Wallade:


My conclusion is that you are mad already and you need to first address your mental health.

A woman you are dating told you she can't be submissive to you and she can't respect you.

She is even still acting the disrespect by accepting an offer to keep fu.c.king a boss she has f.uc.ked countlessly, in the name of a job. Wait, what job do you think the man offered her other than to be his f.uc.kmate.

You caught her severally cheating on you and you kept letting it slide. Do you think she will ever stop? Did she jazz you ni?

May God punish you if you remain in that relationship, idiot! Na that lady go kill you, infact, you are already a walking corpse.

weyrey,kilode o fe pa ni.

Pele

This guy is a fool. She will soon give you disease. You are with a street girl who just can't say no. Bruh please forget love and better yourself.

Oga, I understand you but you have to make up your mind and stand on you decision...... For all these you outlined, quit and be emotional stable before going into another relationship. A broken courtship is better than a broken marriage. Be closer to God and pray for direction. Shalom!

Profperfect:
Dear Fam,

Please help me out(advice) on this , I am writing at this odd hour because I have lost my peace and I can't close my eyes and sleep .

My relationship has not been a rossy one at all, I have my faults (though am not a womanizer or a cheat) God bears me witness, but believe me, the girl I'm dating and almost settling down with after some years of dating has been hell, trust issues, disrespectful, someone who told me she can never respect or submit to me in her life, I have endured and endured her, she always overrides me. I can't talk or complian of her wrong doings , she will react badly, very insulting (countlessly insulted my father and mother but I have never ever retailiated, does care about what I feel or how I feel.

Should I talk of sex? I have never cheated on her for the past 6 years plus since we met (started dating) at a young age at uni and after uni, I respect her even in her absence, but she has mingled with different guys that has cost out relationship, in all these she claims she has done nothing wrong.

The main issue of all right now is that her boss, she once worked for who she was consciously sleeping with inside office once others are not around, always, hotel, even when they (claim) or go to conference or meetings together, knowing that he is a married man, called her yesterday to give her a job offer to return . This is a boss she served years back, even during uni he kept calling and always wanting to have her, during and after NYSC he kept calling her for him to have a bite, same boss she was pregnant for and aborted for him, though she hanged it on her boyfriend as of that time and the guy didn't know . She never told me all these her self, but I won't like to share here how I got to know.

The same man she has been avoiding for years, that she doesn't want to go back to sin or her past life, but just yesterday she even took excuse sneaked out of office and went to see him and accepted the offer, then came back home called me to tell me this and that and before I could talk she said she has accepted it, was shocked and trying to reason why she did that, she asked me if there was anything wrong in her decision, she began to yell at me on phone, as usual I kept mute and ended the call. Please would I be wrong if at this point I take a bow and leave now?

Please help me push it to the front page. She is a Nairalander too, she sees nothing wrong in the wrong things she does. Let the world hear my story and correct me if am wrong on taking the decision.

Profperfect:


Men! Am broken right now . Like I know shits I have endured , covered , forgiven this lady , not to talk of once my lecturer visited our lodge(room) on going outside to get something in few minutes before I got back , they were already on it. She denied but later agreed cause I almost caught them red handed. The lecturer after like a year called me and confessed that his heart is troubling him that am a good person , that I should forgive him , which I did but each time I see him I remember, she has caused me pains , accusing me of not trusting her but she is actually the one doing things to break my trust fir her daily , tell me how do I trust this kind of a person ,

The moment a partner you've been with for some time, starts having trust issues about you, and deep down you know you aren't messing up..You just have to watch your back for betrayals..

He/she is only playing on your psychology to water ground for what they are about to do or getting set to do or already doing.

Deep down, are you sure this is one you want to make the mother of children?

Like, you stare into her face you see your peace of mind?


Relationship is not a place to manage..State what you need and go for it..Mind you, you can't change anyone..People change on their own.

Profperfect:


Men! Am broken right now . Like I know shits I have endured , covered , forgiven this lady , not to talk of once my lecturer visited our lodge(room) on going outside to get something in few minutes before I got back , they were already on it. She denied but later agreed cause I almost caught them red handed. The lecturer after like a year called me and confessed that his heart is troubling him that am a good person , that I should forgive him , which I did but each time I see him I remember, she has caused me pains , accusing me of not trusting her but she is actually the one doing things to break my trust fir her daily , tell me how do I trust this kind of a person ,

You need correct beating. If to say you be my brother mehn i would have disown you forever.

