Don't worry, something must kill a man.

One thing about guys that masturbates. It affects their sexual life.

idomalord:
Am 50+ days
No porn
No masturbation
All praise to God.
Am freeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee.



It' feels so goooooood.
Sometimes I am surprised but I am enjoying it

You will begin to notice huge difference

RentaStallion:
The first rule is to stop masturbating.... You heard me right??.... Please stop it immediately.

Masturbating is the cause and here's why... It weakens you and always triple your urgee because it's a bad way to enjoy yourself.

You are killing your dick without you knowing. When you masturbate your performance on bed will be reducing gradually... And you'll be having low libido too. Prick go quick rise when you see anything sexually arousing but when you want knack the prick go dey disappoint you.

Stop masturbating... Stop watching porn and when you see any lady or anything that moves you.... Don't get moves. Just stare at it normally.

The last and not the least stop visiting olosho house... 5 min or 10 min sex will not satisfy your urge ... That's why you keep running back there.

Look for a very matured lady... Don't rush her, always admire and tell her how beautiful she's.... Let her know you are really into her.

They understand what you wants more than you do.... So the last is to take anything sex from your brain.

And man up my brother.... No let those sex neuron's turn you to a simp.

My one Kobo advice... I game it to someone on nairaland and I know it would work for you too.

You are right on this one.

Itohanmiwa:
OP u are right. All these are just the introduction to the side effect of masturbation. Don't wait till it becomes chronic and that your mental forgetfulness not translate to insanity before you decide to stop it. Premarital sex is bad, but masturbation is very evil. Everything you listed up there happened to me when I was still battling with the addiction. Bros protect your mental health and quitting masturbation is the start of boosting your self esteem. Nor listen to people who tell you it's normal.

I used to listen to people that say there was nothing wrong with masturbating and I’m suffering from that.

Fajeed:
Hi nairalanders please help me I have been masturbating since 2014 or 2015 and I’m still doing it. sometimes I can do it more than 3 times a day my dick is getting smaller because of this my other left side Breast has swollen up I don’t know maybe it’s because of masturbation the thing is I love sex a lot I use to have a girlfriend we are not dating anymore and sometimes when I’m Hot I do Bleep oloso
When I try to stay a week without having sex or not masturbating it will be like something is doing me I will not get myself I will be Hot and feel like masturbating I don’t know if my libido is high or something this thing has really affected me
I also noticed that I forget things easily it’s hard for me to remember things when I read them I do get sick because of masturbating everyday
I am now a 5 seconds man because if this I don’t even know how to cure this whenever I want to have sex I must take man power
I’m tired I was really frustrated this night
And also whenever I see a girl it will be like I should have sex with her especially when she has a big ass
Please help me nairalanders
Sometimes I’m always short of blood because of this masturbation I always drink milk blood tonic I’m tired please help me please
I’m not joking

https://www.nairaland.com/7271854/masturbation-bad-evil

https://www.nairaland.com/7268871/reasons-why-excessive-masturbation-bad


See this two threads

Itohanmiwa:
OP u are right. All these are just the introduction to the side effect of masturbation. Don't wait till it becomes chronic and that your mental forgetfulness not translate to insanity before you decide to stop it. Premarital sex is bad, but masturbation is very evil. Everything you listed up there happened to me when I was still battling with the addiction. Bros protect your mental health and quitting masturbation is the start of boosting your self esteem. Nor listen to people who tell you it's normal.

wetin consign masturbation with insanity?

Itidicious:
The way u write the story come de funny me

if you sabi wetin your moniker mean for my language ehn

MyVILLAGEpeople:


You will begin to notice huge difference

Like seriously seriously things are changing.
I am more confident
I don't look down myself anymore
I don't forget things like that again, etc


All praise to God

Eleyigidgan:
wetin consign masturbation with insanity?

My guy you won't understand. Who nor go nor go know. But take my counsel very seriously.

idomalord:




Like seriously seriously things are changing.
I am more confident
I don't look down myself anymore
I don't forget things like that again, etc


All praise to God

You will begin to add weight also

Exkandayee:

I forgive you too, Nigerians are really funny,imma teach you this, masturbation is addiction not spiritual, you guys should stop tagging everything spiritual, you gullible modafukas

U are d 1 who 1st insulted me and u are still insulting me and still forgiven me.

