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Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Rechargeam247(f): 1:52pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
Hmmn. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Tobijays: 1:54pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
oazeez1991:tell your family that one back to op you better leave ooo. Ther was a case I witnessed, a man hid his epileptic condition to his newly wed wife. the wife knew after 3 months of marriage the family gathered and gave this kind of advice this person is giving you better wise up ooo 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 2:00pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
ibechris: Thank you I am leaving next month on the 4th 7 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 2:00pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
AjiBussu: Thank you |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 2:02pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
oazeez1991: Thank you I am leaving next month on the 4th 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 2:02pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
Karleb: Thank you |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by CountVersailles(f): 2:07pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
Since you’ve already made up your mind, what’s the purpose of bringing this matter here. You are going to do what you want regardless what anyone tells you, no be so? 9 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Calibrator: 2:08pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
If you want to leave, biko leave! 7 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Richy4(m): 2:10pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
<< Nigeria is indeed breaking a lot of homes... << If taxes are utilised and channelled to the right direction and corrupt practices are not in place, op will not be here talking about leaving her home.. << Many countries with vision are the ones taking care of special need children with tax payers money... << We see them all the time looking nice in their special Van and their care givers taking good care of them because they are paid to do so.. << The most annoying thing is that most of the law makers in Nigeria have been abroad... Most of them had their education there... They have seen how the government of those nations alleviate the problems of their citizens... They have seen how it works but when they get to Nigeria, they turned blind eyes.. they act like they have never seen or heard things like it.. ![]() 42 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 2:11pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
CountVersailles: Please read my last paragraph like I said earlier my post is not about changing my mind or stayimg because I will stick to my decision. but I just wanna know what other people would do in my situation. You know on social media we advise people on things that we cannot even take a quarter of. Even myself if i wasn't in this situation I would have advised the person to stay and look after the child because I am not the one wearing the shoe but I wear the shoe and it is not easy 27 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 2:12pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
Calibrator: Thank you |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 2:16pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
Richy4: You are totally right I agreed with everything you said. Taking care of a person with disabilities in nigeria is hell because they're jot help but in developed countries is so much better. Trust me is not easy for me is only one week and I have gave up due to no support. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by tonicyril: 2:22pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
dawnomike:which kain nonsense for better for worse?? For better for worse dey inside bible?? OP i cant advice u to take care of someone else responsibilities ooh, me sef a no fit do am, mba. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 2:31pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
tonicyril: Thank you |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by uloaku4jokotade: 2:42pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
Thank youThank you... |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nobody: 3:11pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
This is what happens when you put the cart before the horse. When you ought to do your findings about who you're getting married to, you were busy consumating sex, getting yourself pregnant and rushing into marriage without proper background checks. Now you want to opt out just like that. you think marriage is child's play? Or something you can just throw in the trash when the odds are against you? Think again cos this right here is the real marriage. So you have to accept and deal with it. Oh... You want the man but you don't want his child? What if it was you who gave birth to the child? Forget about how the mother is not willing to take her therefore you can't keep her excuse you're giving. The father didn't marry her but you. Maybe if he did, she won't abandon the child, so you who won the man should accept his totality. Do you know what the one you're carrying will turn out to be? Majority of you marry these days for the benefits. If nothing is in it for you, then you leave. You can't sacrifice and if they ask you now, you'll say you love the man. Mtcheeeeeewwwww.. 8 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nobody: 3:26pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
E be things oooo. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nobody: 3:28pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
