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Masturbation Is Ruining My Life by Imbibed: 11:03am On Aug 02, 2022 |
Good day everyone, pls I only need smart suggestions on how to end this addiction. I've been masturbating since I was 14, now I'm 28 and I still can't stop. This addiction had ruined so many of my relationships because I would always choose to masturbate over sex at some points because masturbation and porn gives me the feel of varieties. At one point having sex with just one girl becomes boring but with porn I can choose any girl I want or choose varieties of my fantasies. This addiction has almost ruined my life and my health. I've got so many crazy health defects I'm struggling with because of this addiction. I'm just curious if anyone has any good suggestions on how they were able to beat this addiction. Having a girlfriend won't solve anything, so don't advice me on that. 2 Likes |
Re: Masturbation Is Ruining My Life by Jeon(f): 11:07am On Aug 02, 2022 |
Imbibed: 2 Likes |
Re: Masturbation Is Ruining My Life by Reinamaria(f): 11:07am On Aug 02, 2022 |
Genuinely ask God to help you break free from the addiction. 6 Likes |
Re: Masturbation Is Ruining My Life by Jennyclay(f): 11:11am On Aug 02, 2022 |
It all starts from your mind. First of all, quit the porn watching things. It will go a long way to help you keep your mind in one piece... And also Learn to distract yourself from thinking about sex from your mind. Secondly, find something meaningful to channel your energy once the urge comes. Thirdly, you need a therapist who can help you savage this situation psychologically from time to time. I pray God deliver you. 7 Likes |
Re: Masturbation Is Ruining My Life by VOsimhen144(m): 11:17am On Aug 02, 2022 |
sell ur android phone and buy Nokia torch. u ll be fine continue using the torchlight phone until u marry. 15 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Masturbation Is Ruining My Life by VenumX: 11:18am On Aug 02, 2022 |
Na p0rn addicts and m@sturbators full this forum. Later, they will be shouting redpill. 4 Likes |
Re: Masturbation Is Ruining My Life by DanZO17: 11:30am On Aug 02, 2022 |
Imbibed: You'll experience something while you're trying to break free. It's like your brain fighting against you. But by the grace of God,I believe you'll sail through. Accepting the fact its ruining your life is the first step. So I'd give you a number of steps . Delete everything sexual . . Change your schedule. Like, if grinding your waist on your bed makes you want to masturbate, leave the bed. There's times of the day you usually masturbate, so defy the odds.. if you masturbate by 4 in the evening when nobody's home, leave home by 4. Don't be idle.. Do something always... You'll sail through.. Don't look at pornography... It's difficult not to, but try... Also, pray!. But prayer alone doesn't do it, you need to make up your mind you won't.. Google Nofap forum, read victory stories... I believe you'll make it. Shalom. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Masturbation Is Ruining My Life by Reminderz: 11:53am On Aug 02, 2022 |
Jennyclay:first time saying something truly reasonable... you're now improving. 4 Likes |
Re: Masturbation Is Ruining My Life by Baddestbiitch(f): 12:02pm On Aug 02, 2022 |
Keep F.uvking baby Show us what you got |
Re: Masturbation Is Ruining My Life by Autobot05: 2:34pm On Aug 02, 2022 |
Be determined and ask for divine help too Drug addiction and masturbation addiction are the two strongest types of addiction imo Jesus is the ONLY way ❤️ |
Re: Masturbation Is Ruining My Life by AndroidAI(m): 2:39pm On Aug 02, 2022 |
Masturbation is a natural activity found not only in humans. Whether you masturbate or not, one way or another, you're going to cum for the rest of your life. But there's an exception. The Death Grip Syndrome. That's dangerous and would ruin your sex life. If you're the the type that masturbate with an overly firm or aggressive grip, then you need to stop. Porn is also a demon on its own. Its impact on your brain is worst than masturbation itself. Quit porn first! 5 Likes |