Lee99:
I for like give you advice sha bro, I for also like call you simp but olohun if I call you simp that's me being very very generous, babe tell you say she no fit submit to you and you still dey dream to wife her?? Babe insult your mama and papa and you still dey with am lol I laugh in Swahili this your story get as e be and e be as e get, then to top it off she cheated on you and you are aware and it was even countless times with her boss and now the boss misses her pvssy and wants to give her a new job..... Now back to you, it's either you're a very stupid man or you're ugly, but even ugly people no mumu like this, you have low self esteem and you love toxic attractions because I see no reason why a full grown man with hairy balls will come to NL and spew the trash you just did, you have seen enough red flags better call it quits because I can 100% assure if you marry her you fit no live long. Run away, flee with all the strength in you. No matter what she tells you better leave that woman alone she's evil and only after your life, yes the breakfast wey you go serve her go pain you pass cos obviously you're dating yourself but it's better than dying young, look for one small Shima wey you go dey knack first to hold body, maybe you should even cheat so your mumu eyes can open, sometimes cheating helps you realize you're with the wrong person. ... I know say I don insult you well well but you deserve am, take the advice sha and may God be with you. If you like read am finish still go follow am like zombie, it's your funeral.

Naso dem dey do like zombie. Dem go come nairaland for advice. Las las nah watin dey their mind dem go do

Lee99:
I for like give you advice sha bro, I for also like call you simp but olohun if I call you simp that's me being very very generous, babe tell you say she no fit submit to you and you still dey dream to wife her?? Babe insult your mama and papa and you still dey with am lol I laugh in Swahili this your story get as e be and e be as e get, then to top it off she cheated on you and you are aware and it was even countless times with her boss and now the boss misses her pvssy and wants to give her a new job..... Now back to you, it's either you're a very stupid man or you're ugly, but even ugly people no mumu like this, you have low self esteem and you love toxic attractions because I see no reason why a full grown man with hairy balls will come to NL and spew the trash you just did, you have seen enough red flags better call it quits because I can 100% assure if you marry her you fit no live long. Run away, flee with all the strength in you. No matter what she tells you better leave that woman alone she's evil and only after your life, yes the breakfast wey you go serve her go pain you pass cos obviously you're dating yourself but it's better than dying young, look for one small Shima wey you go dey knack first to hold body, maybe you should even cheat so your mumu eyes can open, sometimes cheating helps you realize you're with the wrong person. ... I know say I don insult you well well but you deserve am, take the advice sha and may God be with you. If you like read am finish still go follow am like zombie, it's your funeral.

You no Insult am. You even show am love.
In our heydays, na people like these we(fellow friends) dey tie for mango tree and use rubber flog for inside one corner weda the stewpidity go comot.
If this is true op, then you are a marvel. Lord!

My Brother, please run or flee.

Last week, I wanted to take a lady out and she started commanding me, telling what to do on top of my money and telling me her decision is final. She told me not to call her again and I cut the bluff off her feet immediately. I deleted her number and stopped calling. She taught I would call her to apologize.

Days later she called me, I asked her who was talking and she gone angry. Later asking me why I deleted her number and stopped calling her. I talked commonsense into her stupid head hardly. I warned her if she tried such again, she shouldn't dare to call me. Since then she no misbehave again.

After all what ladies did to me in the past, I have commonsense and wisdom.

Some ladies need iron hand sometimes to reset their memory into a sane one. If not, they will ride on you as a SIMP. Besides, they hate guys who are too weak. Don't be soft always.

Profperfect:
Dear Fam,

Please help me out(advice) on this , I am writing at this odd hour because I have lost my peace and I can't close my eyes and sleep .

My relationship has not been a rossy one at all, I have my faults (though am not a womanizer or a cheat) God bears me witness, but believe me, the girl I'm dating and almost settling down with after some years of dating has been hell, trust issues, disrespectful, someone who told me she can never respect or submit to me in her life, I have endured and endured her, she always overrides me. I can't talk or complian of her wrong doings , she will react badly, very insulting (countlessly insulted my father and mother but I have never ever retailiated, does care about what I feel or how I feel.

Should I talk of sex? I have never cheated on her for the past 6 years plus since we met (started dating) at a young age at uni and after uni, I respect her even in her absence, but she has mingled with different guys that has cost out relationship, in all these she claims she has done nothing wrong.

