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Read This And Never Trust A Woman Again!!!! by preshman22: 3:52pm On Jul 26, 2022
Hello guys I came across a stupid True life story today
And I thought of sharing it with you guys
It's a bit lengthy, but please take your time to read this!!!!!!

My wife and I met as Students in Canada. We got married and were doing very well but after a while, I decided to return home, my dad is old and wanted me to take over the family business. My wife did not like the idea because she told me when we got married that she is estranged from her mother. That means, she and her mother are not talking.
My wife told me that soon as her father died, her mother started sleeping around and never had time for her. Her mother always sent her to boarding school so she cannot stay in the house with her numerous boyfriends. Even during holidays, she made her stay back in boarding school or sent her off to her grandmother’s place or her Aunties place. Suffice to say, my wife hates her mother.

Our wedding was in Canada, only her friends in Canada attended whilst all my family members in attendance, even from Nigeria. At the time, I did not really want to bother my wife because anytime I brought up her trying to make up with her mother, my wife goes ballistic. So, when I decided to relocate to Nigeria, I feared my wife was afraid of seeing her mother again, so, I agreed that she can stay back in Canada and look after the children.

Its been a year since I came back to Nigeria. I decided to do some investigation into my wife’s mother. She is a wealthy woman, well known in Rivers state. I located her and paid her a visit two months ago. I introduced myself as someone that knew her daughter while in school in Canada. I never told her I am her daughter’s husband. Soon as I mentioned my wife’s name, her face changed.

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Re: Read This And Never Trust A Woman Again!!!! by preshman22: 3:53pm On Jul 26, 2022
This woman became upset and said…why are you here? That she has no daughter by that name and she wants nothing to do with her. That was when I told her, I was her daughter’s husband and I want to know why she hates her daughter and her daughter hates her. She said she does not hate her daughter but her daughter was so a spoilt child and she was possessed.

-That at age 15, she was already sleeping around. Her father was alive then but nothing they did could change her behavior. Then when the father died, she became more out of control so she sent her to boarding school. She was expelled from school for many truants. When she brought her home to be a day student, she said her daughter started seducing her new husband.

That her daughter and husband started havings3x behind her back. At 17, her daughter had had 2 abortions for her husband whom she already has twins for. That when she discovered, here daughter lied that the man raped her. She divorced the man but the man almost committed suicide few months later because it was a huge scandal. So because of this, she and her daughter became estranged
Re: Read This And Never Trust A Woman Again!!!! by preshman22: 3:54pm On Jul 26, 2022
In her thinking, she felt it would be better her daughter stayed away from her and her twins because the twins father almost died because of affair with her. She and the husband are reconciled because he showed her several evidence that it was her daughter that kept forcing herself on him. Her mother also found out her daughter was sleeping with several married men in the neighborhood. She also decided that she cannot have the husband of her children and her daughter in the same house.

All these that my wife’s mother told me really disturbed me. She said her daughter hated her because she exposed her lies. It made me realize that my wife had been through so much and was probably too damaged and there is no point of trying to reconcile her and her mother because her mother has children for the man that she had an affair with.

When I told my wife’s mother that my wife was back in Canada with our kids, she told me to never trust my wife because, she knows my wife is a nymphomaniac. Someone is addicted to s3xs alot. That my wife got it from her father. Her father was a chronic womanizer. So, she knows its genetic. So, my wife must have been hiding who she truly is from me. I told her my wife has truly changed.

After I left this woman, I was not at ease. I wanted to make sure she was not lying so I made a surprise visit to Canada last month. On getting home, my wife was not home by the time she was supposed to get back from work. The baby sitter was with the children until 9pm. I asked the baby sitter to go and waited for my wife until she got back around past 12 mid night.
Re: Read This And Never Trust A Woman Again!!!! by preshman22: 3:56pm On Jul 26, 2022
My wife reeked of alcohol and was surprised to see me…she explained she went out with her female friends but I was not having it. All the years of marriage, my wife has never being on a girls night out….so why now, she said she was bored since I was not at home. We had a huge fight and argued alot….

At some point, I told her I had gone to see her mother who told me she was a nympho. My wife got so mad and told me she wanted a divorce. It was horrible. She told me her mother’s husband raped her and forced her to have abortions, When I told her that the man showed evidence that she was the one exposing herself to the man, she admitted that she was a lost kid who mistook the man’s love for a father’s love.

