The subject has been heating me up for a long long long time.

Been shy as made me like a sub human.

Been shy as taking a lot of opportunities from me. I have lost jobs, friends, potential relationships etc.

Been shy as made me a regular customer with addictions e.g watching porn and masterbation and sometimes i visit betting shops losing a whole lot of money for no reason oo. Just to ensure I overcome been bored

Been shy as made me unproductive because I dwell most time on the fact that I am shy hating myself for this and not doing the right things at the right time always procrastinating etc.

Been shy as made look like a bad man even tho I have good intentions.

Been shy as taken my relationship with God to the nearest minimum. I feel so distant!

Been shy as made me careless

Been shy as put me into debt

Been shy has made me broke.

Been shy as made me hate myself AND NOT MADE ME LEAVE UP TO MY FULL POTENTIALS

Been shy is BAD.

Been shy really is BAD.

How do I stop been shy and really change my life for good.

Guys please I need help.

I do not have any friends I am most times always on my own.

I have lost good job because of this
Like I said earlier I am in debt as a result of this.

It's really sad and depressing. Sometimes at the edge of this frustration I do silly thing and have the bad thoughts.

Iamzealousman:
The subject has been hearing me up for a long long long time.

Been shy as made like a sub human.

Been shy as taking a lot of opportunities from me. I have lost jobs, friends, potential relationships etc.

Been shy as made me a regular customer with addictions e.g watching porn and masterbation and something visit betting shops losing a whole lot of money

Been shy as made me unproductive because I dwell most time on the fact that I am shy hating myself for this and not doing the right things at the right time always procrastinating etc.

Been shy as made look like a bad man even tho I have good intentions.

Been shy as taken my relationship with God to the nearest minimum. I feel so distant!

Been shy as made me careless

Been shy as put me into debt

Been shy as made me hate myself AND NOT MADE ME LEAVE UP TO MY FULL POTENTIALS

Been shy is BAD.

Been shy really is BAD.

How do I stop been shy and really change my life for good.

Guys please I need help.

I do not have any friends I am most times always on my own.

I have lost good job because of this
Like I said earlier I am in debt as a result of this.

It's really sad and depressing. Sometimes at the edge of this frustration I do silly thing and have the bad thoughts.

I don’t think been shy should make you engage in all you do, maybe you have low self esteem. I’m a very shy person and hardly warm up to strangers , I’m also a social introvert but I don’t engage in dirty acts.So it’s more of low self esteem, try to engage in productive things, excercise, stop your dirty habits and move closer to God and you shall bounce back and will be alright. Maybe you need few friends too since you are a man.

You can't change your personality bro, that's who you are.

I'm a bashful type too

The power to change yourself is in your hands i was a very shy person before and it caused a lot of damages
but i decided to change my life
for starters remove that "shy" in your dictionary and keep telling yourself "i am confident" just start from here first
say it and believe it, you will then see how your energy will change within 30days.....
it's all about what we tell ourselves bro

Get it together and get out if your shell if you want to achieve anything tangible in life.
You can't even serve God if you're shy.

Your own better. Being shy made me vote APC into power.

Iamzealousman:
The subject has been heating me up for a long long long time.

Been shy as made me like a sub human.

Been shy as taking a lot of opportunities from me. I have lost jobs, friends, potential relationships etc.

Been shy as made me a regular customer with addictions e.g watching porn and masterbation and sometimes i visit betting shops losing a whole lot of money for no reason oo. Just to ensure I overcome been bored

Been shy as made me unproductive because I dwell most time on the fact that I am shy hating myself for this and not doing the right things at the right time always procrastinating etc.

Been shy as made look like a bad man even tho I have good intentions.

Been shy as taken my relationship with God to the nearest minimum. I feel so distant!

Been shy as made me careless

Been shy as put me into debt

Been shy has made me broke.

Been shy as made me hate myself AND NOT MADE ME LEAVE UP TO MY FULL POTENTIALS

Been shy is BAD.

Been shy really is BAD.

How do I stop been shy and really change my life for good.

Guys please I need help.

I do not have any friends I am most times always on my own.

I have lost good job because of this
Like I said earlier I am in debt as a result of this.

It's really sad and depressing. Sometimes at the edge of this frustration I do silly thing and have the bad thoughts.

You’re not alone ….. we are all here

A wise man once told me, "Our point of view creates our reality. When we are stuck in our beliefs, our reality becomes rigid, stagnant, and oppressive. We become bound to our attachments because we have lost our ability to recognize that we have a choice to be free of them."

What you accept of yourself is what you are, you have a billion other choices.

Absolutely NOTHING. The sooner you snap out of that terrible state the better for your mental and physical health. Else you would be on the wide path of depression and probably suicide in the end.

You're definitely an introvert that's for sure.

The fact that you're shy doesn't give you enough latitude to do the things you do. You need to work on that.