The main issue of all right now is that her boss, she once worked for who she was consciously sleeping with inside office once others are not around, always, hotel, even when they (claim) or go to conference or meetings together, knowing that he is a married man, called her yesterday to give her a job offer to return . This is a boss she served years back, even during uni he kept calling and always wanting to have her, during and after NYSC he kept calling her for him to have a bite, same boss she was pregnant for and aborted for him, though she hanged it on her boyfriend as of that time and the guy didn't know . She never told me all these her self, but I won't like to share here how I got to know.

The same man she has been avoiding for years, that she doesn't want to go back to sin or her past life, but just yesterday she even took excuse sneaked out of office and went to see him and accepted the offer, then came back home called me to tell me this and that and before I could talk she said she has accepted it, was shocked and trying to reason why she did that, she asked me if there was anything wrong in her decision, she began to yell at me on phone, as usual I kept mute and ended the call. Please would I be wrong if at this point I take a bow and leave now?

Please help me push it to the front page. She is a Nairalander too, she sees nothing wrong in the wrong things she does. Let the world hear my story and correct me if am wrong on taking the decision.

If you dont take a bow with your head still intact you may take the boy with only your neck cause your head will be no where to be found

Laughing!!!
My candid advise to you is to take a bow. Taking a bow will do you more good than harm.
You're in a courtship for years now and these overriding attitudes of her still persists. How are you sure when you settle down with her she will change. Once again, run now that you have the chance. Allow her to condemn herself with the married boss who'll abandon her when she's no more useful.
My brother, just let her go. There are better girls out there looking for this opportunity she have with you. Does she have two head that makes you to be afraid of letting her go?

You cannot change her, just allow her go. The emotional pains will come in, but you'll come through it.
She'll continue to ride on you even when you guys get married. What will you do if she brings men into your house? She'll tell you all sorts of stories. Oga! You better run now that you still have the chance.
A little drop of water, makes a mighty ocean. As you make your bed, so you lie on it. Time and tide waits for no man. Make hay while the sun shines. A word is enough for the wise

I don't think you need anymore advice on what to do. She's told u she can't submit to you.. Ever!
What are u still doing with her!? Chop and go your way!

Lee99:
I for like give you advice sha bro, I for also like call you simp but olohun if I call you simp that's me being very very generous, babe tell you say she no fit submit to you and you still dey dream to wife her?? Babe insult your mama and papa and you still dey with am lol I laugh in Swahili this your story get as e be and e be as e get, then to top it off she cheated on you and you are aware and it was even countless times with her boss and now the boss misses her pvssy and wants to give her a new job..... Now back to you, it's either you're a very stupid man or you're ugly, but even ugly people no mumu like this, you have low self esteem and you love toxic attractions because I see no reason why a full grown man with hairy balls will come to NL and spew the trash you just did, you have seen enough red flags better call it quits because I can 100% assure if you marry her you fit no live long. Run away, flee with all the strength in you. No matter what she tells you better leave that woman alone she's evil and only after your life, yes the breakfast wey you go serve her go pain you pass cos obviously you're dating yourself but it's better than dying young, look for one small Shima wey you go dey knack first to hold body, maybe you should even cheat so your mumu eyes can open, sometimes cheating helps you realize you're with the wrong person. ... I know say I don insult you well well but you deserve am, take the advice sha and may God be with you. If you like read am finish still go follow am like zombie, it's your funeral.

Wow! I Like People Like You, Word For Word. Women Can Cheat, Women Can Really Cheat, Mostly Nigerian Girls, They Commercialize Relationship And Even Everything. I Just Dumped My Girlfriend After 1 Year And 7 Months Why Because She Cheated On Me 10 Months Ago And Didn't Tell Me, While I Was Struggling To Make Sure She's Even A Bit Okay If I Can't Afford All But She Was Busy Cheating On Me, Fucking Different Men, I Didn't Know Because I Was Not Always Around Though I Suspected But No Evidence To Hold On To So I Freed Her. Some Days Ago She Called And Said She Want To Tell Me Something, That She Cheated On Me 10 Months Ago With A Yahoo Boy, With Another Guy Writing Her Project And With One Married Man. Immediately She Was Done I Told Her It's Over Between Us. Women Full Everywhere And With My Money I Go Ride Taya. Since Four Days Now She's Been The One Begging And Begging, I'll Never Accept Her Back. I've Deleted Everything Concerning Her From My Phone, Her Friends Has Been Calling And Begging, Lie Lie! I No Gree. I Think There Comes A Time In A Man's Life When He Has To Say Enough Is Enough!

