BATified2023:
it is money his friend offered him that makes him not to think straight
Can u imagine even calling d girl himself,that’s to show u some people lose their senses once money is involved

He knows for sure his friend can’t take care of d child but he’s willing to give the girl to him

That’s y I believe hired assassins are good atimes,they should just eliminate the fool n let people have rest

This story dey vex me big time

A criminal is capable of lying but you seem to think he told you the whole story or even the whole truth?
Besides resemblance and a questionable timeline, they don’t have solid proof that the child belongs to his friend. What if she was sneaking around on the guy she married with the friend, maybe she knew the husband first and his friend is the sentimental simp? What if the child belongs to the husband? What if the child really doesn’t belong to the husband and the husband is already aware of it and chose to keep it between he and his wife? What if the child belongs to neither the husband or his friend?
OP’s character is in question because he is doing the bidding of a useless criminal that he calls his friend. Show me your friends and I’ll show you who you are.
I wish OP and the child’s parents were in a sane country so that he could be arrested for attempted extortion and stalking.
The husband has an advantage which is legal, clean money and the friend can’t compete with that. The criminal can’t force a DNA test that isn’t guaranteed to come out in his favor.

Turmoil comes into the lives of those that work to bring turmoil into the lives of others.

CHoccolaTE:
I don't know what you people gain from telling lies.
Op just concocted some fairytale in his head when he was bored and decided to post it to get attention/ cure boredom.

And of course he had to make women look bad in his lielie story.

Silly nairaland boys.

. Cooked or not doesn't mean shit like that doesn't happen everything isn't fairy tales the fact u haven't seen it doesn't disputes it's reality

jubrilELsudan:
YOU AND YOUR FRIEND ARE COMPLETE IDIOTS AND YOUR MENTALITY PROVES THAT YOU BOTH ARE NOT FIT TO HABITATE WHERE HUMANS ARE CAUSE YOU BOTH ARE CONFAM IDIOTIC ANIMALS.

SO IN YOUR FLAT BRAIN....YOU THINK YOUR FRIEND CAN CLAIM THAT CHILD? INDEED YOU ARE MOST STUPID.....DID HE MARRY HER THAT HE WILL CLAIM THAT CHILD?.........YOU ARE A COMPLETE FOOL

YOU YOURSELF GO DO A DNA TEST AND YOU WILL FIND OUT THAT YOUR OWN MOTHER DASHED YOU TO YOUR FATHER



IF DEM BORN YOU WELL.....I DARE YOU AND YOUR FRIEND TO CARRY OUT YOUR PLANS AND I WILL PERSONALLY MAKE SURE THAT YOU BOTH SPEND THE REST OF YOUR LIVES IN KIRIKIRI


THAT YOUR CRIMINAL FRIEND IN SOUTH AFRICA....I WILL ENSURE THAT HE IS TRACKED DOWN AND ARRESTED FOR FRAUD......I HAVE ALREADY NOTIFIED THE HAWKS AND WE ON HIS TRAIL


THUNDER FIRE YOU INSIDE YOUR ANUS

Lol
Hoe low Ree buu ruu kuu.

May you suffer the same fate marrying a WHORĒ that will bring another man's child for you to raise and if Na girl you be, MAY YOUR DIRTY PAST HUNT YOU TOO.

Bro, I don't support blindly raising another man's child in this harsh economy. The simp of a husband has been wronged in every aspect abeg. Wife cheated on him while they were dating, he is currently still toiling and fending for d offspring of the cheat. Habaaa. Spill the milk, let the simp husband claim damages bikooo. the irresponsible Yahoo guy has money now.

SKYHIGHfx:


How is the child his? Did he pay her bride price?

These guys are acting like a DNA test is guaranteed to favor the friend. They also act like the story the yahoo boy told is completely accurate.
Who trusts a friend that lies for a living?

Tell the lady to tell her husband by herself, by doing so, she might be saving many things, it's better that way than the husband finding out from outside

Really

toujurs:
just see advice, a typical selfish and manipulative woman. So the simp doesn't deserve to know, he is not the father of the 7 year old girl abi. Nonsense

How do you know that he isn’t the father? Because she looks like the friend doesn’t mean anything.

