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| She Has Gone Worst by Profperfect: 1:28am On Aug 12, 2022 |
Dear Fam, Please help me out(advice) on this , I am writing at this odd hour because I have lost my peace and I can't close my eyes and sleep . My relationship has not been a rossy one at all, I have my faults (though am not a womanizer or a cheat) God bears me witness, but believe me, the girl I'm dating and almost settling down with after some years of dating has been hell, trust issues, disrespectful, someone who told me she can never respect or submit to me in her life, I have endured and endured her, she always overrides me. I can't talk or complian of her wrong doings , she will react badly, very insulting (countlessly insulted my father and mother but I have never ever retailiated, does care about what I feel or how I feel. Should I talk of sex? I have never cheated on her for the past 6 years plus since we met (started dating) at a young age at uni and after uni, I respect her even in her absence, but she has mingled with different guys that has cost out relationship, in all these she claims she has done nothing wrong. The main issue of all right now is that her boss, she once worked for who she was consciously sleeping with inside office once others are not around, always, hotel, even when they (claim) or go to conference or meetings together, knowing that he is a married man, called her yesterday to give her a job offer to return . This is a boss she served years back, even during uni he kept calling and always wanting to have her, during and after NYSC he kept calling her for him to have a bite, same boss she was pregnant for and aborted for him, though she hanged it on her boyfriend as of that time and the guy didn't know . She never told me all these her self, but I won't like to share here how I got to know. The same man she has been avoiding for years, that she doesn't want to go back to sin or her past life, but just yesterday she even took excuse sneaked out of office and went to see him and accepted the offer, then came back home called me to tell me this and that and before I could talk she said she has accepted it, was shocked and trying to reason why she did that, she asked me if there was anything wrong in her decision, she began to yell at me on phone, as usual I kept mute and ended the call. Please would I be wrong if at this point I take a bow and leave now? Please help me push it to the front page. She is a Nairalander too, she sees nothing wrong in the wrong things she does. Let the world hear my story and correct me if am wrong on taking the decision. 37 Likes 9 Shares |
| Re: She Has Gone Worst by exposition: 1:32am On Aug 12, 2022 |
You don't need to take a bow! Don't even tell her you're done, let her figure it out herself! 426 Likes 24 Shares |
| Re: She Has Gone Worst by Fiscus105(m): 1:37am On Aug 12, 2022 |
exposition: Tale in the moon time. But if,.......is anybody glued you and her together to marry at all cost? If you are dating and so many red flags are sprouts out like this, what will happen when u married?. I think you want to marry her at all cost for u to be able to use her destiny to nourishing your own. 97 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: She Has Gone Worst by Profperfect: 1:39am On Aug 12, 2022 |
exposition: Men! Am broken right now . Like I know shits I have endured , covered , forgiven this lady , not to talk of once my lecturer visited our lodge(room) on going outside to get something in few minutes before I got back , they were already on it. She denied but later agreed cause I almost caught them red handed. The lecturer after like a year called me and confessed that his heart is troubling him that am a good person , that I should forgive him , which I did but each time I see him I remember, she has caused me pains , accusing me of not trusting her but she is actually the one doing things to break my trust fir her daily , tell me how do I trust this kind of a person , 42 Likes 8 Shares |
| Re: She Has Gone Worst by Lee99: 1:39am On Aug 12, 2022 |
I for like give you advice sha bro, I for also like call you simp but olohun if I call you simp that's me being very very generous, babe tell you say she no fit submit to you and you still dey dream to wife her?? Babe insult your mama and papa and you still dey with am lol I laugh in Swahili this your story get as e be and e be as e get, then to top it off she cheated on you and you are aware and it was even countless times with her boss and now the boss misses her pvssy and wants to give her a new job..... Now back to you, it's either you're a very stupid man or you're ugly, but even ugly people no mumu like this, you have low self esteem and you love toxic attractions because I see no reason why a full grown man with hairy balls will come to NL and spew the trash you just did, you have seen enough red flags better call it quits because I can 100% assure if you marry her you fit no live long. Run away, flee with all the strength in you. No matter what she tells you better leave that woman alone she's evil and only after your life, yes the breakfast wey you go serve her go pain you pass cos obviously you're dating yourself but it's better than dying young, look for one small Shima wey you go dey knack first to hold body, maybe you should even cheat so your mumu eyes can open, sometimes cheating helps you realize you're with the wrong person. ... I know say I don insult you well well but you deserve am, take the advice sha and may God be with you. If you like read am finish still go follow am like zombie, it's your funeral. 707 Likes 61 Shares |
| Re: She Has Gone Worst by Profperfect: 1:43am On Aug 12, 2022 |
Fiscus105:. No sir not what you think. The thing is I won't lie too, I will be very honest she has been very very nice , she was all there for me in my darkest and lowest times , ever supportive , wanting to see me make it , she can sacrifice her grain to see that I make a tree or even a forest , its just this aspect of her. You won't believe she is all am saying if you meet her for the first few times in person I am the only one who knows her secrets 5 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: She Has Gone Worst by Lee99: 1:46am On Aug 12, 2022 |