Re: Masturbation Is Ruining My Life by kingemaker(m): 2:46pm On Aug 02, 2022 |
You may need to see a shrink. The issue here isn't the masturbation, but your addiction to the act. Stay safe. |
Re: Masturbation Is Ruining My Life by teebagy: 2:48pm On Aug 02, 2022 |
AndroidAI:how is porn worst than masturbation |
Re: Masturbation Is Ruining My Life by AndroidAI(m): 2:51pm On Aug 02, 2022 |
teebagy: Good question. Now type that on Google or YouTube... You'll have your answer. |
Re: Masturbation Is Ruining My Life by teebagy: 3:39pm On Aug 02, 2022 |
AndroidAI:when a student ask a teacher a question based on d teacher theoritical teaching and d teacher asks d student to go and ask goggle dosent it show how intelligent and sensible d teacher is?. |
Re: Masturbation Is Ruining My Life by AndroidAI(m): 4:17pm On Aug 02, 2022 |
teebagy: Unfortunately, I am not your teacher. I merely responded out of the goodness of my heart. You want me to marry you a wife, and still impregnate her for you? Even a teacher will give a student a take-home assignment, which i did. 4 Likes |
Re: Masturbation Is Ruining My Life by Connected1: 4:37pm On Aug 02, 2022 |
Pluck bitter leaf and eat anytime the urge comes. Keep bitter leaf and garlic in your house, anytime you feel Hot, just carry one chew or chew the bitter leaves. Try it, if the urge still persists, then you have gone far. 1 Like |
Re: Masturbation Is Ruining My Life by Blake755: 4:39pm On Aug 02, 2022 |
AndroidAI:Telling us won't be bad me I wan hear from horse mouth |
Re: Masturbation Is Ruining My Life by Blake755: 4:39pm On Aug 02, 2022 |
VOsimhen144:The best answer so far 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Masturbation Is Ruining My Life by TheZeezle(m): 4:43pm On Aug 02, 2022 |
Since a getting a hoe won't help you boy. Have some nerves and cut it off, you'll be fine. |
Re: Masturbation Is Ruining My Life by Nonexisting: 4:51pm On Aug 02, 2022 |
You're 28 so let me repeat an advice I gave to a colleague of yours. Whenever you get a hardon, remember that at the time you masturbate, some of your old school mates are busy making millions. 2 Likes |
Re: Masturbation Is Ruining My Life by Vinnie2000(m): 4:56pm On Aug 02, 2022 |
Jennyclay: See how calm and mature ur comment is.. Unlike sometimes, u attack others like a Tigress! OP, Listen to this lady's advice! |
Re: Masturbation Is Ruining My Life by Vinnie2000(m): 5:00pm On Aug 02, 2022 |
OP, Also be Reading the Bible too. because nah only God dey help in such Matters of Porn addiction, masturbation, lesbianism, homosexuality,etc.. Konji (The urge to Fcvk) no be small thing oo.. |
Re: Masturbation Is Ruining My Life by bigcee(m): 5:02pm On Aug 02, 2022 |
Nonexisting:How do you know they're busy making millions. 1 Like
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Re: Masturbation Is Ruining My Life by bigcee(m): 5:08pm On Aug 02, 2022 |
Baba, use Alina Ali take hold body tonight
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Re: Masturbation Is Ruining My Life by Nonexisting: 5:08pm On Aug 02, 2022 |
bigcee:The day you enter Alaba market and see small boys of 25 in their businesses, you will suffer depression. |
Re: Masturbation Is Ruining My Life by unnot21(m): 5:37pm On Aug 02, 2022 |
Go and read the book, Atomic Habit |
Re: Masturbation Is Ruining My Life by shellybee: 5:41pm On Aug 02, 2022 |
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Re: Masturbation Is Ruining My Life by unnot21(m): 5:44pm On Aug 02, 2022 |
Copied from... Follow this thread if you are determined to quit https://www.nairaland.com/5223408/masturbation-quitting-challenge-thread |
Re: Masturbation Is Ruining My Life by Sheistoopretty(f): 5:51pm On Aug 02, 2022 |
(1) sell your phone and get a none browning phone (2) Get yourself busy with work that your mind wouldn't have time to think such rubbish. |
Re: Masturbation Is Ruining My Life by bigcee(m): 5:53pm On Aug 02, 2022 |
Nonexisting:My market you dey tell me make I enter. You must be high on urine 1 Like |
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