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Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by Nobody: 10:59am On Aug 21, 2022 |
A thread was created by blessedmercy asking if it would be wise to settle down with a man that earns 100k and all she got was insults and jabs from guys, like seriously? Should a guy who earns 100k think of marriage or how to double his hustle ? Why are most guys unrealistic, can 100k fend and cater for yourself alone. Please I’ll want those who think it’s ok to come break it down for us on how the 100k will be managed monthly, I maybe learning a whole lot from this. Thanks 64 Likes 17 Shares |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by Ebubu9: 11:00am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Rozross:how much do you bring to the table? He brings 100k 1332 Likes 101 Shares |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by Nobody: 11:01am On Aug 21, 2022 |
And how much will the lady contribute to the marriage or relationship? or do you feel the guy should take the whole responsibility? I don't think its good for a woman to rely totally on a man financially because you shouldn't be dependent on no one totally for your own wellbeing and happiness,if he leaves her, looses his job, has no savings or security net in place for rainy days, etc.... Then what? It is better to work together as a team in a marriage otherwise it will be onesided leading to regret and resentment so, I think both should be equally invested in it. 609 Likes 32 Shares |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by Nobody: 11:03am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Ebubu9:Solely plan on the 100k first before thinking of what the other person brings to the table. Any man with such “bring to the table” mindset does not go far in life, let’s be realistic for once. 107 Likes 22 Shares |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by VeryWickedMan: 11:05am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Rozross: I'm conflicted on whether to use oraimo cord or 2 by 4 1421 Likes 121 Shares |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by Nobody: 11:06am On Aug 21, 2022 |
VeryWickedMan:Break it down for us sir, you may be helping a lot of persons with your analysis 24 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by Olalan(m): 11:08am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Internet and fake living, you need to ask yourself how many people are gainfully employed in Nigeria? Majority of working class people earn below 100k monthly and yet marriages are conducted weekly. If you like be waiting for a above 100k earner before starting a relationship......your eye go soon clear 967 Likes 64 Shares |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by Mandate2023: 11:08am On Aug 21, 2022 |
The mentality of a poor and no future plan lady is always after milking a man dry If at all u have anything reasonable u do with ur own life that brings money u won't solely depend on a man income but rather support him Na ppl like that dey b4 desperate for any man to settle down with them when age start to dey shot up 339 Likes 21 Shares |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by Nobody: 11:09am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Ebubu9:No sir, my mom didn’t marry a man who will push her out there to hustle like a man to feed a man. My dad never turned my mother into a man but still she has her own money . 76 Likes 14 Shares |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by Nobody: 11:10am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Olalan:Seriously I’m not here for trouble, I just want enlightenment, break it down for us sir 11 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by Nobody: 11:12am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Mandate2023:Don’t see the post in a negative way, I just want some clarification and ways a relationship can blossom around 100k. Please kindly share your analysis 25 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by Nobody: 11:16am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Most guys are not living their reality. I haven’t gotten any reasonable response so far yet they are so quick at throwing tantrums. I’m still waiting 45 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by Mjshexy(f): 11:17am On Aug 21, 2022 |
If he earns 80k, the lady should as much as possible be engaged with a job that pays her at least 50k so both of them can build their relationship well. 387 Likes 22 Shares |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by Nobody: 11:20am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Mjshexy:Ok, that’s 130k monthly from both of them, please ma can you put us through on how this 130k would comfortably cover all expenses in this era? A breakdown will go a long way ma 16 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by Jflex07(m): 11:26am On Aug 21, 2022 |
