Vyvyanvyvy:

Thanks am going to pick him up this Sunday I will bring him to the house and let him do his worst. I pay the rent if he is not happy then he has to leave me with my children . This thing has been stressing me my bp is already high which is not good for my pregnancy I need to be alive for my children and I won’t let him stress me anymore

Vyvyanvyvy:
I had 2 children. When I got married, my husband had none and accepted them like his own children.

Before marriage, we had discussed about the children living with us after marriage but that couldn’t be possible anymore because we were having financial problem so we couldn’t afford to move to a bigger apartment. We were staying in a room self contain with my daughter while my son was staying with my elder brother and his wife.

Now three years after we had moved to a bigger house still my husband doesn’t want my son to come and live with us. At the moment my son is going through hard times. My sister in law has been maltreating him to an extent that he has been stealing, he was caught and beaten like an animal. My brother said he doesn’t want him in his house again. He wants me to come and collect him.

I pleaded with my husband for me to bring him with us but he said no, he should stay there because he doesn't want him to damage our children. I’m angry at him I stopped talking to him and I don’t know where my son will go because I have no mother no father it’s only my elder brother and kid sister even my sister who is married doesn’t want him. I’m pained and in tears seeing my only son suffering while I’m still alive and I’m helpless to protect him.

Vyvyanvyvy:

He is not in Nigeria

lolaluv1:


What a woman!

You are a joy to read. Very polite yet very firm.
May you live very long to eat the fruit of your labour/sacrifices...

Dbrawllm0098:
Me I can never allow my son to suffer like dat while am still alive,instead I will leave dat marriage carry my children,hustle to take care of them,who marriage help
Mcheeee

Vyvyanvyvy:


I didn't allow him to suffer , I choose him over my husband because my son will always come first at all the time.

Dbrawllm0098:
Me I can never allow my son to suffer like dat while am still alive,instead I will leave dat marriage carry my children,hustle to take care of them,who marriage help
Mcheeee

Dbrawllm0098:
Me I can never allow my son to suffer like dat while am still alive,instead I will leave dat marriage carry my children,hustle to take care of them,who marriage help
Mcheeee

Vyvyanvyvy:


I didn't allow him to suffer , I choose him over my husband because my son will always come first at all the time.

pocohantas:

Hey Pocohantas, good morning, thank you about the last post, when I begin hot I'll definitely send my acknowledgement note to you . I appreciate it.

Well, I am back, I have a non-stick set of pots but decided not to use them because they're very big in sizes and I read something on Reddit regarding how fake ones have poisonous materials that are harmful. But I read somewhere in the past where you wrote about stainless steel pots- they're better.
Does this one fall in that category?
https://www.nairaland.com/3589456/house-clearance-sales-come-here/6514#131820503

Thank you and God bless you.

SourYoghurt:
Hey Pocohantas, good morning, thank you about the last post, when I begin hot I'll definitely send my acknowledgement note to you . I appreciate it.

Well, I am back, I have a non-stick set of pots but decided not to use them because they're very big in sizes and I read something on Reddit regarding how fake ones have poisonous materials that are harmful. But I read somewhere in the past where you wrote about stainless steel pots- they're better.
Does this one fall in that category?
https://www.nairaland.com/3589456/house-clearance-sales-come-here/6514#131820503

Thank you and God bless you.

Vyvyanvyvy:
I had 2 children. When I got married, my husband had none and accepted them like his own children.

Before marriage, we had discussed about the children living with us after marriage but that couldn’t be possible anymore because we were having financial problem so we couldn’t afford to move to a bigger apartment. We were staying in a room self contain with my daughter while my son was staying with my elder brother and his wife.

Now three years after we had moved to a bigger house still my husband doesn’t want my son to come and live with us. At the moment my son is going through hard times. My sister in law has been maltreating him to an extent that he has been stealing, he was caught and beaten like an animal. My brother said he doesn’t want him in his house again. He wants me to come and collect him.

I pleaded with my husband for me to bring him with us but he said no, he should stay there because he doesn't want him to damage our children. I’m angry at him I stopped talking to him and I don’t know where my son will go because I have no mother no father it’s only my elder brother and kid sister even my sister who is married doesn’t want him. I’m pained and in tears seeing my only son suffering while I’m still alive and I’m helpless to protect him.

Vyvyanvyvy:
I had 2 children. When I got married, my husband had none and accepted them like his own children.

Before marriage, we had discussed about the children living with us after marriage but that couldn’t be possible anymore because we were having financial problem so we couldn’t afford to move to a bigger apartment. We were staying in a room self contain with my daughter while my son was staying with my elder brother and his wife.

Now three years after we had moved to a bigger house still my husband doesn’t want my son to come and live with us. At the moment my son is going through hard times. My sister in law has been maltreating him to an extent that he has been stealing, he was caught and beaten like an animal. My brother said he doesn’t want him in his house again. He wants me to come and collect him.

I pleaded with my husband for me to bring him with us but he said no, he should stay there because he doesn't want him to damage our children. I’m angry at him I stopped talking to him and I don’t know where my son will go because I have no mother no father it’s only my elder brother and kid sister even my sister who is married doesn’t want him. I’m pained and in tears seeing my only son suffering while I’m still alive and I’m helpless to protect him.

pocohantas:


Hey SY!

How are you today?
Please use your pot o. I have different types, but I noticed once a new one comes out, there is always a hate agenda against the former. I am more of nonstick, because stainless steel (the one pictured) burns food easily. I have nonstick, granite and the oldschool aluminium pots. I use all depending on what I am cooking. I don't have any stainless pot currently.

I know the convo and I was actually arguing against respectfully. It was with descaradoʻ. She is team stainless I think. I am not.

You can buy smaller nonstick sizes. Don't stack. Don't use metal spoons in it. Don't use iron sponge. If it burns, soak and give time to come off. It should look good for at least 2 years if of medium quality.