Profperfect:
Dear Fam,

Please help me out(advice) on this , I am writing at this odd hour because I have lost my peace and I can't close my eyes and sleep .

My relationship has not been a rossy one at all, I have my faults (though am not a womanizer or a cheat) God bears me witness, but believe me, the girl I'm dating and almost settling down with after some years of dating has been hell, trust issues, disrespectful, someone who told me she can never respect or submit to me in her life, I have endured and endured her, she always overrides me. I can't talk or complian of her wrong doings , she will react badly, very insulting (countlessly insulted my father and mother but I have never ever retailiated, does care about what I feel or how I feel.

Should I talk of sex? I have never cheated on her for the past 6 years plus since we met (started dating) at a young age at uni and after uni, I respect her even in her absence, but she has mingled with different guys that has cost out relationship, in all these she claims she has done nothing wrong.

The main issue of all right now is that her boss, she once worked for who she was consciously sleeping with inside office once others are not around, always, hotel, even when they (claim) or go to conference or meetings together, knowing that he is a married man, called her yesterday to give her a job offer to return . This is a boss she served years back, even during uni he kept calling and always wanting to have her, during and after NYSC he kept calling her for him to have a bite, same boss she was pregnant for and aborted for him, though she hanged it on her boyfriend as of that time and the guy didn't know . She never told me all these her self, but I won't like to share here how I got to know.

The same man she has been avoiding for years, that she doesn't want to go back to sin or her past life, but just yesterday she even took excuse sneaked out of office and went to see him and accepted the offer, then came back home called me to tell me this and that and before I could talk she said she has accepted it, was shocked and trying to reason why she did that, she asked me if there was anything wrong in her decision, she began to yell at me on phone, as usual I kept mute and ended the call. Please would I be wrong if at this point I take a bow and leave now?

Please help me push it to the front page. She is a Nairalander too, she sees nothing wrong in the wrong things she does. Let the world hear my story and correct me if am wrong on taking the decision.

Ur name doesn't not suit u. If u want to be healthy mentally and also live long. Dump dat bitch now. Groom a new relationship with someone dats respects u. But if u chose to continue den u re a simp pro max.

Profperfect:
Dear Fam,

Please help me out(advice) on this , I am writing at this odd hour because I have lost my peace and I can't close my eyes and sleep .

My relationship has not been a rossy one at all, I have my faults (though am not a womanizer or a cheat) God bears me witness, but believe me, the girl I'm dating and almost settling down with after some years of dating has been hell, trust issues, disrespectful, someone who told me she can never respect or submit to me in her life, I have endured and endured her, she always overrides me. I can't talk or complian of her wrong doings , she will react badly, very insulting (countlessly insulted my father and mother but I have never ever retailiated, does care about what I feel or how I feel.

Should I talk of sex? I have never cheated on her for the past 6 years plus since we met (started dating) at a young age at uni and after uni, I respect her even in her absence, but she has mingled with different guys that has cost out relationship, in all these she claims she has done nothing wrong.

The main issue of all right now is that her boss, she once worked for who she was consciously sleeping with inside office once others are not around, always, hotel, even when they (claim) or go to conference or meetings together, knowing that he is a married man, called her yesterday to give her a job offer to return . This is a boss she served years back, even during uni he kept calling and always wanting to have her, during and after NYSC he kept calling her for him to have a bite, same boss she was pregnant for and aborted for him, though she hanged it on her boyfriend as of that time and the guy didn't know . She never told me all these her self, but I won't like to share here how I got to know.

The same man she has been avoiding for years, that she doesn't want to go back to sin or her past life, but just yesterday she even took excuse sneaked out of office and went to see him and accepted the offer, then came back home called me to tell me this and that and before I could talk she said she has accepted it, was shocked and trying to reason why she did that, she asked me if there was anything wrong in her decision, she began to yell at me on phone, as usual I kept mute and ended the call. Please would I be wrong if at this point I take a bow and leave now?