How did I ever do u wrong??

Not that I ever spoke to u in d 1st place oh.

But if I have offended u by offering advice to someone else which I believe will help him.
How is that your concern

But if d advice still hurts u ( although it wasn't yours and nothing concern you) then please keep insulting .



But as 4 me, that testimony will always be on my lips and I will always share it.

To u is a mere addiction but to me its a miracle and on bended knee's I will always tell God, thank you.

MyVILLAGEpeople:



You will begin to add weight also

This 1 too is confirm ( smiles)
I didn't even think of it until u just wrote it.
My cheeks are becoming more full
And my finances are smoother too

idomalord:




This 1 too is confirm ( smiles)
I didn't even think of it until u just wrote it.
My cheeks are becoming more full
And my finances are smoother too

I’m adding weight like this and my cheeks are getting fatter.. Masturbation is evil and bad. Once you have this mindset about masturbation you won’t indulge in it again. Imagine doing something that drains the hell out of you. I masturbated for 6 years and I’m currently suffering from the consequences of that.

Exkandayee:

Shut up and go and brush your teeth, and for you op,, just buy weed, cook it with Indomie, do this every day, you will forget about masturbation

Telling someone that can give birth to u to shut up is the biggest disrespect I have ever seen,,,I pray that ur kids won't tell u to shut up in the future,,, respect is reciprocal..

Joshchi19:


And you think that it has nothing to do with your spirit man?

What spirit, I'm addicted to cocaine, I'm trying to break this shit,but ain't working,so that's spiritual too,,,, imma go to rehab next week,it might help

MyVILLAGEpeople:


I’m adding weight like this and my cheeks are getting fatter.. Masturbation is evil and bad. Once you have this mindset about masturbation you won’t indulge in it again. Imagine doing something that drains the hell out of you. I masturbated for 6 years and I’m currently suffering from the consequences of that.

If u go on YouTube and watch effect of no fap
There is dis period of withdrawal then after that is d glowing period.
U c d consequences part u just said is also part of d withdrawal but, bro, forget.
U go recover.
And u will recover fully fully sef.
The white man really fed us lies that masturbation is good.
It's simply just to kill d lion within u and create a tame population.
Am in 50+ days and d way I believe in myself is just something else and another level awaits again for d 90 days period and above

idomalord:



If u go on YouTube and watch effect of no fap
There is dis period of withdrawal then after that is d glowing period.
U c d consequences part u just said is also part of d withdrawal but, bro, forget.
U go recover.
And u will recover fully fully sef.
The white man really fed us lies that masturbation is good.
It's simply just to kill d lion within u and create a tame population.
Am in 50+ days and d way I believe in myself is just something else and another level awaits again for d 90 days period and above

Honestly I believed those bull crap stories of how masturbation is good and all that years back. They know fully well that masturbation is addictive and destroys the male sexual organ. Well, it’s good you have finally stopped. I still get sensations on my penis cap but I have sworn and made up my mind not to destroy myself again.

MyVILLAGEpeople:



Honestly I believe those bull crap stories of how masturbation is good and all that. They know fully well that masturbation is addictive and destroys the male sexual organ. Well, it’s good you have finally stopped. I still get sensations on my penis cap but I have sworn and made up my mind not to destroy myself again.

Sperms is pure creative power. It's either u waste it or make a baby or in alignment with your thoughts create a dream u want. Thats y when u are not into sex or masturbation u are very active and u easily achieve what u want, u also think faster.
As a man if u aren't using it, it goes back to your body, breaks down and a particular chemical is extracted by your body which makes your skin glow more.

This is because unare supposed ti be having sex but since u are not your body is trying to make u look more appealing .

But as 4 me, I am using it 4 dat goal aspect and it works

idomalord:



Sperms is pure creative power. It's either u waste it or make a baby or in alignment with your thoughts create a dream u want. Thats y when u are not into sex or masturbation u are very active and u easily achieve what u want, u also think faster.
As a man if u aren't using it, it goes back to your body, breaks down and a particular chemical is extracted by your body which makes your skin glow more.