I know some married men earning below 100k and still coping with their spouse.. It all balls down to understanding and spending prudently.. This country is not easy especially when you don't belong among the elite.. There are very little jobs, and even the jobs that are available are underpaid.. Na God go help us for this country. 114 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by Nobody: 11:29am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Still waiting on you all, especially those that bashed blessedmercy tirelessly. Please I seriously need ways to go about the 100k issue, so as to know how to adjust 7 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by Ebubu9: 11:30am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Mjshexy:no mind the idiot rozross 140 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by Nobody: 11:31am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Ebubu9:Don’t be sad by this post, we are all here to learn 21 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by Ebubu9: 11:34am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Rozross:you be serious amebo oo. Wetting concern you for how a family wants to spend their income ? This should be very relative. Does it mean whatever she tells you is how another family who earns same income will spend their own ? It is dependent on the preferences, choices, decisions, priorities, destination, where they live, amongst others. If you’re told based on lagos standard of living, what if they’re living in ebonyi ? There house rent could be cheaper among foodstuff, if who answers you lives in Ebonyi, what if the couple practising it lives in Kano? What if they don’t like red meat which is cow meat and it’s expensive so they opt for fish? But who answers you loves red meat so can’t exclude cow meat? I swear you no get sense. I’m sure you will marry wrong ! Don’t go and plan your marriage with your suitor/spouse, be looking for another person’s standard of living to use and live your own. Your marriage is bound to fail 384 Likes 40 Shares |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by Tallesty1(m): 11:35am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Ebubu9:One of the beautiful thing about being a woman is that you can easily reject a man for not giving you what you can't give yourself. A question like this was asked a long time ago when things were a bit better. One sister said that she can't marry a guy who is earning N100k because one can't run a family with N100k. I asked her how about N150k and she said that's okay. I said okay then, he's earning 100K already, go earn the remaining 50k, you're his partner. 544 Likes 36 Shares |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by TheirFADA: 11:36am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Tallesty1: She no go fit say anything again 253 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by PlayMaker14: 11:37am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Rozross:Dear Zzor/Rozcol, the imaginary daughter of Lulu Briggs, Let me start by telling you that I earn 92k monthly and I can categorically tell you that I fend for myself and my siblings and if the thought of settling down with a Nigeria lady ever cross my mind, then I will go ahead and marry her comfortably with that same monthly salary... I will still carter for all her needs even if she's a working class or liability. Life is all about planning, you don't have to be on a monthly wage of 5mil for you to marry and be comfortable, with 100k, you can marry, live a comfortable life and enjoy your stay on earth.... You just have to plan and work smart. 240 Likes 18 Shares |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by Ebubu9: 11:37am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Tallesty1:Many of them saying it their father’s current salary is nothing to write home about. They want to bring nothing to the table and enjoy everything on the table. Such women, give them 10 years of big girl. At 35 years they’ll marry a man who earns 75. 163 Likes 18 Shares |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by Tallesty1(m): 11:38am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Rozross:I am more concerned about men earning N100k that date women that depend on their salary. Why should men bear the financial responsibility of their girlfriends? 181 Likes 18 Shares |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by Rach310(f): 11:40am On Aug 21, 2022 |
I think the question should be about his plans and actions to earn more in the nearest future and what you bring to the table too,it won't be easy but 100k is not bad for a start. 23 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by Culer: 11:41am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Rozross:if I didn't see it I wouldn't have asked why you took it down. A blurred pic with just your ugly face 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by Nobody: 11:42am On Aug 21, 2022 |
PlayMaker14:I’m interested on the breakdown, simply break it down for me on how you spent such money monthly, please 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by Tallesty1(m): 11:43am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Ebubu9:And if the gods are not good enough and they turn 40, they'd be okay with a man that just has his dick. 131 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by Ebubu9: 11:43am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Tallesty1:even if she earns more than him. 65 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by Nobody: 11:43am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Culer:Good you now know the real reason why I hide my face. I know all your monikas, I quoted all of them 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ladies In Relationship With Men Who Earn ₦100k And Below, Please How Do You Cope by jogsman01(m): 11:43am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Rozross:how much are you earning, and which state. Assuming you're living in osun state, you'll know 100k is more than enough. 38 Likes 4 Shares |
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