row of global harvest every sunday.Guy am fall mugu doand and do marriage with coded runs olonsho.

Job carry am enter canada carry him wife enter,village girl get paper deh knack men when guy man trave come nigeria come build house or pursue contract....Guy man deh holla for wife say dear,you are staying out late,you have join bad gang...

Her olonsho spirit will kick in,independent woman has canada papers now...will start to do anyhow.

There are still some women who wont give you problems in Life...maybe only 1 percent of such remains in Nigeria.women give signs of arrogancy or being stubborn or trouble maker while dating...you only ignored because either the pussy was sweet,free and you never make am in life and she was giving you toto to Bleep..you ignore.mind you,she has been used outside as well,only looking for a mugu to put a ring on it and God bless muggu man make am in life so as to sleep ,Bleep and breed children...nothing upstairs really;you cOn carry am go canada again...

well....

He who gets a good woman,...gains the world...

Once you marry a wrong woman...Automatically, you have removed about 20 years from your life span unknowingly...

Worst is if you marry this Nigerian women that have cheating in the DNA...Is it a must to put a woman in your house as wifeif you must do...u must not rush that decision. The ones that likes you like that...smoker,outgoing,moderate drinker...all your flaws she knows and can take it...there would be happiness...

Not t he one that will just fake it till marriage and change pattern for you...immediately Nigerian girl change pattern after marriage>>>>divorce her and have your peace.

flee from women that will not let you have peace..i can imagine a woman coming to meet me on this desk now telling me to pack my computer and clothes and i should go and sleep outside because i am drinking goldberg while working and watching ID on tv

Inside my house weh ac cold and everything fine...make i comot my house.

Ninisun:




Na the woman buy the house dey pay for the mortgage...my mind tells me he was cheating and on top joblessness

You're a biased humanbeing.

From the clip, you heard the man saying why throwing me out of my own house, yet you're here, displaying your biased mindset on a public platform.

Who cares what your mind says?

How did you know he was cheating and jobless? Your mind?? You're a joke.

Your type is the one that all Men need to avoid, cos you will use "your mind" to destroy anything he builds.

Yeye woman

Bluffly:
But why would spouses wants to control each other. Marriage is not about control but loving and respecting each other. If people critically understand that when they die they go with nothing, this world may be a better place.
Most people are selfish. Men and women alike. If you are a christian, live according to the biblical tenets and you would understand that it wasn't designed for any control freak but heavenly sake

You're taking things out of its real context...

MuslimIgbo:

You're taking things out of its real context...

What is the real context?

If Nigerian woman try this thing with me

I go use am do blood money..

No time...

Bluffly:

What is the real context?

The word "control" is not like you're defining it in this scenario.

omoyankee3:
That's serious o.

And here I am planning to go get my bride in Nigeria.

My guy , its not a "nigerian women " tin o, its a "women" tin (in general,) coupled with skewed laws which favors women over men.

Exceed15:
No matter the love, humility and submission she shows you never take your wife abroad. When she gets there and see how powerful the system support them, they misbehave. Keep her in Nigeria with the kids and take adequately care of them from wherever you are.

They say A Word is ......

Case closed!

koolaid87:



You're a biased humanbeing.

From the clip, you heard the man saying why throwing me out of my own house, yet you're here, displaying your biased mindset on a public platform.

Who cares what your mind says?

How did you know he was cheating and joblessness? Your mind?? You're a joke.

Your type is the one that all Men need to avoid, cos you will use "your mind" to destroy anything he builds.

Yeye woman

Yeye man how are you and yours? That woman is heartbroken and so leave her to act the way she will feel better. She is the owner of the house, the husbandman made 1+1=2 instead of 1

Please don't worry about me okay? Your assessment or opinion about me doesn't matter. We moooooveeeee

richie240:

My guy , its not a "nigerian women " tin, its a "women" tin (in general,) coupled with skewed laws which favors women over men.

If na your sister person wan marry, will you write this? Remember four fingers are pointing at you. This is the same wickedness some Nigerian men show their wives after years of toiling! Abeg shift jare.

MuslimIgbo:

The word "control" is not like you're defining it in this scenario.

You heard what the woman said, that she is tired of been told what to do and you heard what the guy said that the wife wants to be the one in control. The husband wants to control and the wife wants to control. it is all in the videos shared

seangy4konji:
If Nigerian woman try this thing with me

I go use am do blood money..

No time...