According to my wife, when the relationship with her step father started, she mistook it for fatherly care. The man convinced her he was in love with her. My wife is truly damaged. The next day, I tried to get her to talk to me. I told her she needs to see a therapist but she was so angry that I went to see her mother behind her back. She claimed her mother has poisoned my mind against her.

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Re: Read This And Never Trust A Woman Again!!!! by preshman22: 3:57pm On Jul 26, 2022
According to my wife, she had seen many therapists about this. I asked her if she was a nympho…she said yes…that as a troubled young girl, s3x was her way of escaping the pain of abandonment she felt for her mother. She f*cked any man who showed her a little care but she says, she is no longer a nympho. That is why she does not want to go back to the country that reminds her of her pain.

When I asked her why she went out all night, leaving our young kids with a baby sitter…she could not answer. She just said she was sorry. I asked her if she was sleeping with someone…she said no but I am not sure I believe her. I am not sure I really know the woman I am married to anymore. She hid so many dark parts of her past from me. Just finding out is giving me too much shock than I can bear.

I told her she has to return to Nigeria with me, so I can be close to her and help her, she said never. I think she is still dealing with her past. I think she is not ready to face her past. I think she is in denial. I took her phone and saw that she had been chatting with some guys. Some of them are her colleagues. They were having dirty, erotic chats. Even chats about having threesomes in the office bathroom after close of work. It was obvious She was out with a guy that night. I did not need a seer to tell me that.

My wife said nothing happened. That it was all just flirting but nothing more….Who can believe that? I broke down, I have never ever seen my wife as someone capable of cheating on me with a man talk less of several men…My wife thinks I am judging her because of what her mother told me…that she has not slept with any man since we got married.

So, I left for Nigeria and since then, we have not spoken. I am so worried about my wife and my children. I asked my sister who lives in Canada to be checking on them but that still worries me. Everyday I am thinking what is my wife up to. Clearly, she must be up to something. I am not there to know. I try to call her very often but she is now upset that I am watching her. She said if I do not trust her, we should get a divorce.

The truth is….I do not trust her….not if she is nit beside me. Does this mean our marriage is doomed? Should I move back to Canada, to try and save what is left of my marriage? Will that even change anything? Is my absence the reason she is cheating or was she covering up her real self?

Her mother has said nothing can change her daughter. That I had better leave her alone if I do not want to be destroyed. Her own mother…My family business needs me, they are saying I should demand my wife to return but my wife has refused. what should I do? My home is on fire…I need advise.

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Re: Read This And Never Trust A Woman Again!!!! by preshman22: 3:58pm On Jul 26, 2022
Thegidredpiller
Your attention is needed

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Re: Read This And Never Trust A Woman Again!!!! by posty56: 3:59pm On Jul 26, 2022
damaged woman ,too bad the man didn't do enough DD before marrying her ,she can't be saved

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Re: Read This And Never Trust A Woman Again!!!! by preshman22: 4:02pm On Jul 26, 2022
posty56:
damaged woman ,too bad the man didn't do enough DD before marrying her ,she can't be saved
She can never be saved

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Re: Read This And Never Trust A Woman Again!!!! by MMWandali: 4:07pm On Jul 26, 2022
Terrible

Only God can save us
Re: Read This And Never Trust A Woman Again!!!! by preshman22: 4:09pm On Jul 26, 2022
MMWandali:
Terrible

Only God can save us
The stupid woman fit don give this man one incurable disease cry
Re: Read This And Never Trust A Woman Again!!!! by Zenithphil8368: 4:20pm On Jul 26, 2022
Trust a woman like that at your own peril

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Re: Read This And Never Trust A Woman Again!!!! by Bluezy13(m): 4:23pm On Jul 26, 2022
Hmmm...

"How do we carry a man with broken waist ?"
(Igbo proverb)

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Re: Read This And Never Trust A Woman Again!!!! by TheGidRedpiller(m): 4:25pm On Jul 26, 2022
@preshman22 Your wife is a WH0R£, its as simple as that. Do not ever think of trying to "Redeem" her, its more possible to redeem a drug addict than it is to redeem a d!ck biittch.

Its harsh, but i understand that you knew who i was and my usage of words before you mentioned me.

No, she was not rap£d.
Yes, she is still and will always be a Nymphoman!ac.
Yes, she has been cheating on you way before you traveled back to Nigeria, and if you are not close to her physically right now, she is probably fvvcking some dude as we speak!

Do whatever you need to do to seperate yourself away from her, make sure you take your children along especially the MALE ones, that biittch is too toxic to be around.
Do not trust whatever she says, do not trust her mother either.