Please divorce him. Let the man be Free. You're already cheating on him. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 3:30pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8: First of all our relationship was based on lies because he didn't tell me anything about her or her condition if he had told me from the onset I would have decided whether to quit or stay but he didn't tell me anything until the mother dropped her off and why would I have suffer for someone else responsibility. My only mistake was marrying him with his lies but his child in that condition is not my responsibility at all. If her mother that carried her for 9 long months cannot do it anymore me too I won't do it because I have done it for a week and I am already tired. Please if you think it is that easy if you are a woman you care enough for her come and marry him and take care of the child or if you are a man ask one of your sisters to come and replace me so she can take care of her. 41 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by pointblank247(m): 3:35pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
You should leave that marriage because the man was too economical with the truth, but if he eventually finds a solution like a maid that can handle the matter, then you should consider staying 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 3:38pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
pointblank247: Thank you |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nobody: 3:39pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
H0711: Leave all this excuses. He didn't tell you, he didn't tell you. Did you try to find out? Oh.. now you're helping him look for a wife... but if the mother had told you then to leave her man for her, would you have agreed? You don enter now, see wetin dey inside, you come dey run. One thing you should know is, marriage is not all that fun. It's a parcel full of surprises and you just have to brace yourself for it as each day unfolds. Or what were you expecting? Sit down there. You don enter, you don enter. Nwata fu ihe o choga, ahu e doe ya. Happy married life. 6 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 3:46pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8: Most of the things you are saying here if you were in my shoe you will not even take a quarter of it . Maybe if it was you by now you will be locking her inside the room like an animal . But i have tried my best to take care of her needs but i cant take it anymore.I will not stay where I am not happy . My happiness and health matter a lot. like I said earlier if you are a woman come and marry him to help taking care of the child 41 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by fman(m): 3:46pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 3:49pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
fman: Yes I can't afford it too because I am not working due to my condition 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nobody: 3:49pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
[quote author=H0711 post=115222439] Most of the things you are saying here if you were in my shoe you will not even take a quarter of it . Maybe if it was you by now you will be locking her inside the room like an animal . But i have tried my best to take care of her needs but i cant take it anymore.I will not stay where I am not happy . My happiness and health matter a lot. like I said earlier if you are a woman come and marry him to help taking care of the child [/quote] SMH.. see married woman. I'm sure you made the for better for worse vow or you didn't get the chance to because of your condition? I can't be in your shoes because I'll set my priorities right by praying first for God to reveal the kind of man I want to marry to me instead of jumping into bed with him and doing the opposite. Ok? Marriage is not something you jump into for the sake of it. It requires serious prayers to avoid such mistakes and "had I known." Carry your cross. 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by fman(m): 3:51pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
H0711:So if you divorce him, How r u gonna take care of urself and the baby? 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 3:55pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
[quote author=Blessedmercy8 post=115222531][/quote] Yes I did for better for worse I have accepted him with his poor condition that's already worse because a lot of woman won't take it but i wasn't aware of the child especially in that condition I will never accept that worse because it is a death sentence. You are free to come and accept the worse in my behalf 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 3:56pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
fman: I am going back to the village I will find something to do and take care of myself and the child 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by fman(m): 4:03pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
H0711:Wt this ur condition... Plz don't take a decision that will devastate u Ok. If u divorce him, Do u wish re-marrying? Make e no b say that your Ex-bf, dey deceive you. 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 4:06pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
fman: I am 7 months pregnant it is my first pregnancy I should be resting a lot but ever since the girl came I have been up and down , lifting her , feeding and changing nappies it is not easy. Well I can't answer your question about remarriying because it is only God that knows what the future will bring for me. 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Ginaz(f): 4:08pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
Hmmm I know exactly how you feel and your feelings are understandable without a question. It takes one to be mentally tough to take care of a physically challenged individual with no body mobility. They are 100% dependent on you for their every needs, let’s not even talk about handling of poo, urine, feeding them straight from hand to mouth. it’s a lot to take in without prior notice from your husband. You are pregnant too and it won’t be easy. It won’t be easy and you should not be guilt-trip into making the decision to care for the child. Rest and relax, move out if you absolutely need to. You should make the decision yourself if you want to handle the situation with your husband. Nobody should make you guilty. Your heart should not grumble into helping the poor child, least you do all in vain. May God send helper to the child. It may be it’s your husband’s karma in some sort of way! Move on . A pregnant woman needs rest as well. Just take care of yourself for the now and prepare for childbirth, tomorrow will sort itself out. 26 Likes 3 Shares |
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