I'm still looking at my ex, first son was my carbon copy even my friends said that when they saw her yet she left without provocation

Guy tell the guy or your friend because reason am if na you, now that the child has not really grown much now, because e get where the man go train am reach and he discovers na BP go kill am oo, and na ur head

Regardless:
Hey guys,
Pardon the long post.
So when I was still in 200 level staying in school hostel, I had this pre-degree roommate - handsome bad guy. He met a lady at the center he was attending tutorials for Jamb and PD exam. The lady and her mum were living in the town where our school was. They started having sex like mad. They so much had sex to stupor that one day this my guy came back completely drained. We had to arrange Malt and Milk for him to get himself that day. Now this girl was involved with another guy who was already working in all this Oil drilling company and he was alright.

I came back from lectures one day and my former roomie was alone in the room and moody. I asked him what was wrong and he opened up to me that the girl is pregnant and they have tried to abort the baby to no avail. Ha... So wetin wan play like this? He said the girl and her mum had already planned to pin the pregnancy on the working guy's head as this my guy no get shishi plus he couldn't even tell the girl to keep it for him or go and stay with his people because he had stayed at home for like 5 years committing plenty atrocities before his mum managed to send him to school for PD. He was sad because he didn't want another man to take care of his child.

When I asked him about the situation after some time, he said the working guy had already accepted the pregnancy and had already started buying baby things down. lol... The guy didn't gain admission again and went back home. Later he came back and did Diploma... When I asked him of the child, he said the child was a carbon copy of him, that the girl had done intro with the guy but when he has money he would come back for the child..

Last month, I received a friend request from my fomer roomie on FB. Long story cut short, after 7 years, he has blown through yahoo in SA. I asked him about the child and he said he can't trace the baby mama again, her mum had relocated from that town and he has exhausted all means looking for them. I jokingly offered my help and the guy was willing to give me money to help him trace her. I told him I would see what I can do.

It took me a while but I was able to trace the girl on SM and even traced the now husband to LinkedIn. Babe is living well with Oil money and has 3 kids and truly the first girl is my guy's carbon copy.. Damn... I started feeling for the child. Beautiful soft girl-child.

I decided ring the girl and immediately I told her what was happening, she hung up and blocked my number.. lol.. I sent a msg to her with my second line and told her to better call me back before I send a message to her husband... babe called me and was begging.. that my former roomie is not responsible. he was not trying then... she couldn't wait .. blah blah .. that please I should not scatter her marriage... was really crying over the phone... The RP in me wasn't buying it until she mentioned that I should please think about how this would shatter her daughter's life. Omoh the human in me made me pause come begin reason am...

My former roomie's lifestyle isn't really what a child would be proud of.. the guy has done everything from cultism to robbery and still hasn't changed and now to yahoo.......only thing he has now to offer that child is money....He said his mother has been telling him to go and bring the child from another man's house.
I don't care about the babe because ladies always think their hoe-phase would go unrewarded..
I pity for the babe's husband coz he was simp then and has remained so till now oblivious of anything.....
I only sincerely care about the 7y/o child whose life would be turned upside down by this shocking revelation..

Anyway, I told her that I wouldn't do anything for now but my guy is very desperate and she better handles it fast and that it's only a mater of time my guy gets to her one way or another... Babe thanked me and hung up. Next day, she wiped her and her husband's SM clean and deleted the accounts.. except the man's LinkedIn of course.. The man don sha accept me as one of his connections.... I've not revealed any findings to my former roomie.. Last time he asked when I want to start tracking her, I just stalled him. I'm sitting on the sidelines for now.. Omoh I weak ..... The good, bad and ugly comments are welcomed.

You have left your business undone!

1stGenAmerican:


How do you know that he isn’t the father? Because she looks like the friend doesn’t mean anything.

Did you read where the op said his friend was having marathon sex with the girl? If the family of the guy knows that they might be doubt about the true paternity of the frist child, do you think they would turn a blind eye? Seeing how girls support bullshit makes me very resolute that if any woman, wife or girlfriend claims to have a child for me, I will conduct a DNA test just to be sure. I will never let such happen to me

takimsipho:
Did you read where the op said his friend was having marathon sex with the girl? If the family of the guy knows that they might be doubt about the true paternity of the frist child, do you think they would turn a blind eye? Seeing how girls support bullshit makes me very resolute that if any woman, wife or girlfriend claims to have a child for me, I will conduct a DNA test just to be sure. I will never let such happen to me

Marathon sex guarantees paternity? What if they were having marathon sex after she was already pregnant?