Hustle harder and be a good boy

Bluffly:

You heard what the woman said, that she is tired of been told what to do and you heard what the guy said that the wife wants to be the one in control. The husband wants to control and the wife wants to control. it is all in the videos shared

The husband doesn't give smart or intelligent opinions which makes her lose a lot

1Sharon:


Mrbrownjay is WELL travelled. It's you who doesn't know.

Maybe to 2nd/3rd world countries o, i won't argue with dt, but his level of ignorance as to what it entails in America/1st world countries is a hooge giveaway!

Na him fall hin own hand.......nor be anybody fault!

SKIBiNSKI:
Man just tell these ignoramuses how long you lived in America so they can stop yapping rubbish.. i know you don't want to brag that you live in America for many years.

"Lives", "Lived", or "told me/made me believe he lived/lives"?

Agugbadin:


Really, now I know why some Nigerian men pick up gun and kill their wive.

And then. . . . .

EgunMogaji2:


It really is very complicated and I won’t pretend that I have all the answers.

But knowing what I know now if I was married in the USA I’ll always have a solid plan B. Don’t leave yourself wide open.

It’s much easier now than in my time to have accounts in Nigeria that you can fund directly without third party involvement. You can buy properties now from people like me or other agents.

I can’t say don’t get married or don’t take your wife with you. What I can say is have a plan and fng execute it immediately that it’s necessary.

Good luck to all you youngsters, you’ll need it because there’s a lot of jezebels about.

https://www.nairaland.com/568343/ex-governor-abubakar-audu-renders

This man was prepared.

seangy4konji:
See...My sisters are married,Live in the UK and USA and France with their husbands but i know no matter the circumstance,they will never tell their husbands to sleep outside....

There are still some women either born in Nigeria or USA that are truly easy going and loving wives....the only thing is that you should not marry a street girl who has no feelings but cajoled you into marriage and can mess u up when she has the upper hand...the same thing goes with all this igbo village girls that enter lagos...After doing their prostitution from mainland,they enter island after some years,they hustle till they hold one rich boy,form holy,alwys in front row of global harvest every sunday.Guy am fall mugu doand and do marriage with coded runs olonsho.

Job carry am enter canada carry him wife enter,village girl get paper deh knack men when guy man trave come nigeria come build house or pursue contract....Guy man deh holla for wife say dear,you are staying out late,you have join bad gang...

Her olonsho spirit will kick in,independent woman has canada papers now...will start to do anyhow.

There are still some women who wont give you problems in Life...maybe only 1 percent of such remains in Nigeria.women give signs of arrogancy or being stubborn or trouble maker while dating...you only ignored because either the pussy was sweet,free and you never make am in life and she was giving you toto to Bleep..you ignore.mind you,she has been used outside as well,only looking for a mugu to put a ring on it and God bless muggu man make am in life so as to sleep ,Bleep and breed children...nothing upstairs really;you cOn carry am go canada again...

well....

He who gets a good woman,...gains the world...

Once you marry a wrong woman...Automatically, you have removed about 20 years from your life span unknowingly...

Worst is if you marry this Nigerian women that have cheating in the DNA...Is it a must to put a woman in your house as wifeif you must do...u must not rush that decision. The ones that likes you like that...smoker,outgoing,moderate drinker...all your flaws she knows and can take it...there would be happiness...

Not t he one that will just fake it till marriage and change pattern for you...immediately Nigerian girl change pattern after marriage>>>>divorce her and have your peace.

flee from women that will not let you have peace..i can imagine a woman coming to meet me on this desk now telling me to pack my computer and clothes and i should go and sleep outside because i am drinking goldberg while working and watching ID on tv

Inside my house weh ac cold and everything fine...make i comot my house.

So na 1% of women no dey give wahala! Chai Oga researcher easy ooo cus your sis' them no dey the 1%

Dshocker:


You are funny, Google the meaning of prenup.

If she had signed a prenup, then she wouldn't get a dime from their divorce.

And in America, you dare not hit your wife, because the laws of the land protects women and children more.

He acted wisely by recording his evidence and also not hitting his wife.

Lets assume you've lived in America for 20yrs and you were able to buy a house $10M, later you got married and had problems with her and you hit her, my brother you might lose 50% of your money, if not all to her and the house automatically goes to her.

I think the house goes to her only if the house was acquired when already married.

She doesn't have claims over things you own before.