Please help me push it to the front page. She is a Nairalander too, she sees nothing wrong in the wrong things she does. Let the world hear my story and correct me if am wrong on taking the decision.

Na wa ooooooooo

So upon all the TRP messages that has been flying around this forum for nothing less than 5 years, we still have male nairalanders like this?

Abeg, I don wash my hand commot for this thread

Profperfect:


Men! Am broken right now . Like I know shits I have endured , covered , forgiven this lady , not to talk of once my lecturer visited our lodge(room) on going outside to get something in few minutes before I got back , they were already on it. She denied but later agreed cause I almost caught them red handed. The lecturer after like a year called me and confessed that his heart is troubling him that am a good person , that I should forgive him , which I did but each time I see him I remember, she has caused me pains , accusing me of not trusting her but she is actually the one doing things to break my trust fir her daily , tell me how do I trust this kind of a person ,

l.. l


If you no get sense ba, I will advise you to go ahead and marry her. Since with all the constant fvcking outside, with the oains and insukts you receive they all sound like enjoyment to you, you must kwantinue fa. Since you enjoy pain go ahead and marry her. Since you no get sense, it will get to a point she will push you to hang yourself. As for me, I can endure just one insult on me, just one. The second time it happens, she is gone. Not even talk of insulting my parents, she is a goner.
Op, you must to marry her o, since you are a shock absorber.

Profperfect:
Dear Fam,

Please help me out(advice) on this , I am writing at this odd hour because I have lost my peace and I can't close my eyes and sleep .

My relationship has not been a rossy one at all, I have my faults (though am not a womanizer or a cheat) God bears me witness, but believe me, the girl I'm dating and almost settling down with after some years of dating has been hell, trust issues, disrespectful, someone who told me she can never respect or submit to me in her life, I have endured and endured her, she always overrides me. I can't talk or complian of her wrong doings , she will react badly, very insulting (countlessly insulted my father and mother but I have never ever retailiated, does care about what I feel or how I feel.

Should I talk of sex? I have never cheated on her for the past 6 years plus since we met (started dating) at a young age at uni and after uni, I respect her even in her absence, but she has mingled with different guys that has cost out relationship, in all these she claims she has done nothing wrong.

The main issue of all right now is that her boss, she once worked for who she was consciously sleeping with inside office once others are not around, always, hotel, even when they (claim) or go to conference or meetings together, knowing that he is a married man, called her yesterday to give her a job offer to return . This is a boss she served years back, even during uni he kept calling and always wanting to have her, during and after NYSC he kept calling her for him to have a bite, same boss she was pregnant for and aborted for him, though she hanged it on her boyfriend as of that time and the guy didn't know . She never told me all these her self, but I won't like to share here how I got to know.

The same man she has been avoiding for years, that she doesn't want to go back to sin or her past life, but just yesterday she even took excuse sneaked out of office and went to see him and accepted the offer, then came back home called me to tell me this and that and before I could talk she said she has accepted it, was shocked and trying to reason why she did that, she asked me if there was anything wrong in her decision, she began to yell at me on phone, as usual I kept mute and ended the call. Please would I be wrong if at this point I take a bow and leave now?

Please help me push it to the front page. She is a Nairalander too, she sees nothing wrong in the wrong things she does. Let the world hear my story and correct me if am wrong on taking the decision.

na this girl they feed you? I nor understand why men come dey weak like dodo for this generation. Bro send her packing before we read your news on nairaland that you were killed by your lover. You nor get sense self? Shuo. Your story dey piss me off

If all this really happened brother you don Bleep up, how will you allow someone you are taking good care and also sleeping under your roof to insult your parent?
Free the babe with immediate effect

OGA MY ADVISE TO YOU HIS LOOK FOR BETTER BABALAWO TO USE HER FOR RITUALS FOR YOU TO GET MONEY AND MOVE ON THANKS �

All I see here is the fear of starting all over again. In the midst of the chaos there are beautiful ones (in &out) waiting to be loved and vice Versa. Op gather courage and move, you deserve better. Its clear this will end in regret and waste of productive years. No matter how far you are in a wrong direction you will never get to your destination. Don't learn the hard way I did. Mine got married to my distributor a month after she broke up. Never ignore this signs. Shalom.

Walahi na mumu u beoo. Maybe she has poured poison or otomokpo for her toto.
..... I just tire for your matter

Stop having sex with her.just sacrifice.