Her mother lied too, women cannot reciprocate Nymphoman!a from a man or "Womanizing".
Her mother is probably worse.
80% of a woman's behavioral gene comes from their MOTHERS!!
Your wife didn't lie about her mother too!

TRP IS GOLDEN!!

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Re: Read This And Never Trust A Woman Again!!!! by TheGidRedpiller(m): 4:42pm On Jul 26, 2022
preshman22:
Thegidredpiller Your attention is needed
DONE!

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Re: Read This And Never Trust A Woman Again!!!! by RightToReject(m): 4:44pm On Jul 26, 2022
The character of the woman in the story, even though the story seems fictitious, is bad. However, you all should stop all this nonsense campaign of calumny against the female folks (and vice versa). Yes, most women are like the incarnate of the proverbial devil, so also most men are; yet, the bad ones don't represent the totality of the female folks. No gender has a monopoly of either good or bad.

Some of the attributes all of you from both genders in this journey of the campaign of calumny against the opposite have in common are greed, ignorance, feeble-mindedness, sententiousness, and hypocrisy, even though you all strive to gloss them with the garb of "wokeness" and other nonsense ideological terms.

Being courteous towards the opposite gender, or anyone, isn't a sign of weakness but strength - of course, condoning nonsense from anyone isn't advisable and shouldn't be an option. Relate and quantify people based on their individuality instead of the species they are of and their nomenclature.

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Re: Read This And Never Trust A Woman Again!!!! by Nobody: 4:55pm On Jul 26, 2022
Omor...

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Re: Read This And Never Trust A Woman Again!!!! by kingslj: 4:59pm On Jul 26, 2022
bros, if you dont take your mind off her and be a man ,you will be a dead man.(not my prayer)

what make you think that a woman pussy is yours alone?

move on man!!! please

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Re: Read This And Never Trust A Woman Again!!!! by Jashub: 5:07pm On Jul 26, 2022
preshman22:
According to my wife, she had seen many therapists about this. I asked her if she was a nympho…she said yes…that as a troubled young girl, s3x was her way of escaping the pain of abandonment she felt for her mother. She f*cked any man who showed her a little care but she says, she is no longer a nympho. That is why she does not want to go back to the country that reminds her of her pain.

When I asked her why she went out all night, leaving our young kids with a baby sitter…she could not answer. She just said she was sorry. I asked her if she was sleeping with someone…she said no but I am not sure I believe her. I am not sure I really know the woman I am married to anymore. She hid so many dark parts of her past from me. Just finding out is giving me too much shock than I can bear.

I told her she has to return to Nigeria with me, so I can be close to her and help her, she said never. I think she is still dealing with her past. I think she is not ready to face her past. I think she is in denial. I took her phone and saw that she had been chatting with some guys. Some of them are her colleagues. They were having dirty, erotic chats. Even chats about having threesomes in the office bathroom after close of work. It was obvious She was out with a guy that night. I did not need a seer to tell me that.

My wife said nothing happened. That it was all just flirting but nothing more….Who can believe that? I broke down, I have never ever seen my wife as someone capable of cheating on me with a man talk less of several men…My wife thinks I am judging her because of what her mother told me…that she has not slept with any man since we got married.

So, I left for Nigeria and since then, we have not spoken. I am so worried about my wife and my children. I asked my sister who lives in Canada to be checking on them but that still worries me. Everyday I am thinking what is my wife up to. Clearly, she must be up to something. I am not there to know. I try to call her very often but she is now upset that I am watching her. She said if I do not trust her, we should get a divorce.

The truth is….I do not trust her….not if she is nit beside me. Does this mean our marriage is doomed? Should I move back to Canada, to try and save what is left of my marriage? Will that even change anything? Is my absence the reason she is cheating or was she covering up her real self?

Her mother has said nothing can change her daughter. That I had better leave her alone if I do not want to be destroyed. Her own mother…My family business needs me, they are saying I should demand my wife to return but my wife has refused. what should I do? My home is on fire…I need advise.
God bless you bro. This story has made me determined to hate women all the days of my natural life . In fact, I'm starting to see them as nothing more than breeding tools for the human race

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Re: Read This And Never Trust A Woman Again!!!! by Kutunban: 5:12pm On Jul 26, 2022
Sad reality of most men.

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Re: Read This And Never Trust A Woman Again!!!! by Nyascobar1414: 5:24pm On Jul 26, 2022
TheGidRedpiller:
@preshman22 Your wife is a WH0R£, its as simple as that. Do not ever think of trying to "Redeem" her, its more possible to redeem a drug addict than it is to redeem a d!ck biittch.

