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Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by itslinkin4005(m): 6:24pm On Aug 19, 2022 |
fman:bros you are not responsible for that pregnancy. |
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by Cutehector(m): 6:24pm On Aug 19, 2022 |
Ah.. Wahala. |
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by Dshocker(m): 6:25pm On Aug 19, 2022 |
JudgeNotHi: Since you were sure that, the baby she is carrying is not your baby, you would have blatantly denied her since... My brother as it is now, the girl and her mama don roll dice untop your head and she get double 6. |
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by Bromax: 6:25pm On Aug 19, 2022 |
The girl dey lie. Tell her to come for both of u to go see adnother doctor |
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by goggle48: 6:26pm On Aug 19, 2022 |
You say u no cum,she say she no cum,hw come belle cum 1 Like |
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by naijainstinct: 6:26pm On Aug 19, 2022 |
Beautyblogger:How does this help him? |
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by Finisher07(m): 6:26pm On Aug 19, 2022 |
My guy,if truly she's pregnant, the pregnancy is not your own,no two ways about it, she's trying to blackmail you, be wise this situation may ruined your reputation,be wise |
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by MissionaryArchi(m): 6:26pm On Aug 19, 2022 |
JudgeNotHi:Don't make any move o telling her, I repeat don't tell her until you confirm you're responsible for that pregnancy, if it comes out negative then close every chapter of that Lady. Your only challenge now is the responsibility of that pregnancy. Telling your wife to be about your sex escapade and later not responsible for the pregnancy will create a very thick red line for a long time in your marriage and i tell you brother this is a journey you wouldn't dare to go. Your first weapon now is to stay calm, this will help you take control of your fears then follow the advice of going for scanning or telling the lady and her Mom you will only accept after DNA test. Secondly don't tell that Lady about your your wedding else they will restrategise to disrupt your day. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by holluwizzy: 6:27pm On Aug 19, 2022 |
Even if it is you, tell her to keep the baby that you can't and will not marry her and that is after the ultrasound, but to me ooo, that foetus is not urs. JudgeNotHi: |
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by Lordsonn: 6:28pm On Aug 19, 2022 |
As long as the lady is above 18 years, it's a consensual sex. Simply tell her and her mother that you are not interested in marrying her. If you have money, do unborn DNA test for the child. If you don't have, Tell her you will do the DNA test when the child is born and take your baby if it is yours 1 Like |
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by OMOGBEHIN36(m): 6:28pm On Aug 19, 2022 |
You can see that the lady is wiser than you. She has the plan from onset buh you think is just a mere friend. See how your uncontrollable prick lead you now. Who knows self if another bro with big prick is given your so called love of your world wotowoto. This Nigeria lover lover things tired me jare 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by BePrepared: 6:29pm On Aug 19, 2022 |
I really like the woes that have befallen OP And the woes that befall all nlers here that engage in premarital sex Because I know people won't learn. Flee premarital sex you won't, you will see the frogs in front falling inside the pit yet the frogs behind with their eyes open repeat same mistakes, in two days times another persons will come up with similar story. If you abstain from sex will all these your heartbreaks occur. He that sows to the wind will reap the whirlwind. |
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by torqque7(m): 6:31pm On Aug 19, 2022 |
JudgeNotHi: You better not tell her yet o..go ahead with your wedding if you both love each other and you are sure she loves you. Secondly keep your wedding plans secret from the pregnant girl because she and her desperate mother can decide to come ruin your wedding,also keep her away from your fiance by all means,and NEVER ACCEPT THAT SHAM PREGNANCY..make she go meet who pregnant am,you self no sure of your self because anyone who is absolutely sure he didn't cum will definitely not entertain such allegations. 2 Likes |
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by slan87(m): 6:32pm On Aug 19, 2022 |
My advice for you is simple n straight, before you inform your fiancee. Go to a reliable ultrasound office for scan n get the accurate weeks, then from their you know what to do 2 Likes |
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by ALLNIGERIANSMAD(m): 6:32pm On Aug 19, 2022 |
JudgeNotHi:read your post again Oga, you blame devil, you said until devil struck. You asked for advice, I advised you to go and take care of your unborn baby. |
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by Connoisseur(m): 6:34pm On Aug 19, 2022 |
You know you are not responsible for this pregnancy, the lady knows too. My advice: BE FIRM Nobody can force you to marry a lady you don't want to. Inform the lady and her family that you are willing to take care of the pregnancy till birth until you do a DNA test. If the baby turns out to be yours, you will continue to take responsibility but you cannot marry the lady. This will put any ideas the lady have of hooking you on hold. To your fiancee, you have to tell her everything. Tell her you have no intentions of marrying this girl in question even if the baby turns out to be yours. It's her choice whether to continue with you or not. It's a hard decision but it has to be done. Then, you have to prepare yourself for the battle ahead; mentally, physically and emotionally. You'd have to withstand all sorts of intimidation and emotional blackmail for the next couple of months. Believe me, this will still pass one way or the other. |
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by dljbd1(m): 6:35pm On Aug 19, 2022 |