Profperfect:
Dear Fam,

Please help me out(advice) on this , I am writing at this odd hour because I have lost my peace and I can't close my eyes and sleep .

My relationship has not been a rossy one at all, I have my faults (though am not a womanizer or a cheat) God bears me witness, but believe me, the girl I'm dating and almost settling down with after some years of dating has been hell, trust issues, disrespectful, someone who told me she can never respect or submit to me in her life, I have endured and endured her, she always overrides me. I can't talk or complian of her wrong doings , she will react badly, very insulting (countlessly insulted my father and mother but I have never ever retailiated, does care about what I feel or how I feel.

Should I talk of sex? I have never cheated on her for the past 6 years plus since we met (started dating) at a young age at uni and after uni, I respect her even in her absence, but she has mingled with different guys that has cost out relationship, in all these she claims she has done nothing wrong.

The main issue of all right now is that her boss, she once worked for who she was consciously sleeping with inside office once others are not around, always, hotel, even when they (claim) or go to conference or meetings together, knowing that he is a married man, called her yesterday to give her a job offer to return . This is a boss she served years back, even during uni he kept calling and always wanting to have her, during and after NYSC he kept calling her for him to have a bite, same boss she was pregnant for and aborted for him, though she hanged it on her boyfriend as of that time and the guy didn't know . She never told me all these her self, but I won't like to share here how I got to know.

The same man she has been avoiding for years, that she doesn't want to go back to sin or her past life, but just yesterday she even took excuse sneaked out of office and went to see him and accepted the offer, then came back home called me to tell me this and that and before I could talk she said she has accepted it, was shocked and trying to reason why she did that, she asked me if there was anything wrong in her decision, she began to yell at me on phone, as usual I kept mute and ended the call. Please would I be wrong if at this point I take a bow and leave now?

Please help me push it to the front page. She is a Nairalander too, she sees nothing wrong in the wrong things she does. Let the world hear my story and correct me if am wrong on taking the decision.

Please leave honorably if you want to live long . You are not yet married so you are free to leave. If She can't submit to you she can't be your wife since being a wife has to do with submission. Trust me if you go ahead to marry her because of 'love', love alone will not be able the solve the problem when it comes when you eventually married her.

Profperfect:
Dear Fam,

Please help me out(advice) on this , I am writing at this odd hour because I have lost my peace and I can't close my eyes and sleep .

My relationship has not been a rossy one at all, I have my faults (though am not a womanizer or a cheat) God bears me witness, but believe me, the girl I'm dating and almost settling down with after some years of dating has been hell, trust issues, disrespectful, someone who told me she can never respect or submit to me in her life, I have endured and endured her, she always overrides me. I can't talk or complian of her wrong doings , she will react badly, very insulting (countlessly insulted my father and mother but I have never ever retailiated, does care about what I feel or how I feel.

Should I talk of sex? I have never cheated on her for the past 6 years plus since we met (started dating) at a young age at uni and after uni, I respect her even in her absence, but she has mingled with different guys that has cost out relationship, in all these she claims she has done nothing wrong.

The main issue of all right now is that her boss, she once worked for who she was consciously sleeping with inside office once others are not around, always, hotel, even when they (claim) or go to conference or meetings together, knowing that he is a married man, called her yesterday to give her a job offer to return . This is a boss she served years back, even during uni he kept calling and always wanting to have her, during and after NYSC he kept calling her for him to have a bite, same boss she was pregnant for and aborted for him, though she hanged it on her boyfriend as of that time and the guy didn't know . She never told me all these her self, but I won't like to share here how I got to know.

The same man she has been avoiding for years, that she doesn't want to go back to sin or her past life, but just yesterday she even took excuse sneaked out of office and went to see him and accepted the offer, then came back home called me to tell me this and that and before I could talk she said she has accepted it, was shocked and trying to reason why she did that, she asked me if there was anything wrong in her decision, she began to yell at me on phone, as usual I kept mute and ended the call. Please would I be wrong if at this point I take a bow and leave now?

Please help me push it to the front page. She is a Nairalander too, she sees nothing wrong in the wrong things she does. Let the world hear my story and correct me if am wrong on taking the decision.

If I will respond to your write the way I am angry at you, I may end up insulting you which is not polite. I will brief all my advice in a sentence. "You are not a man but a baby in nursery class who don't know what he want". If you are my younger brother, there is no way I will not slap you for brain resetting.