Its harsh, but i understand that you knew who i was and my usage of words before you mentioned me.

No, she was not rap£d.
Yes, she is still and will always be a Nymphoman!ac.
Yes, she has been cheating on you way before you traveled back to Nigeria, and if you are not close to her physically right now, she is probably fvvcking some dude as we speak!

Do whatever you need to do to seperate yourself away from her, make sure you take your children along especially the MALE ones, that biittch is too toxic to be around.
Do not trust whatever she says, do not trust her mother either.

Her mother lied too, women cannot reciprocate Nymphoman!a from a man or "Womanizing".
Her mother is probably worse.
80% of a woman's behavioral gene comes from their MOTHERS!!
Your wife didn't lie about her mother too!

TRP IS GOLDEN!!

@op.. Take this advice and know peace!
Re: Read This And Never Trust A Woman Again!!!! by Nyascobar1414: 5:26pm On Jul 26, 2022
If only men will not take women serious.. Women are just meant for progeny....
Take them serious at your own peril!

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Re: Read This And Never Trust A Woman Again!!!! by Nyascobar1414: 5:27pm On Jul 26, 2022
Jashub:
God bless you bro. This story has made determine to hate women all the days of my natural life . In fact, I'm starting to see them as nothing more than breeding tools for the human race

Na now e clear you..??.
Use them b!shes to relieve yourself from some testosterone fluids..lol
Re: Read This And Never Trust A Woman Again!!!! by Mandrake007(m): 5:32pm On Jul 26, 2022
Almost every woman has a dirty past,reason why due diligence should be employed while carrying out investigations on a potential spouse past and every discrepancy and contradictions shouldn’t be treated lightly, women are fond of having really really dirty pasts and are geniuses at hiding them and rebranding themselves,this is why it’s important to never trust a woman,learn game and never fall for their guises and charm.

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Re: Read This And Never Trust A Woman Again!!!! by Kiddogarcia(m): 5:33pm On Jul 26, 2022
Do I need to read anything before knowing who to trust.
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Re: Read This And Never Trust A Woman Again!!!! by GeneralPula: 5:35pm On Jul 26, 2022
During the era of our fore-fathers, relationships/marriages survived well and that’s because there was less immortality in existence back then. Virginity is like a competition among women of those days. If you get dis-virgined before the time for you to get married, it’s like you’ve committed the highest taboo..

During the era of our fore-fathers, young men and women are always using their teen age to become productive, and by the time they grow and ripe for marriage, both would have had a profitable job. Hardly will you see a jobless man/woman in the Olden days. This helped caged immorality, entitlement mentality among women. Infact, my old great grand mother once told me that money is usually the last thing a woman do look for in a man during their time. When a man gives a woman 1kobo, she’ll go down on her knees and thank him like say tomorrow no dey..

Ook.. During the era of our fore-fathers, before you get married, different consultations will occur. Family members will meet and talk. People don’t just meet and get married. They were also able to managed women so well and perfectly. Remember there was nothing like ministry of women affairs or women organization this or that... Unlike these days, there are several women organizations this or that, including ministry of women affairs, yet womanity is gone!

Things have really changed. Evolution don occur. Civilization don come. Believe me, higher numbers of young girls have lost count before reaching ages of 20. What majority of teen girls now use their young ages to do is to fucckkk, fuckkkk and fucckkkk. As a man, marriage is the last thing you should get into these days, except you’re extremely lucky. Don’t be thinking about it at all. Today’s women are majorly just for reproduction, nothing more!

95% of well to do men that got married life became jeopardized after getting married..

Just as morality, norms and good characters have extinct, so is marriage. Things changes and that’s the way it is..

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Re: Read This And Never Trust A Woman Again!!!! by WatchYourSix: 5:48pm On Jul 26, 2022
Me I shaa know that when you say a person's past is not your business..you are just being foólish.....and you might later regret it

Some men/women have messed up so bad they are not a candidate to settle down with....

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Re: Read This And Never Trust A Woman Again!!!! by techWriter3: 6:11pm On Jul 26, 2022
damaged woman ,too bad the man knewn't have enough DD before marrying her ,she can't be saved
Re: Read This And Never Trust A Woman Again!!!! by Vix805: 6:12pm On Jul 26, 2022
Another episode of fear women.
op bring her back to Nigeria and divorce her here, find some excuse or else divorce will be her final heist against you. Try use your head.

