Anuoluwa12345:
So at the verge of realising this point, I became troubled a little, that what if the guy I later choose to go with is cute and girls are all over him? How do I cope, what are the things I need to understand to make my relationship with him last and many more guidance sha. So I deem it fit to open a thread on it, to learn from relationship gurus .

Cuz I can remember well, I have an elder brother who is dark and very cute, and I know how girls throw themselves over him etc .. infact, girls wey even dey serious relationships o .. wey old pass him self.. like girls that some have even done introduction o, o deep . Pls share your thoughts.
Cc: lalasticlala move to fp sir!.

MrBrownJay1:


in life you have to do your best to be a good person, a good mate, and let the rest fall into place...whether a guy is cute or not, if he doesnt respect the r/ship you guys have then he will cheat. so just make sure you choose a guy that respects your r/ship and basta.
there is NOTHING you can do to stop a cheating disrespectful/deceitful/untrustworthy partner to be different.

life is too valuable to be wasting time worrying day and night about what your partner is doing. people who dont suffer with low self esteem/insecurity will be fine.

Connected1:
I don't know how they cope.

But they can keep malice with you for over a week until you make them understand that it's nothing serious.

[/b]Some even go ahead and flirt with other guys just to make you feel jealous too.[b]

Kimiso:
The solutions is stop going after cute guy

Connected1:
I don't know how they cope.

But they can keep malice with you for over a week until you make them understand that it's nothing serious.

Some even go ahead and flirt with other guys just to make them feel jealous too.

[/b]Personally I think if a cute guy really values you and understand how you feel then insecurity would be at it's barest minimum, who loves you won't stress you at all.[b]

jeromestarks:
Serious minded women avoid guys who look fair and cute like a woman.
Most of these so-called cute guys are pvssies.
I'm not a cute guy and I don't want to be; man should be manly and women should be girly. Simple!

virginprincess:
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Persephone1:
Dear Op, forget all you read about trust and respect here. The "if your guy loves you bla bla bla". Reality is dating someone that everybody wants is not easy. Believe me when i say it takes more than love and respect from a guy, you as a woman have a lot to do.
Number 1 question How confident are you in yourself , your partner , your relationship. What's the basis of your relationship? How committed and connected are you to each other. What makes you different from other women out there? What's that uncommon value in you? If you can answer these questions and you have both logical and practical answers to them then you are good to go.

The above may seem like walking on egg shell to some ladies, its fine. But if you want a cute guy of value with you, then you dont leave the work to him alone. You have to keep that fire burning. It must burn so much that even while you are miles away, he feels your heat.

Nyascobar1414:


Person wey no get hope dey advice person wey get hope..
Life shaa..

Lmao

Persephone1:
Dear Op, forget all you read about trust and respect here. The "if your guy loves you bla bla bla". Reality is dating someone that everybody wants is not easy. Believe me when i say it takes more than love and respect from a guy, you as a woman have a lot to do.
Number 1 question How confident are you in yourself , your partner , your relationship. What's the basis of your relationship? How committed and connected are you to each other. What makes you different from other women out there? What's that uncommon value in you? If you can answer these questions and you have both logical and practical answers to them then you are good to go.

The above may seem like walking on egg shell to some ladies, its fine. But if you want a cute guy of value with you, then you dont leave the work to him alone. You have to keep that fire burning. It must burn so much that even while you are miles away, he feels your heat.

Anuoluwa12345:
Wow!!! Wow!!!! Wow!!!! This is beautiful, thanks so much..wow I have learned, thank God I opened this thread ho.

You are welcome.

Please dont go through those stress for someone who isnt worth it. Fine face no mean fine brain ooo.

jeromestarks:
Serious minded women avoid guys who look fair and cute like a woman.
Most of these so-called cute guys are pvssies.
I'm not a cute guy and I don't want to be; man should be manly and women should be girly. Simple!

Sekoni003:


Lol they avoid cute guys but get wet for them huh?
Joker, just take your L in peace and stop glorifying ugliness lol

Anuoluwa12345:
... Sincerely, I already tut so this night, first time I will reason to this level tho ..but God forbid o, I don't want a ugly partner

Nyascobar1414:
Actually, girls will keep acting like they hate cute guys.. But oops, just gv them a little attention, thats when you will see how gentle they will be.. You will make their day, cos they will start getting obssessed with you..

They will be like I hate that guy, but In secret they wanna have his d!ck in their joy hole...

Fear women,some men usually say!

Nyascobar1414:
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Actually,my ashawo being an evening newspaper is a wonder to Nigeria...
Lol

Anuoluwa12345:
... Sincerely, I already tut so this night, first time I will reason to this level tho ..but God forbid o, I don't want a ugly partner

Anuoluwa12345:
Good evening everyone , so I came across a particular status post on my WhatsApp, which made me to explore more thinking and I arrive at this particular question: [/b]girls that date cute guys, how do you cope?[b].

Cuz I understand everyone has sight for something good, and we all desire and always want it to belong to us. Which makes the competition very high etc sha.. even with the high competition, I don't I have seen anyone in their right sense ever desired something that's bad or poor? We all want the best, either in human, finances, career and etc.. Gbogbo wa la Mon ikan to da, gbo gbo wa la de n Fe.

So at the verge of realising this point, I became troubled a little, that what if the guy I later choose to go with is cute and girls are all over him? How do I cope, what are the things I need to understand to make my relationship with him last and many more guidance sha. So I deem it fit to open a thread on it, to learn from relationship gurus .

Cuz I can remember well, I have an elder brother who is dark and very cute, and I know how girls throw themselves over him etc .. infact, girls wey even dey serious relationships o .. wey old pass him self.. like girls that some have even done introduction o, o deep . Pls share your thoughts.

Cc: lalasticlala move to fp sir!.