This OP had intentions abeg...you can't tell me she's your bestie and she doesn't know your wedding is around the corner. Baba...you get plans chop clean mouth jare! 3 Likes |
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by CSTRR: 6:35pm On Aug 19, 2022 |
And that is how you will lose the love of your life. |
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by ucnotjustok: 6:36pm On Aug 19, 2022 |
Your intentions where pure and geniune, but u carry condom go, and no be one, but packet. You intentions was purely to nack 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by Nobody: 6:36pm On Aug 19, 2022 |
JudgeNotHi:You can still continue with your wedding preparations, but sort this out first. |
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by Adebowalay(m): 6:36pm On Aug 19, 2022 |
This one na dead on arrival oo.... SAD |
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by PeachtreeReside(f): 6:38pm On Aug 19, 2022 |
JudgeNotHi: It was planned and I don't know why they are insisting on seeing your mum when you are both adults. You were not dating her on the low so why the my daughter cannot have a child out of wedlock? Beg your wife to be. Don't give in to bullying and blackmail to marry her out of coercion. Is the said lady a learner that she doesn't know how to take care of herself? |
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by JudgeNotHi: 6:40pm On Aug 19, 2022 |
Connoisseur: Amen... Thanks. |
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by Orenike: 6:42pm On Aug 19, 2022 |
You are wicked Ishilove: |
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by Beautyblogger: 6:42pm On Aug 19, 2022 |
naijainstinct: So he can go jump in a Lagoon or turn to a eunuch. |
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by CSTRR: 6:43pm On Aug 19, 2022 |
DNA test is atleast 300,000. No sex is worth N300,000, and the fact that you will probably lose the love of your life. 3 Likes |
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by Orgymy(m): 6:44pm On Aug 19, 2022 |
Take her to another hospital for the test. |
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by Touchfarm: 6:46pm On Aug 19, 2022 |
JudgeNotHi: Hope the girl in question is up to 18 years?.This once happened to me. Its a pure set up and her mother might be in on this. SOLUTION: Go make a formal complaint to a loyal and drag the girl and the mother to a police station. Let you lawyer admit that since you slept with her(with protection), you will take care of the pregnancy and when she gives birth you will run a DNA test, if its yours, you will accept the baby, but if its not, you will sue her for damages in the amount of #30 million. If she is sure the pregnancy is yours, let her sign and her parents should also sign as witnesses. You will be surprise how they will tell you forget about the whole issue. In my own case, they said they leave me for God. It was later I found out that the girl and her mother have already trued pinning the pregnancy on two people before me . 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by Nobody: 6:46pm On Aug 19, 2022 |
Alaye, look the intimacy was btw two consensual adults, she was not raped, u both had an affair and she got pregnant in d process, u can decide not to be with her and the pregnancy, the mother calling u and forcing u to claim responsibility doesn't know the laws of the court on this, no man u I repeat no man is forced to claim responsibility for the birth that comes out from a consensual affair, the woman has the sole right to abort or keep the baby, the man is not obligated to take d child unless he willingly wants to cater 4 d baby's welfare, Abortion in Nigeria is still legal, the mother can't do anything and she won't force u to marry her daughter, even the police and the court can't force u to marry her, wat the court would do is to force u to pay monthly for the childs welfare, that's all and made to the highest co parenting, is left for u to decide if u re going to leave d woman of ur dreams and go for ur friend, but I want to advise u, is better u marry d girl u impregnated cos u both seem to love each other and know each other well than ur fiancée, go for d one u impregnated but tbh, we av seen this game of cuckolding where females give birth and dash d baby to a willing simp to take care of why d original criminal is out cruising, I would advice u wait for 9months, take a DNA test outside d country oo, never disclose the hospital to anybody after 1yr and if it comes out positive then go ahead with marriage |
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by vannessa7(f): 6:46pm On Aug 19, 2022 |
I will not advice you to reject the pregnancy because babies have a way of getting back at the parent who abandoned them, I've seen many cases of life ruined and at the end of the day it was discovered that it was because the the guy rejected a pregnancy and the baby's "head" is fighting against him, make sure you carry out a DNA test to confirm. If you are very sure your fiancee is the right person for you spiritually then go ahead with the wedding before telling her the truth because you might lose her forever if you tell her now especially since you have not confirmed if the pregnancy is yours but be careful that girl does not show up to stop the wedding. If you confirmed the pregnancy is yours but you are also sure your fiancee is your God approved wife, then tell that girls mother you can only accept the baby but you can't marry the girl. After your wedding get elders to help you settle things between you and your wife, tell your wife you didn't tell her before the wedding because you love her and don't want to lose her. 1 Like |
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by JudgeNotHi: 6:47pm On Aug 19, 2022 |
RedpillAnalyst:She has a step dad. This is her mom's 3rd marriage not that it means anything or relates to what's at hand. |
Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by JudgeNotHi: 6:49pm On Aug 19, 2022 |
We are both adults, she's 27yrs and I am 33yrs. |
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