Is it right for a lady to toast a guy that she loves?

It is okay to tell him that the sun and moon rise in his eyes, tell him you want him.

dodgelord:
Is it right for a lady to toast a guy that she loves?

Answer the following question and you would have answered your own question there @OP.

Is it right for a guy to toast a girl he likes?

Yes but not a Nigerian guy, abeg

9ja girls don't love and dey will never love u.

They are nothing but useless. All of them...

Know this and know peace

Nothing wrong there if she truly loves you.
Though the African mentality and culture has made it look like a taboo hence the men not accepting such feats from the female counterparts making the ladies too withdrawn and shying away from expressing themselves in that regards for fear of rejection which usually greets such feats.

I think the best a lady can do in the African setting is give a green light. That's the highest majority ( including me) have gone.

I can authoritatively tell you that it's not okay in Nigeria because it doesn't always end well. Instead, give him all the signs to take the shot.

Channah1:
Nothing wrong there if she truly loves you.
Though the African mentality and culture has made it look like a taboo hence the men not accepting such feats from the female counterparts making the ladies too withdrawn and shying away from expressing themselves in that regards for fear of rejection which usually greets such feats.

I think the best a lady can do in the African setting is give a green light. That's the highest majority ( including me) have gone.

see mentality....as a guy, if a lady walks up to me and tells me she likes me, she has my respect immediately.. whether I'd agree to date her is a different thing. Giving greenlight is childish... Olohun I go just dey ignore am dey go.

SmartPolician:
I can authoritatively tell you that it's not okay in Nigeria because it doesn't always end well. Instead, give him all the signs to take the shot.

"authoritatively"? Wow..

Hacks4dummies:
see mentality....as a guy, if a lady walks up to me and tells me she likes me, she has my respect immediately.. whether I'd agree to date her is a different thing. Giving greenlight is childish... Olohun I go just dey ignore am dey go.

Who dey give you green light self.

By the way are we talking about she earning your respect or getting a positive response from you to agree to date her?

This one no even understand wetin Dem dey talk.

I don't see nothing wrong in doing so, but what people fail to understand is that men by nature are HUNTERS and take pride in hunting their prey and when this prowess is taken from them the feel inferior ... let me give an example ;
Meat hunted or money worked for feels more valuable and induces this sense of pride than spotting a Dead meat or dashed money that is spent anyhow.


In conclusion Men value what the work for. My 2kobo

dodgelord:

Is it right for a lady to toast a guy that she loves?

don't know if you're a girl or guy but one thing is, you need to keep open mind and u need to prepare for any answer.
Either he accept or not te same goes for the guys asking girl out. We keep open mind incase ladies turn us down.
And u can be rest assured he's not going to wash or bad-mouth you like some ladies d highest his response will be," oh I'm sorry I have someone already" so good luck!

SmartPolician:
I can authoritatively tell you that it's not okay in Nigeria because it doesn't always end well. Instead, give him all the signs to take the shot.

madam or ogbeni, you can still give me all the whole sign and equation plus greenlight in the traffic light yet I won't still look ur side or I look ask u out and we knackernah then I jakpa how far
Things is if u as a lady walk up to me and ask me out, if am with someone already I will let u know, if am single and I don't really like u or into you well I will try and tag along hopefully I might developed feelings for u.

I it ok but, in Nigeria she should only give greenlights

Maybe, Maybe not.

Girls have no game. They're the prey, the don't know how to catch the hunter... directly. They do it indirectly.
But when a woman does it, it makes things easy. I've only seen it once.

Its not bad ,i will shoot my shot if i like a guy.

Na girls de toast guys pass na...either by greenlight or they have sex with you...relationship don start b dat!

Yemialade:
Its not bad ,i will shoot my shot if i like a guy.

correct gurlie

Promisesmiling:
I don't see nothing wrong in doing so, but what people fail to understand is that men by nature are HUNTERS and take pride in hunting their prey and when this prowess is taken from them the feel inferior ... let me give an example ;
Meat hunted or money worked for feels more valuable and induces this sense of pride than spotting a Dead meat or dashed money that is spent anyhow.


In conclusion Men value what the work for. My 2kobo

STFU.. I hate stressing for my prey. I am no hunter.

Hacks4dummies:
STFU.. I hate stressing for my prey. I am no hunter.

Na your spit touch me abi rain the fall ... point to note i said MEN not low budget James Brown acting all dummy.
Lazy ass worker if you werent so lazy to read to the end, you would have seen where i added in conclusion my 2kobo (2cent)... A clown and more

uthlaw:
Na girls de toast guys pass na...either by greenlight or they have sex with you...relationship don start b dat!

Bro you are right
If she loves you
She wont make her self stressfully to you
And after s£x relationship don start

But most ladies will want you to toast them before you get close to them

But all I can say is that if a woman loves a guy and the guy loves her it won’t be hard for the woman to commit her self or give the man her time an attention

Promisesmiling:


Na your spit touch me abi rain the fall ... point to note i said MEN not low budget James Brown acting all dummy.
Lazy ass worker if you werent so lazy to read to the end, you would have seen where i added in conclusion my 2kobo (2cent)... A clown and more