I'm a shy person my self and barely talk to people in real life. There're billionaires who are shy too and would do anything to avoid the crowd.

Turn your shyness to sth positive

Rafiquie:
A wise man once told me, "Our point of view creates our reality. When we are stuck in our beliefs, our reality becomes rigid, stagnant, and oppressive. We become bound to our attachments because we have lost our ability to recognize that we have a choice to be free of them."

What you accept of yourself is what you are, you have a billion other choices.

Wotoporiously speaking

You're on point

Adeling:
You're definitely an introvert that's for sure.

The fact that you're shy doesn't give you enough latitude to do the things you do. You need to work on that.

I'm a shy person my self and barely talk to people in real life. There're billionaires who are shy too and would do anything to avoid the crowd.

Turn your shyness to sth positive

But I am lost opportunities and relationships due to this

Iamzealousman:


But I am lost opportunities and relationships due to this

yes we know, those opportunities are not meant for you, better opportunities will locate you if you stop all those bad habits and move close to GOD. I am also an introvert and melancholic by nature. I have only 3 close friends and all of them are not in the same state with me, I stay in Lagos while one is in kogi state the second one in sokoto state and the last one in nasarawa state so you see I don't have friends in Lagos but am a 'very confident with my self. Just be confident and positive I like reading books and it has really helped my self esteem.

Iamzealousman:
The subject has been heating me up for a long long long time.

Been shy as made me like a sub human.

Been shy as taking a lot of opportunities from me. I have lost jobs, friends, potential relationships etc.

Been shy as made me a regular customer with addictions e.g watching porn and masterbation and sometimes i visit betting shops losing a whole lot of money for no reason oo. Just to ensure I overcome been bored

Been shy as made me unproductive because I dwell most time on the fact that I am shy hating myself for this and not doing the right things at the right time always procrastinating etc.

Been shy as made look like a bad man even tho I have good intentions.

Been shy as taken my relationship with God to the nearest minimum. I feel so distant!

Been shy as made me careless

Been shy as put me into debt

Been shy has made me broke.

Been shy as made me hate myself AND NOT MADE ME LEAVE UP TO MY FULL POTENTIALS

Been shy is BAD.

Been shy really is BAD.

How do I stop been shy and really change my life for good.

Guys please I need help.

I do not have any friends I am most times always on my own.

I have lost good job because of this
Like I said earlier I am in debt as a result of this.

It's really sad and depressing. Sometimes at the edge of this frustration I do silly thing and have the bad thoughts.

Try learn when to use “Been” and “Being”

Iamzealousman:
The subject has been heating me up for a long long long time. Been shy as made me like a sub human. Been shy as taking a lot of opportunities from me. I have lost jobs, friends, potential relationships etc. Been shy as made me a regular customer with addictions e.g watching porn and masterbation and sometimes i visit betting shops losing a whole lot of money for no reason oo. Just to ensure I overcome been bored . Been shy as made me unproductive because I dwell most time on the fact that I am shy hating myself for this and not doing the right things at the right time always procrastinating etc. Been shy as made look like a bad man even tho I have good intentions. Been shy as taken my relationship with God to the nearest minimum. I feel so distant! Been shy as made me careless Been shy as put me into debt Been shy has made me broke. Been shy as made me hate myself AND NOT MADE ME LEAVE UP TO MY FULL POTENTIALS

Been shy is BAD. Been shy really is BAD. How do I stop been shy and really change my life for good. Guys please I need help. I do not have any friends I am most times always on my own. I have lost good job because of this Like I said earlier I am in debt as a result of this. It's really sad and depressing. Sometimes at the edge of this frustration I do silly thing and have the bad thoughts.

I have to agree that shyness is not the cause of any of the problems you indicate here. Seems a lot more that you lack motivation and as such have adopted some terrible habits along to way which have in turn helped turn your life in the wrong direction.

Either you go out and get yourself some serious professional mental health counselling to help reorient you as an individual or you go back home and have a heart-to-heart with your parents about your life, how you feel in generation and what it is you are struggling with. I would suggest you maybe head back home to spend some serious time with mom and dad, pouring your heart out to them as their child and maybe allowing them to aide you in parsing and unravelling the knotted strings in your mind. If after a month of continuously doing this with them, nothing changes, then find yourself a professional mental health counselor immediately.

There is nothing wrong with shyness in general. The Facebook guy, Mark something, is known to be famously shy. What you are dealing with is something else.

Nozino:


Try learn when to use “Been” and “Being”

It's kinda intentional. I really want to it to be a past tense and not a part of me

Iamzealousman:


It's kinda intentional. I really want to it to be a past tense and not a part of me

Then how did you ask a girl out confidently on your earlier thread?

Jeromejnr:


Then how did you ask a girl out confidently on your earlier thread?

Lol. It was a mishap. They girl rejected me because I asked her out through text

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