Re: Read This And Never Trust A Woman Again!!!! by Skii(m): 6:15pm On Jul 26, 2022
E get why Bible, in the book of proverbs warns about the adulterous woman
Re: Read This And Never Trust A Woman Again!!!! by Princeaniemeka: 6:29pm On Jul 26, 2022
preshman22:
According to my wife, she had seen many therapists about this. I asked her if she was a nympho…she said yes…that as a troubled young girl, s3x was her way of escaping the pain of abandonment she felt for her mother. She f*cked any man who showed her a little care but she says, she is no longer a nympho. That is why she does not want to go back to the country that reminds her of her pain.

When I asked her why she went out all night, leaving our young kids with a baby sitter…she could not answer. She just said she was sorry. I asked her if she was sleeping with someone…she said no but I am not sure I believe her. I am not sure I really know the woman I am married to anymore. She hid so many dark parts of her past from me. Just finding out is giving me too much shock than I can bear.

I told her she has to return to Nigeria with me, so I can be close to her and help her, she said never. I think she is still dealing with her past. I think she is not ready to face her past. I think she is in denial. I took her phone and saw that she had been chatting with some guys. Some of them are her colleagues. They were having dirty, erotic chats. Even chats about having threesomes in the office bathroom after close of work. It was obvious She was out with a guy that night. I did not need a seer to tell me that.

My wife said nothing happened. That it was all just flirting but nothing more….Who can believe that? I broke down, I have never ever seen my wife as someone capable of cheating on me with a man talk less of several men…My wife thinks I am judging her because of what her mother told me…that she has not slept with any man since we got married.

So, I left for Nigeria and since then, we have not spoken. I am so worried about my wife and my children. I asked my sister who lives in Canada to be checking on them but that still worries me. Everyday I am thinking what is my wife up to. Clearly, she must be up to something. I am not there to know. I try to call her very often but she is now upset that I am watching her. She said if I do not trust her, we should get a divorce.

The truth is….I do not trust her….not if she is nit beside me. Does this mean our marriage is doomed? Should I move back to Canada, to try and save what is left of my marriage? Will that even change anything? Is my absence the reason she is cheating or was she covering up her real self?

Her mother has said nothing can change her daughter. That I had better leave her alone if I do not want to be destroyed. Her own mother…My family business needs me, they are saying I should demand my wife to return but my wife has refused. what should I do? My home is on fire…I need advise.





THE PROBLEM WITH WE BLACK PEOPLE IS THAT WE ALWAYS LEAVE IN DENIAL.

WE ALWAYS WANT TO SEE THINGS IN OUR OWN VIEWS AND NOT WHAT THE VIEW IS ACTUALLY.

IF A MOTHER CAN TELL YOU ALL THIS THINGS ABOUT HER DAUGHTER, WHAT ELSE DO YOU NEED TO KNOW?

A MOTHER KNOWS HER CHILD BETTER THAN ANYONE ELSE.

IF YOUR WIFE EXEMPTED THIS IMPORTANT ASPECT OF HER LIFE FROM YOU, THEN ASK YOURSELF.

WHO AMONGST THE TWO ARE LYING?

CAN A SNAKE TURN TO RAT BECAUSE IT CHANGED LOCATION?

NOTE: SHE NEVER WANTED YOU TO KNOW HER ABOUT HER PAST LIFE WHICH MEANS THAT ALOT OF SKELETON IS IN HER CLOSETS.

YOUR FAMILY BUSINESS IS THE REASON WHY YOU STILL MAINTAIN SOME LEVEL OF SANITY. IF NOT, SHE WOULD HAVE ROPED YOU IN SOMETHING YOU WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND. KNOW THIS AND KNOW PEACE.

A WOMAN WHO TREATED HER MUM LIKE THAT IS POSSESSED.

REMEMBER, MOST OF THE GREAT MEN IN THE BIBLE AND EVEN BEYOND WHERE KILLED BY WOMEN.

COUNT YOUR LOSSES AND MOVE ON. SHALOM
Re: Read This And Never Trust A Woman Again!!!! by Nobody: 7:52pm On Jul 26, 2022
U did not see the father and u did not meet the mother. Who received the bride price?

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Re: Read This And Never Trust A Woman Again!!!! by COOL10(m): 8:47pm On Jul 26, 2022
Most of these bittches started taking cockkk at a very early age. If Nigerian women open their mouths to tell you about their sexual history, you go pick race.

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