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Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by Nobody: 6:02am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Ginaz: You are wise, I like you. But you are not 100% correct though. Stopping masturbation is not by "drawing closer to God" if you know how many pastors, choristers, youth preachers, deacons and deaconesses are under the bondage of pornography and masturbation, you'll be alarmed. You mean they "are not drawn close to God enough"? You maybe right about deactivating betting account as since I deactivated over a year ago I have not returned to it. 18 Likes |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by Nobody: 6:14am On Aug 21, 2022 |
TheboyGhost: This is evil advice. Your foundation and his foundation are not the same. Maybe your ability to get money/wealth is genetic and he doesn't have that "bloodline". The fact that you masturbate and are balling doesn't mean every other person can try it and still get your result. Grace differs, you don't know the grace upon your life. What if Your eyes were opened and if you had never masturbated or stopped it 10 years ago, you and Dangote would be dragging for the richest man in Africa 26 Likes |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by imagrg(m): 6:18am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Just ganner the WILL POWER to stop gambling and you WILL masturbate less. You go into masturbation most often out of frustration when you lose your bet. So when you stop or limit your betting stake to N100 weekly, you may not get frustrated and you will have less intention to masturbate. By the way, why not get a girlfriend? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by TheboyGhost(m): 6:21am On Aug 21, 2022 |
NewSoul: Hahaha don't go biblical or religious on this man, it's just natural. Masturbation just like sex has no hindrance to whatever you will be and should be in life. Your brains and how well you make use of em determines what comes around and doesn't. The man you mentioned his name might even have more sexually oriented mindset than I do. He probably used to masturbate more than I do and he probably has more sex in a year than I do, but he is still regarded the richest in the country. I personally believe his problem is the betting lifestyle and not the masturbation. 27 Likes |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by Odinakaibe2022(m): 6:39am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Unyimekelvin: the only suggestion i ave 4 u is that>you stop stayin idle and alone in d house hang out wit frds and do some hobbies lyk playin games and exercising ursef. 3 Likes |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by Nobody: 7:08am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Eyin, na betting be your problem. Masturbation is what you use to fall back when alabi don knack you. If you get viable means of income, try to limit your total stake per week to say 10k or 5k or even 1k depending on how much you make. Also, find something to occupy your time with. Busy person no dey masturbate. 12 Likes |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by Nobody: 7:10am On Aug 21, 2022 |
E no go pass Dortmund wey do you this one sha. ![]() 19 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by Nobody: 7:29am On Aug 21, 2022 |
imagrg:Follow this advice op but ignore the part where he said just play with N100. Just quit totally. I have been there trust me. When you play with N100 and the last game on your ticket spoils may your supposed N100k winnings. You won't feel like you lost N100 but N100,000 and you'll masturbate to cheer yourself up. 14 Likes |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by Nobody: 7:29am On Aug 21, 2022 |
numberonecytyzen:Leipzig and schalke04 2 Likes |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by Nobody: 7:32am On Aug 21, 2022 |
numberonecytyzen:10k per week on betting God forbid bad thing instead I will go out on the street and give 20 hungry people N500 to quench their hunger than dashing an already wealthy man money that he already has plenty off ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by Unyimekelvin: 8:01am On Aug 21, 2022 |
NewSoul:how did you know about this,i play Dortmund and Monaco to win stake 500k ...i just losts that so I think it's high time I stop the stuff 2 Likes |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by Unyimekelvin: 8:04am On Aug 21, 2022 |
NewSoul:what is 10k per week,talk about 80k sometimes 150k.. can't just calculate My Long losts 2 Likes |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by Unyimekelvin: 8:05am On Aug 21, 2022 |
numberonecytyzen:yes it's what wrote, Dortmund and Monaco |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by Unyimekelvin: 8:09am On Aug 21, 2022 |