@Regardless, you might want to delete the man's connection from your LinkedIn profile till you're sure of what your next step will be. A dedicated simple search on your profile for oil workers will link whoever is looking with the man in question.

At topic, you would have to level with your guy. His mum taking the girl is a dream that will never happen while the lady is alive and whomever the lady assigns as the legal guardian will be so till the girl is of age and can legally decide things for herself.

What he might request for is visitation right and which court of law will he ask for that that he won't end up in jail for since he is a wanted man. The best he can hope for is for the lady to look favorably at him to keep his memory known to their daughter while in the meantime, he gets himself cleaned up and gets his acts right.

Knowing him, he could while trying to force himself known, threaten the lady, disrupt her marriage and that will still not get him anywhere with his daughter. His hideout might even be known and lead to his capture. You might also be implicated for knowing the location of a wanted felon.

Once he is ready to come into his daughter's life, he also should be ready to give himself up to the authorities and do his time and start anew.

For now, he has a task. Get to be the kind of man his daughter will be proud to associate with in the future. Still, he has to appreciate the man who has played the father figure for his kid all the years. Starting from "your mum's friend", e.t.c. The foster father's permission is also needed first before the girl is told whom her biological father is.

Getting to tell her hubby the truth will be a task the lady herself should do but in a way and timing that would be acceptable without causing a breakup of an happy home or hurt to a kid's feelings and mental stability.

I pray for you the wisdom to keep everyone's happiness and a happy ending.

Wishing you well - Teemy

Regardless:
Hey guys,
Pardon the long post.
So when I was still in 200 level staying in school hostel, I had this pre-degree roommate - handsome bad guy. He met a lady at the center he was attending tutorials for Jamb and PD exam. The lady and her mum were living in the town where our school was. They started having sex like mad. They so much had sex to stupor that one day this my guy came back completely drained. We had to arrange Malt and Milk for him to get himself that day. Now this girl was involved with another guy who was already working in all this Oil drilling company and he was alright.

I came back from lectures one day and my former roomie was alone in the room and moody. I asked him what was wrong and he opened up to me that the girl is pregnant and they have tried to abort the baby to no avail. Ha... So wetin wan play like this? He said the girl and her mum had already planned to pin the pregnancy on the working guy's head as this my guy no get shishi plus he couldn't even tell the girl to keep it for him or go and stay with his people because he had stayed at home for like 5 years committing plenty atrocities before his mum managed to send him to school for PD. He was sad because he didn't want another man to take care of his child.

When I asked him about the situation after some time, he said the working guy had already accepted the pregnancy and had already started buying baby things down. lol... The guy didn't gain admission again and went back home. Later he came back and did Diploma... When I asked him of the child, he said the child was a carbon copy of him, that the girl had done intro with the guy but when he has money he would come back for the child..

Last month, I received a friend request from my fomer roomie on FB. Long story cut short, after 7 years, he has blown through yahoo in SA. I asked him about the child and he said he can't trace the baby mama again, her mum had relocated from that town and he has exhausted all means looking for them. I jokingly offered my help and the guy was willing to give me money to help him trace her. I told him I would see what I can do.

It took me a while but I was able to trace the girl on SM and even traced the now husband to LinkedIn. Babe is living well with Oil money and has 3 kids and truly the first girl is my guy's carbon copy.. Damn... I started feeling for the child. Beautiful soft girl-child.

I decided ring the girl and immediately I told her what was happening, she hung up and blocked my number.. lol.. I sent a msg to her with my second line and told her to better call me back before I send a message to her husband... babe called me and was begging.. that my former roomie is not responsible. he was not trying then... she couldn't wait .. blah blah .. that please I should not scatter her marriage... was really crying over the phone... The RP in me wasn't buying it until she mentioned that I should please think about how this would shatter her daughter's life. Omoh the human in me made me pause come begin reason am...

