We have many Christian sisters and Christian brothers who are not virgins, some are awesome people. You might even see a decent-looking and committed Christian sister, and when you confirm, she is not a virgin. Should virginity still be preached or should we just go by love and move on?

Again, does not being a virgin have side effect in marriage?

Let love lead

Should they be telling people to fxck each other before they marry? What will happen after fxcking and they don't like each other anymore?

Keeping your virginity is very important, you will have eternal respect of your partner.

Christians should desist from sexual immorality.

A true believer in Christ will follow God's commandments

Don't let any wayward person mislead you, respect your body and keep it for your future bedfellow.

cutecommend:
We have many Christian sisters and Christian brothers who are not virgins, some are awesome people. You might even see a decent-looking and committed Christian sister, and when you confirm, she is not a virgin. Should virginity still be preached or should we just go by love and move on?

Again, does not being a virgin have side effect in marriage?

Chastity should continue to be preached!

Infact the noise about chastity has reduced with the way people drink sex like water today!

cutecommend:
We have many Christian sisters and Christian brothers who are not virgins, some are awesome people. You might even see a decent-looking and committed Christian sister, and when you confirm, she is not a virgin. Should virginity still be preached or should we just go by love and move on?

Again, does not being a virgin have side effect in marriage?

If Man's is the standard by which you live your idea of what it means to be Christian, then don't expect those doctrines and traditions which are to the benefit of man and his ego(even Libido) to go away anytime soon. Your pastors and mogs are gong to continue filling your gullible heads with lied to keep you from ever discovering and honoring God through obedience to His Truth.

Jesus Christ already made clear over 2000 years ago to those who truly love Him that such things including virginity delusions are meaningless in the Kingdom of God and so of absolutely no worth to anyone.

Of cos, virginity had no meaning to those who have lost it.

Virginity is outdated

Many ladies contribute nothing to a relationship that is why they hoard their PUNNY like their life savings.


Girls who have a lot to offer do not worry about virginity

mumumugu:
Virginity is outdated

Really? It is not.

Have a common sense and be not particular about virginity

Truth be told it isn't easy to remain a virgin in your 20s let alone marriage. Nevertheless, it takes a principled mind and with the grace of God to be a virgin.

Still it's a good practice to preach abstinence till marriage as it will make the union within the confines of marriage more enjoyable and blissful as there won't be fear of exes and Yses . Personally I'd love to get married to a virgin, but their are alot of non virgins that are just so decent and lovely than most so-called virgins.

Absolutely

A girl who isn't a virgin does not deserve FULL BRIDE PRICE!

Most parents these days are very careless and irresponsible, especially mothers.

They ALWAYS know what the girls are up to but just decide to look away.

> A girl that's not working will be using expensive phones, clothes and jewelry and parents won't bother to query her...

> Children will be bringing expensive and strange things home and SENSELESS parents won't query them.
Sometimes, you can't even blame the wayward children (some of them are real BASTARDS) because their parents are even worse.
Fathers have "girlfriends"
Mothers have "manfriends"....


Anyway,
BRIDE PRICE SHOULD BE PAID BASED ON BODYCOUNT.

ACTUAL BRIDE PRICE SHOULD BE DIVIDED BE THE NUMBER OF BODYCOUNT.

E.G,
If your pride price is 100,000 and your bodycount is 10,
YOUR PARENTS SHOULD BE PAID 100,000/10 = 10,000.


Waiting for oloshos to disagree.

Every girl should marry as a virgin


The value and pride of a woman is based on her SEXUAL PURITY.

Nowadays, some of your average "good girl" girlfriends have at least 5 - 25 BODYCOUNT, but when you ask them, they will tell you that their bodycount is just 1 or 2.
1 = their first boyfriend long time ago who tricked, raped or forced himself on them and,
2 = their second boyfriend who dumped or cheated on them... Blablabla
NO SENSIBLE MAN WANTS TO BE WITH A WOMAN THAT MANY MEN HAVE BEEN WITH.

GOLD AND DIAMOND ARE ONLY PRECIOUS BECAUSE THEY ARE:
EXPENSIVE
HARD TO FIND
AND NOT EVERYONE CAN AFFORD IT.

No

Yes now, for both genders, remember the Bible says, " the bed should be undefiled before marriage" meaning man and woman shouldn't taste sex before getting married.

Okay what do you want to preach ? Promiscuity and sexual orgies ?

The Bible teaches chastity.

Sexual intercourse with someone you aren't married too (fornication) is a sinful act.

1 Corinthians 6:18-20
[18]Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.
[19]What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?
[20]For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's.

Galatians 5:19
[19]Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness,

1 Thessalonians 4:3
[3]For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication:

Marriage is what you do if you can't hold yourself.

1 Corinthians 7:2
[2]Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.



Conclusion: The standard is that a man or a woman has to be get married a virgin (without fornication).

For People who fell, there's need for total repentance. And going back to abstinence...