numberonecytyzen:i have tried all means, I can stay for a week without engaging myself into that but boom another week they spirit comes again... And it's has deprived me of having a girlfriend...i mean no urge for women atall.. which is affecting me entirely.. |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by Nobody: 8:10am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Unyimekelvin:What's your profession. You seem to earn a lot.. 2 Likes |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by Unyimekelvin: 8:12am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Odinakaibe2022:but if hang out side with friends, immediately i see a pretty lady..they spirit will kicked in then I zoom house asap.. just can't control it,had an idea of cutting this My manhood off. 2 Likes |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by Unyimekelvin: 8:14am On Aug 21, 2022 |
NewSoul:i don't bet with N100,i stake from 40k up.. |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by Unyimekelvin: 8:16am On Aug 21, 2022 |
NewSoul:just speechless here. |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by Unyimekelvin: 8:18am On Aug 21, 2022 |
imagrg:i have never been in a relationship with any girl before, I don't talk to women..i just don't know why!! 3 Likes |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by Unyimekelvin: 8:20am On Aug 21, 2022 |
NewSoul:i think I should deal with betting addict firstly! Thanks |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by beatsbymaxxie: 8:26am On Aug 21, 2022 |
All u need is to get busy and engaged in more interesting things. Virtual games are designed to make you lose money eventually. Accept those loses, think of what u can do and start doing it. Get a girl u like and trust too. 3 Likes |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by Unyimekelvin: 8:50am On Aug 21, 2022 |
beatsbymaxxie:getting a girl i liked will be something very difficult right now 1 Like |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by Hustle2flex(m): 9:09am On Aug 21, 2022 |
THIS IS MY ADVICE My bro,I understand how you feel because am currently in the same shoe with you. From your statements so far, you don't seem to have problem with earning money.The main problem you have is gambling which led to masturbation and other stuffs.At least you have acknowledged that you need help.Let me tell how to go about this. 1.Close all your betting account 2.Find someone you trust maybe in your family and confide in that person.this will make you to be accountable until this current phase of your life pass. 3.Then most importantly,you need professional help.What I did was I got in contact with a mental health physician at a private hospital and I started going for medical check up and counseling.They will also prescribe medications that will help you and beat this addiction. 4.Continue to pray to God to help you.You will definitely relapse from time to timeBut the urge to engage in such activities will drastically reduce. 5.Hit the gym or if the job you are currently doing now is giving a lot of free time,you can find a second one to keep you busy. You can beat this. It shall end well. 9 Likes |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by Unyimekelvin: 9:15am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Hustle2flex:I'm just touched on this kinda of advice,thank you i will try it out!! 1 Like |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by Hustle2flex(m): 9:20am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Believe me bro,that is what am currently doing and I am getting better everyday.most importantly, visit a mental health physician.that was what really turned my situation around. Unyimekelvin: |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by Unyimekelvin: 9:24am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Hustle2flex:okay!! I'll do so.... |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by Nzecorneboy: 9:38am On Aug 21, 2022 |
I once read a book that says, 'best way to stop an addiction is by replacing the thing(habit) with another one, by so doing you eradicate the primary addiction. Eg, you can try and get gf for that masturbation, trust me if you have a girl around you will enventually stop or reduce it, for the betting aspect, I believe it's brokeness and lack of funds aside greediness is the main cause of it. Try learning a skill you can monitize or get a job, this will also try to replace gambling for you, that's my 1cent. Lastly someone told you to be ready for more damages, that will be your final solution if non of these work out. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by Unyimekelvin: 9:42am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Nzecorneboy:I'm working, getting is somehow hard now but thanks for your opinion!! |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by Nzecorneboy: 9:43am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Unyimekelvin:You be big man sef naim you dey bet, imagine 500k on one slip, at this jucture try visiting rehab bro. 5 Likes |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by Unyimekelvin: 9:47am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Nzecorneboy:bruh!! |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by Jacketaltrade: 10:04am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Call we have a natural remedy. 08164853755 but note don't call if you're not serious 1 Like |
Re: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by Unyimekelvin: 10:06am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Jacketaltrade:I'm serious but won't call!! Drop your advice.. 8 Likes |
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