This is because unare supposed ti be having sex but since u are not your body is trying to make u look more appealing .

But as 4 me, I am using it 4 dat goal aspect and it works

Quite interesting I must say. You are doing the right thing and I’m also following in that direction now.

take off the dick and thank me later

Get a girlfriend n fall in love with her

I also had the same issue but I control it now, it doesn't occur frequently like it used to. It is your mind that is doing the whole thing, when you see a lady with with big butt or half naked, you start imagining you and her having sex, and that is what triggers it, try to take control of your mind, when you see a naked woman, start thinking of an action movie or a comedy or anything that will distract your mind, if the temptation gets too much, change position and go to somewhere you don't have access to lubricants or somewhere you can't masturbate, mix up with people and your mindset will change, make sure you are always busy doing one or two things to avoid distraction, limit the time you spend on social media because you don't know when a nude picture will pop up on your screen, don't watch pornography, but if you were tempted to watch one maybe by mistake, delete it from your phone so that you won't go back to it. Sometimes odogwu may stand on its own when you are in a bus or early in the morning, that it's the most tempting one, like I said b4, keep your mind steady and focused on something else and odogwu will fall back to base

idomalord:
Am 50+ days
No porn
No masturbation
All praise to God.
Am freeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee.



It' feels so goooooood.
Sometimes I am surprised but I am enjoying it

Don’t be over the moon yet bro, but it’s doable with strong will and conviction.
That thing is really bad cos I know of a close friend that has been masturbating for like 22 years now . The addiction kept Winning each time he thought he had gotten over it

ademola721gmai:

Don’t be over the moon yet bro, but it’s doable with strong will and conviction.
That thing is really bad cos I know of a close friend that has been masturbating for like 22 years now . The addiction kept Winning each time he thought he had gotten over it

Thats y I try to be sensitive incase am being tempted. I rebuke the spirits dat want to come back and I draw to God more

Eleyigidgan:
if you sabi wetin your moniker mean for my language ehn

wetin e mean mbok

You see this masturbation of a thing, don't ever try to convince anyone of its debilitating side because they will always argue either because they are/were not as deep into it as you are/werd OR they know you are telling the truth but they argue anyway just to feel good and calm their conscience and fear.

Me I started masturbating 2003 and till date I'm still battling with it. Everything every single masturbation addict has said about it, I have experienced especially ED, PE, glowing skin and fuller and bigger dick whenever I'm abstaining.

Worst is if you masturbate with porn. Google porn induced erectile dysfunction (PIED) for better understanding.

Lastly they keep saying Africans are delusional and overly religious for ascribing spirituality to it. Just tell them to visit Nofap forum, it's White people online forum where they discuss and mention the disadvantages of masturbation everyone single one of you has did.

GreatVocalist:

You are actually the one who is ignorant here. That it is an addiction does not make it non-spiritual.

So how you gon prove is spiritual,or do you wanna tell me what your pastor preached to slowppookke like you

idomalord:



Thats y I try to be sensitive incase am being tempted. I rebuke the spirits dat want to come back and I draw to God more

Just imagine your dick going slowly into adamma's wet pussy, her pussy juice's will be sounding puf puf on your dick, you must masturbate tonight

henndukwe18:
I also had the same issue but I control it now, it doesn't occur frequently like it used to. It is your mind that is doing the whole thing, when you see a lady with with big butt or half naked, you start imagining you and her having sex, and that is what triggers it, try to take control of your mind, when you see a naked woman, start thinking of an action movie or a comedy or anything that will distract your mind, if the temptation gets too much, change position and go to somewhere you don't have access to lubricants or somewhere you can't masturbate, mix up with people and your mindset will change, make sure you are always busy doing one or two things to avoid distraction, limit the time you spend on social media because you don't know when a nude picture will pop up on your screen, don't watch pornography, but if you were tempted to watch one maybe by mistake, delete it from your phone so that you won't go back to it. Sometimes odogwu may stand on its own when you are in a bus or early in the morning, that it's the most tempting one, like I said b4, keep your mind steady and focused on something else and odogwu will fall back to base

Last last he go come back home and...
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