BIG BROTHER NIGERIA SEASON 7 OF
IMMORALITY.
Housemates are Christians. It's normal
for the female ones to expose their
breast to the world and also to have sex
live on TV while family members
watches at home. Regrettably Christian
Association of Nigeria (CAN) is not
worried about this trend of immorality,
but they're worried about bishops that
attended Sen. Bola Tinubu's event.

Hmmm so because the system is broken,we should stop trying to fix it,abi u thing say normal normal fxcking 4 fun na ur fundamental human right?

Who virginity help with everything we are going through in diz world na virginity be some people problem....

No.

Prostitution should be preached.
Having several body counts should be preached.
Been good in bed should be preached.
The more in bed you're should be preached.

Any unmarried girl that is not a virgin should be openly flogged on the altar

The Word of God is for eternal, the Word of God frowns at sexual immorality both in the old and even more in the new testament. Many people who engage in it don't know the spiritual consequences. If they knew, they probably wouldn't. The funniest part is even when our ancestors were traditional worshippers, virginity was held in high esteem, you could be killed or made to perform strenuous tasks if you lost your virginity.
Grace is not a reason to indulge in sexual immorality. The work of Grace is to give you the strength not to indulge in sexual immorality and even when you used your will to do so, Grace will work to ensure you don't do it again.
Don't use your will against the Grace of God. If the Grace of God is knocking in your heart to repent. Kindly do so today. May His Grace continue to be abundant in Our Lives, Amen.

No.

Oloshoism should be preached. Afterall fuccking is the goal. The OP is typing from the Psychiatric Hospital

inoki247:
Who virginity help with everything we are going through in diz world na virginity be some people problem....

To mock virgins, you would hear statements like this "Who Virginity Epp?"

Virginity is beneficial to oneself and the society at large.

1: Messiah: Jesus Christ came into the world through a virgin. Virginity was part of the criteria for a 'vessel' that would bring Jesus into this world. You don't expect God to come through a body that has fornicated with 1,000 people, aborted battalions etc.

2: No STDs:Who are those transmitting STDs with reckless abandon? Your guess is as good as mine. If you abstain, you have no business with STDs.

3: Unwanted pregnancy: If you had abstained, you won't have been pregnant. You are pregnant, you called your boyfriend to inform him, he flees. You are on your own. Carry your headache alone.

4: Abortion: Sex results to pregnancy, and when the pregnancy is not needed, they kill the baby in the womb. Some people that abort when single, may even abort when married. The habit of abortion can continue in marriage.

5: No heartbreaks: Sex bonds, whether you do it with a prostitute or with your legally married partner. That's one of the reasons sex is for married people. If you are dating and there is sex involved, you would likely feel heartbroken when the relationship gets broken. Virgins don't feel heartbroken because they are not yoked to anyone.

6: Self-control: If you succeed to remain a virgin till marriage, it means you have mastered self-control. Those who have mastered self-control can hardly cheat at all when married.

7: Comparison: If you get married as a virgin, you won't compare anyone sexually to your spouse. You are content with any performance you see. Others would have to compare with more than 100 people they have slept with.

Everyone male or female should try to be a virgin till marriage.
If you disagree with my post, boldly tell your kids to choose promiscuity and let's see the outcome.
As for me and my household, we have chosen chastity. And chastity starts from virginity.
Have a lovely day.

Signed:
Chairman
Virgin Association of Nigeria

God1000:
Keeping your virginity is very important, you will have eternal respect of your partner.

Christians should desist from sexual immorality

The respect will fizzle if her partner realizes her actions, ways of life are wholly perverse.

Adeling:
Truth be told it isn't easy to remain a virgin in your 20s let alone marriage. Nevertheless, it takes a principled mind and with the grace of God to be a virgin.

Still it's a good practice to preach abstinence till marriage as it will make the union within the confines of marriage more enjoyable and blissful as there won't be fear of exes and Yses . Personally I'd love to get married to a virgin, but their are alot of non virgins that are just so decent and lovely than most so-called virgins.

My dear, virginity is d easiest thing to keep wt determination. D fear of preeq is d beginning of wisdom.

Are you asking perhaps immorality should be preached in the Church?

Yes, it is great to be virgin before marriage. Aside the fact that it is a sin, which we know God forgives when you actually repent, there are consequences, and this is not just for Christians but everyone.

You could catch some disease fornicating. Recently, I met a guy, Kim (real name). He needed to work because he just had a heartbreak. His girlfriend cheated on him with his friend, and when he confronted her, she broke up with him and told their mutual friends that she broke up the relationship due to domestic violence. So, this led to many of their friends deserting Kim and he was depressed. Kim said she actually broke up with him because she knew he was never going to have sex with her again because he knew, and also told her, that the other guy has herpes. She will live with this disease and transmit it to the man she eventually marries, or to as many men as possible.

You could get pregnant, and pregnancy could disrupt your life if you are not married. Depending on your family and the society you live in, premarital pregnancy could ruin your life. Trying to have your cake after eating it by opting for abortion could lead to damaged womb or death, which is permanent.

Having experience with several men could make you not to enjoy your husband when you get married because you will always compare.

Yes, it is advisable to maintain virginity till marriage, both for men and women,