I started communicating with this lady. From my conversations, she may be a good girl on many parts. She goes to a very good church. I mean a bible-believing church. We have started chatting and calling already, but while we were gisting via chat, she said she has had sex. I continued gisting with her in a calm way, but I do feel "funny". We are ripe for marriage, but when I think of that sex part, I feel "funny". I can marry a non-virgin. Infact a lady I wanted to marry before was not a virgin and I did not feel bad at all. I even wanted to meet my church head (reverend) as regards marriage with her but she said I should wait.. I cherished her.

Please how can I stop to feel 'funny" for this lady? Guys how do you move past this and enjoy with love.

I am not better than her, she came from a bible-believing home, but please advise me.

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ebubeson:
I started communicating with this lady. From my conversations, she is a good girl. She goes to a very good church. I mean a bible-believing church. We have started chatting and calling already, but while we were gisting via chat, she said she has had sex. I continued gisting with her in a calm way, but I do feel "funny". We are ripe for marriage, but when I think of that sex part, I feel funny. I can marry a non-virgin. Infact a lady I wanted to marry before was not a virgin and I did not feel bad at all. I even wanted to meet my church head (reverend) as regards marriage with her but she said I should wait.. I cherished her.

Please how can I stop to feel funny for this lady? Guys how do you move past this and enjoy with love.

I am not better than her, she came from a bible-believing home, but please advise me.

There is nothing to advise..u are not mature enough to marry ...don't meet anyone or give her false hopes...virginity is never at d back of any matured man..her character and personality is d beauty of a woman for a matured man ..d same thing for a woman..so until u have built up that mentality, remain friends and don't hurt her before u bring a curse on yaself

Non virgin Nigerian girs are reward for SIMPle and good men.

While,

Virgin Nigerian girls are reward for alphas and bad men.

The reason you see all these oloshos getting married to good men and pastors and you wonder why good girls are not getting married.

The reason good and virgin girls are not getting married is cos bad and alpha guys are not yet or planning to get married, they're still busy smashing every smashables. They don't want to be caged.


Conclusively, know where you belong. Are you a good guy or a bad guy?

It’s the “I feel funny” for me.

So funny how good guys end up eating the leftovers.

Ogbeni OP, Virgin lady no dey Nigeria again.

If u are waiting for a Virgin for marriage, you go grow white beards, turn to Methuselah!

Love her for who she is and be the best boyfriend you can be. It's ridiculous that you guys think because she is not a virgin, she can't make a good wife . Please you guys should change your mentality.

Thank God, you said it yourself that she's not just Christian but a true believer with good qualities... So why "feel funny" because she's not a virgin?

You don't know what you have got until you lose it.. Sit down there and be feeling funny okay!

No Virgin = No Marriage

Let the person that disvirgined her, marry her.

She felt you were not good enough to keep the goodies for.

She isn't good enough to keep your goodies for.

Jennyclay:
Love her for who she is and be the best boyfriend you can be. It's ridiculous that you guys think because she is not a virgin, she can't make a good wife . Please you guys should change your mentality.

@bolded.

Love her for who she is
Who the fvck is she? Mary Slessor or Margaret Thatcher?

Why should a sane man love a girl deflowered with just noodles and egg?

No sensible man should be excited spending huge finances on bride price and wedding for a girl deflowered with meat pie and Fanta.

Zonefree:

@bolded.

Love her for who she is
Who the fvck is she? Mary Slessor or Margaret Thatcher?

Why should a sane man love a girl deflowered with just noodles and egg?

No sensible man should be excited spending huge finances on bride price and wedding for a girl deflowered with meat pie and Fanta.

Lolss, meatpie and Fanta..

Really, when i hear Guys using N500K upwards for a lady for marriage, i just Smh.

because very likely, the Guyman dat enjoyed her P*ssy the most, didn't spend a dime!

It's just so sad that some guys' comments here are irritating.

Zonefree:

@bolded.

Love her for who she is
Who the fvck is she? Mary Slessor or Margaret Thatcher?

Why should a sane man love a girl deflowered with just noodles and egg?

No sensible man should be excited spending huge finances on bride price and wedding for a girl deflowered with meat pie and Fanta.

I wish op could listen to my advice.

I'm very certain & 100% sure that if you come across this said girl op is talking about.. You're gonna marry her in no time. But here you are telling the op to let go of the girl. Seriously you're very wicked.

ebubeson:
I started communicating with this lady. From my conversations, she is a good girl. She goes to a very good church. I mean a bible-believing church. We have started chatting and calling already, but while we were gisting via chat, she said she has had sex. I continued gisting with her in a calm way, but I do feel "funny". We are ripe for marriage, but when I think of that sex part, I feel funny. I can marry a non-virgin. Infact a lady I wanted to marry before was not a virgin and I did not feel bad at all. I even wanted to meet my church head (reverend) as regards marriage with her but she said I should wait.. I cherished her.

Please how can I stop to feel funny for this lady? Guys how do you move past this and enjoy with love.

I am not better than her, she came from a bible-believing home, but please advise me.

Then the only problem here is your ego. Virginity is overrated and ends in a single night yet you are prepared to give up on a good woman because of that? Can you give me the assurance that if you disvirgin a woman, she will be faithful to you no matter what?