Profperfect: Oh Lord save a brother, the earlier you know and understand that women are deceptive and vindictive the better for you, they always act nice and sweet. I don already talk plenty for up but I will give you one golden advice my nigg@. NEVER EVER TAKE BACK A WOMAN WHO CHEATS ON YOU NOT TO TALK OF TO WIFE HER. Yes you can just keep fvcking her if you want but never take her seriously. Your girlfriend is a chronic cheat surrounded in her room by bunch of joysticks.  192 Likes 14 Shares |
| Re: She Has Gone Worst by Profperfect: 1:47am On Aug 12, 2022 |
Lee99: Thanks bro. This is a real life situation no lies . I accept all the shades , I swallow all the insults , a person that is always open to correction . Thanks once again . I have heard you 141 Likes 9 Shares |
| Re: She Has Gone Worst by Kobojunkie: 1:50am On Aug 12, 2022 |
Profperfect:What exactly are you here for us to help you out with? You claim you endured all of the above for 6 years with her, why? For whose sake did you do all these things you now want us to believe you hate? And why are you bringing it all up as an issue list against her if you remain with her? And as for her relationship with her boss, or whatever the story you are telling self... are you saying you want to share her with the man then? I put it to you that the girl isn't the problem. You seem to be the problem here as you don't seem to know what it is you really want at all. 47 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: She Has Gone Worst by Kobojunkie: 1:51am On Aug 12, 2022 |
Profperfect:Why? For whose sake do you do all that if at the end of the day you are still going to complain about it? 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: She Has Gone Worst by Lee99: 1:53am On Aug 12, 2022 |
Profperfect:Bro please I beg you in the name of God please cheat on her fvck someone else and see the peace you'll get, I won't lie I get very attached when I love someone but the moment I fvck another girl it's almost as if that one I was crazy about is just a wallpaper. Why? Because I don't cheat and when I do it's final, I kept telling my ex she never listened until she fvcked up big time by cheating and I caught her, I didn't break up immediately tho because I still loved her but the moment I made up my mind and cheated that was the end of it 51 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: She Has Gone Worst by torqque7(m): 1:55am On Aug 12, 2022 |
You need urgent sense..your simping is on promax..you are a weak pathetic excuse for a man  76 Likes 9 Shares |
| Re: She Has Gone Worst by torqque7(m): 1:56am On Aug 12, 2022 |
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| Re: She Has Gone Worst by Raydans: 2:06am On Aug 12, 2022 |
What are you still doing with that kind of girl. If you continue down that lane it usually end up in one thing ‘Everlasting Regrets’. You deserve a better person. Free her and regain your sanity and peace of mind. And if you are emotionally strong enough to have your pound of flesh back. Stop complaining to her any longer and withhold every affection you have for her. Breakup in your mind but keep her around let her be dating herself, waste her time and continue use her until she finally realize what had hit her. 18 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: She Has Gone Worst by 4teenblaq: 2:08am On Aug 12, 2022 |
Op  I had been a simp in my life but not up to this level..What is f.uck is wrong with you? Dump her ass and get a sensible woman to be with.. There are many fishes in the river bro.. You are the trophy, na she supposed to dey endure no be you... Get your ass together and block the bitch from your life and focus on your future with another girl.. 42 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: She Has Gone Worst by Mcslize: 2:10am On Aug 12, 2022 |
Chaaiiii Op. I just don't know what to tell you. Did you just say, the girl you will marry? You are just too weak! Let that girl be I beg you. You want to marry someone that won't give you peace of mind for the rest of your life? 22 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: She Has Gone Worst by gaby(m): 2:22am On Aug 12, 2022 |
Why should your SIMple thread make it to the frontpage? Lol You better go find way to focus on yourself and bettering yourself. That babe senior you on all fronts and she's treating you accordingly. Channel the anger and pain into doing something passionate and productive. With consistency and not giving up even in the midst of failures, in 5 years she'd be the one begging for your attention. 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: She Has Gone Worst by Nobody: 3:01am On Aug 12, 2022 |
OP,there's a saying that a man [/b] SHOULD NEVER TRY TO TURN A HOE TO A HOUSEWIFE and that's what you're doing.... [b] [/b]EVEN IF THE PUSSY IS MADE OF GOLD, DIAMONDS AND PEARL,I CAN'T AND I WON'T JEOPARDIZE MY LIFE.[b] 13 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: She Has Gone Worst by Kobojunkie: 3:21am On Aug 12, 2022 |
Lee99:He will get peace by proving to himself that he is no different from the girl? What kind of reasoning is that one abeg? This kind of "attachment" described here by the OP is instead intended to reveal to him that he has some deep psychological chains he needs to break within himself and until he does that, he will only keep finding himself in these messed-up situations where he is having to stomach what he obviously abhors for the sake of it. Anyone who finds themselves dealing with relationships in a similar manner as OP needs what is serious mental intervention and fast. And none of that simping/redpill nonsense you lot like to drone on about all day in here. 9 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: She Has Gone Worst by Sucre6: 4:57am On Aug 12, 2022 |