My former roomie's lifestyle isn't really what a child would be proud of.. the guy has done everything from cultism to robbery and still hasn't changed and now to yahoo.......only thing he has now to offer that child is money....He said his mother has been telling him to go and bring the child from another man's house.
I don't care about the babe because ladies always think their hoe-phase would go unrewarded..
I pity for the babe's husband coz he was simp then and has remained so till now oblivious of anything.....
I only sincerely care about the 7y/o child whose life would be turned upside down by this shocking revelation..

Anyway, I told her that I wouldn't do anything for now but my guy is very desperate and she better handles it fast and that it's only a mater of time my guy gets to her one way or another... Babe thanked me and hung up. Next day, she wiped her and her husband's SM clean and deleted the accounts.. except the man's LinkedIn of course.. The man don sha accept me as one of his connections.... I've not revealed any findings to my former roomie.. Last time he asked when I want to start tracking her, I just stalled him. I'm sitting on the sidelines for now.. Omoh I weak ..... The good, bad and ugly comments are welcomed.

Mind your business. The child is in a good family with good upbringing. That's all that matters

TMTR:
Hmmm, what a dicey situation but look at it this way if your former rommie was your brother,will you sit down and watch while he loses his child to another man , if the girl was your sister,will you want her to lose her marriage by revealing the truth, if the husband was your brother , will you watch him be deceived to raise another man's kid

Phew, so many ifs but in all your loyalty should be to your roomie that's if you see him as a friend.

Loyalty is everything, if you can meet someone that is loyal, don't ever joke with that person cause it can't be bought

You CAN NEVER lose your child to another man. It's naturally impossible.

That guy needs to grow up. He's still thinking like a child. That girl is with her mother and is having a good life. That's all that matters.

1stGenAmerican:


Marathon sex guarantees paternity? What if they were having marathon sex after she was already pregnant?

"I asked him what was wrong and he opened up to me that the girl is pregnant and they have tried to abort the baby to no avail. Ha... So wetin wan play like this? He said the girl and her mum had already planned to pin the pregnancy on the working guy's head" That's a quote from the post. They both knew and even tried to abort it to no avail. I hate it when a girl gets pregnant she pins it on the guy who is more financially stable. Is that not fraud? How do people get pregnant is it not through sex?

Please just stay out of this issue and mind
your business. Mind you this is a happy home you're about destroying.

Regardless:
Hey guys,
Pardon the long post.
So when I was still in 200 level staying in school hostel, I had this pre-degree roommate - handsome bad guy. He met a lady at the center he was attending tutorials for Jamb and PD exam. The lady and her mum were living in the town where our school was. They started having sex like mad. They so much had sex to stupor that one day this my guy came back completely drained. We had to arrange Malt and Milk for him to get himself that day. Now this girl was involved with another guy who was already working in all this Oil drilling company and he was alright.

I came back from lectures one day and my former roomie was alone in the room and moody. I asked him what was wrong and he opened up to me that the girl is pregnant and they have tried to abort the baby to no avail. Ha... So wetin wan play like this? He said the girl and her mum had already planned to pin the pregnancy on the working guy's head as this my guy no get shishi plus he couldn't even tell the girl to keep it for him or go and stay with his people because he had stayed at home for like 5 years committing plenty atrocities before his mum managed to send him to school for PD. He was sad because he didn't want another man to take care of his child.

When I asked him about the situation after some time, he said the working guy had already accepted the pregnancy and had already started buying baby things down. lol... The guy didn't gain admission again and went back home. Later he came back and did Diploma... When I asked him of the child, he said the child was a carbon copy of him, that the girl had done intro with the guy but when he has money he would come back for the child..

Last month, I received a friend request from my fomer roomie on FB. Long story cut short, after 7 years, he has blown through yahoo in SA. I asked him about the child and he said he can't trace the baby mama again, her mum had relocated from that town and he has exhausted all means looking for them. I jokingly offered my help and the guy was willing to give me money to help him trace her. I told him I would see what I can do.

It took me a while but I was able to trace the girl on SM and even traced the now husband to LinkedIn. Babe is living well with Oil money and has 3 kids and truly the first girl is my guy's carbon copy.. Damn... I started feeling for the child. Beautiful soft girl-child.