Jennyclay:
I wish op could listen to my advice.

I'm very certain & 100% sure that if you come across this said girl op is talking about.. You're gonna marry her in no time. But here you are telling the op to let go of the girl. Seriously you're very wicked.

Your advise is baseless, why should OP listen to it?

Yeah the truth hurts, why I'm very wicked.

Vinnie2000:


Lolss, meatpie and Fanta..

Really, when i hear Guys using N500K upwards for a lady for marriage, i just Smh.

because very likely, the Guyman dat enjoyed her P*ssy the most, didn't spend a dime!

Of course you're right. They always give their virginity to broke guys.

My guy chase that woman,she Go Bleep u die!!

ebubeson:
I started communicating with this lady. From my conversations, she is a good girl. She goes to a very good church. I mean a bible-believing church. We have started chatting and calling already, but while we were gisting via chat, she said she has had sex. I continued gisting with her in a calm way, but I do feel "funny". We are ripe for marriage, but when I think of that sex part, I feel "funny". I can marry a non-virgin. Infact a lady I wanted to marry before was not a virgin and I did not feel bad at all. I even wanted to meet my church head (reverend) as regards marriage with her but she said I should wait.. I cherished her.

Please how can I stop to feel 'funny" for this lady? Guys how do you move past this and enjoy with love.

I am not better than her, she came from a bible-believing home, but please advise me.

Zonefree:

Of course you're right. They always give their virginity to broke guys.

Not to Broke Guys.

But to Assertive guys or womanizers who know to fvck girls without spending much.
These guys enjoy and ravage the pussy like no man's business!

While humble and Feeble guys like MUFASALION gets Nothing but 'Aww, you are such a darling'!

Vinnie2000:


Not to Broke Guys.

But to Assertive guys or womanizers who know to fvck girls without spending much.
These guys enjoy and ravage the pussy like no man's business!

While humble and Feeble guys like MUFASALION gets Nothing but 'Aww, you are such a darling'!

That Mufasa should remove "Lion" from his moniker and add "Duck".

Zonefree:




That Mufasa should remove "Lion" from his moniker and add "Duck".

Y not Pussycat, instead of Duck

So that you can easily Shorten to MufasaPUSSY.

Op, don't listen to what d boys are saying up here, Zonefree and Vinnie2000.

Vinnie2000:
Ogbeni OP, Virgin lady no dey Nigeria again.

If u are waiting for a Virgin for marriage, you go grow white beards, turn to Methuselah!

They are.

I'm at the wedding of one right now and I'm one.

Virginity does not guarantee a good marriage. Grow up

No hymen, no ring. Regardless do a secret DNA test for all your children. Don’t say you were not warned.

@Op, you have a choice to make but know you that virginity is not overrated as most women would have you believe. In fact it's an intrinsic trait of feminity. In this era of wokeness amongst the female gender, you can only guarantee that your prospective wife is not a damaged alpha widow by that hymen she will give you upon marriage. Know this, women usually have their sexual imprint etched in their subconsciousness by the alpha who deflowered them. This usually happens in their prime years (when they are out for adventures) and guess who gets to hit their coochies then? The assertive, thuggish, bad boys who they often see as sexually appealing. Their rough mating style often becomes their yardstick for their sexual appeal to anyone. And heaven help you if you're poor in bed, you'd keep getting the duty sex after marriage.

After these hoes phases, a new mask is clothed by them in order to secure a nice guy (who they never found sexually appealing in their prime years) for long term relationship (solely for their provisioning).

Guy... The call is yours to make but know you that the major thing that she brings to the table is that her feminity which largely includes virginity.

Don't listen to those that would shame trick you into wrong choice by such lines as "you're immature", "virginity is overrated" etc. Such would mostly come from women but it's expected though as women always look out for each other. It's a rogue game folk!

Gracias!

You need to work on that funny feeling and leave that girl alone.
If you desire virgin, you keep looking for her. Life is choice

TarOrfeeek:
No Virgin = No Marriage
Let the person that disvirgined her, marry her.
She felt you were not good enough to keep the goodies for.
She isn't good enough to keep your goodies for.

Best comment..
You made my day..

@op shy away from this comment at your own peril

Hmmmmm...... If you want her go for her. She's good in her personality but not being a virgin might be a mistake she's made in the past and she has changed, repented and living the right life. There're some virgins who are even worse than a non virgin and do everything to destroy you

No virgin=No marriage.

No Hymen=No Ring..

Good men, gentle men, nice guys and Real men were meant to marry nonvirgins, they were meant to take the left over crumbs of puc.c.!es.

Know this and know peace!

No Virginity
No Marriage !!

OP, I don't get it. Are you a virgin? Your post makes it seem like you're entitled to one and I'm not really sure why. Don't demand something that you yourself cannot provide.

siofra:


They are.

I'm at the wedding of one right now and I'm one.

Hmmm, Na so.

Virgin but in the Bedroom tonight, you will see her twisting, bending and stylishly asking for Wheel barrow, doggy, Cowgirl and other sex styles!

What kind of a Virgin is dis