You be mumu...

Profperfect:
Dear Fam,

Please help me out(advice) on this , I am writing at this odd hour because I have lost my peace and I can't close my eyes and sleep .

My relationship has not been a rossy one at all, I have my faults (though am not a womanizer or a cheat) God bears me witness, but believe me, the girl I'm dating and almost settling down with after some years of dating has been hell, trust issues, disrespectful, someone who told me she can never respect or submit to me in her life, I have endured and endured her, she always overrides me. I can't talk or complian of her wrong doings , she will react badly, very insulting (countlessly insulted my father and mother but I have never ever retailiated, does care about what I feel or how I feel.

Should I talk of sex? I have never cheated on her for the past 6 years plus since we met (started dating) at a young age at uni and after uni, I respect her even in her absence, but she has mingled with different guys that has cost out relationship, in all these she claims she has done nothing wrong.

The main issue of all right now is that her boss, she once worked for who she was consciously sleeping with inside office once others are not around, always, hotel, even when they (claim) or go to conference or meetings together, knowing that he is a married man, called her yesterday to give her a job offer to return . This is a boss she served years back, even during uni he kept calling and always wanting to have her, during and after NYSC he kept calling her for him to have a bite, same boss she was pregnant for and aborted for him, though she hanged it on her boyfriend as of that time and the guy didn't know . She never told me all these her self, but I won't like to share here how I got to know.

The same man she has been avoiding for years, that she doesn't want to go back to sin or her past life, but just yesterday she even took excuse sneaked out of office and went to see him and accepted the offer, then came back home called me to tell me this and that and before I could talk she said she has accepted it, was shocked and trying to reason why she did that, she asked me if there was anything wrong in her decision, she began to yell at me on phone, as usual I kept mute and ended the call. Please would I be wrong if at this point I take a bow and leave now?

Please help me push it to the front page. She is a Nairalander too, she sees nothing wrong in the wrong things she does. Let the world hear my story and correct me if am wrong on taking the decision.

First thing brother your a simp. All this things and your still asking questions. No remain shey you heard about the side chick that stabbed oga. No get sense

emmaodet:


Na wa ooooooooo

So upon all the TRP messages that has been flying around this forum for nothing less than 5 years, we still have male nairalanders like this?

Abeg, I don wash my hand commot for this thread

Lol, bros na me the thing tire pass sef

It goes to prove some guys can never be delivered from SIMPHOOD

Bro run for ur life before this slut kills you...if you still get mind to use her and keep her as Bleep body...And chop her you can do that, and meanwhile you get yourself a good and decent woman that loves you...Or better still You Ghost this slut and Forget her....Damn All this red flags and you wan marry her this girl go kill you and still bring in another Man's child for you to raise!!!!............................................................Bro use your HEAD ooooo....She go end your lifespan

Slurity:
If I will respond to your write the way I am angry at you, I may end up insulting you which is not polite. I will brief all my advice in a sentence. "You are not a man but a baby in nursery class who don't know what he want". If you are my younger brother, there is no way I will not slap you for brain resetting.

asin the guy just tire me.

Slurity:
If I will respond to your write the way I am angry at you, I may end up insulting you which is not polite. I will brief all my advice in a sentence. "You are not a man but a baby in nursery class who don't know what he want". If you are my younger brother, there is no way I will not slap you for brain resetting.

You've said all I have in mind

Guy suffer head dey sweet you oo.. that kind love.. seems like you have made up ur mind to be her messiah.. kuku carry ur cross! With all these redflags.. lie, disrespect qnd infidelity?? Oga run from that lady.. first she doesn't love you.. you are just a means to an end for her... You ain't of any importance or statutory value to her.. i dunno if it's her cooking or her physic or probably the mind blowing sex she learns from outside and dumps on you that's making you waste ur time and resources... Cause attitude and character are out of it with what you wrote there... See moving on is hard... Staying back and believing a lie that will never be true.. is going to make you miserable for the rest of the short life she will allow you live... So chose ur own bane...in my candid advice as someone that has seen something like this... Please run for ur life sir... Leave her so you may live long.. you also deserve a soft and problem free life.. atleast not issues of cheating and sleeping around.. have you thought of paternity fraud? STD's Ever thought you will never trust her ever and as long as you with her will never be at peace?? Walk! Sir, Walk away...