I decided ring the girl and immediately I told her what was happening, she hung up and blocked my number.. lol.. I sent a msg to her with my second line and told her to better call me back before I send a message to her husband... babe called me and was begging.. that my former roomie is not responsible. he was not trying then... she couldn't wait .. blah blah .. that please I should not scatter her marriage... was really crying over the phone... The RP in me wasn't buying it until she mentioned that I should please think about how this would shatter her daughter's life. Omoh the human in me made me pause come begin reason am...

My former roomie's lifestyle isn't really what a child would be proud of.. the guy has done everything from cultism to robbery and still hasn't changed and now to yahoo.......only thing he has now to offer that child is money....He said his mother has been telling him to go and bring the child from another man's house.
I don't care about the babe because ladies always think their hoe-phase would go unrewarded..
I pity for the babe's husband coz he was simp then and has remained so till now oblivious of anything.....
I only sincerely care about the 7y/o child whose life would be turned upside down by this shocking revelation..

Anyway, I told her that I wouldn't do anything for now but my guy is very desperate and she better handles it fast and that it's only a mater of time my guy gets to her one way or another... Babe thanked me and hung up. Next day, she wiped her and her husband's SM clean and deleted the accounts.. except the man's LinkedIn of course.. The man don sha accept me as one of his connections.... I've not revealed any findings to my former roomie.. Last time he asked when I want to start tracking her, I just stalled him. I'm sitting on the sidelines for now.. Omoh I weak ..... The good, bad and ugly comments are welcomed.

Regardless:
Hey guys,
Pardon the long post.
So when I was still in 200 level staying in school hostel, I had this pre-degree roommate - handsome bad guy. He met a lady at the center he was attending tutorials for Jamb and PD exam. The lady and her mum were living in the town where our school was. They started having sex like mad. They so much had sex to stupor that one day this my guy came back completely drained. We had to arrange Malt and Milk for him to get himself that day. Now this girl was involved with another guy who was already working in all this Oil drilling company and he was alright.

I came back from lectures one day and my former roomie was alone in the room and moody. I asked him what was wrong and he opened up to me that the girl is pregnant and they have tried to abort the baby to no avail. Ha... So wetin wan play like this? He said the girl and her mum had already planned to pin the pregnancy on the working guy's head as this my guy no get shishi plus he couldn't even tell the girl to keep it for him or go and stay with his people because he had stayed at home for like 5 years committing plenty atrocities before his mum managed to send him to school for PD. He was sad because he didn't want another man to take care of his child.

When I asked him about the situation after some time, he said the working guy had already accepted the pregnancy and had already started buying baby things down. lol... The guy didn't gain admission again and went back home. Later he came back and did Diploma... When I asked him of the child, he said the child was a carbon copy of him, that the girl had done intro with the guy but when he has money he would come back for the child..

Last month, I received a friend request from my fomer roomie on FB. Long story cut short, after 7 years, he has blown through yahoo in SA. I asked him about the child and he said he can't trace the baby mama again, her mum had relocated from that town and he has exhausted all means looking for them. I jokingly offered my help and the guy was willing to give me money to help him trace her. I told him I would see what I can do.

It took me a while but I was able to trace the girl on SM and even traced the now husband to LinkedIn. Babe is living well with Oil money and has 3 kids and truly the first girl is my guy's carbon copy.. Damn... I started feeling for the child. Beautiful soft girl-child.

I decided ring the girl and immediately I told her what was happening, she hung up and blocked my number.. lol.. I sent a msg to her with my second line and told her to better call me back before I send a message to her husband... babe called me and was begging.. that my former roomie is not responsible. he was not trying then... she couldn't wait .. blah blah .. that please I should not scatter her marriage... was really crying over the phone... The RP in me wasn't buying it until she mentioned that I should please think about how this would shatter her daughter's life. Omoh the human in me made me pause come begin reason am...

My former roomie's lifestyle isn't really what a child would be proud of.. the guy has done everything from cultism to robbery and still hasn't changed and now to yahoo.......only thing he has now to offer that child is money....He said his mother has been telling him to go and bring the child from another man's house.
I don't care about the babe because ladies always think their hoe-phase would go unrewarded..
I pity for the babe's husband coz he was simp then and has remained so till now oblivious of anything.....
I only sincerely care about the 7y/o child whose life would be turned upside down by this shocking revelation..