Op is like you just wantu die before your time, that girl is your end if you dont let her go, just stop picking her calls or replying to her text, she will eventually leave u, imagine you passing through all these crap because of just one pvssy, when pvssy full everywhere, u want die put for one bitchhh, sorry for you op, your simping is on another level   7 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: She Has Gone Worst by TMTR: 5:22am On Aug 12, 2022 |
Op be sincere to yourself, is this the kind of girl you want to end up with someone that starts making out with your lecturer visiting for the first time immediately you stepped out, someone that has cheated on you multiple times, insults you at will including your parents, op don't you love yourself or you have low self esteem and afraid you won't get another girl if she leaves.Do you hate yourself so bad that you are planning to end up with such a vile and toxic woman, or are waiting for when she makes an attempt on your life to kill you so that she can be with her lover when you marry her cause that's what is going to happen, op I am sorry to say this but you have no self respect, dignity or pride, tell me what is it she has over you that you are still with her. Op you really hate yourself for wanting to end with such a woman, you don't love yourself at all. Just wait till she gets pregnant for her boss and pins it on you, maybe you go get sense by that time Op I repeat, you don't love yourself at all and you such a weak man Honestly you disgusts me, yes really Someone insults your parents and you still with her, Dem never born that bitch may go try that nonsense with me All the red flags are there, now tell what are you still waiting for to dump her stupid ass, is it until she kills you They are billions of women out there, now tell me why you choose to remain with a vile, toxic, disrespectful, cheating harlot when they billions out there waiting for the taking. Op I repeat you don't love yourself,if you love yourself you will break up with that hoe like yesterday 27 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: She Has Gone Worst by jogsman01(m): 5:23am On Aug 12, 2022 |
And your parent she's insulting doesn't make any sacrifice for you? They've not been supportive? And they've not been there for you at your darkest hour? Bros, are you okay at all? I don't have any problem with her cheating on you but shey dem swear for you ni? It seems you've ate vegetable for her to have done all the above and you still forgave her. Person wey have the audacity to swear for your gods (parent) and you still dey think of marrying her. Broda mi, trust me, na that girl go kill you. She go kill your parent join. Don't leave her ooo. Just start counting your days on earth. I will keep on Profperfect: 15 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: She Has Gone Worst by TMTR: 5:36am On Aug 12, 2022 |
Profperfect: Op she don see you finish and she sees that you are a weak, spineless man that she can toy with as she likes and you won't do anything. Fúck her so called support she gave you before, that woman has a character flaw and you will regret it if you end up with her 13 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: She Has Gone Worst by henndukwe18: 6:05am On Aug 12, 2022 |
Oga so with all these tins, u stl dey, u b strong man oo 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: She Has Gone Worst by tochez24(m): 6:51am On Aug 12, 2022 |
Profperfect: A FOOL like you doesn't need an advice, your type always learn the hard way. Either with HIV or fathering bastards.... That's the destiny of all SIMPS 15 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: She Has Gone Worst by Doubleoh7: 7:11am On Aug 12, 2022 |
Take a walk ke? No oo stay. Wait till dey eventually start doing the do in your apartment, on your bed and you may have to be flashing light for them too. Really don't know what is wrong with a whole lot of you that you will always insist in dying in a non productive and nonmutual relationships. You will be alright one day, make ur mum just intensify her midnight prayers for you, so her son fit escape from the bottle he's obviously locked in 9 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: She Has Gone Worst by techWriter3: 7:11am On Aug 12, 2022 |
You haven't necessity to take a bow!Don't even tell her you're havene, let her figure it out herself! |
| Re: She Has Gone Worst by Marvyx(m): 7:11am On Aug 12, 2022 |
So my guys were right after all? I argued with them yesterday that weak men like the OP don't exist in Nigeria again  Chai... This is seriously serious 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: She Has Gone Worst by emmeyen: 7:21am On Aug 12, 2022 |
My simple advice is that you work on your self esteem bro. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: She Has Gone Worst by padi94(m): 7:25am On Aug 12, 2022 |
Leave now... Na rope them tie you there? 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: She Has Gone Worst by cjeriia: 7:29am On Aug 12, 2022 |
You are a bloody simp...!!!! With that lady, ur demise is imminent. Flee now before it's too late. I know all our collective advice will be thrown into the dustbin tho. 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: She Has Gone Worst by Wallade(m): 7:41am On Aug 12, 2022 |
Profperfect: My conclusion is that you are mad already and you need to first address your mental health. A woman you are dating told you she can't be submissive to you and she can't respect you. She is even still acting the disrespect by accepting an offer to keep fu.c.king a boss she has f.uc.ked countlessly, in the name of a job. Wait, what job do you think the man offered her other than to be his f.uc.kmate. You caught her severally cheating on you and you kept letting it slide. Do you think she will ever stop? Did she jazz you ni? May God punish you if you remain in that relationship, idiot! Na that lady go kill you, infact, you are already a walking corpse. 35 Likes 3 Shares |
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