MrBrownJay1:


bro, a prenup wouldnt help in this issue because the problem is not the wife, it is the YEYE MUMU that she calls her husband, that is the main problem here. what man in his right man would let a woman make him sleep outside of HIS OWN HOME?!?!? in what world? what kind of stupid shiiit is that?

a man who doesn't want to sleep in jail or be killed by the police

Every Mallam to hin kettle o, my dear!
If d naive proposed 'bro-in-law' know what i know about women (psychology/spirituality) he won't dare it!

Ninisun:


If na your sister person wan marry, will you write this? Remember four fingers are pointing at you. This is the same wickedness some Nigerian men show their wives after years of toiling! Abeg shift jare.

officialwdhtv:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qXMwrlmG8cY

Hear from the Nigerian husband of the woman who threw him out from his own home in the story below earlier on front page


Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/7235523/wife-throws-nigerian-husband-stuffs

Make Una come back to Nigeria com find better JuJu wey go bring her to naija.

richie240:
Every Mallam to hin kettle o, my dear!
If d naive proposed 'bro-in-law' know what i know about women (psychology/spirituality) he won't dare it!

Will you marry a man or from the 1%?

1Sharon:


Owned or rented?

Owned

Kingcalls:


Owned

Most Nigerians are poor.
Most of the men aren't home owners.

1Sharon:


Most Nigerians are poor.
Most of the men aren't home owners.

But who owns the rented apartment... landlord

If u re in the UK , US or western world please don't ever carry a Nigerian wife or woman along.. leave her here.

Unless both of u have been childhood lovers.. even with this there are some risk but lower sha..

Can u see why many of the younger western men hardly get married these days..

Neither!

Ninisun:
Will you marry a man or from the 1%?

Matthew 19:10-12 (KJV)
His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry.
But he {Jesus} said unto them, All men cannot receive this saying, save they to whom it is given.
For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother's womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it.

SKIBiNSKI:
Yes, i agree, but in this case in america or even in Europe a woman cannot just throw the man/ owner of the house, if they both own the house, she can ask him to leave if she is at risk of assault physically. But not take his house or his own share of the house, alot of women has accused their husbands falsely of abuse, ruined their lives, eventually it was found they lied. So did you read the recent case of Johny Depp and Miss Heard? So courts are starting to defend men thesedays. It is not as it used to be 10, 20 years ago. Where women's right overrides the man's.

yes you are right the difference here is what people see on the video and what the family court will decide, but usually the women is left in the house especially when kids are involved and if the mother is the primary carer which is mostly 99%

So most people are commenting based on how men in nigeria kick out their wives whereas in this case yes thats what on the video but its in the west social service or family courts will get involved

Whereas in african no social service or family will get involved, it would be dealt as traditional family issue and the woman for sure will be kicked out and even with nothing

Remember the laws that were put to protect women were a result of women being abused over the years and were put to address injustice

i think also in time some laws will be put to protect men from women who abuse law to get even or punish men

Usually laws are made after much damage as been done, if you look carefully 99% its immigrants who abuse the laws to get even becoz were they came from they never had laws or community that supports eqaul justice

SKIBiNSKI:
Go read what his comments properly, you will understand his utterances.





Lookk! If the man owns the house, i mean, pays the mortgage or bought the house, the woman has no right, again, i repeat she has no right to throw him outta his own house. It doesn't work like that.

If police where called they would advice the man to leave the house, come back when they both calmed down, even if he owns the house.

The woman cannot just throw him outta his house. If so every woman will just throw their husbands outta their houses the house is not in the woman's name, how then can she carry on with the mortgage payments if she throws the owner out?

Simple phone call
Assuming he owned the house in his family for 100 years
He marries her legally just a few years ago then lays his hands on her
I live in the same America where a tenant can take over your house for months without paying rent talk less of your wife
Simple phone call and he’s out or he’ll be bundled to jail

That’s why you hear of some Naija guys that think like him killing their wives
In family court na man dey take last. Never pray to be a man at the receiving end in family court

Kingcalls:


But who owns the rented apartment... landlord

Yes, and how many people are landlords?

Dshocker:


You are funny, Google the meaning of prenup.

If she had signed a prenup, then she wouldn't get a dime from their divorce.

And in America, you dare not hit your wife, because the laws of the land protects women and children more.

He acted wisely by recording his evidence and also not hitting his wife.

Lets assume you've lived in America for 20yrs and you were able to buy a house $10M, later you got married and had problems with her and you hit her, my brother you might lose 50% of your money, if not all to her and the house automatically goes to her.

damn shiit

Ninisun:



The husband doesn't give smart or intelligent opinions which makes her lose a lot

I think so as well