Anyway, I told her that I wouldn't do anything for now but my guy is very desperate and she better handles it fast and that it's only a mater of time my guy gets to her one way or another... Babe thanked me and hung up. Next day, she wiped her and her husband's SM clean and deleted the accounts.. except the man's LinkedIn of course.. The man don sha accept me as one of his connections.... I've not revealed any findings to my former roomie.. Last time he asked when I want to start tracking her, I just stalled him. I'm sitting on the sidelines for now.. Omoh I weak ..... The good, bad and ugly comments are welcomed.

Meddlesome Interlopers don't end well.

Your guy didn't marry her and can't claim the child.

Your guy can't get custody of the love child cos he is not responsible, infact his past may coming hunting him.

Fatherhood is beyond donating sperm to a woman, it means taking responsibility from pregnancy to childbirth and beyond.

The lady involved has little to lose as she has two others who am sure is her hubby's. Three kids ain't like sipping garri &kulikuli.

Op, becareful because the lady may hit you before you destroy her home &her child's happiness. Women may look weak but don't allow the wrath of their weakness hit you cos you may never live to tell the outcome. They can go any length when pushed....

einsteine:


He might not even be the father of the younger kids. Oil and gas workers who work offshore have been known to father the kids of other men.

. True bro reason this marriage things tire man I dey hear life story from colleagues daily one did jokingly say he has a back to back that runs shift with him on his wife say as him resume work offshore now the guy go don resume untop him wife so funny but deep.

Born2Breed:



Investigator sabinus, mind your business.

If/When the shit hits the fan,don't be in the equation.

Bird of the same feathers...

If Na your brother nkọ?

Bloody hypocrites.
May your dirty past hunt you too.

You had only one job bro
Save a simp today. The society has no place for a simp.Tell the Oil guy that the child was not his own but don't reveal your identity.
Don't let him father a child he has no relation with, It will leave a deep scar on him if he found out on his own

pqmeup:
Please just stay out of this issue and mind
your business. Mind you this is a happy home you're about destroying.

Happy home built on deceit..how do you think the family of the husband will react if they knew about this? Some people run away from the truth becomes it might hurt, they prefer lies because it is comforting. Some of us prefer the truth regardless of how it hurts.

MY GUY YOU REQUIRE STRENGTH FOR THIS JOURNEY.. COME COLLECT MONEY FOR "FEARLESS" ANYTIME U READY TO UNLEASH THE DRAGON.....

YOU ARE A COMRADE AND MORE

Susily:



So the man doesn't deserve to know the truth about the paternity of the child he think it's his seed

That's highly selfish and unfair to the man. Women will always support women's indiscretions

Actions have consequences. The man has a right to know the woman is imposing someone else's child on him making him think it's his child

Then he can decide whether to keep being a father to the child or not

Karma is a funny thing. The husband will find out someday, never doubt it. All I'm saying is that it should not be at the hands of this op. He has no horse in the race whatsoever. He should mind his business and not play God, abi who died and made him judge?

I can see you are just looking for the small money that yahoo guy ll give u.

But think of what this ll cause the other family.

Kindly mind your business. E get why

Why didn't the guy come out and scatter everywhere and claim his child even when he was suffering. His excuse is that he was suffering abi?

Now after someone else has paid for Pampers and done all the trouble, he has grown balls to come and claim the child. Shior. He doesn't deserve to be given access to that child.

If he truly loved the child, even in his rags and inconvenience, he would have fought for that child and for the other man to know the truth! While that child was still in the mother's belly.

Love after seven years. Love after or because he made money now....why didn't he carry his child in his days of hardship. He is also at fault and shouldn't feel entitled.

Sotland:






Loyalty to someone who is a beast? What a bad advice.. People like you get yourselves killed poking noise into others affair and destroying other people lives.

Firstly, did the so called friend paid her bride price before getting her pregnant? You think every girl is a baby maker factory? Loyalty my foot.

Every Man is a baby maker but not every man is a father.


OP. Pls don't kill the baby girl life, she deserve to grow with her sibling peacefully.. she mustn't suffer for the mistake of her mother...

Weyrey with senseless opinion.
If you nkọ?